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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
Hyperactive pistol
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I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
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you could also try to understand and address their position ...
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Cheese-eating thirsty sound barrier weed whacker
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
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Titillating white legend mother
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your feet were too small
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Hot slate therapy station
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the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Hot slate therapy station
  01/20/17
LOL
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
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Hyperactive pistol
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I understand
Contagious saffron hall
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No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Puce Hell
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Insanely creepy potus
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
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Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
Titillating white legend mother
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Hot slate therapy station
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
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  01/20/17
bad post
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good poast
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
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  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
idiotic useless bawdyhouse
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
Hyperactive pistol
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
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Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Cheese-eating thirsty sound barrier weed whacker



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Hot slate therapy station

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Shimmering Casino Pervert



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Apoplectic indigo brunch nowag



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Cheese-eating thirsty sound barrier weed whacker

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Cheese-eating thirsty sound barrier weed whacker

Ur breath stank

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

your feet were too small

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Hot slate therapy station

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Hot slate therapy station

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Buck-toothed chrome digit ratio university

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Contagious saffron hall

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Puce Hell

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Insanely creepy potus



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Dark Police Squad

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Hot slate therapy station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: comical abode affirmative action



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: chest-beating 180 masturbator parlor

Mods

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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: Titillating white legend mother

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Hot slate therapy station

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Glittery magenta school brethren

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Hot slate therapy station



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: sable vivacious reading party pit

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: Buck-toothed chrome digit ratio university

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: idiotic useless bawdyhouse

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Hyperactive pistol

Very cr friend

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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: idiotic useless bawdyhouse

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: Buck-toothed chrome digit ratio university

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Hot slate therapy station



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: swashbuckling mischievous piazza people who are hurt



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: vigorous carmine stead karate

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: Buck-toothed chrome digit ratio university



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Scarlet wonderful base



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Cheese-eating thirsty sound barrier weed whacker



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