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FUCK! Sister wants to separate from her husband

She's got three kids and her husband is a good dude. I'd te...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
What's the issue 80in the marriage? How old are the kids
twinkling senate trust fund
  04/24/17
As far as I can tell there is no concrete issue. They just ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Lol at your hippie sister No offense
twinkling senate trust fund
  04/24/17
My wife and I lol at my hippie sister all the fucking time, ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
TBF, she's already cheating. Don't say anything, slide and l...
big background story
  04/24/17
Fuck not saying anything. Our families are close.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
It'll all come out eventually. But, between you and I, she's...
big background story
  04/24/17
She's got 3 kids and a part time job, so there's not a lot o...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
People make time to fuck other people.
big background story
  04/24/17
I guess
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
The kids are his aren’t they?
razzmatazz zippy immigrant
  01/28/20
All phenotypic indications support her ex-husband's paternit...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
100% accurate
naked cerise piazza
  04/24/17
recommend couple's therapy?
titillating salmon chapel
  04/24/17
My wife is good friends with my sis and gave her a recommend...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Not to pry, but how does your wife know a recommendation for...
Cocky gay wizard rehab
  04/24/17
Knows a couple other ladies who just went through divorce in...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Crazy how this happens. Last summer a bunch of people my wif...
Pungent odious crotch
  04/24/17
With one of the ladies, her husband was cheating on Ashley M...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Sure. Cheatmos make it easier but this shit plants a seed. ...
Pungent odious crotch
  04/24/17
...
big background story
  04/24/17
like he actually managed to meet women off AM?
concupiscible effete coffee pot
  04/25/17
I don't really know. All third hand info for me.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/25/17
did he get outed by that email hack?
citrine 180 sanctuary milk
  04/27/17
Turns out they are going to meet with one of my wife's recom...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
How dumb is she? She thinks taking care of 3 kids herself is...
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
She knows it won't be easy (just like it's not easy now). I...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
she probably has husband #2 lined up
insane charismatic market
  04/24/17
I kind of doubt it, but I'm starting to wonder.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
LOL @ a chick with 3 kids getting remarried.
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
Crazier things have happened. As far as 40-year-old-divorce...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
"As far as 40-year-old-divorcees-with-aids, blown out v...
bright racy university
  04/24/17
go on...
Obsidian sick persian factory reset button
  04/24/17
I mean, she's not a fatass, which is a pretty good start for...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
LOLLLLLLLLLl She'll have to go for some 70 year old geriatr...
Elite rough-skinned associate nowag
  05/01/17
Send her those stats about how divorcees with kids are less ...
outnumbered boiling water goyim
  04/24/17
Link? My Google search turned up a bunch of "Go get th...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Oh, I was just assuming, but I guess not. Why do you wa...
outnumbered boiling water goyim
  04/24/17
I don't want my sister, her kids, or her husband to be unhap...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
It's really insane how the prevailing wisdom surrounding div...
misanthropic meetinghouse
  04/24/17
Seriously. I think the two main people giving her advice ar...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
I LOL'd at this during my own divorce. Women are so shallow ...
big background story
  04/24/17
Yeah this is not unique to women. I am currently dealing wit...
misanthropic meetinghouse
  04/24/17
Fucking crazy to me. Once you have kids... you put them ...
big background story
  04/24/17
(Adult)
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
Oh, but, you see, having a bad relationship with your spouse...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
My ex convinced her friends that we were constantly fighting...
big background story
  04/25/17
Also all those husbands who fucking HATE their ex wives afte...
Embarrassed to the bone grizzly church building
  05/01/17
I had to deal with something similar this weekend, and I tal...
bossy indirect expression address
  04/24/17
Is she still hot? Like, would you tap that ass if it weren't...
Deep cheese-eating garrison
  04/24/17
tell her she has to return the wedding gifts. also what a sl...
bright racy university
  04/24/17
google white sharia
exciting selfie
  04/24/17
How old are they and what do they do? Salaries?
Onyx potus
  04/24/17
Sis will turn 40 this year. Bro-in-law is younger, like 34 ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
LJL at your stupid fucking sister. Bro will be fine in 2-3 y...
Onyx potus
  04/24/17
She (says she) wants him to find someone else if it will mak...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Any woman who says that is cheating.
naked cerise piazza
  04/24/17
...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
...
big background story
  04/24/17
...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
Is your dad a professor? I might be good friends with your ...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
lol dick
bright racy university
  04/24/17
Nope. Despite my actual belief in the commitment of mar...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Ok good. Weird that my friend is 40, married to a 33 year o...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
Lol. I guess that's the modern family model.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
...
big background story
  04/24/17
MArriages where the woman is older are against the will of g...
Balding Bearded Stage
  04/24/17
I bet friends love hearing about his "old lady".
big background story
  04/24/17
explain why male sexual peak is in teens while female sexual...
Embarrassed to the bone grizzly church building
  05/01/17
Life expectancies were 35
concupiscible effete coffee pot
  05/01/17
a part time fake job with 3 kids oh yea take the plunge what...
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
I mean, he's going to end up paying for the kids one way or ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
wtf is this shit? She's 40 and he's 34 and SHE is leaving H...
Buff Glittery Center Dopamine
  04/24/17
Given the way you describe your sister it sounds unlikely sh...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
She's all about kids, though. Well, babies and birthing and...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
It's hard to be fair when kids are involved
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
You'd think I'd tend to favor my own flesh and blood over he...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
You haven't said it yet but this will also be a huge pain in...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
Fuck. I'm already helping my dad navigate a bullshit estate...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Condolences my brother I'm also the family doormat
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
It's none of your fucking business, you insufferable faggot
Insanely Creepy Tan Gas Station Degenerate
  04/24/17
...
Insanely Creepy Tan Gas Station Degenerate
  04/25/17
(modern human with all the secrets to a happy life like netf...
Embarrassed to the bone grizzly church building
  05/01/17
Why would you tell her to go for it if the husband is a good...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
TY
slap-happy blue athletic conference mother
  04/24/17
I don't understand the first question. I don't think tell...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
He is saying that if BIL is a good dood then why, absent kid...
Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder
  04/24/17
Because if the relationship sucks I don't see much benefit t...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
If BIL is a good dood, how exactly does the relationship suc...
Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder
  04/24/17
I disagree with your premise. A relationship and being tota...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
"but if she's looking for a 40+ guy to be good to her a...
Jet Laser Beams
  04/24/17
I don't know. The two other women with kids my wife knows t...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Lmao so she likely had a false sense of security/self-worth ...
