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Break up over her history of casual sex?
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:30 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall I have been taking this gf seriously as wife material. She's hot, smart, loving, would be a great mom etc. BUT I am disgusted by her history of casual sex. It was basically her freshman year of college, she went into a rebellious phase and just jumped into bed with a series of guys (3 I think) without any commitment/love/whatever.
I come from a somewhat religious background, and while I wouldn't expect her to be a virgin, I'm somewhat conservative in thinking that sex should be in the context of a committed relationship. I guess this is a moral standard for me, and I'm fighting feelings of disgust that she would just give it away to "friends with benefits" types.
She seems to regret what she did, and she is objectively the best girl I've been with. Is it unreasonable for me to throw this relationship away because of this psychological hangup? How do I get over it?
EDIT: She subsequently had LTR which lasted a couple years. That doesn't bother me. Seems like a normal healthy sexually active relationship. Have no objections to that. |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:02 AM Author: self-absorbed office ATD (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145813) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:09 AM Author: chrome digit ratio stage well, if you really love her, then set her free (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145839) |
Date: August 17th, 2014 8:34 AM Author: House-broken theatre LOL at her selling you on three (3) guys as a rebellious phase that ended quickly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145760) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:50 PM Author: Dull balding university internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148924) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:34 AM Author: boyish national idiot Dump her. Let her find a real man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145761) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:38 AM Author: tan fiercely-loyal roommate love of her life she forgot to mention that there is a zero after the 3 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145765) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:41 AM Author: Salmon overrated personal credit line lay (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145770) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:41 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall I know her well enough that I could tell when she is lying about shit. There were 3 of them. And honestly that's gross enough for me. 3 v. 10 v. whatever isn't a huge difference to me...it's more the principle. Am I right that she is unmarriable? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145771) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:19 AM Author: chrome digit ratio stage Yes, you're completely right. She should be stoned to death for being such a remorseless slut. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145962) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:37 PM Author: pearly thriller step-uncle's house (XO Caliphate) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146671) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:52 PM Author: Charcoal nudist potus elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148934) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:39 AM Author: Geriatric base weed whacker poor flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145766) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:44 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall not flame. seems like a reasonably common scenario. wondering if anyone ever dealt with something similar. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145773) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:49 AM Author: bronze soggy library terrible flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145782) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:44 AM Author: angry coffee pot karate How old are you/is she? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145772) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:45 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall I'm 26. She's 23. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145774) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:46 AM Author: angry coffee pot karate And how did you pry this information out of her so you could find an excuse to destroy a good relationship? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145776) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:53 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall we've shared pretty much everything. stems from talking about her oppressive parents and how she rebelled against them once she got the freedom of college.
so my standards are unreasonable? pretty much everyone has casual sex these days?? |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:57 AM Author: angry coffee pot karate Terrible, terrible flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145799) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:53 PM Author: Charcoal nudist potus elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148938) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:47 AM Author: Motley halford stock car Good luck finding anyone that meets your standards. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145777) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:49 AM Author: histrionic bright resort You are an idiot. 3 dudes freshman year. If that's the "worse" she's done get over yourself you self-righteous fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145781) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:49 AM Author: bronze soggy library terrible flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145783) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:52 AM Author: mind-boggling magical forum LOL at you supposedly worrying about her casual sex with THREE guys.
This is either abysmal flame or you have a mental disorder. |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:56 AM Author: Razzle Ungodly Market Laser Beams I understand brother. I had the same issue with my chick. The older you get, the more likely a single chick will have these types of activities (e.g., multiple friends with benefits, Pumps and Dumps, etc.). The best way to approach this is to consider the overall person. She seems to hit every one of your main points, except for the sexual part. All things considered, having 3 friends with benefits (or pumps and dumps)is not that raunchy considering what other women do. Also, she was honest with you about it, which is a great thing. (Or, at least, she was honest about that part. We never really know if she divulged everything.) Knowing all of this do you:
1. Love her? 2. Trust her? 3. Think that phase is over?
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:00 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall Thanks. Yes she is an amazing person overall and I feel like I am getting stuck on this one little thing.
