Having one kid vs multiple kids - PROS >>>>>>>>>> CONS
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Date: March 2nd, 2015 8:05 AM Author: carmine stage
*********PROS*********
- Huge cash savings (house size, food/expenses, education, travel/holidays)
- Lower time commitment
- Maximizes achievement of the child
- Studies show one-child parents are happiest
- Forego later born children who would have higher risk of genetic defects/autism etc.
- Child more independent, self-reliant
- Not bringing multiple kids into this fucked up gay simulation earth that we live in
*********CONS*********
- Kid more likely to be aspie/introverted/weird/lonely
- Kid more likely to be self-centered/spoiled/selfish
- "Social pressure" to have multiple kids
*********The cons can be mitigated pretty easily:*********
1. Throw the kid into activities, sports, camps, etc.
2. Don't spoil the kid; enforce discipline/standards/chores
3. Tell other people to fuck off
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27415342) |
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Date: March 2nd, 2015 5:19 PM Author: aromatic beta dilemma
how so?
you're basically saying that it's completely likely that some people feel a deep-seated desire to have ONE OR MORE CHILD, and therefore a cost-benefit analysis isn't appropriate for their circumstance; but that nobody would reasonably feel a deep-seated desire to CONTINUE REPRODUCING, or to have a "brood" or a "large family" or so on, and therefore a cost-benefit analysis is always appropriate to decide between one kid and more than one kid
this is just a completely inconsistent way to look at it
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27418061) |
Date: March 2nd, 2015 8:42 AM Author: Big wine sneaky criminal
Everybody needs a buddy. 2 kids is probably credited. No one understands the nature of your own specific weird family other than your siblings. I don't buy that only children end up weird/aspie or spoiled/snotty/self centered.
But there's a loneliness there, which I think comes from not having a similarly aged sibling growing up. Only children don't have anyone else that they can relate to on that fundamental level.
There's no guarantee that you'll get along with your sibling as an adult, but having a sibling is much more credited from the kid's standpoint. Having only one kid only benefits the parents.
If you can't afford to have 2 kids, don't have any kids.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27415417) |
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Date: March 2nd, 2015 6:33 PM Author: abnormal sanctuary
have your wife stay at home.
private school is unnecessary if you live in a non-nig neighborhood.
your kids should all get full-rides to college. no excuse
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27418451) |
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Date: March 2nd, 2015 6:59 PM Author: Big wine sneaky criminal
I think there's kind of a happy medium to be drawn. My attitude is to expose the kid to a lot of different choices and teach him or her the pros and cons of each.
Big State U isn't sexy or close to home, but it's going to be cheap (or free) and you still can do the honors program there and get a solid undergraduate education and probably have some fun.
Smaller private schools are more expensive, but sometimes a kid might get lost in the cracks at a large, public university and a private school could have a specialty major.
Let the kid visit a ton of colleges and pick. Parents have veto power. If the kid wants to go to Plymouth State over Duke, exercise parental veto.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27418558) |
Date: March 2nd, 2015 5:57 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy shrine halford
I'll start by saying that I don't expect to have any kids and the world is probably better off for my decision.
That said, I really see one kid as the worst of all worlds. The lifestyle change, money, etc. are mainly absorbed at the first kid. Now, imagine your first kid sucks. I'm sure we know millions of examples of this. Like the kids from normal families that grow up and join the Taliban or ISIS or are just raging assholes. Or you just don't get along and they grow up to be a huge loser. Now you turned your world upside down for what? So either 0 or 2-3 seems ideal.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27418259) |
Date: March 2nd, 2015 6:26 PM Author: Drunken chocolate telephone
3 kids or bust niggas
I want me a brood
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#27418408) |
Date: November 7th, 2016 8:10 PM Author: mind-boggling elite newt
Going from 1 to 2 has been more life altering than going from 0 to 1.
You basically have no time for yourself.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#31827388) |
Date: March 1st, 2020 11:03 AM Author: Anal opaque lettuce abode
I didn't read any of this thread but will pontificate anyway. Have as many as you can possibly have if you think you have what it takes to be good parents and love your spouse/won't divorce. If you have a shaky or weird marriage or don't really want them, don't bother.
I'm going on 5 kids and even the 4 I have are pretty different from each other (surprisingly so, my wife and I are only children so we have no real good frame of reference). The variation will hopefully be good over the long term if I am thinking dynastically. Yes, I am the father and it's the same mother too.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2820747&forum_id=2#39676534) |
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