saffron violent bbw
  04/24/17
jfc God sure has a sick sense of humor sometimes
multi-colored umber fat ankles
  04/24/17
No. I'm talking about two women my wife knows. My sister doe...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/25/17
http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2683670&mc=101&a...
misanthropic meetinghouse
  04/24/17
Is pigeon, used as an insult, pretty generalizable - or is i...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
It's used as a shorthand for the rich scientific literature ...
amber slimy old irish cottage brunch
  04/24/17
...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
ty
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
...
saffron violent bbw
  04/24/17
...
Duck-like Razzle Roast Beef
  04/24/17
no pigeons https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVrCtKhC1uk
laughsome fear-inspiring dysfunction gunner
  04/24/17
...
lemon swashbuckling nursing home
  08/31/18
Is she separating because shes a poor?
slap-happy blue athletic conference mother
  04/24/17
No.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
t&p brother. Dealing with a similar situation and it su...
misanthropic meetinghouse
  04/24/17
...
big background story
  04/24/17
Cr
Infuriating Business Firm
  04/24/17
Even if they know what's going on the statistics tell us it ...
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
Fuck. Our kids and their kids are close. The hubby is ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
There's no way it doesn't get ugly. You'll obviously take si...
big background story
  04/24/17
None of that is obvious.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
... yet Just wait
big background story
  04/24/17
I certainly don't plan on vocally siding with or against her...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Eat Pray Love was a fictional book bro
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
I know practitioners that do collaborative divorce type shit...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Being bored of each other isn't a good reason for divorce, w...
Walnut home
  04/24/17
She could also talk to her hubby and see if she can get some...
Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder
  04/24/17
She does deserve a little sympathy. Her husband isn't very ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
how's their sex life?
beady-eyed heaven
  04/24/17
Apparently (I learned within the last week) shitty.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Can't tell from your posts if she is your older or younger s...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
She's older, but not by much.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Bummer, even though you sound much more responsible you lose...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
Wife's got her text game going, but we don't want to push to...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
yes that's exactly what you should do; just dont be pushy or...
beady-eyed heaven
  04/24/17
Had a couple beers with bro-in-law yesterday. He's definite...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
what are her concerns? thread is tldr
beady-eyed heaven
  04/27/17
ctrl+f pigeon
misanthropic meetinghouse
  04/27/17
He worries about money and his job and shit, and she thinks ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
They needed a vacation alone with out kids about 2 years ago...
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/25/17
On the other hand, something like that might be how they got...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/25/17
Me thinking to the sex issue. People always think you need t...
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/25/17
tcr.
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
This x1000
Amethyst theater
  10/16/18
Here's the problem: disciplining your children means experie...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
you have a 180 view on marriage
naked cerise piazza
  04/24/17
Well said. Children aren't inherently unruly savages, contra...
multi-colored umber fat ankles
  04/24/17
...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
can i get more description and some anecdotes about her hipp...
hyperactive point turdskin
  04/24/17
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unschooling https://en.wiki...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
don't be lazy, ass. i want anecdotes.
hyperactive point turdskin
  04/24/17
She thinks coconut oil (i.e. 90% saturated fat) is good for ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
I feel like we could have a whole thread devoted to your sis...
big background story
  04/24/17
My sister has a good heart, and I love her, but she embodies...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
you seriously don't have any amusing stories of times her ki...
hyperactive point turdskin
  04/24/17
I think they stopped going to restaurants because one of her...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
extra virgin coconut oil has health benefits and is better t...
fluffy candlestick maker
  04/25/17
...
Orange space toaster
  04/27/17
Comparing dietary cholesteral to dietary saturated fat is eg...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
BTW - why is it that people are incapable of communicating o...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
Bridge too far
big background story
  04/24/17
i would blame white people, but Asians have the same problem...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
Do you remember that episode of The Golden Girls where Dorot...
arousing boistinker set
  04/28/17
It's pretty uncanny that at a minimum OP and his wife know a...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
So, just to clear up any misconceptions, my sis told bro-in-...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
Whoops sorry if I reading comp pwnt here - posting on phone
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
It's not the forcememe of oh someone annoyed me once too muc...
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
if you can get bored and lose "it" without anythin...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
THIS jfc
multi-colored umber fat ankles
  04/25/17
...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
That doesn't just happen overnight, though.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
So what?
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
I'm reinforcing Earl's point that communication is critical....
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
You are 100% correct. The key to a good marriage communicat...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
is sister hot? pics?
Wild brindle gaming laptop
  04/24/17
She's on the upper end of the spectrum for 40-year-olds with...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
tyia
Wild brindle gaming laptop
  04/24/17
Just kidding about the zillow link. Knew that would pique y...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
cr, redfin > zillow
Wild brindle gaming laptop
  04/24/17
...
big background story
  04/24/17
Agreed, but it's not on the market (for now!).
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
I audibly LOL'd
big background story
  04/24/17
...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
i feel really bad for those 3 kids. sounds like mommy is ...
fluffy candlestick maker
  04/24/17
Precisely my exact assessment.
big background story
  04/24/17
Yep, and now the OPs wife is probably .... thinking.
Rose idiotic trailer park
  04/24/17
Luckily, this is coming while we are on a relationship high....
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
very sad and sick
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/24/17
One problem is that women do not have the same perfected lev...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  04/24/17
Underrated
big background story
  04/24/17
...
fluffy candlestick maker
  04/24/17
holy shit
Duck-like Razzle Roast Beef
  04/24/17
earl is my boyfriend
concupiscible effete coffee pot
  04/25/17
I've gradually come to this conclusion as well
multi-colored umber fat ankles
  04/25/17
fuck off whore
Lascivious puppy national
  04/27/17
Whoah
cream comical resort
  04/25/17
...
Thriller round eye
  04/25/17
amazing
awkward razzle-dazzle station jewess
  04/25/17
*broadcasts this out to the universe as part of SETI*
Sepia dashing elastic band
  04/25/17
lol'd irl
multi-colored umber fat ankles
  04/25/17
...
unhinged sticky prole
  04/26/17
...
Boyish judgmental theatre
  01/28/20
(Divine Pimp Knowlege)
unhinged sticky prole
  04/25/17
...
Contagious Hairy Legs Hospital
  04/25/17
scholarship
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
...
naked cerise piazza
  05/01/17
do not remember writing this.
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  10/26/17
obviously written in a rare moment of perfected clarity.
misanthropic meetinghouse
  10/26/17
...
big background story
