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EPAH, how is your ex-wife doing? What else is going on?

Regale us with tales of your life.
soul-stirring alcoholic legend prole
  03/23/17
She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda w...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/23/17
nice. When will she get out? Any new big paydays on the h...
soul-stirring alcoholic legend prole
  03/23/17
She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober l...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/23/17
How can you surf but you cant swim?
At-the-ready razzle parlour round eye
  03/23/17
life jacket?
soul-stirring alcoholic legend prole
  03/23/17
seems awkward but i guess that could work
At-the-ready razzle parlour round eye
  03/23/17
Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.
Wonderful den kitty
  03/23/17
oh geez i really misread that!
At-the-ready razzle parlour round eye
  03/24/17
can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack o...
mauve locus
  03/23/17
She may have just been doing it for pleasure
Khaki pisswyrm cuckoldry
  03/23/17
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Talented internet-worthy national corn cake
  03/23/17
Wait- do you not know how to swim?
Bespoke sticky point generalized bond
  03/23/17
lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons
Boyish haunted graveyard
  03/23/17
Why do you think he married a black woman?
Olive garrison goal in life
  03/24/17
(rimshot)
transparent theatre
  03/24/17
didn't LORD HALFORD save her?
Razzmatazz Dragon
  03/23/17
Yeah
Aphrodisiac zippy macaca church building
  03/23/17
TRULY a Saint.
Razzmatazz Dragon
  03/23/17
...
Bespoke sticky point generalized bond
  03/24/17
Boondock saint
white misanthropic church tattoo
  03/24/17
whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is ...
Cerebral stage twinkling uncleanness
  03/23/17
Still on appeal but don't out me breh
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
godspeed, won't out you
Cerebral stage twinkling uncleanness
  03/24/17
wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?
stirring shrine famous landscape painting
  03/24/17
I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my e...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
lol it was on the beach or something
stirring shrine famous landscape painting
  03/24/17
That's her. Big fakes?
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
yeah she had a rockin bod
stirring shrine famous landscape painting
  03/24/17
Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to pla...
Twinkling exciting rigor gunner
  03/24/17
awwww id watch a gritty art house film based on your marria...
cerise stag film
  03/24/17
Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, ...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her m...
Chestnut nubile associate
  03/24/17
A year or so I guess idk
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it ag...
crawly pervert
  03/24/17
Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out o...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom ...
vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman
  03/24/17
Y'all got a sister?
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
Haha sorry but nope. Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too...
vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman
  03/24/17
Calm down, dr phil
white misanthropic church tattoo
  03/24/17
Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's li...
vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman
  03/24/17
Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increa...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
...
Twinkling exciting rigor gunner
  03/24/17
are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts...
Chestnut nubile associate
  03/24/17
They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there f...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't real...
Chestnut nubile associate
  03/24/17
Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to s...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17
Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in...
vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman
  03/24/17
Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've...
Avocado scourge upon the earth
  03/24/17
Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if y...
Wonderful den kitty
  03/24/17


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Date: March 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: soul-stirring alcoholic legend prole

Regale us with tales of your life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899279)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

She's doing fine. Coming up on 80 days or so. It's kinda wild b/c she's not exactly back to normal; like a wild animal that you catch and try to tame.

Nothing else exciting. Just coaching a lot of LL, going to swim lessons, stuff like that. Poasting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899347)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:09 PM
Author: soul-stirring alcoholic legend prole

nice. When will she get out?

Any new big paydays on the horizon?

How is coaching LL? Did you play baseball in HS or college?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899372)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:59 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

She already got out, but will probably be in a "sober living environment" for six months or so while she becomes domesticated again.

I think if this class gets certified, we'll settle within a few months for millions and billions.

Love it. I have more fun than the kids do. Played 1B in high school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900963)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:15 PM
Author: At-the-ready razzle parlour round eye

How can you surf but you cant swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899412)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:16 PM
Author: soul-stirring alcoholic legend prole

life jacket?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899414)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: At-the-ready razzle parlour round eye

seems awkward but i guess that could work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899429)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 6:57 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Swim lessons for the childrens, not for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32900945)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:25 AM
Author: At-the-ready razzle parlour round eye

oh geez i really misread that!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905983)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:17 PM
Author: mauve locus

can you confirm that she literally did suck dick for crack or did you give her enough spending money to cover all that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899420)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:18 PM
Author: Khaki pisswyrm cuckoldry

She may have just been doing it for pleasure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899426)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:20 PM
Author: Talented internet-worthy national corn cake



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:21 PM
Author: Bespoke sticky point generalized bond

Wait- do you not know how to swim?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899459)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 4:29 PM
Author: Boyish haunted graveyard

lol, I figured he meant rugrat swim lessons

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32899540)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:07 AM
Author: Olive garrison goal in life

Why do you think he married a black woman?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:42 AM
Author: transparent theatre

(rimshot)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906127)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:08 PM
Author: Razzmatazz Dragon

didn't LORD HALFORD save her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901052)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac zippy macaca church building

Yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901181)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: Razzmatazz Dragon

TRULY a Saint.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901187)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:57 AM
Author: Bespoke sticky point generalized bond



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905269)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: white misanthropic church tattoo

Boondock saint

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906356)



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Date: March 23rd, 2017 7:13 PM
Author: Cerebral stage twinkling uncleanness

whats going on with that big verdict that got tossed and is on appeal or whatever?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32901083)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Still on appeal but don't out me breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903747)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:29 AM
Author: Cerebral stage twinkling uncleanness

godspeed, won't out you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905044)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:11 AM
Author: stirring shrine famous landscape painting

wait was that chick you poasted a pic of your ex wife?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903682)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

I've posted pics of roughly 50 cute WOCs. The finest is my ex and future wife

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903743)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:19 AM
Author: stirring shrine famous landscape painting

lol it was on the beach or something

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903746)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:20 AM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

That's her. Big fakes?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32903759)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:52 PM
Author: stirring shrine famous landscape painting

yeah she had a rockin bod

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906657)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 9:58 AM
Author: Twinkling exciting rigor gunner

Why the FUCK would you marry her again? If you want to play house let her move back in, but you're a stupid mother fucker if you remarry.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32905275)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:43 AM
Author: cerise stag film

awwww

id watch a gritty art house film based on your marriage/life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906142)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:45 AM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Whenever I hear boring memoir stories on Fresh Air I think, "man have I got a story for you Terry."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906154)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:27 AM
Author: Chestnut nubile associate

how much sobriety will she have to have before you let her move back in?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906017)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:41 AM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

A year or so I guess idk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906116)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:52 AM
Author: crawly pervert

that's insanely risky. there's a good chance she'll do it again. even if the odds are "only" 10%, the consequences are terrible for both you and the kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906212)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Depends on how long. Another 10 years and the kids are out on their own. Better than being motherless I think

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906219)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:06 PM
Author: vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman

Better to be motherless than to have a crack whore of a mom who has no issues abandoning her kids.

You have to think about what sort of message you're sending to your kids by letting her move back in and remarrying her. There are consequences to her actions and one of them is that she doesn't get to live a normal family life and pretend nothing happened just because she swears she's sober this time. You're risking more instability in their lives by letting her back in. I know you're a great dad but I also unfortunately think you care too much about your ex to stay strong enough to make sure she's far away from these kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906310)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Y'all got a sister?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906321)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman

Haha sorry but nope.

Anyway, you're a good dude, prob too good in that you want to give her the benefit of the doubt. Wish you luck and for the kids' sake, I hope she really is changed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906603)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:14 PM
Author: white misanthropic church tattoo

Calm down, dr phil

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906363)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman

Something weird happened to me when I became a mom. It's like whenever I see news stories about child abuse or hear about somebody commuting suicide who had kids, I have this visceral reaction. Like I can understand in the abstract how you're an addict or so depressed that you can't think rationally so you abandon your kids. But it makes me just so angry. I guess it's called having feelings or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906623)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:27 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Lol, same thing happened to me, only mine's more like increased empathy for babby doods than increased blaming/judginess at the bad guy (not saying that's not justified 100%, just saying that's how mine's manifested). Like I can't watch news stories about babbies getting hurt or cancer-pwned or anything like that, and cry all the time during movies about babbies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906960)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:50 PM
Author: Twinkling exciting rigor gunner



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:08 PM
Author: Chestnut nubile associate

are your kids in therapy so they don't wind up being addicts or codependents themselves?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906320)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:09 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

They were for a couple months. Therapist said "there fine; you can still bring them here if you want, but I don't think they really need it." A therapist who I was paying money said this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906331)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Chestnut nubile associate

tbh, therapists who don't specialize in addiction don't really understand it well. when they're older they might get some benefit from talking to someone who specializes in counseling families of addicts. i don't agree with nutella that there's no hope for addicts and that they all deserve to be punished forever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906353)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:15 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Yeah this is very cr. I think they'll obv need to talk to someone as they get older. But they still in elementary school.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906366)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:22 PM
Author: vibrant very tactful philosopher-king skinny woman

Completely not what I am saying at all. letting her move in and remarrying her and essentially having things go back to a normal family after a year is insane and risks more instability for the kids. The consequences for her abandoning her entire family is that she needs to prove she can stay sober living on her own for at least 2-3 years, ideally even longer. I don't think she should be punished forever. She can have a relationship and visitation with the the kids but she doesn't get to live with them in their home after just a year of being sober. After all, EPAH has said she relapsed after many years of sobriety when she abandoned them the last time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906405)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 12:13 PM
Author: Avocado scourge upon the earth

Will you get a prenup if you marry her again now that you've come into more $? If not, are you worried she'll leave you for half?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906357)



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Date: March 24th, 2017 1:24 PM
Author: Wonderful den kitty

Yeah, I would think a prenup would be in order. Wonder if you can prenup as to custody? Recent CA bar takers pls advice thank

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3562053&forum_id=2#32906935)