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Can my wife and I have the same lawyer for our divorce?

My wife's lawyer said I should get my own lawyer, but I'm no...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
You 100% need to have another lawyer review the agreement. ...
purple tank
  08/26/16
Does this review cost a lot of money? How bad could it get?...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
1. I usually charge 200-500 for the work. 2. Visitati...
purple tank
  08/26/16
Do you take installment plans?
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
Sure. Meet me on Monday at AC's on King Street and buy me r...
purple tank
  08/26/16
This is flame, right? Edit: nm
trip dun national queen of the night
  08/26/16
Why are you getting divorced? Seems like you two had a prett...
Histrionic pocket flask mediation
  08/26/16
My wife asked for a divorce. Even though I begged and plead...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
what will happen to the kid? does she only want its "re...
Mint garrison
  08/26/16
Yes, apparently the biological sperm donor has now expressed...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
Lol @ some guy doing this. His whole social circle would tur...
awkward locus
  08/26/16
My social circle is very progressive. They fully support he...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
I call flame unless your leaving out some big stuff.
awkward locus
  08/26/16
I am leaving lots of things out, mostly to make myself look ...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
...
Histrionic pocket flask mediation
  08/27/16
Your flames are always the most 180. I admire you as a post...
purple tank
  08/26/16
I don't know, they seem pretty obvious.
trip dun national queen of the night
  08/26/16
Look at the all the bites. It's like an expert fisherman, k...
purple tank
  08/26/16
How big is his cock?
Bull headed internet-worthy lodge
  08/26/16
Much bigger than mine, I imagine. He speaks with a booming ...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
If you're contesting anything you need a lawyer.
Greedy ladyboy antidepressant drug
  08/26/16
Why? I'm a reasonable person and can be persuaded by facts ...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
Facts and logic. That sounds like divorce.
Greedy ladyboy antidepressant drug
  08/26/16
Did you consider using a mediator instead?
Costumed menage
  08/26/16
Is this cheaper? I don't want to skimp on my wife's needs, ...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
Get a mediated divorce and then you should each get an attor...
Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook
  08/26/16
What is the difference between media divorce and regular div...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
A lawyer (mediator) draws up an agreement that is fair to bo...
Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook
  08/26/16
I will talk to my wife about this. Can she still have her o...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
Why are you wasting my time with flame, you fucking motherfu...
Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook
  08/26/16
Have you considered seeing a therapist for rage issues? Not...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
For reason this poast caused me to burst out in laughter. Th...
awkward locus
  08/26/16
Glad something came out of this abortion of a thread.
Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook
  08/26/16
I'm pro-choice as well! (It's a joke!)
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
...
Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook
  08/26/16
rofl
Greedy ladyboy antidepressant drug
  08/26/16
let me explain how this is going to work: you're going to en...
Angry Home Friendly Grandma
  08/26/16
You sound like someone who lurks on the alt-right. My wife ...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
no, i sound like someone who has spent a lot of time in fami...
Angry Home Friendly Grandma
  08/26/16
Wow, just wow. Bitter misogyny much?
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
i'm female.
Angry Home Friendly Grandma
  08/26/16
Correction: you're cis-female and you're part of the problem...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
what area of philosophy are you currently teaching/researchi...
Mint garrison
  08/26/16
My wife is finishing up her Ph.D. in anthropology. We haven...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
explain some of her ANTHROPOLOGICAL RESEARCH. what has she d...
Mint garrison
  08/26/16
She researches the constructions of masculinity in tradition...
Vigorous Roommate
  08/26/16
180 thread, ty xo
Rough-skinned Stag Film Twinkling Uncleanness
  08/26/16


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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:10 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

My wife's lawyer said I should get my own lawyer, but I'm not contesting anything except visitation. Do I really need to pay for another lawyer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272590)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:12 PM
Author: purple tank

You 100% need to have another lawyer review the agreement. There are so many little clauses in there that only a family law lawyer would pick up. However, if the lawyer who reviews it and you think it's fair - no, you don't need your own lawyer.

If you don't get your agreement reviewed you may have some rude surprises in the future.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272602)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:16 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Does this review cost a lot of money? How bad could it get? I am only contesting visitation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272623)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:22 PM
Author: purple tank

1. I usually charge 200-500 for the work.

2. Visitation fights can be as bad as they come.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272664)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:23 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Do you take installment plans?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272676)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: purple tank

Sure. Meet me on Monday at AC's on King Street and buy me roughly that figure in booze and we have a deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272689)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:26 PM
Author: trip dun national queen of the night

This is flame, right?

