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My brother asked if he and his wife and daughter could move in for 4-6 months.
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:31 AM Author: 180 boltzmann I said no. Am I wrong for this? His wife was laid off and they're trying to save money. But I told him they should get a cheap 1 bed room or move in with our parents. He doesn't want to move with parents because they live in a rural area.
Whole family is pissed at me. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:49 AM Author: floppy locus BEEP BEEP BEEP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058910) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:50 AM Author: pink big gay wizard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059060) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:15 AM Author: hyperventilating athletic conference (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059224) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:25 AM Author: diverse state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059288) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:46 AM Author: exhilarant lemon party of the first part (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059452) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:49 AM Author: Bateful brunch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059482) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:58 AM Author: Startling Amethyst Ratface (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059560) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:04 PM Author: Citrine cheese-eating halford (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061035) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:34 PM Author: fantasy-prone factory reset button step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061833) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:30 PM Author: brindle adventurous range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31064466) |
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Date: July 30th, 2016 2:46 AM Author: Contagious scarlet boistinker deer antler (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31066574) |
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Date: July 30th, 2016 4:34 AM Author: Ocher Yarmulke (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31066721) |
Date: July 29th, 2016 12:32 AM Author: ruddy aggressive quadroon that's your brother and his family dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058109) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:33 AM Author: Shimmering mildly autistic resort i would let my bro do this so long as he didn't start using it as a crutch. but everyone does eventually. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058113) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:33 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Yeah but why should be live with me out of convenience? He has the money to get a small apartment or he can move back home. Why must I let him disrupt my home life. I also have a wife and kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058116) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:34 AM Author: ruddy aggressive quadroon if he's asking, he needs to (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058121) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:36 AM Author: 180 boltzmann I kinda agree he's probably not telling me the extent of the necessity of the move, but why can't he move home? It would be 0 disruption to our retired parents and they'd probably enjoy it. He doesn't want to because his wife wants to live in a city. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058129) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:36 AM Author: ruddy aggressive quadroon that's a little different, i guess. how would it change his commute (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058131) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:38 AM Author: 180 boltzmann He's retired military. Plus, they're literally moving from another state to our home state, so their situation is changing regardless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058143) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:39 AM Author: Motley coral internal respiration His commute inconvenience isn't shit compared to the inconvenience of his brother taking him in. Brother sounds ridiculous. Oh his wife WANTS to live in the city for free? well gee (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058157) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:12 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Thanks man. At least one person sees it like I do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058381) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:37 AM Author: fragrant kink-friendly meetinghouse people who are hurt what's zher reasoning for wanting to live in a city (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058137) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:39 AM Author: 180 boltzmann She's a shrew with a marketing degree he met in DC. That should explain it all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058151) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:40 AM Author: fragrant kink-friendly meetinghouse people who are hurt tell him he and the daughter can come but not the wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058166) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:33 AM Author: fragrant kink-friendly meetinghouse people who are hurt how old/hot is his daughter? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058119) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:34 AM Author: 180 boltzmann She's 10 and adorable you asshole. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058123) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:36 AM Author: fragrant kink-friendly meetinghouse people who are hurt so you're really going to tell an adorable 10-year-old NO? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058130) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:37 AM Author: 180 boltzmann No, I told her father and her cunt mother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058135) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 3:49 AM Author: metal striped hyena parlour But how old is she? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058679) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:19 AM Author: Peach vibrant tanning salon (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059261) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:46 PM Author: Onyx Incel Heaven (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061930) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:50 AM Author: exhilarant lemon party of the first part how big are the tits? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058912) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:34 AM Author: Irradiated green lay Back during the recession, I was talking to a dude who was trying to sell his business. His wife, his son, his daughter, and their spouses had all lost their jobs. Bro had like 10 people living at his house. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058120) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:37 AM Author: Garnet police squad 180 dude (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058138) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:39 AM Author: Shimmering mildly autistic resort He sounds old-school. That's how people used to do it, a big extended family in one house. I hope you're doing well by the way. I just let my wife know that we are going to be moving into a camper pretty soon. If anyone ever needed to stay, including friends, they would be welcome. