A Primer on Cuckoldry (tree man)
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Date: June 6th, 2016 2:00 PM Author: racy spot new version Subject: FIRST IN A SERIES
To those uninitiated into the mystery, cuckoldry can inspire fear, ridicule, and revulsion. The logic of patriarchy has overtaken so much of the psychosocial apparatus that many cannot even perceive its contradictions. Yet in spite of its pervasive presence, patriarchy is ultimately powerless against the forces of liberty, love, and critical intelligence. It takes multiple acts of will and love and passion and commitment to stand against the brutal capitalist propaganda that objectifies our most intimate relations with all the woeful consequences this implies: exclusion, transaction, conversion, utility, abuse, desecration, subjugation, slavery, and finally death. Coitus in the patriarchal mode can only be a species of necrophilia, for it requires that we treat human beings (specifically, women and those forcibly "feminized" into the subaltern role, i.e., those lacking white cis-male heteronormative privilege) as corpses.
To renounce this privilege thoroughly takes courage. And courage begins, as we learn from Judith Butler, with a performance of courage, that is to say, with transcendent love (as distinguished from possessive love). I will explain this more in the upcoming series. But it's important first to understand that cuckoldry requires that you be right with yourself and that you be right with other human beings, especially those with whom you perform intimate relations. Because power relations have a twisted way of turning back on incomplete intentions. Watch. Out. For. This.
This means recognizing yourself as historical and contingent being. Until you take stock of your position, the vectors of oppression and privilege that scar all of us, you won't take cuckoldry seriously. It will remain a joke, a punch line, that uncomfortable fear by which patriarchy seeks to harness you to its anti-human logic. Until you are willing to understand cuckoldry as a fundamental revolution at the most fundamental level of our common capacity for identity, and recognize this revolution as necessary for the broader project of rectifying all the fucked-up bonds that constrict human beings, a strike at every seat of oppression from the gas chambers of Auschwitz to the toilets of North Carolina, until you are willing to situate you and your partner within that historical flux and embrace your being not as a fixed platonic essence nor as a camusian creation of pure mind or spirit but as a deep embedding in the this-ness of the fragile fucked-up structure that monogamous dead white men birthed from the literal oppression of other human beings that actually shared your DNA, you won't get it. Father will forgive you, because you won't know what you're doing, your resistance will only enable and reify the oppressive structure until you give up on cuckoldry and return to the pathetic little world of creepy monogamous jealousy.
Next time, I'll talk about broaching this explosive subject with your partner and recognizing the tell-tale signs that your partner is ready to cuckold you. Stay tuned!
Homework: Take stock of your privilege.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3245051&forum_id=2#30636708) |
Date: July 16th, 2016 6:43 AM Author: titillating turquoise round eye hospital
'Until you are willing to understand cuckoldry as a fundamental revolution at the most fundamental level of our common capacity for identity, and recognize this revolution as necessary for the broader project of rectifying all the fucked-up bonds that constrict human beings, a strike at every seat of oppression from the gas chambers of Auschwitz to the toilets of North Carolina, until you are willing to situate you and your partner within that historical flux and embrace your being not as a fixed platonic essence nor as a camusian creation of pure mind or spirit but as a deep embedding in the this-ness of the fragile fucked-up structure that monogamous dead white men birthed from the literal oppression of other human beings that actually shared your DNA, you won't get it. '
Fuck this is hard to decipher.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3245051&forum_id=2#30943046) |
Date: August 9th, 2016 12:11 PM Author: Shivering Parlor
To be fair,
"FIRST IN A SERIES" is a pretty fitting title
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3245051&forum_id=2#31143059) |
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