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NYC Dating - Is Default Non-Exclusive?

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Cerebral hell
  09/16/14
having sex in nyc is like shaking hands
Appetizing azn
  09/16/14
Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn
Cracking frozen french chef lettuce
  09/16/14
coppin dat white privilege, u mad?
Appetizing azn
  09/16/14
Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you c...
charismatic goyim
  09/16/14
what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to...
Confused den
  09/16/14
because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expect...
charismatic goyim
  09/16/14
so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're n...
Confused den
  09/16/14
3-5 months? That's insane and not normal
Stimulating people who are hurt hissy fit
  09/16/14
Julia is that you?
razzle-dazzle piazza
  09/16/14
most people talk about it before then, but there is no assum...
charismatic goyim
  09/16/14
Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later t...
Stimulating people who are hurt hissy fit
  09/16/14
I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but t...
Tantric brunch
  09/16/14
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odious space mood
  09/16/14
then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feeling...
charismatic goyim
  09/16/14
This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dat...
frum set partner
  09/16/14
more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke li...
Appetizing azn
  09/16/14
lmao
Confused den
  09/16/14
Or will literally try to shank me or something.
French henna rigpig
  09/16/14
?
Cerebral hell
  09/16/14
"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their f...
Lemon pungent parlor knife
  09/16/14
i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a wee...
titillating garnet black woman really tough guy
  09/16/14
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Cerebral hell
  09/16/14
LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on ...
well-lubricated theater sound barrier
  09/16/14
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Cerebral hell
  09/16/14
Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances ...
narrow-minded nowag business firm
  09/16/14
nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exc...
violent foreskin lay
  09/16/14
it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. ...
Bisexual University
  09/16/14


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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:17 PM
Author: Cerebral hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339167)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: Appetizing azn

having sex in nyc is like shaking hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339181)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:57 PM
Author: Cracking frozen french chef lettuce

Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339810)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:24 PM
Author: Appetizing azn

coppin dat white privilege, u mad?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340345)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: charismatic goyim

Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you can safely assume non-exclusive unless someone has the exclusive talk - at least for the first 3-5 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339180)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: Confused den

what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to do with anything?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339209)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:08 PM
Author: charismatic goyim

because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expects more than you want to give - unless you have to see her professionally or socially.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340287)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:48 PM
Author: Confused den

so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're not interested just to avoid awkward professional/social settings?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340478)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:50 PM
Author: Stimulating people who are hurt hissy fit

3-5 months? That's insane and not normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339770)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:52 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle piazza

Julia is that you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339779)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: charismatic goyim

most people talk about it before then, but there is no assumption based on going out once a week and fucking. If you spend every weekend together and 2 nights a week, you should probably talk about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339805)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Stimulating people who are hurt hissy fit

Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later than 6 weeks, but it guess I'm just an insecure beta

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339871)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:20 PM
Author: Tantric brunch

I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but this sounds absolutely insane and not conducive to a stable society. The firs time I get shit-drunk and want to hook up with a girl I have been seeing, and doesn't answer my messages because she was with some other dude, my ape tendencies would kick into high gear. How the fuck do people deal with this shit?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339964)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:01 PM
Author: odious space mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340245)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:07 PM
Author: charismatic goyim

then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feelings and want to lock it down, then lock it down.

If you just want a girl for booty calls, then dont catch feelings like a beta.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340284)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:19 PM
Author: frum set partner

This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dating thing. I would have trouble with the fact that there was always a decent chance the girl I was fucking just fucked someone else within the last few nights.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339194)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: Appetizing azn

more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke like to eat 3 meals a day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339208)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:23 PM
Author: Confused den

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339223)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:13 PM
Author: French henna rigpig

Or will literally try to shank me or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339501)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:26 PM
Author: Cerebral hell

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339251)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:29 PM
Author: Lemon pungent parlor knife

"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their first five months of dating"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339263)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:11 PM
Author: titillating garnet black woman really tough guy

i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a week on a Tuesday vs. her spending the night at your house Fri and Saturday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339491)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Cerebral hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339505)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:20 PM
Author: well-lubricated theater sound barrier

LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on a Tuesday night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340324)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Cerebral hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340364)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:15 PM
Author: narrow-minded nowag business firm

Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances arent their strong suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339508)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: violent foreskin lay

nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exclusive, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339504)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:12 PM
Author: Bisexual University

it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. that said, there is no way for us to tell what she expects from you and what the circumstances of your not meeting her expectations might be. assess those two factors and act accordingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340302)