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:40 AM Author: Garnet police squad Lol why into a camper? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058161) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:41 AM Author: Shimmering mildly autistic resort beggars can't be choosers man, i already told you it's free (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058171) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:42 AM Author: Garnet police squad You're unemployed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058179) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:46 AM Author: Shimmering mildly autistic resort I was just making a joke, pretending you were asking to move in with me. No, i'm employed. But I'm all over the country, man. I may be making a HUGE cross-country move in 2 weeks that I will let the bort know about |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:23 AM Author: Underhanded Razzle Potus Box Office 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058965) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:38 AM Author: Cobalt electric turdskin lol, so he's basically just asking you for 10,000 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058140) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:40 AM Author: 180 boltzmann I actually told him that. I'd rather front you some money if you need it. He said they didn't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058159) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:40 AM Author: Cobalt electric turdskin yeah, because then he'd feel like he has to pay you back (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058162) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:42 AM Author: 180 boltzmann He offered to pay rent for the room. So he's not completely broke. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058173) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 10:00 AM Author: Startling Amethyst Ratface something is going on with him. he needs your help with something that he can't quite talk about yet, and you're being a pretty unsupportive bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059578) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 4:33 PM Author: carnelian space karate This (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062744) |
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Date: July 30th, 2016 4:28 AM Author: chocolate market gaming laptop harsh but fair. this is what it all comes down to. global capitalism. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31066717) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:38 AM Author: Garnet police squad How big is your house? You kind of sound like a cunt...just make him pay you some rent bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058142) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:40 AM Author: 180 boltzmann 4500 sqf. How am I a cunt for not wanting an entire family to move into my house out of mere convenience. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058165) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:42 AM Author: Garnet police squad Ljl you can easily house them
Just charge him rent |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:43 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Whether I can or can't isn't the issue. Why should I just because he WANTS to, not NEEDS to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058184) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:46 AM Author: arousing anal sandwich friendly grandma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058196) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:48 AM Author: 180 boltzmann If he NEEDS to, he needs to tell me that. I told him as much. I said, obviously, if it's here or the street, you're always welcome here, but don't come telling me you want to do it as a matter of convenience. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058211) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:55 AM Author: arousing anal sandwich friendly grandma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058256) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:47 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line maybe he has pride and doesn't want to grovel in front of you?
why make him beg and tell you just how poor he really is |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:46 AM Author: Multi-colored abusive stage Did you guys not get along growing up? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058198) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:52 AM Author: exhilarant lemon party of the first part titcq (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058916) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:46 AM Author: confused aphrodisiac private investor He's your fucking brother, he's asking for help (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058199) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:48 AM Author: 180 boltzmann No. We have a great relationship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058216) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 3:29 PM Author: hairraiser unholy theater stage it really doesn't sound like it man, but even if you do, you aren't going to have one for long unless you change your answer (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062274) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:47 AM Author: Garnet police squad His wife prob can't find a jerb in rural area bro... Just charge him some rent and make him pay for his food |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:49 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Got damnit. I was sure XO would support me in this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058218) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:50 AM Author: Garnet police squad Depends on the market but I think finding a marketing job in rural area is hard....
Just charge him like 1500 a month rent ljl...make some cash |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:52 AM Author: 180 boltzmann She actually had an interview at a state agency in a town over from our town. She REFUSED to go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058235) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:51 AM Author: Multi-colored abusive stage 4-6 months ain't long. Sometimes people just need a little boost to get them in the right direction. You don't want to be older regretting not having taken your brother in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058233) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:52 AM Author: Garnet police squad Aka when you need a bone marrow donor and your bro is the only match ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058239) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:48 AM Author: Nudist Associate Native Seriously (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058909) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:53 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Got damn motherfucker. I thought I was 100% in the right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058242) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:54 AM Author: Garnet police squad His wife sounds high maintenance but you sound like a dick
Also you can make some rent money off this |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:00 AM Author: Multi-colored abusive stage Don't be mad at yourself. You're allowed to reconsider your decision. Unforseen good can come out of it. You and your bro can bond now strengthen the bond between you two. The kid could be fun to have around.
