Is there a statute of limitations on cheating? (Like after x number of years has gone by, it doesn't matter / doesn't count?)

Also, is cheating while engaged better, worse than, or the same as cheating while married? Assuming the parties eventually get married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29221540)

I remain married because we have a child and a seemingly stress free marriage. We are still physically intimate, we never fight. We are just there, but kind of blah."

this is why it's imperative that the girl be absolutely head over heels crazy for you when you first get together. without that, it will never work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29221411)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#32280296)

Why do women pretend like "alpha fucks, beta bucks" is some misogynistic trope? It accurately describes 99% of relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29221476)

why do you cane so much about what other strangers do? I mean, I feel bad for other people who are hurt or mistreated (like the guy who's being cheated on) but aside from that I don't care what people do in hyper private lives as long as everyone's an adult and everyones willing. even if it's something I disapprove of, I just really don't give a fuck and I don't think it's my business. otoh a lot of xo posters seem to be...personally offended when they witness other people engaging in behavior they consider "distasteful"... Like swinging ITT or trannies or gay sex or weed smoking. I dunno can u just put me in the mindset so I can judge/be angry about how other people choose to live the lives.

tytytytytyththyyyghy :-D

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29224387)

you believe the teachings of your specific religion and feel that those who do not follow the rules will suffer eternal damnation. pathways pretty hard to ignore.

I completely get where you're coming from and am not talking about you. :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29224398)

http://econlog.econlib.org/archives/2012/02/my_two_favorite.html

The woman in the OP is a freak by UMC standards, and if she was publicly exposed she would be scorned in polite company at her place of business and in her neighborhood. OTOH, poors of whatever race don't like marriage and don't stay married, and there's good economic reasons for this trend in addition to the "values" argument about people not going to church and the lack of social shaming etc. They are rational actors, as are the UMC couples who stay bonded via their mortgages and 401k accounts. If your net worth as a couple is negligible and you aren't happy what reason is there to stay together? To model a shitty marriage for your kids? If you don't like the high divorce rates that have developed in the U.S. in the last few decades, blame Milton Friedman, Lewis Powell and all the other people in late 20th century America who thought more economic instability for the bottom two thirds of the country was a good idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29242379)

What the FUCK is a "DH"? Husband? Why the D? Jesus Christ I hate everything this morning.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29224794)

It's almost as if.... she's an attorney!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29224964)

Asking "how many times BIGGER is the new guy? Would you say 40-50 times?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29224976)

Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:

OP: Which would you rather fight? A horse sized duck? Or 20 duck size horses?

20 duck sized horses, keeps things interesting

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225057)

Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:

Do you do sexual acts with your boyfriend that you would never do with your husband?

I have tried anal sex with my boyfriend once, he's smaller so it was more tolerable. That's the only thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225030)

more?

weird REVERSE cucking

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225034)

CHAD ALERT:

Anonymous wrote:

If he left his wife for you, would you expect him to be faithful to you?

Yes, but I also know that's not guaranteed and some people ultimately do what they do. I think that I would be faithful to him though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225046)

Anonymous

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225075)

Anonymous

Lol women:

OP, you sound so much like me that it's almost scary. I'm also female, been married the same length of time, kid roughly the same age. I've cheated with 8 different APs, some short term and some several-year affairs. Sometimes multiple affairs at once.

I'm also a very sympathetic bleeding-heart liberal, but have a weird sociopathic, compartmentalizing thing going on with the affairs. I don't know what it is, but I totally get what you are saying.

I'm not sure I have any questions, just wanted to let you know that there are others of out here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225021)

Allow me to translate:

"I'm a bleeding heart liberal, but when it comes to actually living an ethical life and caring for other people, I don't actually give a shit and would gladly skin my husband alive if it made me look neat on Facebook."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225027)

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

Anonymous wrote:

Is there anything your husband can do to make himself more attractive to you?

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225086)

I just want to say I'm jealous

I want a caring AP that's good in bed and will keep all my secrets.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225105)

I'm a DH that have had/does have an AP. I thought I would be relieved if my wife cheated also. As it turns out, I now do suspect her for various reasons. She just returned from a 2 day absence. I haven't been able to locate one pair of her panties from the trip so that I could smell for semen mixed with her natural juices. I'm now feeling some jealousy. It's mixed with 30% relief and 70% jealousy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225198)

Finally!

The good part!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29244073)

Anonymous wrote:

If you've already answered, I apologize, please ignore because I haven't read all of the thread YET

How often do you normally have sex with your DH ?

How often do you normally give him (DH) oral sex ?

Do you swallow DH's semen, or only APs , or both ?

Love your thread, continue to be honest please ......... I think I'm also falling in love with you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225218)

2. To the PP, who used the word "skank," do you slut shame much? Go back to clutching your pearls. I thought in our enlightened, post-feminst age we were moving away from condemning women, or in fact anyone, for sexual behavior that has been viewed as traditionally outside the norm.

3. To those claiming the sexual behavior of parents, whether extramarital, premarital or otherwise, hurts children, the sexual lives of their parents of none of their business. Now, I am certain if we are teaching children that sex only occurs between Mommy and Daddy and then one parent cheats that might bring them to question the whole sex only in marriage project, but psychological damage? Why the hell would young children even know that Dad was balls deep in another woman or some other man other than Dad was balls deep in Mom? My DW cheated on me, and I never ever said a word to my children about it. I was not going to denigrate their mother in front them. They found out later as they got older, and they still love their Mom and me.

4. Monogamy is not necessarily a part of the marital contract. We like to think that it is, but it never really was. Men throughout the ages had wives also mistresses, concubines, etc. and it was tacitly accepted and acknowledged. Now, women have the same opportunity to as promiscuous as men thanks to the technology of birth control and the sexual revolution. OP needs to do what she needs to do to fulfill her needs and stay sane. I don't think anyone of us can judge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225234)

God damn this cult of the individual "NO ONE CAN JUDGE!!!!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225239)

I could have gone on with her cheating if she were not also highly financially irresponsible and verbally abusive.

Men will put up with a lot of sh*t from women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225268)

4. You have declared your consent before the Church. May the Lord in his goodness strengthen your consent and fill you both with his blessings. What God has joined, men must not divide.

4. To have and to hold from this day forward

4. I plight thee my troth

4. to be unto her a loving and faithful husband

4. and keep him, in sickness and in health; and, forsaking all other

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#32280288)

Anonymous wrote

No one has ever been to the same restaurant, coffee shop, hiking place, monument, walks in the park or seen them outside of her building ever, try to keep up PP. No one questions the half days and days off, much less her husband because she has 837733993 days off, it's very different on the west coast.

In fact she can simultaneously text and skype with this guy while engaging fully with her daughter and being a model wife for an hour or two, 4 days per week.

It's very special and you wouldn't understand.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29225355)

Why?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29510526)

hmm, I doubt it, He would have to become someone he's not. And that wouldn't be genuine

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3050123&forum_id=2#29510777)