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Fiancee wants to "travel around a while" after marriage
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:31 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen "Everyone else my age is traveling around" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002278) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:34 PM Author: curious aquamarine organic girlfriend SPS culture we have, brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002304) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:38 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Its all jealousy, she wouldn't even know about these places if it weren't for "social" media Sad |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:39 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship So if the interwebs didn't exist, she'd be even more ignorant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002358) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:42 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Lol!
Oh honey its ok you have no clue how to change a diaper or sew! You've had grappa in Croatia and I love you for that! |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:46 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship Diapers and sewing can be figured out on YouTube.
Croatia is 180. What do you have against taking a trip with her and letting her see some of the cool shit that you've already seen for herself? |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:47 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Ok lets role play, you are her and i'm me. We'll go anywhere you want you just can't post it to social media at all. Deal? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002428) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:52 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship No, because you're being a paternalistic asshole instead of the sweet prince I married and I can poast if I want to! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002456) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:53 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Love you babe lets never fight again (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002461) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:58 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship Honestly, what is the issue that you have with traveling with your girl? Most couples, especially childless ones, love to travel together and it can be 180 to show someone around to places you love. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002489) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:00 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen No issue with the actual travelling just don't want her to turn into a shallow person doing things to compete for status. And i don't want to be a childless couple. She is traditional and has a good family but an older sister is still single kinda shrewy but hot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002505) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:02 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship OK, I kinda suspect this is flame. She's in her EARLY TWENTIES. You have a long-ass time to shit out some beneficiaries. Two weeks beboppin' around South America isn't going to get in the way of that.
"just don't want her to turn into a shallow person doing things to compete for status"
Either she is, or she isn't. Travel won't change things one bit in that regard. And even people who don't travel will compete for status with respect to house, wedding, babby..... Do you really think a baby's first birthday party is for the kids?!?!
You can always try to temper this by staying in a solid 3-star and flying economy, or going to locations (like SE Asia) where you can do 180 things for cheap. |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:08 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen 100% not flame
I wanna have 6 kids too. And its never too early to start. Why wait and get autism pwned. My parents were almost done having kids at her age |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:11 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship Does she know that you want to have 6 kids? Is she on board with your plan of having her basically be pregnant for the entirety of her twenties and being a SAHM to an entire rugby team?
These are things that reasonable couples should discuss PRIOR TO marriage, one would think.
Even so, what's the problem with taking one year off, let her travel and be a somewhat normal early-20s girl, and then in one year start trying? You know, COMPROMISE. |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:30 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Yeah she is on board with all that actually was her idea. I think shes kinda jealous I'm going to Japan without her soon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002734) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:33 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship Then she needs to grow up. Big families need to be started early, you're 100% right.
With respect to comparisons with her friends, one thing I've learned is that after you graduate college, everyone kind of goes off in their own directions and people aren't on the same conveyor belt. She got married early. Another one of her friends will probably get married at 40. Some may never have kids. Some may die before they get married.
I also don't see the harm in her doing some traveling, even without you (you're going to Japan without her, she can travel without you) before you start working on the family.
Maybe even have some ultra-romantic trip to French Polynesia and knock her up. |
Date: March 7th, 2016 1:34 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship What was preventing her from doing this prior to marriage? And what do you have against traveling with her?
I assume she's just talking about spending a week or so in Europe or South America a few times a year (i.e. normal couple trips) and not taking 8 months off to travel around the world solo. |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:37 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen She has been to europe etc. shes basically jealous i worked abroad all over at her age (it was mostly SPS) and shes gonna be pregnant the next 10 years god willing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002330) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:39 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship What are your respective ages? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002353) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:41 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Shes early 20s I'm early 30s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002373) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:45 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship She's got the upper hand in this argument, bro.
This is the downside of marrying a younger wife, especially when the age split is early 20s/early 30s. She's going to be surrounded by unencumbered single people and she's going to want to do some of the shit that they do. You're not so old yourself, so what's the problem with accompanying her on some vacations? |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:46 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen I just want to live on my ranch churn out kids go skiing and fish and we can travel sure but there is nothing sexier than a good mom IMO (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002417) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:46 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship Then maybe you should have thought about this before marrying someone who was in her early 20s, i.e. an age where people are likely to want to do shit like travel.
