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How do I become more confident and stop giving a fuck?

I think if I become more confident and if I stop giving a fu...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
high T
Maize rough-skinned crackhouse
  08/31/15
I feel like that would put me on edge more. Also I want t...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
These objections are ridiculous. Get put on T.
Lascivious boltzmann location
  08/31/15
go back in time, be accepted and build better social skills
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
bingo!
razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office
  08/31/15
FUCK OFF
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
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  09/01/15
Better social skills make you care more, not less. Worryin...
erotic brass center
  09/01/15
its not possible to do. you need to have grown up differentl...
razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office
  08/31/15
Ljl fuck this gay fraud earth.
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
i have an annoying coworker who swears depression and anxiet...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
That's bullshit. Same with exercise. Doesn't do shit to i...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
i know man i argue with him about this all the time. he's on...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
This. OP needs to start drinking during the day and at work
Big goyim
  08/31/15
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  09/01/15
I think the key lies in ceasing to want to BE anyone or like...
drunken twinkling area mad-dog skullcap
  08/31/15
This seems highly credited.
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
Much much much easier said than done, though
drunken twinkling area mad-dog skullcap
  08/31/15
Yeah that seems obvious.
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
this is true. i always say you have to have moral confidence...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
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drunken twinkling area mad-dog skullcap
  08/31/15
Any philosophy or shit that I can read to help back this up ...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
Lmao
Big goyim
  08/31/15
If it's in a book it's true. Stop laughing, motherfucker.
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
idk existentialist philosophy is all about this, really
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
cr and this takes a ton of investment that you wont see ret...
Filthy shitlib immigrant
  08/31/15
Protip: You can't and won't.
Amber Adventurous Native Elastic Band
  08/31/15
FUCK OFF
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
Just realize that none of this shit matters for the most par...
Exciting copper heaven
  08/31/15
nihilism wont make you a confident person socially. nihilism...
razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office
  08/31/15
Yeah I was extremely nihilistic when I was like 15. I had li...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
YER A WIZARD, HARRY
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go to prestigious schools and get a prestigious job. money+s...
fiercely-loyal sinister theater
  08/31/15
That's completely false.
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
Just become a major depressive, you won't give a fuck about ...
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  08/31/15
The point of this is so that I DON'T become a major depressi...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
Why not? Confidence stems from not giving a fuck, and not gi...
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  08/31/15
That sounds more like holding an apathetic or nihilistic out...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
i think you might be wrong. confidence comes from the self f...
razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office
  08/31/15
But the op doesn't have that acceptance, I take it. So he ne...
Razzmatazz business firm community account
  08/31/15
I actually do have a fair amount of acceptance and whatnot i...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
right, you have to have values internalized so you just do s...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
Yeah exactly. Whenever you read up on people who are extr...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
autotelic behaviour requires moral confidence though, which ...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
That's the weird thing. My parents aren't that successful an...
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
The real problem in this world is that everyone who is not a...
hyperventilating cowardly degenerate volcanic crater
  09/01/15
180 some lives are just shittier than others
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  09/01/15
180
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narrow-minded abode cumskin
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Bump for using the word "autotelic"
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i think when you reach complete rock bottom, you can be conf...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
Yeah kind of like Eminem.
Concupiscible sound barrier
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Just imagine Trump yelling in your ear about what WINNERS do...
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  08/31/15
1. Travel back in time 2. Work out more 3. Make varsit...
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  08/31/15
I have a six pack currently. I also played varsity football ...
Concupiscible sound barrier
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So then step 4 should be easy.
Fluffy idea he suggested
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Literally think the whole "don't give a fuck" thin...
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Yeah I've considered reading up on Buddhism a lot lately.
Concupiscible sound barrier
  08/31/15
The problem is putting it into practice. Most of it sounds r...
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It's NOWAG flame. You should be aware of your ego, recognize...
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that's flow, bro
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yeah but the exercise of diminishing it helps u go w the flo...
Filthy shitlib immigrant
  08/31/15
philosophy can be a tool for walling yourself off as well. e...
narrow-minded abode cumskin
  08/31/15
Yeah I know it's extremely difficult. I try a lot and give u...
Concupiscible sound barrier
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I'm planning to do this I'm a lot like you brother, I see m...
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Watch Trump on YouTube.
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I read this book and thought it was shit, pure shit.
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  09/01/15
Why? What are your recommended books?
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totally something i do is to not to even criticize or insul...
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  09/01/15
Get into HBS
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Cocaine
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Just do shrooms, not flame.
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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:53 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

I think if I become more confident and if I stop giving a fuck about everything I'll become extremely happy.

