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Advice for second date

Really like this chick, we have a genuine connection etc. Fi...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
Seems like transparent flame but I'll indulge. Don't date th...
Racy blathering lay nibblets
  10/07/15
this. RAN here to post.
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
I have the same impression, but I didn't expect it to happen...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
Well then it's unlikely she is going to dump you unless you ...
Racy blathering lay nibblets
  10/07/15
Na, she texted me the next day after first date, so Id like ...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
if you really do like her I wouldn't ask her out on a second...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
This may be a good idea... But she may have just moved on at...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
no she will think you are despite if you are like "oh p...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
You a girl or guy? She may already be head over heals
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
LJL. 2 weeks is forever. Just wait a couple of days and sugg...
Rebellious chad mother
  10/07/15
not in the dating world. 2 weeks is like a spec on the sand.
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
...
Razzmatazz community account
  10/07/15
guy who literally dates multiple girls. If she is head over ...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
lol...yeah, just do wait 2 weeks with a girl who slept with ...
Haunting jet-lagged internal respiration famous landscape painting
  10/07/15
dude you know how many dudes she said that. literally a girl...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
...
duck-like ticket booth
  10/07/15
LOL I'm sure you're the first guy she's said that to
Filthy Copper Coldplay Fan
  10/07/15
Don't let her know you like her yet.
slate dead sanctuary codepig
  10/07/15
ATD
Vigorous Orchid Theatre Headpube
  10/07/15
Has she mentioned anything she's wanted to do during your fi...
diverse garnet stead
  10/07/15
Not this. Do something you enjoy. She has to win you over.
slate dead sanctuary codepig
  10/07/15
"trumpdood" disputing a tip on women offered by &q...
fragrant school cafeteria boiling water
  10/07/15
(Guy who takes fishing advice from fish)
slate dead sanctuary codepig
  10/07/15
Right, listen to the girl on this one, even if she is preten...
vibrant charcoal patrolman
  10/07/15
You need to wait 2 weeks bro. This is decent advice but if y...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
Ignore xo toxic flame. Your initial instincts in the op are...
Bull headed clear jew den
  10/07/15
...
vibrant charcoal patrolman
  10/07/15
(dude who is single) there is no flame. 2 weeks. call- as...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
Stop flaming the op
Bull headed clear jew den
  10/07/15
Lol at even thinking of doing anything than "chilling&q...
Obsidian halford
  10/07/15
Even if I'm interested in GFing this girl?
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
clearly you are not if you8 are calling here this soon and t...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
Yes. Being a beta bitch isn't going to help you accomplish t...
Obsidian halford
  10/07/15
Lol ok Donald trump
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
You're overthinking this little breh. If you actually like h...
Godawful Trust Fund Elastic Band
  10/07/15
I think this is credited. If I'm acting naturally and she bl...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
If that usually worked for you, you wouldn't be here.
slate dead sanctuary codepig
  10/07/15
TBF I've been pumping and dumping for a log time. when I pur...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
Use your p&d strategy then. Just don't d her
slate dead sanctuary codepig
  10/07/15
go to the beach
Soul-stirring ruby friendly grandma
  10/07/15
UPDATE: just texted her and she said that if she's not dead ...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
Thinking of not responding until friday and hitting her with...
Emerald House Knife
  10/07/15
I am not a fan of open date suggestions like this so early o...
diverse garnet stead
  10/07/15
...
massive charismatic point pocket flask
  10/07/15
wtf donny
diverse garnet stead
  10/07/15
JFC you are going to blow it! YEs fucking wait until Friday ...
Stimulating Set
  10/07/15
Second date bathroom anal. "Oh my god, I like, NEVER...
Hairraiser Federal Parlour
  10/07/15
update?
diverse garnet stead
  01/15/16


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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:02 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

Really like this chick, we have a genuine connection etc. First date we did drinks and then went back to my place and had sex. I want to show her on our second date that I like her. I was thinking dinner at a trendy place, drinks at a trendy place, or maybe even doing a day date to the zoo or paddle boats to keep her interested. My biggest worry is losing her interest and not having this pan out. Any credited recs?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917545)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:05 AM
Author: Racy blathering lay nibblets

Seems like transparent flame but I'll indulge. Don't date this whore that fucks on the first date. And don't ever spend money after sex. It's texting at 2am for Netflix time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917553)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:06 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

this. RAN here to post.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917563)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:18 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

I have the same impression, but I didn't expect it to happen. We did just kind of hit it off and she said, I'm sorry I'm just really attracted to you. I realize fucking on the first date is not a good sign for GF material but shit, I like this chick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917627)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:20 AM
Author: Racy blathering lay nibblets

Well then it's unlikely she is going to dump you unless you performed poorly sexually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917639)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:26 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

Na, she texted me the next day after first date, so Id like to believe she's a good girl who just wanted to make sure I liked her so she fucked me on first date. I guess it doesn't really matter what second date is like if this is true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917667)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:36 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

if you really do like her I wouldn't ask her out on a second date for 2 weeks. if you come on to strong she will be bored and think your a lamemo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917716)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:42 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

This may be a good idea... But she may have just moved on at that point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917743)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:43 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

no she will think you are despite if you are like "oh please meet me right away. I love you." you need to wait a minimum of 2 weeks. When she gets your call and invite she will be so shocked and impressed and fall head over heels.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917744)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:45 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

