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NYC Dating - Is Default Non-Exclusive?

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Violent thriller chapel
  09/16/14
having sex in nyc is like shaking hands
Racy Stead Potus
  09/16/14
Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn
Milky sanctuary
  09/16/14
coppin dat white privilege, u mad?
Racy Stead Potus
  09/16/14
Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you c...
Floppy church building
  09/16/14
what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to...
spectacular bonkers legend
  09/16/14
because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expect...
Floppy church building
  09/16/14
so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're n...
spectacular bonkers legend
  09/16/14
3-5 months? That's insane and not normal
Self-centered keepsake machete
  09/16/14
Julia is that you?
excitant copper personal credit line twinkling uncleanness
  09/16/14
most people talk about it before then, but there is no assum...
Floppy church building
  09/16/14
Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later t...
Self-centered keepsake machete
  09/16/14
I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but t...
Hairraiser Sadistic Theater Fanboi
  09/16/14
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talented house gaping
  09/16/14
then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feeling...
Floppy church building
  09/16/14
This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dat...
Electric Maize Nowag
  09/16/14
more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke li...
Racy Stead Potus
  09/16/14
lmao
spectacular bonkers legend
  09/16/14
Or will literally try to shank me or something.
Balding Seedy Indirect Expression
  09/16/14
?
Violent thriller chapel
  09/16/14
"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their f...
Well-lubricated Red Private Investor Dragon
  09/16/14
i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a wee...
Up-to-no-good Base
  09/16/14
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Violent thriller chapel
  09/16/14
LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on ...
Exciting Hunting Ground
  09/16/14
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Violent thriller chapel
  09/16/14
Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances ...
Diverse metal love of her life
  09/16/14
nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exc...
garnet home mood
  09/16/14
it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. ...
startling hairy legs deer antler
  09/16/14


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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:17 PM
Author: Violent thriller chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339167)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: Racy Stead Potus

having sex in nyc is like shaking hands

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339181)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:57 PM
Author: Milky sanctuary

Or so you've heard since you're a virgin azn

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339810)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:24 PM
Author: Racy Stead Potus

coppin dat white privilege, u mad?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340345)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:18 PM
Author: Floppy church building

Unless you are co workers or close friends of friends, you can safely assume non-exclusive unless someone has the exclusive talk - at least for the first 3-5 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339180)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: spectacular bonkers legend

what do being co-workers or close friends of friends have to do with anything?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339209)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:08 PM
Author: Floppy church building

because you can blow off a girl you are dating if she expects more than you want to give - unless you have to see her professionally or socially.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340287)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:48 PM
Author: spectacular bonkers legend

so what then? you just continue the charade even if you're not interested just to avoid awkward professional/social settings?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340478)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:50 PM
Author: Self-centered keepsake machete

3-5 months? That's insane and not normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339770)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:52 PM
Author: excitant copper personal credit line twinkling uncleanness

Julia is that you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339779)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:55 PM
Author: Floppy church building

most people talk about it before then, but there is no assumption based on going out once a week and fucking. If you spend every weekend together and 2 nights a week, you should probably talk about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339805)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:05 PM
Author: Self-centered keepsake machete

Yeah I guess. I've just never had the exclusive talk later than 6 weeks, but it guess I'm just an insecure beta

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339871)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 3:20 PM
Author: Hairraiser Sadistic Theater Fanboi

I have no reason to doubt the truth of your assertion, but this sounds absolutely insane and not conducive to a stable society. The firs time I get shit-drunk and want to hook up with a girl I have been seeing, and doesn't answer my messages because she was with some other dude, my ape tendencies would kick into high gear. How the fuck do people deal with this shit?



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339964)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:01 PM
Author: talented house gaping



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340245)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:07 PM
Author: Floppy church building

then you text someone else ape. If you are catching feelings and want to lock it down, then lock it down.

If you just want a girl for booty calls, then dont catch feelings like a beta.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340284)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:19 PM
Author: Electric Maize Nowag

This weirds me out -- I'm a guy who never did the online dating thing. I would have trouble with the fact that there was always a decent chance the girl I was fucking just fucked someone else within the last few nights.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339194)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:21 PM
Author: Racy Stead Potus

more like within the last few hours. girls like bluesmoke like to eat 3 meals a day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339208)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:23 PM
Author: spectacular bonkers legend

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339223)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:13 PM
Author: Balding Seedy Indirect Expression

Or will literally try to shank me or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339501)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:26 PM
Author: Violent thriller chapel

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339251)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 1:29 PM
Author: Well-lubricated Red Private Investor Dragon

"grandma and grandpa fucked other people during their first five months of dating"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339263)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:11 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Base

i think its contextual. if you are seeing a girl once a week on a Tuesday vs. her spending the night at your house Fri and Saturday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339491)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: Violent thriller chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339505)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:20 PM
Author: Exciting Hunting Ground

LOL at thinking you're going to close for the first time on a Tuesday night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340324)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:27 PM
Author: Violent thriller chapel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340364)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:15 PM
Author: Diverse metal love of her life

Obviously, but remember your audience here...social nuances arent their strong suit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339508)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 2:14 PM
Author: garnet home mood

nyc shrews don't get fucked by 50+ men per year by being exclusive, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26339504)



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Date: September 16th, 2014 4:12 PM
Author: startling hairy legs deer antler

it's up to the person who wants exclusivity to bring it up. that said, there is no way for us to tell what she expects from you and what the circumstances of your not meeting her expectations might be. assess those two factors and act accordingly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2676105&forum_id=2#26340302)