How do I make this happen? My personality is geared against these things on an almost fundamental level. I need to change it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664873)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:53 PM
Author: Maize rough-skinned crackhouse

high T

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664875)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:54 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

I feel like that would put me on edge more.

Also I want to become basically asexual.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664884)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:09 PM
Author: Lascivious boltzmann location

These objections are ridiculous.

Get put on T.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665008)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:56 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

go back in time, be accepted and build better social skills

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664895)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:56 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office

bingo!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664901)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:00 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

FUCK OFF

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664933)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:16 PM
Author: Fluffy idea he suggested



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665056)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:27 AM
Author: exhilarant pink resort



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666607)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 9:29 PM
Author: erotic brass center

Better social skills make you care more, not less. Worrying about other people's opinions is by definition being socialized.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28670747)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:56 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office

its not possible to do. you need to have grown up differently. take mdma or coke and see what happens. its like a switch, but urs is off normally. sorry bro. i mean, yeah its possible to change. just go out there and try to succeed in the face of obstacles and maybe your personality will change, though i doubt it, most likely you wont be able to live up to the challenge and you will implode from the stress and anxiety, not overcome it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664897)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:59 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Ljl fuck this gay fraud earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664923)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:59 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

i have an annoying coworker who swears depression and anxiety can be fixed with nutrition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664925)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:00 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

That's bullshit.

Same with exercise. Doesn't do shit to improve your mood once you've been doing it consistently.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664931)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:05 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

i know man i argue with him about this all the time. he's one of these mindfulness retards who thinks anything can be overcome by the mind. a horrific childhood is nothing if you set your mind to fighting your anxiety. this type of attitude is exactly what's wrong with our hypercapitalist fake it til you make it culture. unhappiness isn't accepted. i'm sure that's why some people kill themselves, the fact that they can't just be unhappy and not be judged for not willing their way out of it. faggots like earl who believe this are ignorant

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664971)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:05 PM
Author: Big goyim

This. OP needs to start drinking during the day and at work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664976)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:35 AM
Author: disgusting locale



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666619)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:59 PM
Author: drunken twinkling area mad-dog skullcap

I think the key lies in ceasing to want to BE anyone or like anyone else in the world. You have to learn to be YOURSELF, and love being yourself and have zero desire to emulate anyone else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664920)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 10:59 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

This seems highly credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664927)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:00 PM
Author: drunken twinkling area mad-dog skullcap

Much much much easier said than done, though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664932)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:01 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah that seems obvious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664936)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:01 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

this is true. i always say you have to have moral confidence, your choices are yours, you pick your identity and stick to your decisions. everyone else's life looks better if you're not confident with your own freedom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664941)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:02 PM
Author: drunken twinkling area mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664950)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:04 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Any philosophy or shit that I can read to help back this up ideologically?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664968)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:05 PM
Author: Big goyim

Lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664979)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:12 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

If it's in a book it's true. Stop laughing, motherfucker.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665035)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:08 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

idk existentialist philosophy is all about this, really

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664999)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:35 PM
Author: Filthy shitlib immigrant

cr

and this takes a ton of investment that you wont see returns on for a long while, but you have to trust that when you listen to yourself and strengthen yourself, you will be a beast amongst children. takes years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665249)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:01 PM
Author: Amber Adventurous Native Elastic Band

Protip: You can't and won't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664935)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:01 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

FUCK OFF

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664940)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:01 PM
Author: Exciting copper heaven

Just realize that none of this shit matters for the most part. A healthy dose of nihilism is always cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664938)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:03 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office

nihilism wont make you a confident person socially. nihilism isnt even the credited way to live, sorry. it might be true, but your biology doesnt mesh with it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664956)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:03 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah I was extremely nihilistic when I was like 15. I had like no friends at the time but I definitely grew the most intellectually at that age.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664957)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:16 PM
Author: Red Rigpig Organic Girlfriend

YER A WIZARD, HARRY

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665061)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 2:55 AM
Author: bull headed sapphire property



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:37 AM
Author: disgusting locale



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:02 PM
Author: fiercely-loyal sinister theater

go to prestigious schools and get a prestigious job. money+success will make you confident.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664947)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:03 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

That's completely false.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664961)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:03 PM
Author: Razzmatazz business firm community account

Just become a major depressive, you won't give a fuck about anything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664960)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:04 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

The point of this is so that I DON'T become a major depressive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664965)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:05 PM
Author: Razzmatazz business firm community account

Why not? Confidence stems from not giving a fuck, and not giving a fuck comes from realizing that there's nothing you can do about the tragic human condition

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664977)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:06 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

That sounds more like holding an apathetic or nihilistic outlook on life as opposed to being depressed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664987)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:07 PM
Author: razzle-dazzle self-absorbed principal's office

i think you might be wrong. confidence comes from the self feeling accepted and loved, either by you or others.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28664991)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:11 PM
Author: Razzmatazz business firm community account

But the op doesn't have that acceptance, I take it. So he needs to shed illusions and realize that life is just an absurd zero sum game and behave accordingly

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665023)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:17 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

I actually do have a fair amount of acceptance and whatnot in my life. Socially I did pretty well in high school and I probably had an above average amount of friends, reputation, grades, accomplishments, etc.

