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Advice for second date

Really like this chick, we have a genuine connection etc. Fi...
lime stage
  10/07/15
Seems like transparent flame but I'll indulge. Don't date th...
Provocative Lilac Twinkling Uncleanness Church Building
  10/07/15
this. RAN here to post.
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
I have the same impression, but I didn't expect it to happen...
lime stage
  10/07/15
Well then it's unlikely she is going to dump you unless you ...
Provocative Lilac Twinkling Uncleanness Church Building
  10/07/15
Na, she texted me the next day after first date, so Id like ...
lime stage
  10/07/15
if you really do like her I wouldn't ask her out on a second...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
This may be a good idea... But she may have just moved on at...
lime stage
  10/07/15
no she will think you are despite if you are like "oh p...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
You a girl or guy? She may already be head over heals
lime stage
  10/07/15
LJL. 2 weeks is forever. Just wait a couple of days and sugg...
Arousing Emerald Yarmulke People Who Are Hurt
  10/07/15
not in the dating world. 2 weeks is like a spec on the sand.
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
...
Mauve comical bawdyhouse
  10/07/15
guy who literally dates multiple girls. If she is head over ...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
lol...yeah, just do wait 2 weeks with a girl who slept with ...
curious garrison potus
  10/07/15
dude you know how many dudes she said that. literally a girl...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
...
Nubile walnut son of senegal prole
  10/07/15
LOL I'm sure you're the first guy she's said that to
mind-boggling mood whorehouse
  10/07/15
Don't let her know you like her yet.
cyan deer antler
  10/07/15
ATD
Racy Associate
  10/07/15
Has she mentioned anything she's wanted to do during your fi...
Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio
  10/07/15
Not this. Do something you enjoy. She has to win you over.
cyan deer antler
  10/07/15
"trumpdood" disputing a tip on women offered by &q...
Frisky talented nursing home
  10/07/15
(Guy who takes fishing advice from fish)
cyan deer antler
  10/07/15
Right, listen to the girl on this one, even if she is preten...
Pearly Ticket Booth Affirmative Action
  10/07/15
You need to wait 2 weeks bro. This is decent advice but if y...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
Ignore xo toxic flame. Your initial instincts in the op are...
Gold stead clown
  10/07/15
...
Pearly Ticket Booth Affirmative Action
  10/07/15
(dude who is single) there is no flame. 2 weeks. call- as...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
Stop flaming the op
Gold stead clown
  10/07/15
Lol at even thinking of doing anything than "chilling&q...
blathering spectacular police squad corner
  10/07/15
Even if I'm interested in GFing this girl?
lime stage
  10/07/15
clearly you are not if you8 are calling here this soon and t...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
Yes. Being a beta bitch isn't going to help you accomplish t...
blathering spectacular police squad corner
  10/07/15
Lol ok Donald trump
lime stage
  10/07/15
You're overthinking this little breh. If you actually like h...
geriatric mustard mad cow disease
  10/07/15
I think this is credited. If I'm acting naturally and she bl...
lime stage
  10/07/15
If that usually worked for you, you wouldn't be here.
cyan deer antler
  10/07/15
TBF I've been pumping and dumping for a log time. when I pur...
lime stage
  10/07/15
Use your p&d strategy then. Just don't d her
cyan deer antler
  10/07/15
go to the beach
burgundy swashbuckling generalized bond kitty cat
  10/07/15
UPDATE: just texted her and she said that if she's not dead ...
lime stage
  10/07/15
Thinking of not responding until friday and hitting her with...
lime stage
  10/07/15
I am not a fan of open date suggestions like this so early o...
Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio
  10/07/15
...
carmine set ratface
  10/07/15
wtf donny
Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio
  10/07/15
JFC you are going to blow it! YEs fucking wait until Friday ...
Cerise pontificating french chef
  10/07/15
Second date bathroom anal. "Oh my god, I like, NEVER...
Charismatic Skinny Woman
  10/07/15
update?
Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio
  01/15/16


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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:02 AM
Author: lime stage

Really like this chick, we have a genuine connection etc. First date we did drinks and then went back to my place and had sex. I want to show her on our second date that I like her. I was thinking dinner at a trendy place, drinks at a trendy place, or maybe even doing a day date to the zoo or paddle boats to keep her interested. My biggest worry is losing her interest and not having this pan out. Any credited recs?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917545)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:05 AM
Author: Provocative Lilac Twinkling Uncleanness Church Building

Seems like transparent flame but I'll indulge. Don't date this whore that fucks on the first date. And don't ever spend money after sex. It's texting at 2am for Netflix time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917553)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:06 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

this. RAN here to post.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917563)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:18 AM
Author: lime stage

I have the same impression, but I didn't expect it to happen. We did just kind of hit it off and she said, I'm sorry I'm just really attracted to you. I realize fucking on the first date is not a good sign for GF material but shit, I like this chick.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917627)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:20 AM
Author: Provocative Lilac Twinkling Uncleanness Church Building

Well then it's unlikely she is going to dump you unless you performed poorly sexually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917639)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:26 AM
Author: lime stage

Na, she texted me the next day after first date, so Id like to believe she's a good girl who just wanted to make sure I liked her so she fucked me on first date. I guess it doesn't really matter what second date is like if this is true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917667)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:36 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

if you really do like her I wouldn't ask her out on a second date for 2 weeks. if you come on to strong she will be bored and think your a lamemo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917716)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:42 AM
Author: lime stage