You a girl or guy? She may already be head over heals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917747)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:46 AM
Author: Rebellious chad mother

LJL. 2 weeks is forever. Just wait a couple of days and suggest something later in the week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917755)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

not in the dating world. 2 weeks is like a spec on the sand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917764)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:51 AM
Author: Razzmatazz community account



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917780)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

guy who literally dates multiple girls. If she is head over heals do not ruin it by being an overanxiousmo. You need to play the long game with here. 2 weeks. put the phone down and just wait.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917762)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:24 AM
Author: Haunting jet-lagged internal respiration famous landscape painting

lol...yeah, just do wait 2 weeks with a girl who slept with you on the first date. she'll only be taking fathoms of D between now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917988)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:26 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

dude you know how many dudes she said that. literally a girl that spreads on the first date is not worth a second.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917668)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:18 AM
Author: duck-like ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917938)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:22 AM
Author: Filthy Copper Coldplay Fan

LOL I'm sure you're the first guy she's said that to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917974)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:32 AM
Author: slate dead sanctuary codepig

Don't let her know you like her yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917691)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:35 AM
Author: Vigorous Orchid Theatre Headpube

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917705)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:39 AM
Author: diverse garnet stead

Has she mentioned anything she's wanted to do during your first date? I would do something like that, shows you paid attention.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917731)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: slate dead sanctuary codepig

Not this. Do something you enjoy. She has to win you over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917761)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:50 AM
Author: fragrant school cafeteria boiling water

"trumpdood" disputing a tip on women offered by "trumpette" welcome to xo

[I realize trumpette is doobs I believe the point is still illustrative]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917774)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:56 AM
Author: slate dead sanctuary codepig

(Guy who takes fishing advice from fish)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917806)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:58 AM
Author: vibrant charcoal patrolman

Right, listen to the girl on this one, even if she is pretend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917812)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:59 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

You need to wait 2 weeks bro. This is decent advice but if you do it too soon you will look stalkerish because of the time + attention to detail. Girls like it when you remember things about them but if you do this immediately you look like a stalkermo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917819)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:01 AM
Author: Bull headed clear jew den

Ignore xo toxic flame. Your initial instincts in the op are correct here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917834)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:02 AM
Author: vibrant charcoal patrolman



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917840)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:03 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

(dude who is single)

there is no flame. 2 weeks. call- ask on date. marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917846)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 1:46 PM
Author: Bull headed clear jew den

Stop flaming the op

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918927)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:07 AM
Author: Obsidian halford

Lol at even thinking of doing anything than "chilling" at one of your places after you've already smashed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917877)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:40 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

Even if I'm interested in GFing this girl?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918089)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:41 AM
Author: Stimulating Set

clearly you are not if you8 are calling here this soon and trying to go out with here in under 2 weeks. literally just don't even bother contacting her if you are going to be this lame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918101)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:42 AM
Author: Obsidian halford

Yes. Being a beta bitch isn't going to help you accomplish that. Invite yourself to her place and fuck the shit out of her. She'll be begging to be your gf if you do it right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918108)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:58 AM
Author: Emerald House Knife

Lol ok Donald trump

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918218)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:40 AM
Author: Godawful Trust Fund Elastic Band

You're overthinking this little breh. If you actually like her, don't overanalyze it. Do what you feel like doing and if she's down that's great, if not move on. Doing what you think you "should" do wrt dating is not a recipe for success.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918090)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:23 PM
Author: Emerald House Knife

I think this is credited. If I'm acting naturally and she blows me off, whatever, I already fucked her anyway...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918363)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:27 PM
Author: slate dead sanctuary codepig

If that usually worked for you, you wouldn't be here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918389)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:29 PM
Author: Emerald House Knife

TBF I've been pumping and dumping for a log time. when I pursue a girl for more thab that, I usually do well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918399)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:30 PM
Author: slate dead sanctuary codepig

Use your p&d strategy then. Just don't d her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918408)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:26 PM
Author: Soul-stirring ruby friendly grandma

go to the beach



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918386)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:31 PM
Author: Emerald House Knife

UPDATE: just texted her and she said that if she's not dead from this week at work we should do something this weekend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918417)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:34 PM
Author: Emerald House Knife

Thinking of not responding until friday and hitting her with a "sorry its been a Crazy week. since we both had long weeks why don't we have some wine and just chill at your/my place?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918448)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:13 PM
Author: diverse garnet stead

I am not a fan of open date suggestions like this so early on. If you're the one initiating the date, it's on you to decide what you're doing - not give her alternatives. Also, just do dinner/drinks, please, near your place so that you have an option to chill afterwards. But don't go straight home just yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919190)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:13 PM
Author: massive charismatic point pocket flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919198)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:15 PM
Author: diverse garnet stead

wtf donny

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919219)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:15 PM
Author: Stimulating Set

JFC you are going to blow it! YEs fucking wait until Friday ya dweeb. Why don't you just ask to see her today jesus.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919217)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:32 PM
Author: Hairraiser Federal Parlour

Second date bathroom anal.

"Oh my god, I like, NEVER do this, teehee"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918432)



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Date: January 15th, 2016 3:55 PM
Author: diverse garnet stead

update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#29604250)