I guess the big issue is that no matter where I get I'll always be able to look outside and see that someone else is always doing better.

I feel like the people who do the best don't really give a shit about praise or acceptance and go out and just do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665073)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:21 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

right, you have to have values internalized so you just do shit. you don't think "oh, i'd better get good grades because x, y, z." you just do it because it's something you want to do. look at all the miserable lawyers on here who grinded into law because it was a prestigious profession. your personality must be autotelic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665107)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:24 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah exactly.

Whenever you read up on people who are extremely successful it's clear they just did shit because they wanted to do it or were good at it.

Like Terrence Malick dropped out of a PhD program in philosophy because he didn't feel like fighting with one of his professors over a translation of Hegel's work or something. So he just jumped ship and said fuck it and made movies. Then he made like one really good one and decided to quit. Then 10-20 years later he rolls onto the scene again and everyone is sucking his dick trying to get a role in The Thin Red Line.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665137)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:34 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

autotelic behaviour requires moral confidence though, which requires acceptance. you need to feel accepted as you are, ironically, apart from your achievements. only then you can you actually achieve excellence because you're doing what you want to do. this is why it's far easier in life to be attractive, for instance, from the get go. look at musicians, who are typically pretty good looking. or actors. they know they will always be wanted on some level so they don't have to go playing to others. how many successful people had parents who are artists and academics? i'm not just talking about successful artists and academics. this seemed to be a trend when i was wiki-ing people. their parents are 1) highly educated and can provide the environment for a good education, and 2) confident in their knowledge that loving what you do is the best motivator, so they encourage love of activity in their children. tiger moms might have successful children but they become bitter, neurotic assholes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665240)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:45 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

That's the weird thing. My parents aren't that successful and work prole jobs but since day one my father has stressed to me the importance of doing something that you are passionate about. Most people generally view me as very attractive as well.

I guess the two biggest issues are that I'm not extremely charismatic and I don't have any real passions anymore, so it's hard to find something to do because I find inherent value in it.

That's kind of the reason I made this thread, though. If I stop caring what other people think and whatnot I genuinely believe I will be more charismatic as a result. It's a Catch-22 in that case, though, since there is an ultimate goal/end to not giving a fuck in the first place, which makes it kind of impossible.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665333)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 2:40 AM
Author: hyperventilating cowardly degenerate volcanic crater

The real problem in this world is that everyone who is not an ideal person (smart, good looking, talented) thinks they can fix the issue with their moral confidence by working hard. Its not the case. The lack of internal motivation or apathy is strictly because that person sees no benefit in the long run. I mean this is fucking SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST right here. Do everything in your power to extend your legacy and power to your descendants, its the endgame.

I don't believe that an autotelic person can really exist in this world. Someone who finds interest in an activity and does it for their personal enjoyment (other than drugs) is committing fraudlies by perpetrating this myth. These 'autotelic' fraudliars do an activity because it has a benefit that is not necessarily something that has material worth. Autotelic fraudliars participate in artistic, sporting and fitness activities because they are predominantly social pursuits. Since dumb people judge others by how they look, good luck being a musician if you don't look good. Good luck running those laps alone lol. I'm sure you care about your fitness or your musical ability more than you care about your ability to stay sane after having no human contact in months said no one ever.

Reminder that GW Bush has a double digit IQ and ran a country for 8 years. Do you think he thought very hard about the things he wanted to say? Do you think he deserved to be el presidente? Lol no, he just appeared chill and good looking. Just do 'doomed before you were born' bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666189)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 10:24 AM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

180 some lives are just shittier than others

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666924)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 10:48 PM
Author: galvanic church building pozpig

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28671235)



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Date: November 23rd, 2015 1:18 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#29237137)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:24 PM
Author: Razzmatazz business firm community account

Bump for using the word "autotelic"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665141)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:11 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

i think when you reach complete rock bottom, you can be confident in giving in. you can be confident that you're fucked and the universe is an unholy, arbitrary place. from that position you can tear anything down. you don't have to believe in anything. you need faith to be happy - but faithlessness is a lower order faith of last resort

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665026)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:19 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah kind of like Eminem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665086)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:12 PM
Author: very tactful wagecucks scourge upon the earth

Just imagine Trump yelling in your ear about what WINNERS do and telling you not to be a baby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665030)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:17 PM
Author: Fluffy idea he suggested

1. Travel back in time

2. Work out more

3. Make varsity footbal/basketball

4. ???