  01/28/20
...
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  10/16/18
LMFAO 180
Hideous histrionic den
  10/26/17
...
narrow-minded passionate house
  10/26/17
Did you tell her divorce is for poors?
beta sienna azn
  04/24/17
BRB, gonna text
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/24/17
...
Fragrant police squad
  04/24/17
...
beta sienna azn
  04/25/17
...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
...
yapping lay
  04/24/17
LOL at your sister and her effort intensive granola parentin...
pontificating aphrodisiac dragon
  04/25/17
Not even effort intensive really. More slide and let do.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/25/17
Then why is she stressed out?
pontificating aphrodisiac dragon
  04/25/17
Because her "dont tell them what to do" philosophy...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/25/17
That was my mom. Doesn't yield great odds.
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/25/17
Pigeon brain sister sees a bigger French fry
Thriller round eye
  04/25/17
Tell her the grass is greener where you water it.
copper halford
  04/25/17
This
multi-colored umber fat ankles
  04/25/17
This is true and good advice, but it sounds like the hubby i...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/25/17
Sounds like hubby is a chill, albeit non-confrontational, br...
Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder
  04/25/17
...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
...
Mauve hunting ground
  04/25/17
Not that it'll convince her but life outcomes for her childr...
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/25/17
tcr
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  04/25/17
problem is, once women make up their minds over anything, es...
fluffy candlestick maker
  04/25/17
Sad
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/25/17
I've said this before and I'll say it again as someone who p...
Hairraiser honey-headed personal credit line scourge upon the earth
  04/25/17
Why didn't azn hr cunt respect you
translucent bonkers pervert
  04/26/17
Apparently she needs to "find her truth" and "...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
did she go to Bennington College or something? how did she g...
Puce Institution
  04/27/17
I don't really know how she got this way, but "this way...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
call them the fuck out on it
Amethyst theater
  04/28/17
she's cheating (or about to). shame. poor kids.
Bateful cuckold locale
  04/27/17
She'll be asking op to watch the kids on the reg while she g...
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/27/17
We are watching the kids for them to talk, do counseling, et...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
Sorry bro. You seem like a good dood. Be a solid influence o...
Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant
  04/27/17
Definitelly cheating
spectacular pozpig church
  04/27/17
There was a killer post about how women justify cheating and...
Vivacious macaca ape
  04/27/17
She's a reliable source of bullshit modern hippie platitudes...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  04/27/17
BAM!
fishy property stain
  05/01/17
Ty, at last. This is a while woman in her 40s though
concupiscible effete coffee pot
  05/01/17
Figured I'd resurrect this thread based on capriciousness in...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/26/17
...
Soul-stirring angry queen of the night voyeur
  10/26/17
did she stop cheating?
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  10/26/17
I never really suspected her of cheating
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/26/17
Tell him to stop being a "good dude"/"Nice Gu...
razzmatazz zippy immigrant
  10/26/17
Sorry, not going to tell my sister's husband to be an asshol...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/26/17
CR. He also needs to get in shape and start paying attentio...
Zombie-like double fault
  10/26/17
TWIST: She's fucking pregnant!
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  06/11/18
lol
wonderful chocolate base clown
  06/11/18
who's the father?
Pink swollen stage
  06/11/18
First question that ran through my head
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  06/11/18
...
big background story
  06/11/18
They're coming over for dinner tonight. I'll be sure to ask...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  06/11/18
...
At-the-ready Boltzmann
  06/11/18
did she end up getting divorced
Vivacious macaca ape
  06/11/18
Lol no Edit: lol yes (in process)
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  06/11/18
FURTHER TWIST: Separation is back on the table
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  08/30/18
...
Irradiated plaza jap
  08/30/18
cans. panties.
sable juggernaut
  08/30/18
feet. hands.
Fantasy-prone vibrant electric furnace
  08/30/18
Just spent 3 hours with my wife talking to my sister and her...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  08/31/18
She keeping the babby?
Rose idiotic trailer park
  08/31/18
That baby didn't stick
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  09/01/18
Does your sister have a master's degree or some really aweso...
Plum excitant telephone library
  08/31/18
Lol
Stimulating Drunken Range
  08/31/18
...
Amethyst theater
  08/31/18
...
Misunderstood Mexican
  08/31/18
Lol
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  09/01/18
Why are people so short sighted? Your sister just had a misc...
Shivering ocher casino
  09/01/18
I actually don't think the miscarriage had much/anything to ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
Update: They're getting divorced. Using some cheapo unconte...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
Will you be expected to help your sis pay for stuff now?
Canary vigorous goal in life rigpig
  10/16/18
Fuck no. She had mentioned moving in my parents, who have a...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
this... could be a problem … for you.
Carnelian Out-of-control Wagecucks Liquid Oxygen
  10/16/18
I'm not too worried about it, but I guess we'll see what unf...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
I've had something oddly similar to this happen to me/my sis...
maroon step-uncle's house jew
  10/16/18
Fuck it. We're going to be sharing a condo/timeshare *for a...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
For what it's worth, that was an awesome vacation.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
Has she admitted to cheating yet? Women literally never d...
big background story
  10/16/18
No (but I haven't asked her directly). I don't really suspe...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
Not that it matters. Her body, her choice. I would eve...
big background story
  10/16/18
Nah, she's all about babies.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
I stand by my post from 1.5 years ago above: Sounds like ...
fluffy candlestick maker
  10/16/18
Op is a kike
razzmatazz zippy immigrant
  10/16/18
nope
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
Seconded. Can't understand why men get married these da...
big background story
  10/16/18
Mid-life crisis, sure, but I remain skeptical as to the fuck...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  10/16/18
i didn't say she necessarily was already fucking around, but...
fluffy candlestick maker
  10/16/18
In retrospect, allowing no-fault divorce was a terrible idea...
Bistre indian lodge pistol
  10/16/18
Man, I was a lot smarter 2 years ago. Fucking weed.
cobalt jet-lagged corn cake
  10/16/18
lol you’re not going to convince her of shit
Cerebral yellow therapy
  10/16/18
Helped my divorced sister and her divorced friend move into ...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
Did her ex do a paternity test?
big background story
  01/28/20
Not as far as I know, but they all look like him, for whatev...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
how's her ex husband doing
navy shitlib fanboi
  01/28/20
Pretty great, as far as I can tell. He's got a new girlfrie...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
Good. You're sister will come to regret this decision so...
big background story
  01/28/20
It's hard to know how she feels about it at this point. She...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
Does she have a tinder/bumble profile yet?
big background story
  01/28/20
How the fuck should I know?
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
what was the cause of the divorce? they just not get along?
navy shitlib fanboi
  01/28/20
See poasts, supra.
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
Assuredly, she thought she could do better. She just wasn't ...
big background story
  01/28/20
I don't really know if that's the case here. She just has (...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/28/20
Color me shocked.
big background story
  01/28/20
...
Motley indecent location
  01/29/20
Yeah, who knew the people supporting her decision to leave s...
Topaz Supple Ladyboy
  01/29/20


