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not sure what to do re: girl i'm seeing
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:08 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop had a first date with a girl a few weeks ago. it went amazingly well - maybe 10/10. she kissed me at the end and texted me right after and there was definitely a connection. as happens, she then went out of town for two weeks and recently got back. i've texted her but now shes unresponsive... although she is busy, she isnt too busy to at least get back to me. my last text to her was asking her if she was free sometime this week -- not response for 2 days. not sure what to do now.. this girl was definitely Significant other material. *sigh*
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:22 PM Author: Boyish area immigrant *xoxo aspies wondering why girl who proactively kissed guy and immediately texted him afterwards is suddenly nonresponsive after traveling with her girlfriends* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257052) |
Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:09 PM Author: blue set Give it a week and then text her again. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256931) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:09 PM Author: Arousing Halford It happens man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256933) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:10 PM Author: Ruby Native Legend she got dicked down hard while traveling, now has no use for you. hth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256935) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:13 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop that makes sense (sarcastic tone) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256970) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:14 PM Author: Multi-colored Autistic Twinkling Uncleanness Box Office no, this doesn't make sense. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256990) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 6:58 PM Author: Racy Slippery Psychic Queen Of The Night REAL hard. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261401) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:14 PM Author: offensive claret heaven Hai me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256988) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:14 PM Author: Multi-colored Autistic Twinkling Uncleanness Box Office 2 days.....ouch dude. i'm sorry. that really sucks.
have you talked on the phone at all? if so call her tomorrow to set up a date for friday. if not text her tomorrow to do the same. be confident either way (don't really ask, just say like "hey let's go to [x] on friday, i hear it's great". |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:17 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop thought of just calling but I think that's a little much. i think it may be her sorority's recruiting week (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257019) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:20 PM Author: Multi-colored Autistic Twinkling Uncleanness Box Office dude if this is a typical sorority she is NOT significant other material. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257036) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:22 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop not a typical sorority girl, that's why she's significant other material. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257050) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:23 PM Author: Multi-colored Autistic Twinkling Uncleanness Box Office i guess. good luck wiht that. get her best friend fromt he sorority drunk one day and see what stories start coming out (assuming you see her again).
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:34 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop to be fair, she seemed genuinely good. i'd like to give her the benefit of the doubt. and to be honest, most hot young girls probably have crazy stories. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257136) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:53 PM Author: puce razzle-dazzle legal warrant (FUTURE AND CURRENT CUCK) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257259) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 6:59 PM Author: Twinkling point (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261411) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:16 PM Author: Transparent regret shitlib not exactly *seeing* her, are you my man (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257013) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:21 PM Author: Rose Pervert (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257041) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:51 PM Author: Dun potus amen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262106) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:18 PM Author: Cracking Becky Odd case. Very interesting. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257027) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:45 PM Author: crimson theatre (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257201) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:53 PM Author: provocative fantasy-prone theater stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257261) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:22 PM Author: provocative fantasy-prone theater stage Sorry, brother.
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AVUOtH8feoI |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:34 PM Author: Thriller station sorry brother. i think it passed. she wasn't who you thought anyway so it's not as big a loss as it feels right now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257133) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:43 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop TY. nice point. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257184) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:44 PM Author: Thriller station and hey maybe she gets back to you. and hey even if not maybe you want to try some whatever century style court her from afar with long mailed letters about your thoughts and observations and always a paragraph about her. worth a shot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257189) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:46 PM Author: 180 main people You aren't seeing her brother.
Sorry to break it to you. |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:51 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop i recognize its not a good sign (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257247) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 10:20 PM Author: 180 main people It is a good sign that you aren't seeing her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262659) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:51 PM Author: nudist meetinghouse bbw sucks dude. this seems to be an issue with dating hot young girls. they have the romantic attention span of a fly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257244) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:52 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop yeah i agree. if you're not in her social circle to begin with it's hard to make something stick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257252) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:54 PM Author: Multi-colored Autistic Twinkling Uncleanness Box Office by 25 they seem to have grown out of that. but yeah generally true.