As someone who was taken under the wing of friends and family during hard times, I can say that a little help can go a long way and change someone's life for the better. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:59 AM Author: fiercely-loyal razzmatazz preventive strike knife You're a good dood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058531) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:00 AM Author: fragrant kink-friendly meetinghouse people who are hurt 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058534) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 3:30 PM Author: hairraiser unholy theater stage this also op is an asshole not thinking about how 180 his own kid is going to find it having a cousin living with him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062280) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:55 AM Author: concupiscible juggernaut stage LOL your house is huge. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058263) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:00 AM Author: 180 boltzmann It's fucking TTTexas. It's just a standard suburban house. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058307) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:24 AM Author: Underhanded Razzle Potus Box Office *flaps arms*
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:02 AM Author: Laughsome volcanic crater site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058315) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:49 PM Author: Adulterous whorehouse lol, 4500 sq ft? jfc. you could probably comfortably house 3 families in that. i agree that it will inevitably be used as a crutch though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061389) |
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Date: July 30th, 2016 1:57 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31066491) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:39 AM Author: cerise maniacal tank I wouldn't like it but I'd probably do it just to keep the peace in the family. Shit like this can cause animosity that lasts for decades. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058148) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:39 AM Author: Garnet police squad Also if OP ever needs help...good luck asking his bro ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058158) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:45 AM Author: 180 boltzmann I'm not refusing to help. I'm just refusing to help in the way he's requested. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058189) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:41 AM Author: confused aphrodisiac private investor wait, he's retired military? What's his job situation? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058168) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:42 AM Author: 180 boltzmann He's in "school". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058177) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:45 AM Author: confused aphrodisiac private investor let me guess, online for-profit school offering a B.A. in information systems or some shit like that? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058187) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:45 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Yes. He gets like 3200 a month plus all the other free shit vets get so he's just chillin. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058194) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:48 AM Author: Garnet police squad And he cant find a place with 3200 a month? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058214) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:50 AM Author: 180 boltzmann I fucking pulled up places starting at like 600/month within a mile of my house and showed them to him. Of course he can find a place. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058222) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:51 AM Author: Garnet police squad I'd just charge him like 1000 to 1500 a month. Unless you're rolling in dough you can make money off this too (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058227) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:37 AM Author: Submissive red center lettuce I'm with you on this one bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059006) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:45 AM Author: Multi-colored abusive stage "What are families for anyway, hehe." -Global Capitalism (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058190) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:46 AM Author: Garnet police squad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058197) |
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Date: July 31st, 2016 4:36 PM Author: navy slap-happy telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31075109) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:52 AM Author: aromatic library When you're old and alone perhaps your niece will care for you if you took them in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058236) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:59 AM Author: 180 boltzmann XO has disappointed me. I thought the only logical decision was to say fuck off, you're not living with me out of convenience. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058296) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 12:59 AM Author: grizzly stirring hairy legs cuck Do it but be careful. You don't want to be the crazy uncle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058298) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:05 AM Author: comical rough-skinned property generalized bond I'd let my brother stay with me in a heartbeat if he asked. My sister-in-law is a total cunt, though, and she's not welcome in my house under any circumstances, so I'd have to say no.
What you could do if you want to help is offer to pay his rent for 6 months (assuming he can rent something that's not government housing given his situation). Don't just write him a check for $10k up front, but pay the rent. That way, it will seem less like mooching to him.
