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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
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Aqua Excitant Whorehouse
  01/20/17
I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
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cerebral center
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crawly jet affirmative action university
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Aqua Excitant Whorehouse
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
Aqua Excitant Whorehouse
  01/20/17
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flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
  01/20/17
LOL
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
Topaz cracking milk
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Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
I understand
costumed mother
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Insanely creepy trump supporter boistinker
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Rusted Kitty
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
Boyish spot
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Beta generalized bond yarmulke
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hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
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abusive swashbuckling turdskin
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Mods
Copper arousing site kitty cat
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
flatulent nibblets
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
soul-stirring station
  01/20/17
bad post
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
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hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
  01/20/17
good poast
Deranged community account
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
Topaz cracking milk
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
federal overrated space
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Beta generalized bond yarmulke
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
federal overrated space
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
Topaz cracking milk
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hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression
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Crusty disturbing home
  01/20/17
this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
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Topaz cracking milk
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Aqua Excitant Whorehouse
  06/04/17


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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Aqua Excitant Whorehouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: cerebral center



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: crawly jet affirmative action university



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Aqua Excitant Whorehouse

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Aqua Excitant Whorehouse

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Topaz cracking milk

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: costumed mother

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Insanely creepy trump supporter boistinker

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Rusted Kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Boyish spot

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: abusive swashbuckling turdskin



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: Copper arousing site kitty cat

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: flatulent nibblets

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: soul-stirring station

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Deranged community account

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Topaz cracking milk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: federal overrated space

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Beta generalized bond yarmulke

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: federal overrated space

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Topaz cracking milk

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: hot dashing useless brakes indirect expression



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Crusty disturbing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: stirring up-to-no-good theater

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Topaz cracking milk



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Glassy Forum



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Aqua Excitant Whorehouse



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