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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:21 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She's got three kids and her husband is a good dude. I'd tell her to go for it in a heartbeat if not for the kids, but she sounds pretty for sure about it.

How do I convince her to stick it out? Seems like anything I say will (a) not work, and (b) make things more awkward later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151446)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:23 PM
Author: twinkling senate trust fund

What's the issue 80in the marriage? How old are the kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151469)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

As far as I can tell there is no concrete issue. They just don't have the same fondness for each other. He isn't a big talker, so she feels kind of isolated, I think.

The biggest stressor is almost certainly their 3 kids (ages 2 to 7). This is in part (in my opinion) because my sister is into a parenting philosophy where she basically doesn't tell her kids what to do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151526)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:34 PM
Author: twinkling senate trust fund

Lol at your hippie sister

No offense

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151547)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:35 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

My wife and I lol at my hippie sister all the fucking time, even though she's basically my wife's best friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151551)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:38 PM
Author: big background story

TBF, she's already cheating. Don't say anything, slide and let do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151584)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Fuck not saying anything. Our families are close.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151628)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:47 PM
Author: big background story

It'll all come out eventually. But, between you and I, she's cheating and has been for a while.

The kids will be fine in the long run, but I feel bad for your BIL for getting cucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151660)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:48 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She's got 3 kids and a part time job, so there's not a lot of fucking time for cheating (pun somewhat intended). That said, I wouldn't cross it off the list of possibilities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151665)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:49 PM
Author: big background story

People make time to fuck other people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151670)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:53 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I guess

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151697)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:16 PM
Author: razzmatazz zippy immigrant

The kids are his aren’t they?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505030)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:19 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

All phenotypic indications support her ex-husband's paternity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505044)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:34 PM
Author: naked cerise piazza

100% accurate

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152485)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:22 PM
Author: titillating salmon chapel

recommend couple's therapy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151457)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

My wife is good friends with my sis and gave her a recommendation for a "discernment" therapist (i.e., someone who helps the couple decide whether to separate), but it sounds like she's not too interested in that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151544)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: Cocky gay wizard rehab

Not to pry, but how does your wife know a recommendation for this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151649)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:47 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Knows a couple other ladies who just went through divorce in the last year or two.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151661)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:09 PM
Author: Pungent odious crotch

Crazy how this happens. Last summer a bunch of people my wife knew did it seemingly one after another ONE WEIRD TRICK style

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151809)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:12 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

With one of the ladies, her husband was cheating on Ashley Madison, so that's easily explainable.

With the other, their kids are huge pains, so that's a lot of stress, but my wife suspects she waited until the husband got a better job and they finished remodeling their basement, then sprung the divorce on him.

In each case the wife wanted the divorce (although the cheating husband sort of forced the wife's hand in that case).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151824)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: Pungent odious crotch

Sure. Cheatmos make it easier but this shit plants a seed. We saw one cheatmo, one MGTOW, and one GGTOW and it was like bang bang bang.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151849)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151904)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:49 AM
Author: concupiscible effete coffee pot

like he actually managed to meet women off AM?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155443)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:19 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I don't really know. All third hand info for me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155674)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:15 PM
Author: citrine 180 sanctuary milk

did he get outed by that email hack?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177916)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Turns out they are going to meet with one of my wife's recommended counselors for "discernment" counseling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177660)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:23 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

How dumb is she? She thinks taking care of 3 kids herself is easy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151467)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She knows it won't be easy (just like it's not easy now). I assume she is looking forward to the days when they are all with their dad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151533)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:32 PM
Author: insane charismatic market

she probably has husband #2 lined up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151534)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:34 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I kind of doubt it, but I'm starting to wonder.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151549)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

LOL @ a chick with 3 kids getting remarried.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151602)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:44 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Crazier things have happened. As far as 40-year-old-divorcees-with-kids dating market goes, she's kind of a catch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151639)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: bright racy university

"As far as 40-year-old-divorcees-with-aids, blown out vags and no money dating market goes, she's kind of a catch."



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151651)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:04 PM
Author: Obsidian sick persian factory reset button

go on...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151783)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:14 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I mean, she's not a fatass, which is a pretty good start for a 40-year-old woman with three kids these days. If she's looking, I'm sure she'll meet someone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151837)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:30 PM
Author: Elite rough-skinned associate nowag

LOLLLLLLLLLl She'll have to go for some 70 year old geriatric

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204738)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:25 PM
Author: outnumbered boiling water goyim

Send her those stats about how divorcees with kids are less happy after getting divorced than when married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151492)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Link? My Google search turned up a bunch of "Go get that divorce, girl!" links.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151569)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:45 PM
Author: outnumbered boiling water goyim

Oh, I was just assuming, but I guess not.

Why do you want your sister to be unhappy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151644)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:50 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I don't want my sister, her kids, or her husband to be unhappy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151674)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:14 PM
Author: misanthropic meetinghouse

It's really insane how the prevailing wisdom surrounding divorce is that it's all about YOUR happiness and YOUR need for fulfillment, and I'm pretty sure the kids will cope just fine don't worry too much about that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151834)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:15 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Seriously. I think the two main people giving her advice are both childless, BTW. One of them is sort of a self-help guru these days, too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151844)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:18 PM
Author: big background story

I LOL'd at this during my own divorce. Women are so shallow and myopic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151864)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:20 PM
Author: misanthropic meetinghouse

Yeah this is not unique to women. I am currently dealing with a man who is acting like the ultimate "I just deserve what I deserve!" shrew.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151884)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:22 PM
Author: big background story

Fucking crazy to me.

Once you have kids... you put them first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151892)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:17 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

(Adult)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152328)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:20 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Oh, but, you see, having a bad relationship with your spouse will serve as a bad model for your kids, so really you'll be doing them a favor by divorcing!

Maybe that's valid if you're constantly fighting and spiteful, but I think it's bullshit if you're just unfulfilled.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152351)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:33 AM
Author: big background story

My ex convinced her friends that we were constantly fighting. That I would say mean abusive shit, in front of the kids ALL the time. She would actually get off on hearing that echo chamber telling her she was in the right and doesn't deserve to be treated that way. It was all fantasized bullshit, but she got the push she needed and the encouragement and support from idiot friends and family. Took a few years before people started realizing she was a narcissist and compulsive liar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157579)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:04 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone grizzly church building

Also all those husbands who fucking HATE their ex wives after the divorce are the same assuming they have kids together, sorry you got shat on, but suck it up and be a man for your kids, you're creating a toxic environment by trying to ALCOHOL them against thier mother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204578)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: bossy indirect expression address

I had to deal with something similar this weekend, and I talked at length to a girl I know who just told me on Saturday that she had already filed for divorce.

Tell her to definitely do couple's counseling, divorce is not an "easy button" especially when there are kids.

A therapist friend just this weekend recommend EFT (emotionally focused couples therapy) for this, spoke very highly of it. Look for a therapist who does this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151527)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:33 PM
Author: Deep cheese-eating garrison

Is she still hot? Like, would you tap that ass if it weren't related? Ask her to get on tinder and see how soul-crushing it is going to be for her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151543)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:36 PM
Author: bright racy university

tell her she has to return the wedding gifts. also what a slut liar saying until death. tip off the husband now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151560)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:37 PM
Author: exciting selfie

google white sharia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151577)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:41 PM
Author: Onyx potus

How old are they and what do they do?

Salaries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151611)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Sis will turn 40 this year. Bro-in-law is younger, like 34 I think? He's got a techy/engineery job and she's got a somewhat hippie part time job that has a weird schedule. I feel weird giving detailed information.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151655)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:48 PM
Author: Onyx potus

LJL at your stupid fucking sister. Bro will be fine in 2-3 years, remarry someone younger and slide and let do. Your sister is headed for cat lady status.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151664)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:53 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She (says she) wants him to find someone else if it will make him happy.

At any rate, if it got her 2-3 days a week with no kids, she might make that deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151694)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:39 PM
Author: naked cerise piazza

Any woman who says that is cheating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152543)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152562)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:48 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152615)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:49 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158284)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:52 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

Is your dad a professor? I might be good friends with your sister and shame on her for divorcing her husband. All the ages and 3 kids are spot on.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151691)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:53 PM
Author: bright racy university

lol dick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151699)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:55 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Nope.