I do love her, and I know that she is serious about me. She comes from a conservative background and wants to settle down and have a normal family etc. What does worry me is that she stills deals with crazy parents and I think there could be lingering effects of growing up with psychos who didn't let her do anything in high school etc. |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:57 AM Author: Irradiated Red Cruise Ship Toilet Seat Would you desribe yourself as intellectual? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145800) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:02 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall pseudo-intellectual perhaps (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145814) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:04 AM Author: Laughsome patrolman Awful flame. Doesn't even enter the "so bad it's good" category. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145817) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:05 AM Author: bronze soggy library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145822) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:26 AM Author: mind-boggling magical forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145871) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:03 PM Author: rough-skinned shivering pit mental disorder (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146325) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:53 PM Author: Charcoal nudist potus elastic band (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148941) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:44 PM Author: Dull balding university internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26149266) |
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Date: August 20th, 2014 5:28 PM Author: sadistic harsh rigor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26171046) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:04 AM Author: Cheese-eating Dilemma why do people even bring up past sexual history of their current partners? hard to see anything good coming out of that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145819) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:08 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall good point. this was a big mistake. would have been much better off not knowing...i think she was trying be my soulmate or some shit and sharing her regrets and her past problems. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145835) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:24 AM Author: Pungent Hairraiser Menage Sex Offender how big were they? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145867) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:28 PM Author: Federal Flirting Prole Center how black were they? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146627) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:27 AM Author: clear cuckoldry yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145872) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:31 AM Author: vigorous mentally impaired sanctuary lol breh. if this is the only casual sex shit in her past, she is about as good as you're going to find outside of 18-21 year olds at a conservative church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145881) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:47 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall Is it really that impossible to find a girl who's just had a couple of stable relationships and only had sex in those contexts? wtf (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145911) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:13 AM Author: Floppy Rambunctious Ticket Booth So you'd prefer she had 3 long-term relationships where she had sex dozens if not hundreds of times rather than 3 guys she had sex with a few times each and that was it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145951) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:17 AM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall Yes absolutely. It's about her character and sense of self-esteem. Not the number of times she's been boned. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145959) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:27 AM Author: Floppy Rambunctious Ticket Booth I think you should dump her. Such a model citizen/christian as yourself should aim higher. She is certainly not worthy of your perfection. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145976) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:42 AM Author: self-centered gas station I don't know 3 guys at once is a lot. Imagine her mouth, ass and pussy all being filling with cock (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26145901) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:54 PM Author: Charcoal nudist potus elastic band I lol'd. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148951) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:12 PM Author: self-centered gas station hehehe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26149435) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 9:45 AM Author: Pungent Hairraiser Menage Sex Offender when she is walking down the aisle you will keep seeing the image of some frat bro pounding her hard doggie only to pull out, flip her over, and fire a load in her mouth that she eagerly swallows, showing him her tongue at the end to prove it's all gone.
as long as you are cool with that then it shouldn't be a problem at all |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 10:53 AM Author: magenta trip field pocket flask ATD (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146038) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:07 PM Author: underhanded gay twinkling uncleanness crotch She would not be a great mom. You are beta bucks after her alpha fucks. A fat slob doesn't suddenly go from munching on cheeseburgers daily to doing cross fit and becoming vegan. Neither will a cock-hungry sloot suddenly decide that -this time- one cock is enough.
Btw if you know about 3 that means she's probably had at least 12 dicks in her. |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:17 PM Author: Idiotic Poppy Selfie Hall does it help if she had an LTR between then and now? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26146371) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 12:36 PM Author: curious godawful travel guidebook fat ankles LOL at all these idiots missing the point. Somehow you need to find the crucial fact: were you here biggest cock. If you were as she I fact did go through a slut phase sampling dozens of cocks and yours wins out--you are golden.
If not, anything else is irrelevant because you're my marriage material to her |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:33 PM Author: carnelian incel Is this copypasta?
In any case, a millennial who's had only 3 casual encounters is one in a million. Wife material right there. |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 1:36 PM Author: chartreuse parlor 3 is an insanely low number but 23 is way too young for a girl to settle down in a culture where all women have been sold on the dream of romance, etc. and where there is a relatively permissive attitude towards casual sex.
you seem pretty beta so she will cheat on you eventually. |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 7:54 PM Author: cracking main people LOL at dumping her and finding a 23 year old who hasn't sucked at least 10 different cocks!!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26148948) |
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Date: August 17th, 2014 8:48 PM Author: Infuriating excitant house turdskin Did she do BBC anal? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2647874&forum_id=2#26149284) |