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Would you end a friendship over this? (story)
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:01 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Went to a christmas party at a mutual friends with a friend of mine for 20+ years and his wife, he was the designated driver. At the party she had a lot to drink, I had 3 beers. Party was uneventful. On the way home we drove by the old soccer field and I reminded him about the time me and him got drunk there and how I called a fat girl we both knew to come over (and I hooked up with her but i didnt say this part) i was basically making fun of myself cause it isnt a thing im proud of just a funny old story
Anyway his wife got irate and started calling me all kind of names cussing me out, saying im a douche, saying i shouldnt talk about people behind their back etc. i dont know what set her off, either it was jealousy because she thinks her husband also hooked up with the girl or she is some angry drunk. She went off for the next 5 minutes and i never said a word in anger. If she was a dude i would have kicked her ass.
Pussy friend didnt say a word during any of this and just let her go on. That is what made me mad. I dont feel like i could ever hang out with him again |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:13 PM Author: territorial electric trailer park You should give him an opportunity to explain himself for not jumping in and if his answer doesn't make you feel better, then yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32039713) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:17 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant I should bring it up to him? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32039742) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:03 PM Author: ungodly walnut resort affirmative action You just sat there through this tirade? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043249) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:04 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Yeah man i was in the back of the car (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043256) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:11 PM Author: ungodly walnut resort affirmative action Next time, loudly laugh and tell her to shut up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043319) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:13 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant I wouldnt ever disrespect a friends wife though thats why i sat there quietly not saying anything, because if i do that, he has to take her side and tell me to watch it or it makes him look like a pussy to her. I took a bullet for him (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043336) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:17 PM Author: ungodly walnut resort affirmative action If you don't have the balls to stand up for yourself, don't expect other people to do it for you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043361) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:19 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Lose/lose situation there man i would have had to fight him and kick his ass in front of his wife. Im too old for that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043371) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:20 PM Author: ungodly walnut resort affirmative action He wasn't going to fight you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043381) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:21 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Known this guy since 6th grade, we've had to scrap a few times (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043407) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:22 PM Author: ungodly walnut resort affirmative action Then you should know him well enough to slap his wife down (humorously) without provoking him. If you can't do that, then your friendship has deeper problems. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043416) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:23 PM Author: Floppy idiot institution Since 6th grade and you would end friendship over a 5 minute rant by a drunk, irrational woman? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043422) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:23 PM Author: ungodly walnut resort affirmative action twist: they're all in 7th grade (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043427) |
Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:06 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32039641) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:09 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32039677) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:11 PM Author: harsh outnumbered abode windowlicker no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32039691) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 2:13 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant I would feel like a huge cuck just pretending this was water ubder the bridge unless his wife made a really sincere apology and its too late for that now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32039711) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:03 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042725) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:08 PM Author: Insecure black woman puppy of course not.
his wife is more important to him than you. maybe his wife is an annoying or bad person. so do your best to keep the peace or just hang out with him without her. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:11 PM Author: House-broken wild business firm internal respiration cr. you basically just have to be polite around ppls wives. basically have to be a shitlib pc dork. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042807) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:12 PM Author: Internet-worthy obsidian idea he suggested point I have a wife that can be an unreasonable bitch. If she did this to my friend I'd stop her right away and be like "this is my good friend, don't talk to him that way." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042819) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:09 PM Author: cyan lascivious corner Of course not dipshit. You pretend it never happened. If my friends ended their friendship with me every time my wife was a bitch I'd have no friends. What the FUCK is wrong with you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042797) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:11 PM Author: Domesticated cruel-hearted brunch voyeur (guy married to a bitch) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042817) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:14 PM Author: cyan lascivious corner (Virgin) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042838) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:29 PM Author: Bat shit crazy galvanic juggernaut heaven (Guy married)
There you go--fixed that for you. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:52 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant What the fuck is wrong with your wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043140) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:10 PM Author: Dead zippy orchestra pit are you dumb? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042798) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:11 PM Author: Domesticated cruel-hearted brunch voyeur I would not end the friendship. But I would also not hang out with her. So I would accept an invitation to their place if she was going to be there. I would not invite them over unless she was out of town. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042810) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:11 PM Author: peach location Lol wtf no. Bro code dictates you let him be a pussy in front of his girl, bmuch less his wife (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042815) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:12 PM Author: Domesticated cruel-hearted brunch voyeur No. Bro code does not say this at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042818) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:13 PM Author: peach location Cite check (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042822) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:52 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043142) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:15 PM Author: curious therapy dingle berry Gas all Amerikkkkan women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042843) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:16 PM Author: cerebral high-end lodge I wouldn't end the friendship but I'd make clear to him that she either apologize (insincere would be ok with me) or you won't accompany him to anything if she's there.