Despite my actual belief in the commitment of marriage, I would totally back her if it were just the two of them, but with the three kids I can't help but think she's viewing this selfishly and coming up with convenient excuses as to why it will be better for the kids.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151715)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:56 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

Ok good. Weird that my friend is 40, married to a 33 year old techie, with three kids 2-7 and works part time doing hippie stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151717)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:59 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Lol. I guess that's the modern family model.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151740)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:01 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151763)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:23 PM
Author: Balding Bearded Stage

MArriages where the woman is older are against the will of god

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151898)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: big background story

I bet friends love hearing about his "old lady".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151914)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:10 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone grizzly church building

explain why male sexual peak is in teens while female sexual peak is in twenties, then, shitlib

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204633)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:26 PM
Author: concupiscible effete coffee pot

Life expectancies were 35

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204717)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:19 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

a part time fake job with 3 kids oh yea take the plunge what could go wrong

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151874)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:38 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I mean, he's going to end up paying for the kids one way or another, and she'll probably keep the house somehow, so I can see how it would work out in her favor.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151974)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:24 PM
Author: Buff Glittery Center Dopamine

wtf is this shit? She's 40 and he's 34 and SHE is leaving HIM? Gotta be either affair or mental illness on her part.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151906)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:19 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

Given the way you describe your sister it sounds unlikely she would have made it even this far into her commitment to husband/kids nuclear gig

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152343)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:21 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She's all about kids, though. Well, babies and birthing and pregnant ladies any rate.

I'm probably being a bit unfair to her because I don't think she's making a good call in this case.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152358)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:22 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

It's hard to be fair when kids are involved

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152365)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

You'd think I'd tend to favor my own flesh and blood over her rando husband, but I think she's off base.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152407)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:29 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

You haven't said it yet but this will also be a huge pain in your ass - from the way you write about this unfolding it sounds like you are pretty in touch with her? And if shit goes down she'll need your loyalty despite her stupidity - that'll be a strange way to go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152435)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:30 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Fuck. I'm already helping my dad navigate a bullshit estate squabble with his sister. I'm drawing the line at family law.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152447)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:33 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

Condolences my brother I'm also the family doormat

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152476)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:44 PM
Author: Insanely Creepy Tan Gas Station Degenerate

It's none of your fucking business, you insufferable faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151633)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:26 AM
Author: Insanely Creepy Tan Gas Station Degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157522)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:06 PM
Author: Embarrassed to the bone grizzly church building

(modern human with all the secrets to a happy life like netflix, grindr, and autism)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204592)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:46 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

Why would you tell her to go for it if the husband is a good dude?

Maybe suggest to your sister to stop acting like a pigeon/child now that she is presumably in her mid to late 30's with adult responsibilities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151654)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:51 PM
Author: slap-happy blue athletic conference mother

TY

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151680)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 5:58 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I don't understand the first question.

I don't think telling her she's acting like a child will have the desired effect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151732)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:37 PM
Author: Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder

He is saying that if BIL is a good dood then why, absent kids, would you support her decision to divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151969)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:42 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Because if the relationship sucks I don't see much benefit to prolonging it, especially if that means they're more likely to bring kids into the equation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152002)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:53 PM
Author: Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder

If BIL is a good dood, how exactly does the relationship suck? Keeping in mind "suck" is not on an absolute scale in the context of deciding to divorce, but rather relative to her other options. Would being a cat lady suck less? Or, if BIL is a good dood, what are the chances she finds a better partner at this stage in her life?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152108)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:01 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I disagree with your premise. A relationship and being totally single might both suck.

Anyway, if their relationship is such that she feels no desire to be in it, I consider that a sucky relationship, or a not-too-good relationship at best.

I think it's a really bad idea to bring kids into a sucky or not-too-good relationship, regardless of whether you think you can snag a better mate somewhere else. Better to end it.

As for her chances elsewhere, she's toward the top end of the 40-year-old-divorcee-with-3-kids dating pool. That doesn't mean the world is her oyster, but if she's looking for a 40+ guy to be good to her and her kids, she can probably find him.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152197)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:31 PM
Author: Jet Laser Beams

"but if she's looking for a 40+ guy to be good to her and her kids, she can probably find him"

eh . .probably not. Any 40+ guy she meets probably ahs kids of his own and isn't looking to adopt 3 more mouths/personalities/problems.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152456)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:33 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I don't know. The two other women with kids my wife knows that got divorced in the last year or two hooked up with other dudes within like 6 months. One moved in with the dude and his kids Brady Bunch style.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152477)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:14 PM
Author: saffron violent bbw

Lmao so she likely had a false sense of security/self-worth based on her friend hitting the lotto

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153393)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 11:37 PM
Author: multi-colored umber fat ankles

jfc God sure has a sick sense of humor sometimes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33154776)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:21 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

No. I'm talking about two women my wife knows. My sister doesn't really know them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155683)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:48 PM
Author: misanthropic meetinghouse

http://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2683670&mc=101&forum_id=2#26393363

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152070)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:20 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

Is pigeon, used as an insult, pretty generalizable - or is it specific to insulting women? Have never used, would like to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152355)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: amber slimy old irish cottage brunch

It's used as a shorthand for the rich scientific literature showing that women have the brains of pigeons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152391)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152399)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

ty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152408)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:15 PM
Author: saffron violent bbw



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153401)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:22 PM
Author: Duck-like Razzle Roast Beef



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153502)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:24 PM
Author: laughsome fear-inspiring dysfunction gunner

no pigeons

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVrCtKhC1uk

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153521)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 2:26 PM
Author: lemon swashbuckling nursing home



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36722518)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:06 PM
Author: slap-happy blue athletic conference mother

Is she separating because shes a poor?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151794)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

No.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151848)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:19 PM
Author: misanthropic meetinghouse

t&p brother. Dealing with a similar situation and it sucks when the family starts picking sides. Those kids are young enough that they will be completely confused and clueless about what is going on.

This is going to be rough on your kids even if they don't show it. The concept of mom and dad splitting up is now going to be a real possibility in their minds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151868)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:21 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151886)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:22 PM
Author: Infuriating Business Firm

Cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151894)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:26 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

Even if they know what's going on the statistics tell us it will still be devastating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151916)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:45 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Fuck. Our kids and their kids are close.

The hubby is a pretty non-confrontational guy, so even if they go through with it I'm hopeful that it won't get ugly. Then again, maybe this will be the moment he stops going along with all her hippie bullshit ideas and calls her out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152031)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:46 PM
Author: big background story

There's no way it doesn't get ugly. You'll obviously take sides with your sister and he'll speak to you only if it's necessary.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152046)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:53 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

None of that is obvious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152106)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:53 PM
Author: big background story

... yet

Just wait

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152111)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:02 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I certainly don't plan on vocally siding with or against her on anything, although I've already told her I'm biased toward her staying together with her husband.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152209)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:47 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

Eat Pray Love was a fictional book bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152052)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:54 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I know practitioners that do collaborative divorce type shit. Their clients must come from somewhere. No guarantees, but I think this is a decent contender for not getting ugly (if it happens).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152118)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:32 PM
Author: Walnut home

Being bored of each other isn't a good reason for divorce, with or without kids. Nothing short of cheating and abuse are valid grounds for divorce imo. It sounds like she just doesn't want to put up with kids full time. Tell her instead of divorcing, maybe she should change her parenting philosophy to make things easier on disciplining her kids and getting them to listen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151949)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:39 PM
Author: Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder

She could also talk to her hubby and see if she can get some alone time away from the kids every week for a set amount of time. Not that I have a lot of sympathy for her based on OP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33151982)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:09 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She does deserve a little sympathy. Her husband isn't very emotionally available and just sort of retreats into the garage instead of dealing with shit. He also has sort of ignored some of her relatinoship complaints for a while. The relationship stuff is definitely a 2-way street.

