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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
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Ebony yarmulke feces
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
Out-of-control Office
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Trip trailer park
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abnormal seedy business firm becky
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Ebony yarmulke feces
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
Ebony yarmulke feces
  01/20/17
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Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Out-of-control Office
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Out-of-control Office
  01/20/17
LOL
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
Doobsian racy affirmative action
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Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
I understand
onyx coffee pot
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Marvelous puce brunch
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Naked Cerebral Hospital
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Vigorous private investor
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Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
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Out-of-control Office
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mind-boggling site
  01/20/17
Mods
crystalline floppy church
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
Sepia odious famous landscape painting station
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Out-of-control Office
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
Burgundy sickened useless brakes
  01/20/17
bad post
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
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Out-of-control Office
  01/20/17
good poast
Salmon Fear-inspiring Psychic
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Doobsian racy affirmative action
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
red church building
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Vibrant Hell Dysfunction
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
red church building
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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Out-of-control Office
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Plum Love Of Her Life Selfie
  01/20/17
this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
Swollen School
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Ebony yarmulke feces



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Out-of-control Office

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Trip trailer park



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: abnormal seedy business firm becky



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Ebony yarmulke feces

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Ebony yarmulke feces

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Out-of-control Office

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Out-of-control Office

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Doobsian racy affirmative action

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: onyx coffee pot

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Marvelous puce brunch

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Naked Cerebral Hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Vigorous private investor

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Out-of-control Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: mind-boggling site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: crystalline floppy church

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Sepia odious famous landscape painting station

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Out-of-control Office

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Burgundy sickened useless brakes

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Out-of-control Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Salmon Fear-inspiring Psychic

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Doobsian racy affirmative action

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: red church building

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Vibrant Hell Dysfunction

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: red church building

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Doobsian racy affirmative action

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Out-of-control Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Plum Love Of Her Life Selfie



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Swollen School

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Doobsian racy affirmative action



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: lemon infuriating electric furnace



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Ebony yarmulke feces



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