Read this shrew screed - "Marry the complicated girl"
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Date: December 6th, 2014 9:18 PM Author: glassy electric furnace friendly grandma
let me help you get started there bro
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I know it’s cliché to quote “Sex and the City,” but it’s still so relevant.
This episode revealed to girls like me what we’ve subconsciously known for a long time: We are the type of girls you should be with, but you don’t want to be with.
Mr. Big was probably going to finish that statement with “easy.” Natasha, his soon-to-be wife, is easy — as in, she just goes with the flow. She doesn’t get angry or challenge him to be better.
She nods and laughs and is always comfortable. She’s sweet and good-natured and lets him do whatever he wants.
Carrie is complicated. She doesn’t put up with not getting everything she deserves. She craves more from Big. She has opinions and a life and dreams for the two of them together. She sometimes argues with him at inopportune times because she’s passionate and emotional, and she cares.
Not that Natasha doesn’t care. But, she is a basic girl who wants to keep the peace at any cost, even if that means she put her needs aside. Her mind isn’t quite as analytical and imaginative as Carrie’s, so she can put up with more. She’s simple.
I am not simple. I am a challenge for any man, I will admit. As hard as I try to be the simple girl, it is just not in my nature to be one. I demand more from everyone because I see great potential.
I only want the best for myself and for my partner, so I will never just go along with some semblance of a mediocre, passionless relationship.
An unevolved man or a boy will always want the simple girl. He doesn’t want to have to work hard for anything, especially not a relationship. He doesn’t want to be challenged or confronted.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26874479) |
Date: December 6th, 2014 9:24 PM Author: lascivious khaki scourge upon the earth
O_O
jfc.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26874514) |
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Date: December 6th, 2014 10:33 PM Author: Pale Wonderful Business Firm
"Go ahead and laugh"
Ok--HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
ok...
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Thanks Julia.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26875076) |
Date: December 6th, 2014 10:04 PM Author: Heady Walnut New Version Library
"Natasha, his soon-to-be wife, is easy — as in, she just goes with the flow . . . She’s sweet and good-natured and lets him do whatever he wants."
OH NO WHAT A HORRIBLE CURSE
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26874807) |
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Date: December 6th, 2014 10:24 PM Author: Henna indian lodge
you know what. i know that you're an aspie loser shutin with no ability to let things go or process another person's argument, so you love these subthreads where you can pretend that you've had a successful and intellectual interaction with a human on a Saturday night before you go let your fiancee fuck your asshole so that he'll put up with your zombie eyes, annoying airs, and non-existent self-respect, but i just have to say one thing:
you pretend to be the simple bitch to lure guys in and try to use your sagging, slowly decaying body to keep them there after they discover you are actually insane.
you are worse than this mentally ill shrew who at least tries not to be the simple girl.
you're a broken shell of a human being who intellectually masturbates to this idea of being a strong, confident, intelligent woman, but then crawls on your hands and knees, smiles dumbly, and offers your asshole to anyone who will give you the time of day and make you feel less lonely and afraid.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26874993) |
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Date: December 6th, 2014 10:18 PM Author: Buff immigrant meetinghouse
The author's "point" is based on a gay man's perspective of what an idealized NYC shrew would want.
In real life, you and your significant other are going to do real shit together - deal with the death of loved ones, raise and discipline children, have financial difficulties, etc. Men (smartly) want a partner who will love them unconditionally and make the journey easier, rather than unnecessarily complicated - because it's complicated enough.
In real life men want a woman to live in the real world with them, not a complicated 40 year old woman who stomps her feet because her "boyfriend" had to work through brunch, or other frivolous bullshit that makes up the shrew world.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26874945) |
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Date: December 6th, 2014 10:38 PM Author: Buff immigrant meetinghouse
Sorry I'm not up on my sex and the city facts. This is copy and pasted from the article:
"But, she is a basic girl who wants to keep the peace at any cost, even if that means she put her needs aside. Her mind isn’t quite as analytical and imaginative as Carrie’s, so she can put up with more. She’s simple."
Now isn't Carrie a brunch loving, 40 year old shrew who picks fights over dumb shit, talks about her "boyfriends" despite being old enough to be a grandmother, who has strong opinions over things that don't matter at all, and who cheats?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26875110) |
Date: December 6th, 2014 10:43 PM Author: Aphrodisiac Fuchsia Fat Ankles
there are graduations between not being a doormat/being a more nuanced person and being abrasive and difficult.