5. Profit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665066)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:18 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

I have a six pack currently. I also played varsity football and captained my wrestling team in high school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665079)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:19 PM
Author: Fluffy idea he suggested

So then step 4 should be easy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665096)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:21 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

ljl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665110)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:25 PM
Author: Bronze gaped hall kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665157)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:35 PM
Author: azure address

Literally think the whole "don't give a fuck" thing is what Buddhism is about

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665256)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:38 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah I've considered reading up on Buddhism a lot lately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665269)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:39 PM
Author: azure address

The problem is putting it into practice. Most of it sounds reasonable but it's a lot easier to be like "oh just think about your present moment and lose your ego" than to actually do it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665280)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:41 PM
Author: Razzmatazz business firm community account

It's NOWAG flame. You should be aware of your ego, recognize it, and then act accordingly. Ego death is impossible as long as you are conscious

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665298)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:44 PM
Author: azure address

Nah there's definitely been times in my life when I have been more involved in my daily life and not just mentally masturbating endlessly about some concept of myself that is all flame anyway

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665331)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:47 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

that's flow, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665350)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:46 PM
Author: Filthy shitlib immigrant

yeah but the exercise of diminishing it helps u go w the flow in cases where ur usually hardheaded

even socrates said philosophy is the art of death - u have to kill ur beliefs to develop

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665343)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:50 PM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin

philosophy can be a tool for walling yourself off as well. everything is about the spirit in which you do it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665374)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:43 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah I know it's extremely difficult. I try a lot and give up immediately. I've considered taking mushrooms and other hallucinogens because my friends tell me that it leads to experiences like ego death and whatnot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665316)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 2:52 AM
Author: Pearly orchestra pit

I'm planning to do this

I'm a lot like you brother, I see myself in you ITT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666220)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:08 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

<3

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28670284)



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Date: August 31st, 2015 11:44 PM
Author: high-end marvelous boiling water office

Watch Trump on YouTube.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665328)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 1:22 AM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28665896)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:13 AM
Author: mahogany supple national

Alcohol

Percocet

Exercise / sports / yoga (if you are seriously into this you should try jivamukti yoga - they are more hardcore, crazy vegans, but if you want to get introspective you will be better off there than with the rando aerobics instructor-retooled as yoga master-at your neighborhood gym)

Hobbies

Reading

Journaling or therapy

Cultivate your interests and your health. Be open minded. Give everyone a chance or even a second chance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666581)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:33 AM
Author: grizzly mind-boggling mental disorder

It sounds like hippie flame, but I have wildly improved my attitude and thus my happiness/dgaf-ness by thinking positive thoughts (and thinking it's nbd/seeing it from their perspective) about people who cause me the slightest inconvenience rather than wishing they get raped with rusty barb wire.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666617)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:40 AM
Author: mahogany supple national

Yes. I really enjoyed reading Mindset (not Malcolm gladwell junk - http://www.amazon.com/Mindset-The-New-Psychology-Success/dp/0345472322 ), which I think gets into this a bit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28666623)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:09 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

I read this book and thought it was shit, pure shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28670292)



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Date: September 3rd, 2015 12:51 PM
Author: mahogany supple national

Why? What are your recommended books?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28681117)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 10:00 PM
Author: Filthy shitlib immigrant

totally

something i do is to not to even criticize or insult people internally in my mind, which i used to do a lot. it has improved my relationships a lot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28670896)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 8:10 PM
Author: Puce base

Get into HBS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28670295)



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Date: September 2nd, 2015 12:56 AM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

I think I have to do this before I can get into a place like HBS.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28672218)



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Date: September 1st, 2015 11:47 PM
Author: Nofapping Trailer Park

Cocaine

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28671787)



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Date: September 2nd, 2015 12:59 AM
Author: charcoal international law enforcement agency rehab

Just do shrooms, not flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28672245)



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Date: September 3rd, 2015 12:26 PM
Author: Concupiscible sound barrier

Yeah I've been talking to people that can sell them to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28680974)



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Date: September 3rd, 2015 12:57 PM
Author: Deranged sable theatre keepsake machete

Have kids, become a sole breadwinner. Buck stops here perspective changes your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#28681162)



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Date: November 23rd, 2015 1:22 PM
Author: Slippery karate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#29237169)



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Date: November 24th, 2015 3:23 AM
Author: narrow-minded abode cumskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2977961&forum_id=2#29242541)