You mentioned above that his wife is a cunt, so don't let her move in. Set some boundaries and stick with it. Letting her move in could do more long-term damage than not. I'm with you on this. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:07 AM Author: 180 boltzmann Thanks man. This is my thinking exactly. I think I'll offer him like $750/month toward rent tomorrow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058352) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:52 AM Author: diverse state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059068) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:56 AM Author: Shivering Vivacious Indian Lodge Ceo Lol at acting like this is any different. You're welcome here but the person you love and are committed to spending your life with isn't! What kind of family dood puts those kinds of limitations on his own brother and makes him choose between his own wife and family? Seems like shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059540) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:57 AM Author: 180 boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059545) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 10:02 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line I don't think he's saying he'd make the guy make a choice, he's saying he'd have to decline period. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059600) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:37 PM Author: comical rough-skinned property generalized bond Correct, and I would offer him cash for rent for 6 months. If he were single (or married to nearly any other woman, or man for that matter), he'd be welcome.
My hatred for this woman is off the charts. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:06 AM Author: Bipolar provocative address Scumbag move. $3200 is jack shit in terms of money these days. Murikans can be such dickheads when it comes to family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058340) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:08 AM Author: 180 boltzmann There's literally decent places starting at 600/month right by my house. That's plenty with that money. Plus, he can get a fucking part time job and boast that to 4000/month. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058364) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:20 AM Author: Bipolar provocative address Here's a suggestion so you don't look like such a cunt. Set the parameters now and then there is no awkwardness later. End. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058415) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:26 AM Author: Underhanded Razzle Potus Box Office 3 GRAND IS NO JOKE, HOMEBOI (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058972) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:39 AM Author: Citrine cheese-eating halford Let him stay with you, faggot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058882) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:46 AM Author: Soul-stirring forum therapy Let him stay, but wife and kid have to call you daddy while they live there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058907) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:40 AM Author: mahogany awkward toaster antidepressant drug (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059021) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:55 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059084) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:54 PM Author: Soul-stirring forum therapy Brother should also have to call OP daddy, now that I've had time to reflect.
They should have to perform some song and dance routine praising his generosity weekly, too.
They need to keep the house stocked with fresh fruit
Finally, they must wear burlap in the house. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:42 PM Author: supple degenerate mad-dog skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061897) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:48 PM Author: Beady-eyed out-of-control den (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061939) |
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Date: July 30th, 2016 2:20 AM Author: twisted hospital wagecucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31066539) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:53 PM Author: Adulterous whorehouse lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061438) |
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Date: July 30th, 2016 2:49 AM Author: Laughsome volcanic crater site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31066581) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:49 AM Author: Shaky Charismatic Marketing Idea ljl at amerikkka.. in almost every other non-cumskin country on earth this isnt a big deal and even in many cumskin countries it wldnt matter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058911) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:54 AM Author: pink big gay wizard I usually want to piss on your face, but you're right in this post. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059074) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:08 AM Author: mahogany awkward toaster antidepressant drug Lol tell us more about your strong familial ties brother. Or should I call in PN (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059157) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:59 PM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062038) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 7:54 AM Author: Nudist Associate Native If you have a good relationship with him and he's treated you well you really should help him.
Just tell him straight up that you want to help him but you'd prefer to not have people move in with you. Offer to help pay his rent (or partially pay his rent) for 6 months as a gift, not a loan. Then you can set a $$ amount and make it very clear as to when the assistance will be ending. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:00 AM Author: exciting lavender crotch Tell him to fuck off. He should be moving in with your parents if it's viable first not you. I say this as someone who has broke ass family living in my kids room while my kid sleeps in my closet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31058926) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:38 AM Author: mahogany awkward toaster antidepressant drug Fuck this shit. What a ridiculous imposition for you just so he can save some money wtf. He can go live with all of your offended family members (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059011) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:38 AM Author: Cerebral corn cake Pics of daughter? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059013) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:47 AM Author: Boyish frozen mexican You're 100% in the wrong. Living with the parents in some isolated area without jobs isn't an option if they want any real chance of improving their lives. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059054) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:52 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059063) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:54 AM Author: pink big gay wizard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059081) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:52 AM Author: pink big gay wizard Goddamn. You are a fucking NIGGER. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059062) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:15 AM Author: Talented Canary Prole Fat Ankles This is the only credited post. What a piece of shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059227) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:24 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line niggers always have room for the fam!
