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345 days of sobriety.. move out of Sober Living House?

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my ...
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!! DO NOT FU...
arrogant address
  12/12/16
fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a n...
Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask
  12/12/16
If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you'...
big ultramarine macaca sweet tailpipe
  12/12/16
what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?
Overrated mental disorder
  09/18/18
how do you already have another fiancee
Disturbing Really Tough Guy Parlour
  12/12/16
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Milky unholy party of the first part sneaky criminal
  12/12/16
BAC
insane appetizing forum
  12/12/16
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embarrassed to the bone wrinkle
  12/12/16
AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on get...
Soul-stirring walnut shrine
  12/12/16
yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are ...
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is als...
Soul-stirring walnut shrine
  12/12/16
For the love of God THIS
filthy jet dilemma sound barrier
  12/12/16
so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will i...
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
Yes
Soul-stirring walnut shrine
  12/12/16
...
Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask
  12/12/16
how would u react if the relationship starts failing
crawly impressive library
  12/12/16
you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online
obsidian casino
  12/12/16
wtf no
Vigorous transparent chad temple
  12/12/16
uhh no WMTP
electric genital piercing athletic conference
  12/12/16
3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In ...
Razzle House
  12/12/16
Don't get married
embarrassed to the bone wrinkle
  12/12/16
LJL @ addictionmos
black self-centered police squad
  12/12/16
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Flirting tank
  12/12/16
Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in so...
Soul-stirring walnut shrine
  12/12/16
Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.
charcoal impertinent sandwich
  12/12/16
i haven't posted about her
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
You gotta give it to us now.
charcoal impertinent sandwich
  12/12/16
did u meet in recovery bro
outnumbered know-it-all site kitty
  12/12/16
nope. she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even ...
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?
arrogant address
  12/12/16
hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.
Misunderstood point
  12/12/16
You haven't even lived with her? Jfc you're still in the...
aphrodisiac legal warrant
  12/12/16
i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for...
Glassy irradiated headpube boiling water
  12/12/16
jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude
cream rigpig
  12/12/16
I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should de...
Motley Pozpig
  12/12/16
i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of ...
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that liv...
Motley Pozpig
  12/12/16
good advice.
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parse...
180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit
  12/12/16
titcr
Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask
  12/12/16
"stinking thing" "normie" "earthlin...
Azure alcoholic codepig
  12/12/16
it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that peo...
Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask
  12/12/16
It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than...
Soul-stirring walnut shrine
  12/12/16
yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus th...
Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask
  12/12/16
Lmao...3.5 months Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
Flirting tank
  12/12/16
*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!
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  12/12/16
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  12/12/16
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cream rigpig
  09/18/18
What the fuck is wrong with you Also weren't you in rehab...
medicated flesh newt location
  12/12/16
pretty sure it was for meth
Glittery Indian Lodge Dingle Berry
  12/13/17
What did you use brother?
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  12/12/16
Lol at me a year ago. Getting amazing blowjobs and making i...
doobsian coiffed parlor
  12/13/17
So how did this turn out? Lol.
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  01/27/18
Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. Y...
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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:15 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

I signed a lease for Dec 31st in an apartment for me and my fiancee. I plan to move in some time in January, when I will have a full year of sobriety.

Then I talked to the house manager. He thinks I'm moving way too fast with this getting married thing (i've known the girl for 3.5 months) and it might complicate things to put me in a higher risk for relapse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119515)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:27 PM
Author: arrogant address

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

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DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

DO NOT FUCKING MARRY HER YOU FUCKING IDIOT!!!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119629)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:44 PM
Author: Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask

fleshlight, you'd acquired a blank slate: a new account, a new moniker. and yet your distinct stench of horrible poasting has soiled that blank slate inside a single week. sad!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120369)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:17 PM
Author: big ultramarine macaca sweet tailpipe

If not flame he's right. That's insane to marry someone you've known for 3.5 months. You are moving too fast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119540)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:49 AM
Author: Overrated mental disorder

what's an acceptable period? 6 months? 1 year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830800)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: Disturbing Really Tough Guy Parlour

how do you already have another fiancee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119545)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:00 PM
Author: Milky unholy party of the first part sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119953)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: insane appetizing forum

BAC

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120670)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:14 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120675)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:18 PM
Author: Soul-stirring walnut shrine

AAmo here - wait so you've been sober 1 year and plan on getting married to a girl you've known for 3.5 months?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119548)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

yeah... and i've done all 12 steps (i know last 3 steps are lifelong steps and I'm still going to 2-3 meetings a week)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119559)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:24 PM
Author: Soul-stirring walnut shrine

JFC - the only way this could be worse is if the girl is also early on in sobriety

Seriously though if you've been using a long time you're brain is still recovering - in several years you'll look back at yourself with only 1 year sober like you look at your 16 year old self

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119592)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: filthy jet dilemma sound barrier

For the love of God THIS

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119729)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:50 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

so as much as i feel i had improved this past year, i will improve more later?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119869)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:57 PM
Author: Soul-stirring walnut shrine

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120510)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:58 PM
Author: Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120514)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:19 PM
Author: crawly impressive library

how would u react if the relationship starts failing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:23 PM
Author: obsidian casino

you're totally nuts. bring the tracker back online

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119587)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: Vigorous transparent chad temple

wtf no

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119619)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:03 PM
Author: electric genital piercing athletic conference

uhh no WMTP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119981)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: Razzle House