I'm hoping this is a wake-up call to get them to both seriously put some effort into reforming their relationship, but it sounds like she may have already made up her mind. I hope not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152274)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:21 PM
Author: beady-eyed heaven

how's their sex life?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152362)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:23 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Apparently (I learned within the last week) shitty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152379)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:29 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

Can't tell from your posts if she is your older or younger sister

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152440)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:31 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She's older, but not by much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152453)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:39 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

Bummer, even though you sound much more responsible you lose leverage there

How about you're wife - can't she do some lady mind melding & save this family?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152550)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:43 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Wife's got her text game going, but we don't want to push too hard.

I might offer to take bro-in-law out for a beer this week to get his perspective (sis thinks that's a good idea).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152579)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: beady-eyed heaven

yes that's exactly what you should do; just dont be pushy or needle/guilt trip him about anything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152641)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:44 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Had a couple beers with bro-in-law yesterday. He's definitely willing to listen to her concerns and make a go of it. Hope she hasn't closed the door on that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177589)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:45 PM
Author: beady-eyed heaven

what are her concerns? thread is tldr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177609)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:47 PM
Author: misanthropic meetinghouse

ctrl+f pigeon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177619)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:53 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

He worries about money and his job and shit, and she thinks the universe will provide so just quit your job and lets hie to farthest Costa Rica.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177682)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:30 AM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

They needed a vacation alone with out kids about 2 years ago. That sucks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157552)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:53 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

On the other hand, something like that might be how they got their 2-year-old

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157744)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

Me thinking to the sex issue. People always think you need to be getting along before fixing the bedroom. It a good barometer, but for guys getting laid solves a million other issues outright. Your bro in law probably wouldn't be as reclusive relationship wise if odds of getting fucked were higher. Amazing how women don't get this - fucking solves almost all of a man's problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159238)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:37 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol

tcr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159247)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:30 PM
Author: Amethyst theater

This x1000

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036846)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:06 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Here's the problem: disciplining your children means experiencing some short term difficulty and enforcing rules and shit. So...if the goal is to avoid your screaming kids, that's not going to sound too attractive. If I were going to tell her that her parenting is bullshit, I probably should have done that 5 years ago.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152255)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: naked cerise piazza

you have a 180 view on marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152603)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 11:57 PM
Author: multi-colored umber fat ankles

Well said. Children aren't inherently unruly savages, contrary to popular belief. That sort of behavior is largely a reflection of the parents' parenting skills, or lack thereof

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33154922)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:37 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159253)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 6:49 PM
Author: hyperactive point turdskin

can i get more description and some anecdotes about her hippie parenting philosophy so i can lol?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152076)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:11 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unschooling

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sudbury_school

She has some quote up at her house that says "When we focus on external learning, instead of internal knowing, we disempower ourselves" or something like that.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152287)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:15 PM
Author: hyperactive point turdskin

don't be lazy, ass. i want anecdotes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152317)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:18 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She thinks coconut oil (i.e. 90% saturated fat) is good for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152337)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:21 PM
Author: big background story

I feel like we could have a whole thread devoted to your sister and her ilk.

Your brother in law knew what he was getting himself into, didn't he?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152361)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:29 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

My sister has a good heart, and I love her, but she embodies many of the worst XO stereotypes of UMC white women.

I'm not exactly sure how much he knew and when he knew it, but they formed babby almost immediately after getting hitched.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152437)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:24 PM
Author: hyperactive point turdskin

you seriously don't have any amusing stories of times her kids acted like animals and she responded inappropriately?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152385)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:37 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I think they stopped going to restaurants because one of her kids decided not to wear shoes, like, ever. I can't really think if any good ones right now.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152525)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:06 PM
Author: fluffy candlestick maker

extra virgin coconut oil has health benefits and is better than most oils.

its saturated fat isn't hydrogenated.

thinking coconut oil is unhealthy because it has a high % of saturated fat is akin to thinking eggs are unhealthy because they contain high amounts of cholesterol. antiquated and erroneous nutrition advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158438)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:26 PM
Author: Orange space toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177974)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:28 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Comparing dietary cholesteral to dietary saturated fat is egregious flame.

Coconut "oil" may be better than many other saturated fats, but that doesn't mean it's "healthy" when compared to olive oil, canola oil, safflower oil, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177991)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:22 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

BTW - why is it that people are incapable of communicating openly about things - especially with their spouses. Obviously I am new to marriage - though not relationships - and it seems like so many things would be solved or dealt with before they become problems if only people were capable of some level of introspection and were able to effectively communicate feelings to others.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152366)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: big background story

Bridge too far

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152393)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:27 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

i would blame white people, but Asians have the same problem. Just fucking talk daily about the things that are important, and listen.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152410)



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Date: April 28th, 2017 3:18 PM
Author: arousing boistinker set

Do you remember that episode of The Golden Girls where Dorothy's lesbian friend falls in love with Rose? That's how feel about you right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33185810)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:33 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

It's pretty uncanny that at a minimum OP and his wife know all about this and husband is still out there without a paddle

If things aren't right with my #1 he's the first to know - I like feedback but I don't workshop my life like this and ever start with anyone else in figuring shit out in the relationship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152468)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:45 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

So, just to clear up any misconceptions, my sis told bro-in-law that she wants to separate, *then* told my wife that it happened. So bro-in-law isn't in the dark there.

However, I'm not sure how much was shared/said before "I want to separate." That might have caught him out of nowhere.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152589)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:46 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad

Whoops sorry if I reading comp pwnt here - posting on phone

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152597)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:36 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

It's not the forcememe of oh someone annoyed me once too much. If you're with someone and you just don't have "it" with them anymore, it's over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152515)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

if you can get bored and lose "it" without anything bad happening, you should not have gotten married in the first place.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152557)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:04 AM
Author: multi-colored umber fat ankles

THIS jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33154971)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:54 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158336)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:45 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

That doesn't just happen overnight, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152591)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:54 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol

So what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158344)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 6:17 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I'm reinforcing Earl's point that communication is critical. You have to keep up the lines of communication and keep working on making each other happy. Can't slack off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33178796)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

You are 100% correct. The key to a good marriage communication and working in good faith to reach mutually agreeable resolutions to conflicts, even when it's annoying, tedious, embarrassing, etc.

It takes work.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152560)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:23 PM
Author: Wild brindle gaming laptop

is sister hot? pics?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152377)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She's on the upper end of the spectrum for 40-year-olds with 3 kids. No pics, but maybe I could post a zillow link to their house?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152604)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:49 PM
Author: Wild brindle gaming laptop

tyia

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152623)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Just kidding about the zillow link. Knew that would pique your interest though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152632)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:51 PM
Author: Wild brindle gaming laptop

cr, redfin > zillow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152643)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:54 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152668)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:55 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Agreed, but it's not on the market (for now!).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152679)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:52 PM
Author: big background story

I audibly LOL'd

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152654)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:54 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152670)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159244)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:24 PM
Author: fluffy candlestick maker

i feel really bad for those 3 kids.

sounds like mommy is having a mid-life crisis and wants to fuck around while she still has some of her looks.

get a couple days per week where she doesn't have to deal with the children, can go out and party like before she was married, etc. i'd pretty much guarantee she has a specific guy in mind whom she's crushing on hard, if not already cheating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152380)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: big background story

Precisely my exact assessment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152406)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:28 PM
Author: Rose idiotic trailer park

Yep, and now the OPs wife is probably .... thinking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152428)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:49 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Luckily, this is coming while we are on a relationship high. So that's good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152627)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:30 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

very sad and sick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152444)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:38 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

One problem is that women do not have the same perfected level of clarity that men do immediately after having an orgasm.