Edit: nm

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272711)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:11 PM
Author: Histrionic pocket flask mediation

Why are you getting divorced? Seems like you two had a pretty stable and healthy relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272593)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:15 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

My wife asked for a divorce. Even though I begged and pleaded with her, in the end I saw that love means respecting her choice. She said she doesn't feel anything for me anymore and needs to move on. We had a trial separation a few years ago, and she said she was much happier then. I only wanted to contest visitation rights.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272621)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:18 PM
Author: Mint garrison

what will happen to the kid? does she only want its "real father" involved now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272636)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:21 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Yes, apparently the biological sperm donor has now expressed interest in meeting his kid, and she feels I would just "confuse" him. I am the confused one here!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272658)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:18 PM
Author: awkward locus

Lol @ some guy doing this. His whole social circle would turn on him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272638)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:22 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

My social circle is very progressive. They fully support her decision.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272665)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:31 PM
Author: awkward locus

I call flame unless your leaving out some big stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272757)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

I am leaving lots of things out, mostly to make myself look better. My wife has put up with a lot. I can't sexually satisfy her, and this bleeds over into a lot of our interactions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272773)



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Date: August 27th, 2016 12:15 PM
Author: Histrionic pocket flask mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31278034)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: purple tank

Your flames are always the most 180. I admire you as a poster.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272772)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:34 PM
Author: trip dun national queen of the night

I don't know, they seem pretty obvious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272780)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:36 PM
Author: purple tank

Look at the all the bites. It's like an expert fisherman, knowing exactly what to use as bait.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272794)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:17 PM
Author: Bull headed internet-worthy lodge

How big is his cock?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272631)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:19 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Much bigger than mine, I imagine. He speaks with a booming voice and has huge hands with a viselike grip.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272643)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:17 PM
Author: Greedy ladyboy antidepressant drug

If you're contesting anything you need a lawyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272632)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Why? I'm a reasonable person and can be persuaded by facts + logic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272696)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:49 PM
Author: Greedy ladyboy antidepressant drug

Facts and logic. That sounds like divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272888)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:22 PM
Author: Costumed menage

Did you consider using a mediator instead?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272663)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Is this cheaper? I don't want to skimp on my wife's needs, but I have a budget!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272688)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:22 PM
Author: Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook

Get a mediated divorce and then you should each get an attorney to review it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272668)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:23 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

What is the difference between media divorce and regular divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272684)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:25 PM
Author: Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook

A lawyer (mediator) draws up an agreement that is fair to both sides that both agree to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272701)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:26 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

I will talk to my wife about this. Can she still have her own lawyer? I don't want to cut the poor guy out entirely. He has worked very hard!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272710)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:31 PM
Author: Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook

Why are you wasting my time with flame, you fucking motherfucker? I am a busy dude and I was trying to help you. Now, kindly, go FUCK YOURSELF.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272749)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:32 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Have you considered seeing a therapist for rage issues? Not healthy!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272758)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:32 PM
Author: awkward locus

For reason this poast caused me to burst out in laughter. Thanks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272769)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:35 PM
Author: Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook

Glad something came out of this abortion of a thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272787)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:39 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

I'm pro-choice as well!

(It's a joke!)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272811)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:52 PM
Author: Pale Vivacious Dopamine Travel Guidebook



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272912)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:49 PM
Author: Greedy ladyboy antidepressant drug

rofl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272892)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:27 PM
Author: Angry Home Friendly Grandma

let me explain how this is going to work: you're going to end up compromising on some mediated or consented visitation plan that's too close to 50/50 for it to ever really work. how much $$ you waste on this depends on how insane she is. in 12-18 months, you'll be back in court spending more $$ fighting it out when she demands that you be stripped down to every other weekend bc the child needs more 'stability.' she'll win and this time it will be a judge's order that comes down after a bench trial and then you'll never ever be able to change it unless she gets a DUI or her bf is arrested for molesting your child, etc. so you might as well give her what she wants right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272713)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:28 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

You sound like someone who lurks on the alt-right. My wife and I are reasonable people, we just disagree about visitation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272723)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:28 PM
Author: Angry Home Friendly Grandma

no, i sound like someone who has spent a lot of time in family court. you don't know shit about your wife's reasonableness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272735)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:29 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Wow, just wow. Bitter misogyny much?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272741)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:30 PM
Author: Angry Home Friendly Grandma

i'm female.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272744)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:37 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

Correction: you're cis-female and you're part of the problem.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272802)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:27 PM
Author: Mint garrison

what area of philosophy are you currently teaching/researching? how has this fit in with your relationship with your wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272719)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:29 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

My wife is finishing up her Ph.D. in anthropology. We haven't had much time to discuss Deleuze (I am his big disciple).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272738)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:32 PM
Author: Mint garrison

explain some of her ANTHROPOLOGICAL RESEARCH. what has she discovered about differences between men from different CULTURES and ANCESTRY?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272764)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:36 PM
Author: Vigorous Roommate

She researches the constructions of masculinity in traditional indigenous societies. Most of her field work's in Brazil (she's fluent in Portuguese), where she visits forest tribes to observe rites of passage among adolescent warriors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272795)



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Date: August 26th, 2016 1:53 PM
Author: Rough-skinned Stag Film Twinkling Uncleanness

180 thread, ty xo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3333170&forum_id=2#31272916)