i recently started dating a 25 year old who was in a 4 year relationship until about 6 months ago. perfect. basically untainted but she knows how relationships work. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:03 AM Author: Seedy zippy liquid oxygen 24-25 is great age for women. By 29 they're jaded as fuck. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257343) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:06 AM Author: aquamarine cruise ship (38 year old) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257374) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:11 AM Author: Cracking Becky (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257412) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:13 AM Author: Pungent excitant den Says someone who'd be lucky to get a 35-year old white divorced chick to pay attention to him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257432) |
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Date: September 2nd, 2014 11:54 PM Author: Concupiscible cuckoldry cuck Hit her up with dat plz respond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257272) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 10:55 AM Author: irate piazza (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26259020) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 6:59 PM Author: Racy Slippery Psychic Queen Of The Night (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261416) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:03 AM Author: Seedy zippy liquid oxygen OP, where did she travel? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257345) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:04 AM Author: provocative fantasy-prone theater stage Jamaica (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257354) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 12:09 AM Author: Seedy zippy liquid oxygen sounds about right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26257400) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 10:58 AM Author: Mauve Ticket Booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26259033) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 7:00 PM Author: Racy Slippery Psychic Queen Of The Night http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26256935 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261419) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:38 PM Author: Black office ljl at anyone vacationing in jamaica for two weeks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262015) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 6:24 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop UPDATE: she texted today, apologized for being so busy lately, and told me she thinks she can make time to get dinner this weekend. BOOOM (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261217) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 6:57 PM Author: Thriller station cool but u gotta play this right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261394) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:24 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop responded and told her to pick a time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262272) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:26 PM Author: Thriller station 180, this flame is superb (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262278) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:28 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop not flame - i put it in other words.. and it fit the situation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262290) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:34 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop she responded within 5 minutes - what are you doing friday? and then sent a friend request on FB. BOOOM (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262324) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:35 PM Author: Black office hope you prescreened your fb for this non-event (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262330) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:46 PM Author: Thriller station looks like you're "in the zone" now that she friended you. gl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262407) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 6:59 PM Author: Fear-inspiring Hairraiser Abode Calm down. She "thinks" she can make time this weekend? What kind of passive weak ass non-commital shit is that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261408) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 7:01 PM Author: Racy Slippery Psychic Queen Of The Night THANK YOU!
Bro is so grateful just for a response text.
Imagine how suicidal he'll be when she cancels at the last minute. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:39 PM Author: Rusted persian (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262019) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:40 PM Author: Glittery orange principal's office goal in life bro is about to get NOWAG'd hard as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262030) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:25 PM Author: contagious stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262273) |
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Date: September 7th, 2014 11:38 AM Author: laughsome lodge keepsake machete (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26281644) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 7:01 PM Author: Multi-colored Autistic Twinkling Uncleanness Box Office "Thinks"? I "think" she she's going to flake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261426) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:29 PM Author: lavender unholy stage patrolman Oh please. She's immature, flakey, and doesn't respect you/like you enough to commit to a freaking dinner. She cannot possibly be that busy, as you yourself pointed out.
Also, jesus fucking Christ I am a thirtysomething dood so maybe am already old fashioned but I can't believe you'd send text messages instead of just calling her. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:59 PM Author: Dun potus YES, i say as an old.
kids these days are having to read so much bullshit into text messages, or lack there of. so much can be discerned by voice, tone, intonation. especially with women. texts alone give you (at times) very little actionable information.
i bet a lot of women (perhaps excluding the dumb whore who's the subject of this thread) would fucking get wet if a guy just called them, rather than texting some fucking crayonesque :-) 2 see u! text-speak.
also, OP: regardless, you will never touch this female's pussy. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:05 PM Author: Thriller station i wonder about this a lot. but i feel super awkward on the phone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262176) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:07 PM Author: Dun potus what about in-person? is it the device and its limitations, or is it something else? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262186) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:10 PM Author: Thriller station there are definitely people with whom i am awkward on the phone but not in person (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262195) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:09 PM Author: Racy Slippery Psychic Queen Of The Night Brother, I'm an old, too.
TITCR, a simple phone call would put an end to all of this bullshit.
"also, OP: regardless, you will never touch this female's pussy."