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:53 AM Author: Appetizing Henna Giraffe You come across pretty selfish to me. Your reasons for not taking him in seem to come down to, 'well it's inconvenient.' Well sure, but is that an excuse to leave your brother in the lurch? Do you care about his family's well being? Are you Patrick Bateman? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059072) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:00 AM Author: tan passionate national nowag In what universe was OP's answer not an automatic "yes?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059100) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:01 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line you don't seem to like your brother very much
people who like their siblings don't say things like "he needs to TELL me he's broke and has nowhere else to go." you'd want your brother to keep his pride and would understand why he doesn't want to beg and grovel and air all his dir laundry
also you wouldn't be so concerned with it being a convenience vs. a necessity. you would want your brother to be happy, not just to survive. esp since you have a huge house and could easily accommodate them. you wouldn't be like one of these Guatemalan families we have in NYC living twelve people to a room or whatever
I think you are leaving out something about your relationship w him... really doesn't seem "great" to me |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:01 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur They will stay at least 7 months, HTH. If you guys had a good relationship he'd completely open up with you and let you know the real deal. Favors like this don't need a filter, there is no more pride when you have to ask your if you can move in with your brother (and your annoying wife) to move in for FOUR TO SIX months.
Im usually on the side that XO is weak on family values, but it seems like your brother (military, supposed to be alpha) is not being up front enough here. We need more information. Based on what I see, I like the option where you help pay for their rent for 6 months. Being short on money shouldn't be that embarrassing anymore, its 2016 and GC makes it tough. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:05 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059143) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:06 AM Author: tan passionate national nowag 3am sounds a little dramatic. Were they evicted? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059149) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:08 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059156) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:14 AM Author: tan passionate national nowag Are they on drugs? Did they have all their shit with them in their car? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059209) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:14 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur cr why not spend one night at the Days Inn then show up at the door at a reasonable time? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059218) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:27 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059305) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:58 PM Author: Adulterous whorehouse in the age of cell phones, they couldn't call ahead? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061478) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:31 PM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31064471) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:34 PM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain It was was pretty abnormal not to have a cell phone in 2008 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31064495) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:38 PM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31064533) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:29 AM Author: diverse state (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059313) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:05 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line the brother is obviously not being upfront about how desperate his situation is
look at it this way - it's obv to me from 100 posts that the OP isn't a particularly warm, giving, altruistic person. after 20-30 years of growing up with this guy, the brother surely knows this as well. yet he's turned to him for help. he obv has nowhere else to turn and is doing this as a last resort.
is it really necessary to force him to come out and say just how broke they really are?
I agree that these brothers don't have a good, close relationship |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:09 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur Is it really that scary/embarrassing to tell your brother that you're broke these days?
"Steve, Marla and I are very low on money, you know how tough it is these days, and I need to build up some savings again so we can to move into a place that suits her shrew tastes. Can we arrange something?" |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:15 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line he's said that already
the OP apparently wants him to say "OK Steve the gig is up. My bank account is empty and we're 50K in credit card debit. I can't afford those $600 places you're showing me! We can't move in with mom and dad because both of us need to find jobs ASAP. You're our last hope, I don't want to see my kid living in a homeless shelter." |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:17 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur Actually the last three sentences would make me feel a lot better about taking him in, instead of ignoring the elephant in the room for 8 months.
