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Women just want their feelings validated

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no...
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
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Dun Halford Laser Beams
  01/20/17
I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes ...
Poppy Arrogant Station
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Useless white sweet tailpipe
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trip glassy institution
  01/20/17
you could also try to understand and address their position ...
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were...
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
Eat shit and die
Dun Halford Laser Beams
  01/20/17
I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
Ur breath stank
Dun Halford Laser Beams
  01/20/17
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At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
your feet were too small
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this fo...
Poppy Arrogant Station
  01/20/17
the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actu...
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any
Poppy Arrogant Station
  01/20/17
LOL
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from ...
orange big-titted principal's office
  01/20/17
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bearded rehab
  01/20/17
I understand
Dashing brilliant crackhouse
  01/20/17
No you don't! You NEVER understand me!
Chestnut Violent Clown
  01/20/17
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Charcoal talking field dog poop
  01/21/17
Stop trying to solve everything!
exhilarant son of senegal striped hyena
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bearded rehab
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Poppy Arrogant Station
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vengeful vigorous digit ratio
  01/20/17
Mods
wild aromatic point scourge upon the earth
  01/20/17
Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out s...
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
darnell is such a good listener too!
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from...
At-the-ready flickering home
  01/20/17
I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize...
Poppy Arrogant Station
  01/20/17
https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT "I understand" i...
Odious gas station
  01/20/17
bad post
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
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Poppy Arrogant Station
  01/20/17
good poast
Pontificating Private Investor
  01/21/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
orange big-titted principal's office
  01/20/17
Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat ...
crimson incel native
  01/20/17
Very cr friend
bearded rehab
  01/20/17
I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started...
crimson incel native
  01/20/17
Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving t...
orange big-titted principal's office
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Poppy Arrogant Station
  01/21/17
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Cream office mother
  01/20/17
this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if ...
supple school cafeteria hominid
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orange big-titted principal's office
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titillating locus
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Dun Halford Laser Beams
  06/04/17


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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: bearded rehab

All you have to say is "i understand". There is no point trying to explain anything to them no matter how irrational they are being. They don't want a solution. You can just lie and say you empathize with them, or they will make you miserable out of spite so you can feel like they do. Just always be nodding and agree with them and dont bother even listening.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417817)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Dun Halford Laser Beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417822)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station

I'm getting better at this but I still fuck it up sometimes by trying to say anything else. Also sometimes I say "I understand" in a way that betrays my not giving that much of a shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417828)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: Useless white sweet tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417831)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: trip glassy institution



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417832)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:19 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

you could also try to understand and address their position instead of trying to prove them wrong.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417833)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: bearded rehab

If you mean say shit like "yeah i'd be pissed if i were you too" sure. Otherwise don't engage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417851)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

sounds like a cr way to grow apart. gl!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417858)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Dun Halford Laser Beams

Eat shit and die

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417889)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

I understand, babe. I would be mad if I were you too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417912)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Dun Halford Laser Beams

Ur breath stank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417953)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418005)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

your feet were too small

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418018)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station

I try to do this but always fuck it up -- you can do this for 90% of the conversation but if you still argue with anything they say it kills it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417856)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

the idea is not to argue or defend your position but to actually try to understand where they are coming from.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417866)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station

wow, an actual female poaster, didn't think there were any

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417875)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: bearded rehab

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417877)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: orange big-titted principal's office

lol, its not hard to understand where women are coming from

"my boss did this or that" - yes bosses are often frustrating

"becky is so.. something or other" - friends sometimes annoy one another

every male already knows all of these things so they figure the woman would like help with their problem because this is what a man would want. Women however, just want to talk at you for a bit. Different emotional needs, i don't think its any less valid a need it just seems ridiculous from a mans perspective. probably how women see mens sexual desires

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419515)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: bearded rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419992)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Dashing brilliant crackhouse

I understand

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417860)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Chestnut Violent Clown

No you don't! You NEVER understand me!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32418030)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:32 AM
Author: Charcoal talking field dog poop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422497)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: exhilarant son of senegal striped hyena

Stop trying to solve everything!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417870)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: bearded rehab



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417880)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417882)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: vengeful vigorous digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417917)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: wild aromatic point scourge upon the earth

Mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419411)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: bearded rehab

Ideally they get bored of you always agreeing and seek out someone else to complain to, her mother, sister, friend. Then you have it made.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417871)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

darnell is such a good listener too!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417878)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: bearded rehab

Ok bounce on outta this thread now babe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417887)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: At-the-ready flickering home

wait you don't want to hear an opinion that's different from yours? that's crazy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417903)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: bearded rehab

I get how you feel - and you're right to feel that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417927)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station

It must be pretty rough dealing with these guys, I empathize with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417936)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: bearded rehab

https://youtube.com/watch?v=kg2UlYDswSc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417921)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: Odious gas station

HOLY SHIT VIRGIN RETARD ALERT

"I understand" is legally rape and your gonna get castrated. No woman wants a man saying that and they're immediate response is going to be "HOW COULD YOU POSSIBLY UNDERSTAND WHAT IT'S LIKE FOR ME"

You're best saying some retarded shit like I hear you and that must have been so hard to hear or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32417940)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:04 PM
Author: bearded rehab

bad post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419270)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:05 PM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419280)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:16 AM
Author: Pontificating Private Investor

good poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422387)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: orange big-titted principal's office

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419468)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: crimson incel native

Even better than "I understand" is to just repeat back whatever they just said.

"You're mad that Emma got the promotion instead of you."

"You think our values have diverged because I voted to MAGA"

Etc.

No need to say anything else

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419495)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: bearded rehab

Very cr friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419500)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: crimson incel native

I observed that this works with my toddler so I just started trying it on my wife and whaddaya know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419514)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: orange big-titted principal's office

Reflective listening is a communication strategy involving two key steps: seeking to understand a speaker's idea, then offering the idea back to the speaker, to confirm the idea has been understood correctly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419535)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:24 AM
Author: Poppy Arrogant Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422455)



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Date: January 20th, 2017 6:35 PM
Author: Cream office mother



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32419917)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:26 AM
Author: supple school cafeteria hominid

this was something incredibly difficult for me to learn. if I could've figured it out 10 years ago I'd be a much happier person right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422471)



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Date: January 21st, 2017 12:28 AM
Author: orange big-titted principal's office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32422480)



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Date: January 22nd, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: titillating locus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#32434516)



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Date: June 4th, 2017 4:34 AM
Author: Dun Halford Laser Beams



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3497922&forum_id=2#33468287)