3.5 months seems fast whether you're in recovery or not. In any event, guard your sobriety first. Sounds like you have worked Steps. I'm more of a CBT/SMART guy, but whatever works. Keep doing that. Nothing can make you do or feel anything; you make that choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119615)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:26 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone wrinkle

Don't get married

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119617)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:29 PM
Author: black self-centered police squad

LJL @ addictionmos

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119644)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Flirting tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120469)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:31 PM
Author: Soul-stirring walnut shrine

Also - please God don't tell us this is a girl you met in sobriety who is newly sober as well.....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119672)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:34 PM
Author: charcoal impertinent sandwich

Someone copy paste the full story on your fiancee please.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119700)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:37 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

i haven't posted about her



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119727)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:59 PM
Author: charcoal impertinent sandwich

You gotta give it to us now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119948)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:04 PM
Author: outnumbered know-it-all site kitty

did u meet in recovery bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119992)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

nope.

she's a normie.. never touched drugs doesn't even drink. has two masters degrees. both parents are doctors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120025)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:25 PM
Author: arrogant address

Why not just DATE for another 9 months and then get engaged?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120180)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: Misunderstood point

hold up bro describe why you want to get married, girl, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119711)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 12:35 PM
Author: aphrodisiac legal warrant

You haven't even lived with her?

Jfc you're still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. You're fucking crazy man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32119717)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:07 PM
Author: Glassy irradiated headpube boiling water

i knew a couple who got engaged after knowing each other for only 3 months. they were married 9 months after they started dating. their marriage lasted less than a year and the guy got financially fucked having to pay for an attorney, interim support, etc. his physical appearance went all to hell due to the stress, gained weight, started smoking again, etc.

so don't say you weren't warned.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120034)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:09 PM
Author: cream rigpig

jfc dont get married after 3.5 months wtf are you doing dude

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120048)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:12 PM
Author: Motley Pozpig

I dont know about marrying her so quickly, but you should definitely have a kid, move cities, and do a career change at the same time you try to live on your own sober.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120067)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:24 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

i thought moving in with a chick helps me transition out of SLE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120173)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:33 PM
Author: Motley Pozpig

Man, even the best woman will bring you aggravation that living alone will not have.

You might make the case that she will hold you accountable and help talk you out of relapsing, but I still think the cons outweigh the pros.

And youre not proposing just living with her but marrying her.

Flame and all, but still -- at year one, you should trust your sponsor more than your stinking thinking. You need to re-learn all the practical living shit and you propose doing that while also learning how to be married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120240)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:38 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

good advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120304)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:39 PM
Author: 180 Cheese-eating Hissy Fit

was ur username designed to break the tracker's string parser?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120311)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:51 PM
Author: Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask

titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120434)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:07 PM
Author: Azure alcoholic codepig

"stinking thing" "normie" "earthling" why should he trust some random person who has no professional training in substance abuse, psychology, or anything else? This is the craziness of AA. also their retarded sayings.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120616)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:50 PM
Author: Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask

it's my impression that it's pretty widely accepted that people in recovery should avoid initiating romantic relationships for the first 12 months of sobriety.

it's pretty self-evident as to why. so why in the hell do you think it's a good idea to MARRY someone you met after only 8 months in recovery?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120426)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:01 PM
Author: Soul-stirring walnut shrine

It is - people still do it but it ends badly more often than not. Even after a year sober your brain is still like an infant and recovering from years and years of drug abuse. You don't realize it until you look back - but much like he thought he was batshit crazy at 3 months sober - in several years he'll look back at right now and think he was batshit crazy at 1 year sober....

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120558)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:02 PM
Author: Mind-boggling University Pocket Flask

yeah, this is what i thought. i'd like to know why rangus thinks he's exempt from what's tantamount to the 13th step. there's a reason it is, and should be, strongly discouraged.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120578)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:55 PM
Author: Flirting tank

Lmao...3.5 months

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120464)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 1:56 PM
Author: Maniacal clear dopamine

*drives by thread blaring "Rude" by magic!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120485)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 2:15 PM
Author: insane appetizing forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32120683)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:48 AM
Author: cream rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830797)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:18 PM
Author: medicated flesh newt location

What the fuck is wrong with you

Also weren't you in rehab for video games? Do you call not playing video games being "sober"?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125833)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: Glittery Indian Lodge Dingle Berry

pretty sure it was for meth

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911944)



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Date: December 12th, 2016 11:19 PM
Author: Ocher persian gas station

What did you use brother?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#32125851)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: doobsian coiffed parlor

Lol at me a year ago.

Getting amazing blowjobs and making idiot decisions

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911927)



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Date: January 27th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: Olive arousing patrolman ticket booth

So how did this turn out? Lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#35257377)



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Date: December 13th, 2017 6:29 PM
Author: shivering honey-headed resort karate

Don’t listen to these faggots. If you love her, go for it. You think your ancestors spent more than three months courting their mates ?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#34911977)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 1:35 AM
Author: Crimson sickened psychic fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36830768)



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Date: September 18th, 2018 10:06 AM
Author: Crimson sickened psychic fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36831683)



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Date: September 21st, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: Crimson sickened psychic fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3457308&forum_id=2#36854991)