You're in a completely different stage of life from her and compromises on both sides (yes, even yours) will have to be made. |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:53 PM Author: Adventurous hyperactive deer antler Big advocate of marrying young chicks, but this is CR. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002464) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:56 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship You need to find a young chick who has zero interest in doing things that typical young people like. I knew some girls that I was friends with at 21 who basically aged from 12 to 40 as soon as they graduated college. They were both prepubescent children and middle-aged women all rolled into one.
At 21 they were completely ready to be wives and mothers (and ONLY wives and mothers) and they had no interest in any of the life experiences that people typically have (and usually want to have) in their 20s and 30s. |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:34 PM Author: bronze incel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002306) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:35 PM Author: Rusted startled trailer park Will you hold down the fort until she comes back from her travels? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002313) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:42 PM Author: sapphire set (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002378) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:45 PM Author: soggy personal credit line Of course. Don't be a bigot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002414) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:40 PM Author: motley stock car weed whacker women never not turning traveling in to a competitive status arms race (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002365) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:42 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship Women turn everything Instagram-worthy into a status arms race. The way they do this with respect to weddings is about 10000000x more offensive than the way they do this with respect to travel. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002384) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:43 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Exactly. and ive been on trips abroad with women they complain 24/7, ny feet hurt, the food is gross, its hot, etc meanwhile posting pics about how happy they are (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002396) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:47 PM Author: motley stock car weed whacker Hillary 2016! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002421) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:49 PM Author: Ungodly comical tanning salon dingle berry So many women hate walking. I can't get someone who likes to travel but not walk. How the fuck do you really see a city if you don't walk all over? You just sit in your hotel the whole time? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002443) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:51 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen Yeah its. Bizarre their feet get destroyed after 1 summer day. Fragile little things. And now they can serve in combat LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002455) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:52 PM Author: sapphire set tbf, the ones serving in combat are butch lesbians so it's not a fair comparison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002459) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:54 PM Author: magical home jfc this is fucking true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002472) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:58 PM Author: motley stock car weed whacker CR, I walk 10-15 miles a day on vacation and I take a mid-afternoon nap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002491) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:08 PM Author: Crawly Cruise Ship This I agree with. Most European (and many other non-US) cities are made for walking, and it's a great way to see a city.
Not to troll for MFH shrews here, but girls who live in driving cities may not be used to walking. MFH types won't care about walking around a city as much. |
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Date: June 28th, 2016 3:27 AM Author: Excitant trump supporter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30807510) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:45 PM Author: Floppy station What's his (your fiancé) name? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002407) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:57 PM Author: Wonderful Fear-inspiring Dopamine OP is flaming but lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002485) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 1:58 PM Author: racy ocher cuck kitchen ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002492) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:05 PM Author: Flickering vibrant ladyboy point LOL'ing at women "traveling" is TCR. Last summer I was with this terrible LA girl in Rome for a few days. She'd never been before. Did she want to see the sights or explore at all? No, she went to the Hotel De Russie to drink bellinis and get a massage. LJL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002538) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 2:05 PM Author: Boyish heaven isnt OP johnsmeyer? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30002543) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 6:36 PM Author: glassy big crackhouse international law enforcement agency Yes why enjoy yourselves. You should go straight back to work like a good capitalist drone and maybe when you are 65 you can take off some time to travel. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30004450) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 6:39 PM Author: salmon abode Was going to side with OP but after reading responses it sounds like GF might just be bored of droning on. Take her out on vacation- how long could it be? If it's something unreasonable like a year I can see why you would be a cheapskate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30004470) |
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Date: March 7th, 2016 6:40 PM Author: Honey-headed casino cr minus the "everyone else" part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30004481) |
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Date: June 28th, 2016 3:24 AM Author: Stimulating filthpig step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30807502) |
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Date: June 28th, 2016 3:26 AM Author: heady citrine brethren Twist: without you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30807505) |
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Date: June 28th, 2016 3:27 AM Author: Excitant trump supporter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3156255&forum_id=2#30807508) |