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POLL: which one of the 2 mindsets describes you
| big-titted love of her life | 02/24/17 |
| Arousing stage | 02/24/17 |
| Multi-colored out-of-control black woman | 02/24/17 |
| adventurous library athletic conference | 02/24/17 |
| motley sepia nibblets whorehouse | 02/24/17 |
| pearl menage | 02/24/17 |
| big-titted love of her life | 02/24/17 |
| talking gay house | 02/24/17 |
| exciting plum death wish | 02/28/17 |
| Carnelian High-end Forum | 02/24/17 |
| Henna location | 02/24/17 |
| Autistic Massive Genital Piercing Base | 02/24/17 |
| self-absorbed coldplay fan internal respiration | 02/24/17 |
| bearded space | 02/24/17 |
| free-loading sanctuary | 02/25/17 |
| unhinged candlestick maker | 02/25/17 |
| self-absorbed coldplay fan internal respiration | 02/24/17 |
| Henna location | 02/24/17 |
| beta filthy field rigpig | 02/24/17 |
| self-absorbed coldplay fan internal respiration | 02/24/17 |
| Flushed Stead | 02/28/17 |
| Seedy Range Selfie | 02/28/17 |
| Big station | 02/28/17 |
| Seedy Range Selfie | 02/28/17 |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:02 AM Author: big-titted love of her life http://m.imgur.com/eEiYvh5 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689696) |
Date: February 24th, 2017 7:05 AM Author: Arousing stage retarded dichotomy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689697) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:07 AM Author: Multi-colored out-of-control black woman In reality and speaking from experience, failure is a growth opportunity. Faggots. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689701) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 7:07 AM Author: adventurous library athletic conference Now explain chilmata. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689702) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:05 AM Author: motley sepia nibblets whorehouse Fixed mindset all the way. Look how great I turned out! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689826) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:19 AM Author: pearl menage piC? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689860) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 6:20 PM Author: big-titted love of her life Sad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32693838) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:07 AM Author: talking gay house it's a pity that the growth mindset people have to mix their insistence on optimism about whether you can improve your skills with practice with an insistence that there is no such thing as innate ability whatsoever (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689831) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 5:04 PM Author: exciting plum death wish apparently the key to mental health is to delude yourself. CBT depression stuff is pretty much just do ignore reality (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32721097) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 8:25 AM Author: Carnelian High-end Forum http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2016/05/31/17/34CC6BEF00000578-3618322-image-a-17_1464713483203.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32689877) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: Henna location (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695502) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 6:22 PM Author: Autistic Massive Genital Piercing Base Did you steal this from some HR lady's LinkedIn account? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32693861) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 10:33 PM Author: self-absorbed coldplay fan internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695115) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:25 PM Author: bearded space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695480) |
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Date: February 25th, 2017 12:21 AM Author: free-loading sanctuary (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695687) |
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Date: February 25th, 2017 12:28 AM Author: unhinged candlestick maker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695712) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:27 PM Author: self-absorbed coldplay fan internal respiration i diddnt see gorilla minndset in ur link fagt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695491) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: Henna location (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695499) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:28 PM Author: beta filthy field rigpig I'm a fixie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695495) |
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Date: February 24th, 2017 11:29 PM Author: self-absorbed coldplay fan internal respiration i cant imagine anybdoy who poasts on xo is grwoth mindset (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32695500) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:10 PM Author: Flushed Stead Neither. Chad mindset. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32720767) |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:23 PM Author: Seedy Range Selfie The 'failure is just a step to success' self-help schtick ignores psychology. Events can't neatly be categorized into 'success' and 'failure,' with the individual merely choosing how to interpret one or the other. The events that these self-help books call 'failures' may include serious psychological traumas, incarcerations, injuries resulting in limb amputation, etc. It's quite clear that these types of events aren't 'all a matter of mindset.' It's entirely possible for an event to be legitimately crippling, at least if your goal was really specific.
Further, even in more moderate cases, it's not always clear that one can re-interpret failure as a positive. It's possible, but it depends on your pre-existing drives, needs, constitution etc. These people who get stubbornly motivated by failure are usually a particularly hungry type, with a really strong lust for whatever they're after, or perhaps just a need for it.
I know the 'headspace' the self-help books are getting at. I've been in situations where I really wanted something hard-to-obtain when alone in a new city, and yeah, I was able to grind through all the funny reactions to eventually find it. But there have been other times when I've wanted something but certain sensitivities prevented me from pursuing it; in these cases the 'failures' or 'rejections' had an overwhelmingly demoralizing effect that ran deeper than mere matters of 'attitude' or 'perspective.' |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:54 PM Author: Big station I don't think viewing failure as a positive is healthy in the long term. It leads to fetishizing SPS decisions and often obscures the credited course of action for people.
The best way to handle failure is to view it as a neutral outcome while maintaining a strong desire to succeed. |
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Date: February 28th, 2017 4:54 PM Author: Seedy Range Selfie Yeah it can lead to a certain 'chill' kind of masochism, which interestingly enough is a good place to have someone if you want to take all their money with self help courses and the like. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3534942&forum_id=2#32721046) |