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NYC Dating - Is Default Non-Exclusive?

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Sickened blood rage
  09/16/14
having sex in nyc is like shaking hands
excitant stage windowlicker
  09/16/14
Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn
Wine Area
  09/16/14
coppin dat white privilege, u mad?
excitant stage windowlicker
  09/16/14
Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you c...
copper fragrant regret nowag
  09/16/14
what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to...
Cerebral dun wrinkle pit
  09/16/14
because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expect...
copper fragrant regret nowag
  09/16/14
so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're n...
Cerebral dun wrinkle pit
  09/16/14
3-5 months? That's insane and not normal
know-it-all potus mad-dog skullcap
  09/16/14
Julia is that you?
Exhilarant flushed french chef feces
  09/16/14
most people talk about it before then, but there is no assum...
copper fragrant regret nowag
  09/16/14
Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later t...
know-it-all potus mad-dog skullcap
  09/16/14
I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but t...
bateful olive skinny woman foreskin
  09/16/14
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Heady Transparent University Water Buffalo
  09/16/14
then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feeling...
copper fragrant regret nowag
  09/16/14
This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dat...
Diverse native
  09/16/14
more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke li...
excitant stage windowlicker
  09/16/14
lmao
Cerebral dun wrinkle pit
  09/16/14
Or will literally try to shank me or something.
galvanic library philosopher-king
  09/16/14
?
Sickened blood rage
  09/16/14
"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their f...
maniacal marvelous abode gunner
  09/16/14
i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a wee...
Useless site
  09/16/14
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Sickened blood rage
  09/16/14
LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on ...
Disrespectful house love of her life
  09/16/14
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Sickened blood rage
  09/16/14
Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances ...
Arrogant disgusting set
  09/16/14
nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exc...
Stimulating crackhouse bbw
  09/16/14
it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. ...
glittery gas station
  09/16/14


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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:17 PM
Author: Sickened blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339167)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: excitant stage windowlicker

having sex in nyc is like shaking hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339181)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:57 PM
Author: Wine Area

Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339810)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:24 PM
Author: excitant stage windowlicker

coppin dat white privilege, u mad?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340345)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: copper fragrant regret nowag

Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you can safely assume non-exclusive unless someone has the exclusive talk - at least for the first 3-5 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339180)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: Cerebral dun wrinkle pit

what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to do with anything?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339209)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:08 PM
Author: copper fragrant regret nowag

because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expects more than you want to give - unless you have to see her professionally or socially.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340287)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:48 PM
Author: Cerebral dun wrinkle pit

so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're not interested just to avoid awkward professional/social settings?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340478)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:50 PM
Author: know-it-all potus mad-dog skullcap

3-5 months? That's insane and not normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339770)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:52 PM
Author: Exhilarant flushed french chef feces

Julia is that you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339779)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: copper fragrant regret nowag

most people talk about it before then, but there is no assumption based on going out once a week and fucking. If you spend every weekend together and 2 nights a week, you should probably talk about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339805)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: know-it-all potus mad-dog skullcap

Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later than 6 weeks, but it guess I'm just an insecure beta

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339871)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:20 PM
Author: bateful olive skinny woman foreskin

I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but this sounds absolutely insane and not conducive to a stable society. The firs time I get shit-drunk and want to hook up with a girl I have been seeing, and doesn't answer my messages because she was with some other dude, my ape tendencies would kick into high gear. How the fuck do people deal with this shit?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339964)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:01 PM
Author: Heady Transparent University Water Buffalo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340245)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:07 PM
Author: copper fragrant regret nowag

then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feelings and want to lock it down, then lock it down.

If you just want a girl for booty calls, then dont catch feelings like a beta.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340284)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:19 PM
Author: Diverse native

This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dating thing. I would have trouble with the fact that there was always a decent chance the girl I was fucking just fucked someone else within the last few nights.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339194)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: excitant stage windowlicker

more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke like to eat 3 meals a day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339208)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:23 PM
Author: Cerebral dun wrinkle pit

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339223)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:13 PM
Author: galvanic library philosopher-king

Or will literally try to shank me or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339501)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:26 PM
Author: Sickened blood rage

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339251)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:29 PM
Author: maniacal marvelous abode gunner

"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their first five months of dating"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339263)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:11 PM
Author: Useless site

i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a week on a Tuesday vs. her spending the night at your house Fri and Saturday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339491)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Sickened blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339505)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:20 PM
Author: Disrespectful house love of her life

LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on a Tuesday night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340324)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Sickened blood rage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340364)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:15 PM
Author: Arrogant disgusting set

Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances arent their strong suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339508)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Stimulating crackhouse bbw

nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exclusive, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339504)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:12 PM
Author: glittery gas station

it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. that said, there is no way for us to tell what she expects from you and what the circumstances of your not meeting her expectations might be. assess those two factors and act accordingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340302)