Any man tempted to cheat can jerk off and in the 30 seconds following ejaculation, have a perfectly clear understanding of what it means to cheat, what he is likely to get out of it, and whether that decision is worth it or not. He may try to discipline himself and fail the next time he is horny (rather than jerk off and reassess), but at least he has the ability to know the consequences of what he is doing and can decide whether to feel guilty, or embrace hedonism selfishly.

Women have no such forced-clarity. If a woman masturbates thinking about a guy she wants to cheat with, she will not immediately lose the sexual impulse and evaluate the decision to cheat based on the circumstances she is in. Instead her pigeon brain will associate the post-orgasm glow with the cheating target and this will reinforce the idea that it is the right thing for her to do.

This is why God made women small and easy to beat. Because they do not have a hard-wired method of controlling themselves, like men do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152537)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:53 PM
Author: big background story

Underrated

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152664)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:16 PM
Author: fluffy candlestick maker



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153429)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:25 PM
Author: Duck-like Razzle Roast Beef

holy shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153538)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:07 AM
Author: concupiscible effete coffee pot

earl is my boyfriend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155596)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:51 AM
Author: multi-colored umber fat ankles

I've gradually come to this conclusion as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33156026)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:47 PM
Author: Lascivious puppy national

fuck off whore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33178138)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 4:58 AM
Author: cream comical resort

Whoah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33156215)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 5:04 AM
Author: Thriller round eye



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33156218)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 5:06 AM
Author: awkward razzle-dazzle station jewess

amazing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33156219)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 10:15 AM
Author: Sepia dashing elastic band

*broadcasts this out to the universe as part of SETI*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157117)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:43 PM
Author: multi-colored umber fat ankles

lol'd irl

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159287)



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Date: April 26th, 2017 11:47 PM
Author: unhinged sticky prole



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33172784)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:15 PM
Author: Boyish judgmental theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505015)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 10:42 AM
Author: unhinged sticky prole

(Divine Pimp Knowlege)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157261)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:31 AM
Author: Contagious Hairy Legs Hospital



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157563)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:55 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol

scholarship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158353)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:00 PM
Author: naked cerise piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204560)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:29 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

do not remember writing this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536038)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:40 PM
Author: misanthropic meetinghouse

obviously written in a rare moment of perfected clarity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536110)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:25 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505070)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036824)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:43 PM
Author: Hideous histrionic den

LMFAO 180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536121)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: narrow-minded passionate house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536425)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:35 PM
Author: beta sienna azn

Did you tell her divorce is for poors?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152493)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:51 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

BRB, gonna text

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152649)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 7:53 PM
Author: Fragrant police squad



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33152660)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:22 AM
Author: beta sienna azn



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155699)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:56 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158356)



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Date: April 24th, 2017 9:21 PM
Author: yapping lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33153492)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:59 AM
Author: pontificating aphrodisiac dragon

LOL at your sister and her effort intensive granola parenting philosophies that don't include stay married to the father. LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155556)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:23 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Not even effort intensive really. More slide and let do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155704)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:36 AM
Author: pontificating aphrodisiac dragon

Then why is she stressed out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155776)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 10:33 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Because her "dont tell them what to do" philosophy results in kids that are frustrating as hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157226)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:26 AM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

That was my mom. Doesn't yield great odds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157523)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:52 AM
Author: Thriller round eye

Pigeon brain sister sees a bigger French fry

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155832)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:58 AM
Author: copper halford

Tell her the grass is greener where you water it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33155848)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:52 AM
Author: multi-colored umber fat ankles

This

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33156029)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 10:39 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

This is true and good advice, but it sounds like the hubby is the one who has been resistant to counseling type stuff (not anymore though)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157255)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:38 PM
Author: Silver adventurous shrine mental disorder

Sounds like hubby is a chill, albeit non-confrontational, bro and your sister is a retard. She is a fucking idiot and deserves to see what single-mom post-40 life is like (I don't care what percentile she is in for that group) if not for her poor kids who are already being raised like shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158170)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:29 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159191)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:46 PM
Author: Mauve hunting ground



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159298)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 11:25 AM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

Not that it'll convince her but life outcomes for her children (and grand children) will suffer greatly.

Relationships have ups and downs and three little kids will stress even a the healthiest of couples. This is probably just a rough patch. Sucks fucking over the future because of it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33157517)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 12:56 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158361)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 1:08 PM
Author: fluffy candlestick maker

problem is, once women make up their minds over anything, especially with regard to marriage and relationships, it's over.

so there's no point trying to repair the marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33158451)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

Sad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159200)



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Date: April 25th, 2017 2:47 PM
Author: Hairraiser honey-headed personal credit line scourge upon the earth

I've said this before and I'll say it again as someone who practiced family law/divorces for a number of years:

once a women loses respect for her man there is no coming back from it. Women are incapable of re-respecting their man and respect is the only thing that binds them in the first place.

There is no such thing as commitment anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33159305)



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Date: April 26th, 2017 11:48 PM
Author: translucent bonkers pervert

Why didn't azn hr cunt respect you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33172790)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:52 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Apparently she needs to "find her truth" and "listen to her heart vibrations."

*tears hair out*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177676)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: Puce Institution

did she go to Bennington College or something? how did she get this way

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177708)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I don't really know how she got this way, but "this way" is increasingly common among her/my social cohort, it seems.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177790)



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Date: April 28th, 2017 3:21 PM
Author: Amethyst theater

call them the fuck out on it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33185831)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 3:56 PM
Author: Bateful cuckold locale

she's cheating (or about to). shame. poor kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177711)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:09 PM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

She'll be asking op to watch the kids on the reg while she goes out on dates.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177864)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:26 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

We are watching the kids for them to talk, do counseling, etc.

I don't really foresee us refusing to watch her kids if she gets divorced, but there needs to be some reciprocity on that front, which will be hard for her to do as a singlemo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177980)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:29 PM
Author: Impertinent Emerald Public Bath Legal Warrant

Sorry bro. You seem like a good dood. Be a solid influence on those little guys.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177998)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:14 PM
Author: spectacular pozpig church

Definitelly cheating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33177905)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:33 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

There was a killer post about how women justify cheating and "find her truth" was in there verbatim.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33178030)



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Date: April 27th, 2017 4:44 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

She's a reliable source of bullshit modern hippie platitudes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33178119)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:05 PM
Author: fishy property stain

BAM!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204586)



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Date: May 1st, 2017 12:29 PM
Author: concupiscible effete coffee pot

Ty, at last. This is a while woman in her 40s though

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#33204734)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:24 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Figured I'd resurrect this thread based on capriciousness in the Thunder Collins SAHM thread.