If you write a lengthy screed trying to justify abrasive behavior, I think that it is fairly obvious which camp you occupy.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26875145) |
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Date: December 6th, 2014 11:29 PM Author: Elite lodge quadroon
no, guys want a ride-or-die bad bitch, so that if shit doesn't turn out the way they wanted to, they know their significant other will make the situation better instead of stomping her feet that she doesn't get what she DESERVES because she REFUSES TO SETTLE!!!!
there's a difference of being demanding of your partner (e.g., wanting them to treat you well, respect you, and so forth), and being demanding in general. nobody wants the latter.
now, the problem with the author, is she mistakes an agreeable girl with a girl that still doesn't require things of her partner. but her hero is carrie - someone that nobody in their right mind would want to actually hitch their fortunes to.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26875583) |
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Date: July 5th, 2017 1:16 PM Author: marvelous site
I have very little patience for people who use fictional characters to illustrate real-life problems. Especially the one-dimensional characters on a show like SATC.
But all of this is 100% credited. For some doods, being "ride or die" will mean coming with some intellect and earning power - maybe a corporate chick will relate better to his struggles, who knows.
The key is to be able to roll through the bad shit with someone, and demand the right things (that they acknowledge your needs, fight respectfully, treat you well etc) in a productive way.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#33707716) |
Date: December 7th, 2014 2:40 AM Author: House-broken misanthropic native jewess
Reminder: Willingness to compromise is the NUMBER ONE TRAIT you should be looking for in a woman.
The main problem with the piece (besides the author's obvious inflated ego) is the assumption that agreeable = dumb. Ideally, you find a woman that is smart enough to talk to about a variety of subjects but also recognizes that when two people want to share a life together, they both need to make sacrifices to make it work.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26877096) |
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Date: July 5th, 2017 3:55 PM Author: drab fanboi sanctuary
Hahahahaha NO.
Reminder, the man married to this notorious megashrew cheated on her numerous times: http://biharipunjabi.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Elizabeth-Hurley-Hot-Photoshoot-Images.jpg
Further, that woman has been divorced twice, has a child with another man, has had at least one engagement fall through, and is currently single. Get the fuck out of here with that "unless she's super hot" nonsense.
EDIT: I'm replying to a post from 2014, not proud of that.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#33709010)
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Date: December 7th, 2014 3:45 AM Author: Chestnut curious ticket booth half-breed
Author DESTROYED in the first comment (w/800+ likes):
I think there's a difference between complex and complicated that this girl isn't getting. She seems to mistake self-centeredness and entitlement for depth and intelligence. You can be complex without being a difficult. And being in control of your emotions doesn't mean you don't have them. It just means you don't make everyone else responsible for your happiness. In any case, if she's 'worth' that much work, she should be giving a whole lot more than she seems willing to. Plus, simple and stupid are not synonyms.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26877255)
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Date: December 7th, 2014 12:04 PM Author: beady-eyed chest-beating state
this is the author's youtube series, which apparently no one watches, making fun of southern women:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kC16VC0vLBQ
i wonder what southern girl married this bitch's bf out from under her
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#26878311) |
Date: July 5th, 2017 1:07 PM Author: marvelous site
Not going to read that article, but:
1) Most people, if not all people, are complicated (nuanced, complex, lots of idiosyncrasies and foibles and goals). One of my pet peeves is when people assume someone is "uncomplicated" (e.g., "basic") because they consume popular things. No one above a certain age (say, late teens) is really "simple" anymore.
2) Relationships shouldn't be annoying. They should be a respite from the little insults you suffer daily. If your partner cares more about invalidating your frustrations or convincing you that you are wrong to feel a certain way instead of being emotionally supportive and invested in your emotional well-being, you're with the wrong partner.
3) Sometimes it's challenging as fuck to know how to express your needs and truths in a way which is still agreeable and compassionate to the other person.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#33707647) |
Date: July 5th, 2017 3:35 PM Author: cream big sandwich
Meet the real life Mr. Big: https://nyoobserver.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/rongalotti.jpg
did he wind up with the real life Carrie? lol no. he dumped her for a wholesome younger woman and left the degenerate city to raise a real family.
"Today he lives year-round in North Pomfret, Vermont, with his wife, Lisa Wilcox Galotti, a skiing coach at Killington Mountain School and onetime U.S. national downhill champion racer, and their 8-year-old daughter, Abbi. The family's homestead is a 100-acre farm that Ron works himself: His daily activities include baling hay, spreading manure, splitting logs for firewood, shoeing the horses, and plowing snow"
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2749066&forum_id=2#33708860) |
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