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wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
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I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Buff zombie-like base trump supporter



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: beady-eyed stage legal warrant



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: contagious pervert ticket booth



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Buff zombie-like base trump supporter

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Buff zombie-like base trump supporter

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

LOL

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Exciting Aggressive Tanning Salon

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Hairraiser nursing home

I understand

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Ivory office

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Vivacious magical rigpig

Stop trying to solve everything!

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: At-the-ready Cracking School



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Heady Azure Mother

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

darnell is such a good listener too!

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: mauve hateful casino

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: nofapping boistinker

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: marvelous digit ratio

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Exciting Aggressive Tanning Salon

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Naked space codepig

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: well-lubricated location bbw

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Naked space codepig

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Exciting Aggressive Tanning Salon

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Vibrant Hideous Dragon Den



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Bat-shit-crazy Parlour Shitlib

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Buff zombie-like base trump supporter



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