If you don't clear the air with her, this problem will manifest itself again. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:26 PM Author: Dead zippy orchestra pit lmao you won't have to worry about accompanying them because they will never invite you anywhere (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042950) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:29 PM Author: Maniacal Dilemma Generalized Bond this is only a 'problem' in the minds of delusional losers who think they live by the code of bushido or whatever
your buddy's WIFE got drunk and said some dumb shit she was probably embarrassed about in the morning. let it go. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:54 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Yeah this is how i feel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043158) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:28 PM Author: Learning Disabled Boyish Den Do you suck his dick and let him nut in your mouth?
If not, why would you expect him to take your side. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:31 PM Author: Bat shit crazy galvanic juggernaut heaven This is borderline scholarship. Sometimes the short, crass explanation is spot on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32042995) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:33 PM Author: Provocative weed whacker public bath he said it was a bro, so of course he does (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043012) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:59 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant So just let women throw childish tantrums whenever they want? Lol cuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043206) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:54 PM Author: vigorous shrine psychic serious question: wtf is wrong with you?
not only would i not break up a friendship over it, I doubt i would ever think about it again once the car ride was over. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:56 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Loyalty is everything (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043170) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:56 PM Author: Maniacal Dilemma Generalized Bond massive insecurity (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043173) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:05 PM Author: Floppy idiot institution I don't get it either. A drunk chick curses you out for 5 minutes -- big deal. She probably went home, passed out, and woke up embarrassed. For the friend to react then and there only makes things messier. If he is the guy you thought he was for over 20 years, he set her straight after you left or the next day -- that is if she isn't totally apologetic and embarrassed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043260) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:13 PM Author: pontificating dopamine Lol who the fuck just sits there and let's their significant other continually embarrass themselves in front of someone they respect, especially when they are berating them for 5 minutes straight for no reason? Seriously, what kind of faggot cuck would just allow that to go on?
There is a difference between a short drunk outburst that cant really be helped (or stopped), verses a long continual rant as described by OP. |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:17 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Yes it was really an extended diatribe like chicks let out when theyve been bottling something up for a long time. Saying every horrible thing she could come up with. I dont even get into arguments with women im in relationships with, if a gf ever acted like this to me it would be an immediate relationship ender (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043357) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:19 PM Author: Floppy idiot institution I have been berated by drunk women before. No big deal. And a lot of the time those women come around and want to fuck you later. Why throw away a 20 year friendship over this? Seems a little thin skinned. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043373) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:22 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant I guess its hard to explain the situation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043412) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 9:59 PM Author: pontificating dopamine Lol at the faggots in this thread with so little self-respect they'd let some bitch berate them and then act like it never happened. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043203) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:00 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant cr dude honestly she is lucky i didnt kick his ass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043213) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:16 PM Author: Maniacal Dilemma Generalized Bond you clearly didn't have the nuts to say anything at the time, which is what's really bothering you. fuming about it and destroying your friendship to compensate isn't healthy. just let it go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043353) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:20 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant Didnt say anything because i dont want to emasculate him in front of his wife any more than she already has. I think i handled it well, maintained my composure (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043388) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:25 PM Author: balding aphrodisiac antidepressant drug pit Same reaction. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043437) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:02 PM Author: cerebral high-end lodge Very cr, cucky and sad! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043235) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:13 PM Author: Maniacal Dilemma Generalized Bond (guy who paid money for a Gorilla Mindset ebook) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043334) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:04 PM Author: anal university mexican regardless you can be set in knowing that he is a beta, and in knowing that he knows that you know
he shamed himself and he must live with it |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:05 PM Author: Dull spot legal warrant True. And his wife is a match.com shrew he only recently married (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043261) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:07 PM Author: Comical Bipolar Space lol no, women gun women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043278) |
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Date: December 2nd, 2016 10:26 PM Author: razzmatazz ticket booth You sound like a great "friend" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3447061&forum_id=2#32043441) |