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Socially anxious bros: Do you avert eye contact when lying?

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brindle house roast beef
  09/15/14
never back down until the other person has incontrovertible ...
Grizzly Menage
  09/15/14
CR. If this isn't obvious you're not fit to lie.
Zombie-like curious lettuce
  09/16/14
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brindle house roast beef
  09/16/14
i'm a sociopath, but generally, people are very reluctant to...
Grizzly Menage
  09/16/14
aka be julia
fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge
  09/16/14
bluesmoke used to be great at leading people down subthread ...
Grizzly Menage
  09/16/14
shrewmo, box, and 29 also great at this. scratching my head ...
Glassy Quadroon Den
  09/16/14
focusing on minor specifics and attacking to change the subj...
Grizzly Menage
  09/16/14
oh i just meant everyone mentioned was an (xo wo
Glassy Quadroon Den
  09/16/14
yeah- i'd say one should only do it when flailing about and ...
Grizzly Menage
  09/16/14
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brindle house roast beef
  09/16/14
oh, this is dvp. well, here's a tip: kill yourself.
Grizzly Menage
  09/16/14
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Glassy Quadroon Den
  09/16/14
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fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge
  09/16/14
i pulled this exact same tack when my wife found some girls'...
indigo garrison
  09/16/14
I avert my eyes always. People always think I'm lying. It's ...
olive mind-boggling scourge upon the earth
  09/16/14
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brindle house roast beef
  09/16/14
Usually I force myself to make eye contact, but it doesn't s...
olive mind-boggling scourge upon the earth
  09/16/14
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brindle house roast beef
  09/16/14
yeah maybe when i'm caught in a lie and i don't have time to...
fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge
  09/15/14
Yes, but I do it when telling the truth too, so it's all goo...
aqua demanding church building
  09/15/14
(truly socially anxious bro)
Glassy Quadroon Den
  09/16/14
cr
Coiffed vibrant chad stag film
  09/16/14
just do never lie
Glassy Quadroon Den
  09/16/14
what if a mobster wants to know if u really meant it not fla...
Concupiscible Purple Dragon Tank
  09/16/14
lol
Glassy Quadroon Den
  09/16/14
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Up-to-no-good whorehouse
  09/16/14
Just believe that what you are saying is true. Give speci...
Magenta Histrionic Office Party Of The First Part
  09/16/14
(George costanza)
irradiated hairy legs
  09/16/14
I just avert eyes at all times. Socially anxious.
Silver affirmative action kitchen
  09/16/14
flame?
fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge
  09/16/14
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brindle house roast beef
  09/16/14
Alternative: When you're probably gonna have to lie, do it b...
Elite charismatic becky
  09/16/14
why is this a thread
medicated brunch half-breed
  09/16/14


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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:58 PM
Author: brindle house roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336554)



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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:59 PM
Author: Grizzly Menage

never back down until the other person has incontrovertible proof, then go on the offensive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336563)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:01 AM
Author: Zombie-like curious lettuce

CR. If this isn't obvious you're not fit to lie.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336576)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:03 AM
Author: brindle house roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336587)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:12 AM
Author: Grizzly Menage

i'm a sociopath, but generally, people are very reluctant to call others out for lying, so even if you suspect that the other person thinks/knows you are lying, you can wait them out and the lie becomes the truth you both accept.

if they do call you out on a lie and cite evidence, seize on one or two incorrect facts in their evidence and fight them on those points, make the whole argument about those issues, and when you are able to demonstrate the falsity of those minor claims, act like you have conclusively demonstrated the truth of your whole fabrication.

if they have absolute, incorruptible proof of a lie, either feign embarrassment and admit to lying, but lie about you reason for doing so ("those weird texts on my phone were planning a surprise birthday party for you") or continue to deny that you are lying and attack them for not believing you, snooping, or something else ("i can't believe you don't trust me, this is just like the time that you [unrelated bullshit]").

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336660)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:12 AM
Author: fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge

aka be julia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336670)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:15 AM
Author: Grizzly Menage

bluesmoke used to be great at leading people down subthread wastelands arguing some minor facet of a pwning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336687)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:16 AM
Author: Glassy Quadroon Den

shrewmo, box, and 29 also great at this. scratching my head to think of what all those posters have in common

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336697)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:22 AM
Author: Grizzly Menage

focusing on minor specifics and attacking to change the subject are complete desperate bitch moves, but sometimes you can gaslight your way out of being exposed as a complete fraud by fighting on the details.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336736)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:23 AM
Author: Glassy Quadroon Den

oh i just meant everyone mentioned was an (xo wo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336744)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:56 AM
Author: Grizzly Menage

yeah- i'd say one should only do it when flailing about and preserving a lie is more important than preserving your honor, but y'all xo women do it for sport.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336956)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:43 AM
Author: brindle house roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336875)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:52 AM
Author: Grizzly Menage

oh, this is dvp. well, here's a tip: kill yourself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336931)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:54 AM
Author: Glassy Quadroon Den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336942)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:09 AM
Author: fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337034)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:16 PM
Author: indigo garrison

i pulled this exact same tack when my wife found some girls' numbers that I was working on the sly. basically made up a lie and just attacked her with the trust issue. it worked. she broke down crying and i kicked her out. lol. she came back begging and never brought it up again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339519)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:00 AM
Author: olive mind-boggling scourge upon the earth

I avert my eyes always. People always think I'm lying. It's actually really shitty. The vast majority of people do not realize that empirical studies have shown that averted gaze is actually a SPS indicator of whether someone is lying.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336574)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:02 AM
Author: brindle house roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336583)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:09 AM
Author: olive mind-boggling scourge upon the earth

Usually I force myself to make eye contact, but it doesn't seem to help much because they can see it makes me visibly uncomfortable. Other times I'll just say fuck it, look at whatever makes me feel most comfortable (i.e., something off in the distance), slide and let it do what it do. The two strategies are roughly equally disastrous on average.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336631)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:44 AM
Author: brindle house roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336880)



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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:59 PM
Author: fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge

yeah maybe when i'm caught in a lie and i don't have time to react. otherwise, when i know i'm going to be lying, i compose myself and stare right at them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336559)



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Date: September 15th, 2014 11:59 PM
Author: aqua demanding church building

Yes, but I do it when telling the truth too, so it's all good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336561)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:00 AM
Author: Glassy Quadroon Den

(truly socially anxious bro)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336572)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:16 AM
Author: Coiffed vibrant chad stag film

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337079)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:00 AM
Author: Glassy Quadroon Den

just do never lie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336573)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:07 AM
Author: Concupiscible Purple Dragon Tank

what if a mobster wants to know if u really meant it not flame that Sicilians were spawned by niggers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336620)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:09 AM
Author: Glassy Quadroon Den

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336640)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:41 AM
Author: Up-to-no-good whorehouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337175)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:06 AM
Author: Magenta Histrionic Office Party Of The First Part

Just believe that what you are saying is true.

Give specific details.

Act normal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336616)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:26 AM
Author: irradiated hairy legs

(George costanza)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26337132)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:21 AM
Author: Silver affirmative action kitchen

I just avert eyes at all times. Socially anxious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336728)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 12:45 AM
Author: fiercely-loyal immigrant indian lodge

flame?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26336888)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:04 PM
Author: brindle house roast beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339442)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:11 PM
Author: Elite charismatic becky

Alternative: When you're probably gonna have to lie, do it by phone. When you have to be in person, say in a context where you don't have to look at a person. Be walking alongside them or grabbing something from the fridge or w/e.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339488)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:12 PM
Author: medicated brunch half-breed

why is this a thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2675746&forum_id=2#26339500)