Sounds like the wife is waiting to find her dream job while inconveniencing the whole family. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:23 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line what's the elephant in the room?
like, the op doesn't seem like the most... understanding of people. he's clearly typical xo, right down to making fun of the school the guy's trying to attend. maybe he just fears his judgment, or maybe he's a proud person who doesn't want to admit he can't support his kid. it's less of an ego blow to pose it as an issue of convenience - "well, Marla likes the city you know.." |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:26 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur Marla sounds like a piece of shit, control your wife. God forbid she takes a job in suburbia for 6months on a 6month lease. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059293) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:48 AM Author: 180 boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059471) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:47 AM Author: 180 boltzmann CR. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059463) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:01 AM Author: Yellow Disgusting Rigor Cumskin You're fine op--your bro has a lot of nerve to even ask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059120) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:19 AM Author: Umber Cruel-hearted Public Bath hehe... just have him sign a lease over here... hehe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059259) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:30 AM Author: Peach vibrant tanning salon Sounds like you have a huge house. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059326) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 4:27 PM Author: hairraiser unholy theater stage lol read this as "sounds like you have a huge NOSE," realized my mistake, then realized it was an oddly prescient mistake (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062710) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:33 AM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain Your brother is a dick for asking given his many other options and the fact that it seems as though he is a good for nothing layabout. You are also a kind of dick for not taking him in but that's pretty much mitigated by offering to get him a place of his own on your dime. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059347) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:34 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur cr, he is military so it is very possible that he may be layaboutish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059353) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:47 AM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain ljl, he's "retired" and living on vet benefits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059465) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:56 AM Author: 180 boltzmann He actually is retired. Did 20 years. 9 deployments. He's a legit hero. But I still don't want him in my house for 6 fucking months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059541) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 10:03 AM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain I assumed he did 20 years based on his pension amount. I come from a military family. Most military dudes get other jobs when they are done because because retiring on 3 grand a month in your late 30s or early 40s when you have a family to support is a 120 move. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059613) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:36 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line I don't think many people would let someone else pay their rent
moving in with some seems different bc it's not as though you're really costing that person anything (unless they were going to rent out the room you're living in, and it sounds like the OP wasn't) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:39 AM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur "Steve, I'd be a lot happier with it if we could just put you guys up in a place. I'm glad to pay, I insist. I INSIST." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059398) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:45 AM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain Sure, but it does mitigate how big of an asshole OP is. If brother truly needed it, he'd take take it.
The brother still has options beyond that as well. He is a) not broke and could afford an apartment and b) could live with parents. Some are saying the parents live in BFE but I haven't seen OP say that. His brother also doesn't work and doesn't seem to be looking. Letting someone like that move in seems like a terrible idea as he may never leave. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:49 AM Author: 180 boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059485) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:48 AM Author: Titillating chad I would house my sibling's family stay for a few weeks but six months is unreasonable if you have a wife and kids of your own to look after. I would tell him you're welcome to stay for a month but as soon as you arrive you have to start looking for more permanent lodgings around town. Otherwise you're inviting him to take advantage of the situation if he's just trying to save $$ rather than being truly homeless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059475) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:54 PM Author: 180 boltzmann I'm going to offer to pay rent for 6 months as option 1. And your recommendation as option 2. 1 month really is long enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061989) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:55 AM Author: 180 boltzmann OP here. Here is what I left out.
1) The guy is not my real brother, he's a cousin who came to live with my family at age 10. I was 8 at the time. I consider him a brother and we have a good relationship.
2) My sister, who just graduated college last year, just moved out of my house in May after staying for a year. This is why I know 3 fucking extra people will suck balls times 1000.
3) I really hate the wife. Like really, really, really, hate her. She's a certified bitch. She cheated on my brother when he was deployed and like a cuck, he stayed with her. I can't stand to be in her presence.
4) The daughter is adorable but bad as shit. I really don't want my son around her for extended periods of time.