This may be a good idea... But she may have just moved on at that point

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917743)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:43 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

no she will think you are despite if you are like "oh please meet me right away. I love you." you need to wait a minimum of 2 weeks. When she gets your call and invite she will be so shocked and impressed and fall head over heels.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917744)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:45 AM
Author: lime stage

You a girl or guy? She may already be head over heals

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917747)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:46 AM
Author: Arousing Emerald Yarmulke People Who Are Hurt

LJL. 2 weeks is forever. Just wait a couple of days and suggest something later in the week.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917755)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

not in the dating world. 2 weeks is like a spec on the sand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917764)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:51 AM
Author: Mauve comical bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917780)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

guy who literally dates multiple girls. If she is head over heals do not ruin it by being an overanxiousmo. You need to play the long game with here. 2 weeks. put the phone down and just wait.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917762)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:24 AM
Author: curious garrison potus

lol...yeah, just do wait 2 weeks with a girl who slept with you on the first date. she'll only be taking fathoms of D between now and then.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917988)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:26 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

dude you know how many dudes she said that. literally a girl that spreads on the first date is not worth a second.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917668)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:18 AM
Author: Nubile walnut son of senegal prole



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917938)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:22 AM
Author: mind-boggling mood whorehouse

LOL I'm sure you're the first guy she's said that to

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917974)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:32 AM
Author: cyan deer antler

Don't let her know you like her yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917691)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:35 AM
Author: Racy Associate

ATD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917705)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:39 AM
Author: Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio

Has she mentioned anything she's wanted to do during your first date? I would do something like that, shows you paid attention.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917731)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:47 AM
Author: cyan deer antler

Not this. Do something you enjoy. She has to win you over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917761)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:50 AM
Author: Frisky talented nursing home

"trumpdood" disputing a tip on women offered by "trumpette" welcome to xo

[I realize trumpette is doobs I believe the point is still illustrative]

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917774)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:56 AM
Author: cyan deer antler

(Guy who takes fishing advice from fish)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917806)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:58 AM
Author: Pearly Ticket Booth Affirmative Action

Right, listen to the girl on this one, even if she is pretend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917812)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 10:59 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

You need to wait 2 weeks bro. This is decent advice but if you do it too soon you will look stalkerish because of the time + attention to detail. Girls like it when you remember things about them but if you do this immediately you look like a stalkermo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917819)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:01 AM
Author: Gold stead clown

Ignore xo toxic flame. Your initial instincts in the op are correct here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917834)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:02 AM
Author: Pearly Ticket Booth Affirmative Action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917840)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:03 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

(dude who is single)

there is no flame. 2 weeks. call- ask on date. marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917846)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 1:46 PM
Author: Gold stead clown

Stop flaming the op

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918927)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:07 AM
Author: blathering spectacular police squad corner

Lol at even thinking of doing anything than "chilling" at one of your places after you've already smashed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28917877)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:40 AM
Author: lime stage

Even if I'm interested in GFing this girl?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918089)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:41 AM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

clearly you are not if you8 are calling here this soon and trying to go out with here in under 2 weeks. literally just don't even bother contacting her if you are going to be this lame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918101)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:42 AM
Author: blathering spectacular police squad corner

Yes. Being a beta bitch isn't going to help you accomplish that. Invite yourself to her place and fuck the shit out of her. She'll be begging to be your gf if you do it right

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918108)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:58 AM
Author: lime stage

Lol ok Donald trump

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918218)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 11:40 AM
Author: geriatric mustard mad cow disease

You're overthinking this little breh. If you actually like her, don't overanalyze it. Do what you feel like doing and if she's down that's great, if not move on. Doing what you think you "should" do wrt dating is not a recipe for success.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918090)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:23 PM
Author: lime stage

I think this is credited. If I'm acting naturally and she blows me off, whatever, I already fucked her anyway...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918363)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:27 PM
Author: cyan deer antler

If that usually worked for you, you wouldn't be here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918389)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:29 PM
Author: lime stage

TBF I've been pumping and dumping for a log time. when I pursue a girl for more thab that, I usually do well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918399)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:30 PM
Author: cyan deer antler

Use your p&d strategy then. Just don't d her

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918408)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:26 PM
Author: burgundy swashbuckling generalized bond kitty cat

go to the beach



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918386)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:31 PM
Author: lime stage

UPDATE: just texted her and she said that if she's not dead from this week at work we should do something this weekend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918417)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:34 PM
Author: lime stage

Thinking of not responding until friday and hitting her with a "sorry its been a Crazy week. since we both had long weeks why don't we have some wine and just chill at your/my place?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918448)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:13 PM
Author: Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio

I am not a fan of open date suggestions like this so early on. If you're the one initiating the date, it's on you to decide what you're doing - not give her alternatives. Also, just do dinner/drinks, please, near your place so that you have an option to chill afterwards. But don't go straight home just yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919190)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:13 PM
Author: carmine set ratface



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919198)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:15 PM
Author: Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio

wtf donny

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919219)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 2:15 PM
Author: Cerise pontificating french chef

JFC you are going to blow it! YEs fucking wait until Friday ya dweeb. Why don't you just ask to see her today jesus.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28919217)



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Date: October 7th, 2015 12:32 PM
Author: Charismatic Skinny Woman

Second date bathroom anal.

"Oh my god, I like, NEVER do this, teehee"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#28918432)



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Date: January 15th, 2016 3:55 PM
Author: Sienna contagious mental disorder digit ratio

update?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3010782&forum_id=2#29604250)