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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
startled messiness pocket flask
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opaque base rigpig
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
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ultramarine point
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Vivacious crystalline sneaky criminal
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
opaque base rigpig
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
opaque base rigpig
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umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold
  01/20/17
LOL
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
I understand
ebony depressive deer antler
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Sepia Heady Idiot Mad-dog Skullcap
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Curious Cerise Office
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
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Deep Becky Meetinghouse
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Soul-stirring address
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
umber floppy home wrinkle
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
Stirring hissy fit
  01/20/17
bad post
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Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold
  01/20/17
good poast
Razzmatazz bearded mental disorder
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
topaz codepig feces
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
passionate ratface
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
startled messiness pocket flask
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
passionate ratface
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Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: opaque base rigpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: ultramarine point



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Vivacious crystalline sneaky criminal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: opaque base rigpig

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: opaque base rigpig

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: topaz codepig feces

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: ebony depressive deer antler

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Sepia Heady Idiot Mad-dog Skullcap

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Curious Cerise Office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Gaped tanning salon dingle berry

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Deep Becky Meetinghouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Soul-stirring address

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: umber floppy home wrinkle

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Stirring hissy fit

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Razzmatazz bearded mental disorder

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: topaz codepig feces

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: passionate ratface

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: startled messiness pocket flask

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: passionate ratface

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: topaz codepig feces

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Amethyst fluffy locale cuckold



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: ruddy titillating scourge upon the earth school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: Claret adventurous whorehouse

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: topaz codepig feces



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Jade Set



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: opaque base rigpig



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