5) They're fucking working class as shit and will stick out like a sore thumb in my UMC neighborhood. Like he literally backed his truck up on front lawn the last time he was here to get closer to the front door. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:58 AM Author: unhinged chapel personal credit line if #3 is true it's the first thing you should have mentioned
I agree they shouldn't stay with you if you guys really hate each other |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 11:26 AM Author: Nudist Associate Native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31060264) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:59 AM Author: Shivering Vivacious Indian Lodge Ceo I'm with you bro. These people sound like total losers (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059569) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 10:00 AM Author: maroon histrionic pit windowlicker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059576) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:37 PM Author: chestnut senate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061865) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:59 PM Author: 180 boltzmann CR. You got me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062037) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 10:07 AM Author: Black affirmative action asides from the cheating, anything else? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31059636) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:09 PM Author: Citrine cheese-eating halford you were making the wife out to be like a typical DC shrew but really she seems like a white trash military wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061089) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:56 PM Author: 180 boltzmann She's a weird mix of both. She's kinda like Hillary Clinton. Can't you see Hillary being both white trash and shrewry? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062007) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:06 PM Author: Adulterous whorehouse fuck that bitch of a wife. i wouldn't stand to be in her presence either if that were the case. all the other points you mentioned shouldn't stop you from helping him. 3 is tough though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061548) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 4:32 PM Author: hairraiser unholy theater stage WTF is up with y'all? If bro forgave, rest of family should. The real problem is #4. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062739) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 4:45 PM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain (Woman) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062813) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:58 AM Author: cracking stag film Lol @ xo on this one
Your bro isn't moving in for a few months and then leaving. He has a permanent issue. That's why he doesn't want to take your money because he knows he will need more. Once he's moved it it will be impossible to get them out. If that is OK with you, fine, but lol @ xo thinking you are selfish for not wanting your brothers family in your house on a semi permanent basis.
Keep offering to pay for his rent if you are feeling charitable |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 11:24 AM Author: 180 boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31060249) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:39 PM Author: Flushed thirsty hall Is there a sign on the front of your house that says, "Deadbeat nigger storage"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061302) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 1:43 PM Author: Bright swashbuckling digit ratio why would you not do this for a few months? Charge a little to help out w gorceries and utilities--4500 square feet is a mansion--you'll get built in daycare w them around, kid will have new playmates--sounds 180. why not do this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061332) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:34 PM Author: Ruby Excitant Stain (Spaceporn living out Incestual cuck fantasies and cock shaming) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061827) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:49 PM Author: Curious newt casino My unemployed brother has been living with me for 10 months now, I wouldn't even THINK of asking him to leave or even chip in for food. Kill yourself OP (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31061953) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:57 PM Author: 180 boltzmann How can a grown man be unemployed for 10 months. Like what world is this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062017) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 3:19 PM Author: Curious newt casino he needs to hit rock bottom before he starts applying for the only shitjobs that will hire him. i hate listening to his stories about his BIG PLANS, but don't have the heart to tell him he needs to shrink his horizons and take a job that pays half what his last one did. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062205) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:53 PM Author: Onyx Incel Heaven I love my brother, I can't imagine ever asking to live with him for free for months with my own wife. I can't imagine he would ask for that either.
A month is fine for transition, but 6 months is more - "till we get back on our feet" which means FOREVER.
His scumbag brother needs to be honest about the situation and the type of help he needs.
also the OP is flame after his cuck update. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 2:58 PM Author: 180 boltzmann 100% not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31062027) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 3:03 PM Author: Motley coral internal respiration the "4-6 months" thing is a YUGE problem.
if he were single and literally deploying in exactly 19 weeks and didnt want to find a new place to stay that would be one thing.
but "uhh me and my wife are poor can we, like, crash for a while" means you cant get rid of him. once hes there you wont kick him out at 6 months and 1 day. |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 8:37 PM Author: Dashing Cruise Ship Voyeur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31064521) |
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Date: July 29th, 2016 9:44 PM Author: 180 boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31065002) |
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Date: July 31st, 2016 4:38 PM Author: navy slap-happy telephone What did he do in military? Enlisted? Officer? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3305534&forum_id=2#31075118) |