PS: I'll be more positive tomorrow but u should just get all of the negativity out tonight. Maybe even try poasting some nigger threads

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277924)

Ditto at every stage of American life. It is all frauds. In other countries ppl never leave. That is the only way to really have a community, not this fraud and lies where everyone is just a whore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277825)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277837)

What is different is that in other countries ppl keep the connections they have growing up because they never leave their hometown. In America people live in different cities for HS, UG, post UG, grad school, and post grad school. Even the most social humans cannot maintain close friendships living like that. I know ppl who are very social, were in frats in college, but they have very few friends because they moved around so much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277867)

50. The conservatives are fools: They whine about the decay of traditional values, yet they enthusiastically support technological progress and economic growth. Apparently it never occurs to them that you can't make rapid, drastic changes in the technology and the economy of a society with out causing rapid changes in all other aspects of the society as well, and that such rapid changes inevitably break down traditional values.

51. The breakdown of traditional values to some extent implies the breakdown of the bonds that hold together traditional small-scale social groups. The disintegration of small-scale social groups is also promoted by the fact that modern conditions often require or tempt individuals to move to new locations, separating themselves from their communities. Beyond that, a technological society HAS TO weaken family ties and local communities if it is to function efficiently. In modern society an individual's loyalty must be first to the system and only secondarily to a small-scale community, because if the internal loyalty to the system, such communities would pursue their own advantage at the expense of the system.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277919)

In modern society an individual's loyalty must be first to the system and only secondarily to a small-scale community, because if the internal loyalty to the system, such communities would pursue their own advantage at the expense of the system.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277934)

At least prior women's lib, if the guy had to move somewhere for school or work, he could just take his wife with him. But now, no, she has a career to think about too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277963)

But at the same time, some women are obviously more credited than others.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277877)

I randomly saw her at a party then was on a bus and she was on it too with her BF. I was thinking how I jizzed in this chicks mouth three years ago and now I won't even talk to her and she does not even recognize me esp since she would not be expecting me to be back in her town.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27277929)

I'm sorry dudes, but the vast, vast, vast majority of Americans end up pretty close to home. They go to the local or state U, they move home, they move to the large regional/state metro because it has jobs. They stay close with their high school friends and this isn't just some backwater thing. People who go to legitimately good state schools will do this too. The reality is that most of you are corporatist strivers who only know other like-minded people, so you project this fantasy that your life must be the American way. There's nothing else out there!

Wrong. You just don't want to admit what you really want, more than anything else in the world, is that $$$ and prestige. If you gave that up, you could have gotten your community. But instead you play the game maybe 5-10% of America plays. You don't even know there's another world out there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27278053)

Wait, lol, except on XO, where everyone here hies thee to rural North Dakota once they hit that Big Law magic #

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27278116)

you're around like-minded, smart, interesting people and have REAL community for four years and then WOOOOOOOSH the community is gone as everyone disperses and you're left with atomized strivers talking about money and culture to make up for the loss

i.e. we want community, but we want it with people like us

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27278200)

we need to figure out a way to have a quasi-collegiate experience in late 20s for people who need new friends and to get married etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27278217)

i really feel like we just gotta make communes/co-ops cool for non-dirty hippies somehow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#27278276)

turns out she was actually just moving for another guy and didn't want to be upfront about it.

not sure what this has to do with the thread topic but ftge

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28089193)

every one of my exes (and there have only been a few) has made a lasting impact on me as a person, and if i saw them irl i would feel a wide range of strong emotions.

just own up to the fact that you have psychopathic tendencies when it comes to forming romantic relationships, and that you (and not society) are mostly at fault for this.

the guys who weep that women have become fungible, are the same ones on tinder spamming 300 chicks at a time. because you wanted to indulge in casual flings and carefree dating lives, you have become the way you are. own and live with it, because there's no turning back.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092170)

how long have you used online dating?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092174)

I haven't used online dating unless you count Tinder, which I've only used for brief periods and never really worked out for me. A handful of first dates but nothing more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092175)

why do you expect to engage in promiscuity that was uncommon to 99% of humans throughout history, and then expect to have a perfectly healthy, normal, unjaded romantic life?

and then blame it all on society when it doesn't work out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092179)

I'm not particularly promiscuous. I had a 1.5 year relationship and a few that lasted a few months. The times I've had actual sex outside of a relationship, it was a relationship-track thing that didn't work out. I've made out girls in frathouse basements a few times, etc, but I wouldn't really call that promiscuous. And I stress that is not typical for me. I'm probably one of the most sexuality conservative people on this board, excluding people like SAD who just can't get laid.

I'm also not sure how you can read any of my posts in this thread as me blaming my woes on society (though I haven't read any of these posts for a few months so I expect you to quotepwn me shortly).

e: damn, rereading them they're some pretty PG13 emo shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092184)

so what's your number (including hj, bj)?

if you've had like ~5 relationships or less, i can't imagine how you would feel emotionally numb about them unless you tend to treat women generally as sex objects, and are good at doing that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092194)

I'm not emotionally numb now, but I was pretty fucked in the head when I made this thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092213)

what a TTT world we live in

*is bored*

*throws out pokeball ejecting nubile women*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2803710&forum_id=2#28092209)