I think that is the REAL issue here. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:36 PM Author: Glittery orange principal's office goal in life lol the problem with this is that you're fucking done here, but by all means extend your own agony. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26261998) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 8:47 PM Author: Shaky national gay wizard LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262076) |
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Date: September 7th, 2014 11:44 AM Author: Milky vibrant kitchen "looks like I'm going to be able to make some time, how do you like fresh oysters" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26281654) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:10 PM Author: Racy Slippery Psychic Queen Of The Night I'll tell you what you're NOT GONNA DO:
Touch this girl's pussy. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:22 PM Author: pale hospital mental disorder What are you, 24? Why are you even worried about this girl? If a girl is keeping you guessing she's either not interested or not that worthwhile a person. Go become successful, have fun with your friends in your free time, and in a few years you'll have 25 girls better than her begging for dates with you. Pining over one uninterested girl is a huge waste of time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262258) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:27 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop i like where you're coming from and i agree with the general sentiment. i am working hard at being successful now. i am 24. im doing a lot of things at the moment. i also got out of a longterm relationship last year - i liked having a girlfriend and i prefer to have one again. im not stuck on this girl like the whole thread seems to think - i have only hung out with her once - just never connected with a girl so well and then been treated like this - my guess is that she is either seeing other guys regularly and its hard for me to knock the routine, or that shes extremely jaded from previous relationship and is now non-committal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262281) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:44 PM Author: pale hospital mental disorder Doesn't really matter what's going on with her, only matters that she's blowing you off. You might think you connected but who knows what she's thinking -- she was probably just being polite. I was on plenty of dates that I thought went great that went nowhere, and while I was upset about it at the time, once I got to know the girls better I was glad I didn't get involved with them.
Having a good GF can be 180 but don't discount the freedom that comes with being single and getting to play the field. I didn't even think about dating seriously until I had my ducks in a row. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:33 PM Author: Curious base 1. Don't ever, ever text unless you are communicating from the middle of a movie or something. If you got something to say to her, call her, say it.
Texting is a sucker's trap and a girl's paradise. If she texts you, call her to respond.
2. Get over this girl, because she's already framed the dynamic of this relationship: she can disappear for weeks knowing you'll remain frozen, thinking of her. She can vaguely, maybe be free sometime this weekend and you will keep the whole weekend available for her final decision.
You need to start fresh, because there's no redeeming this one. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:47 PM Author: Black office 24 y/o women do not answer the phone unless it's been pre-planned on google calendar (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262416) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 10:14 PM Author: offensive claret heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262622) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:52 PM Author: big boistinker roommate solid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26262451) |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 10:19 PM Author: Gaped Cyan Boiling Water "Texting is a sucker's trap and a girl's paradise."
Please elaborate. |
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Date: September 3rd, 2014 9:45 PM Author: big boistinker roommate she probly ran into a Chad /edit Jamaica = Darnell... on her 2 week vacay.
sorry for your loss other fish in the see, etc.
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Date: September 6th, 2014 10:47 PM Author: Brass state gaming laptop update: had dinner and drinks with girl. went exceptionally well. i will be seeing her next week. for all of you who need to be a dick to a stranger to somehow vindicate your own self worth/skills with girls - this is what is wrong with this bort and our striver demographic in general. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26280078) |
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Date: September 6th, 2014 10:56 PM Author: Charismatic quadroon feces lol just call her bro, on the phone, girls love answering the phone for a casual conversation in twenty-fucking-fourteen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26280103) |
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Date: September 6th, 2014 11:38 PM Author: offensive claret heaven It's amazing that balding GenX bros even have the audacity to weigh in on this shit lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26280264) |
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Date: September 6th, 2014 11:39 PM Author: offensive claret heaven Happy for u brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26280266) |
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Date: September 7th, 2014 1:16 AM Author: Thriller station glad to hear brother but give us some details please. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26280711) |
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Date: September 7th, 2014 11:33 AM Author: Brass state gaming laptop was able to secure the date via texting despite her poor texting abilities. when i asked to dinner she just replied "yes" so that kind of threw me off but I asked her about it in person and she said she was just trying to be direct. told her from now on im going to call her and this kind of thing wont happen again. Overall i think it went really well despite one potentially bad exchange which is below:
The Good: -she took something from the restaurant so she "could remember our ## date" -took pics of me with the food -when we were talking about bars, clubs etc she would always add a line like.. "we need to go there sometime" and mentioned how we need to do XXX together soon -good easy convo all night -make out at the end -got a thank you text after dinner
The Bad: - she told me she had a break up with her ex because she was too busy. she is legitimately busy so i get that. then she followed with something like.. "but im really enjoying getting to know you.." I'm not sure what to think of this though because it seems like I was reading into the texting thing too much already and I dont want to make that mistake here or press too hard at the beginning.. |
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Date: September 7th, 2014 12:00 PM Author: Shimmering costumed scourge upon the earth So she used you for dinner again, didn't fuck you and laid the groundwork for her fade out. Cool. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2663995&forum_id=2#26281691) |