The good news is they're still together 6 months later. They got a (hot 19 year old) au pair that didn't work out, and now have a new one that they like a lot more, and my sis is working outside the house more. Seems to help.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34535634)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:30 PM
Author: Soul-stirring angry queen of the night voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536045)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

did she stop cheating?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536052)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:39 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I never really suspected her of cheating

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536105)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:41 PM
Author: razzmatazz zippy immigrant

Tell him to stop being a "good dude"/"Nice Guy"

she'll swoon back like flies to shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536112)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:00 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Sorry, not going to tell my sister's husband to be an asshole to her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536273)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:14 PM
Author: Zombie-like double fault

CR. He also needs to get in shape and start paying attention to his clothes and shit so females will start paying him attention in public. If he actually wants to be with this slut

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#34536414)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 4:07 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

TWIST: She's fucking pregnant!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36224887)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 4:23 PM
Author: wonderful chocolate base clown

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36224965)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 4:24 PM
Author: Pink swollen stage

who's the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36224973)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 4:26 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

First question that ran through my head

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36224988)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 8:24 PM
Author: big background story



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36226615)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 8:20 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

They're coming over for dinner tonight. I'll be sure to ask.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36226576)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 8:34 PM
Author: At-the-ready Boltzmann



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36226700)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 8:36 PM
Author: Vivacious macaca ape

did she end up getting divorced

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36226724)



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Date: June 11th, 2018 10:03 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Lol no

Edit: lol yes (in process)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36227555)



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Date: August 30th, 2018 11:07 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

FURTHER TWIST: Separation is back on the table

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36719301)



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Date: August 30th, 2018 11:17 PM
Author: Irradiated plaza jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36719347)



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Date: August 30th, 2018 11:19 PM
Author: sable juggernaut

cans. panties.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36719357)



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Date: August 30th, 2018 11:26 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone vibrant electric furnace

feet. hands.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36719385)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 2:51 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Just spent 3 hours with my wife talking to my sister and her husband.

Separation looking more inevitable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36720127)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 9:03 AM
Author: Rose idiotic trailer park

She keeping the babby?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36720706)



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Date: September 1st, 2018 12:32 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

That baby didn't stick

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36726180)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 11:42 AM
Author: Plum excitant telephone library

Does your sister have a master's degree or some really awesome travel stories that would allow her to quickly attract a new SO if she breaks it off with this one?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36721624)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 2:15 PM
Author: Stimulating Drunken Range

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36722455)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 2:16 PM
Author: Amethyst theater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36722461)



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Date: August 31st, 2018 2:38 PM
Author: Misunderstood Mexican



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36722601)



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Date: September 1st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36726192)



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Date: September 1st, 2018 1:02 AM
Author: Shivering ocher casino

Why are people so short sighted? Your sister just had a miscarriage. Doesn't she realize that is probably not the time to make a literally life altering decision not just for herself, but for 4 other people?

Also, not sure what the issues are, but its highly unlikely that they are going to get better after divorce. Like you don't get to start your life over. IF you do manage to get in another relationship, that relationship is going to have all the fucking baggage from your first marriage. You're just adding more hassle and baggiage to your life - not removing it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#36726297)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 4:54 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I actually don't think the miscarriage had much/anything to do with it.

She says both she and her soon-to-be-ex-husband are relieved now that the decision is made, and I can understand that, but that feeling might be short-lived as they deal with all the hassle/baggage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036630)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Update: They're getting divorced. Using some cheapo uncontested divorce shop (not my recommendation). Also, I'm going on a vacation with my soon-to-be-ex-brother-in-law in November/December.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036071)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:00 PM
Author: Canary vigorous goal in life rigpig

Will you be expected to help your sis pay for stuff now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036664)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Fuck no. She had mentioned moving in my parents, who have a rental unit, but they have made clear they need the rental income, so she would need to pay rent if she did that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036677)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:07 PM
Author: Carnelian Out-of-control Wagecucks Liquid Oxygen

this... could be a problem … for you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036697)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:13 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I'm not too worried about it, but I guess we'll see what unfolds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036731)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:08 PM
Author: maroon step-uncle's house jew

I've had something oddly similar to this happen to me/my sister. We called off the guy's weekend though lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036702)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Fuck it. We're going to be sharing a condo/timeshare *for a week* and I'm still excited about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036757)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:48 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

For what it's worth, that was an awesome vacation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505208)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:17 PM
Author: big background story

Has she admitted to cheating yet?

Women literally never do this without assurances on the horizon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036753)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

No (but I haven't asked her directly). I don't really suspect that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036760)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:20 PM
Author: big background story

Not that it matters. Her body, her choice.

I would even bet that miscarriage was an abortion.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036775)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:23 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Nah, she's all about babies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036797)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:25 PM
Author: fluffy candlestick maker

I stand by my post from 1.5 years ago above:

Sounds like mommy is having a mid-life crisis and wants to fuck around while she still has some of her looks.

get a couple days per week where she doesn't have to deal with the children, can go out and party like before she was married, etc. i'd pretty much guarantee she has a specific guy in mind whom she's crushing on hard, if not already cheating.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036811)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: razzmatazz zippy immigrant

Op is a kike

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036820)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:46 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

nope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036921)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: big background story

Seconded.

Can't understand why men get married these days.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036835)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Mid-life crisis, sure, but I remain skeptical as to the fucking around thing.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036924)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 11:16 PM
Author: fluffy candlestick maker

i didn't say she necessarily was already fucking around, but she's certainly thinking about it and wanting it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37039516)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:28 PM
Author: Bistre indian lodge pistol

In retrospect, allowing no-fault divorce was a terrible idea.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036825)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:29 PM
Author: cobalt jet-lagged corn cake

Man, I was a lot smarter 2 years ago. Fucking weed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036834)



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Date: October 16th, 2018 5:47 PM
Author: Cerebral yellow therapy

lol you’re not going to convince her of shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#37036925)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:12 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Helped my divorced sister and her divorced friend move into the 3 BR apt/townhouse they'll be sharing with my sister's 3 kids (half of the time) today. Good times.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505002)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:13 PM
Author: big background story

Did her ex do a paternity test?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505007)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:18 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Not as far as I know, but they all look like him, for whatever that's worth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505039)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:15 PM
Author: navy shitlib fanboi

how's her ex husband doing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505019)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:21 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Pretty great, as far as I can tell. He's got a new girlfriend and still lives in the house they used to share (his mom loaned him money to buy out my sis as part of the divorce settlement). Just went to my nephew's B-day party at his house. Seemed good.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505052)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:23 PM
Author: big background story

Good.

You're sister will come to regret this decision soon after her next divorce.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505057)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:25 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

It's hard to know how she feels about it at this point. She's not bemoaning her lot in life, in part because she knows this was her call and her family knows it too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505069)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:26 PM
Author: big background story

Does she have a tinder/bumble profile yet?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505076)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:31 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

How the fuck should I know?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505095)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:36 PM
Author: navy shitlib fanboi

what was the cause of the divorce? they just not get along?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505130)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:45 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

See poasts, supra.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505195)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:46 PM
Author: big background story

Assuredly, she thought she could do better. She just wasn't happy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505198)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:55 PM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

I don't really know if that's the case here. She just has (or at least had) an unrealistic hippy-dippy view of the world and didn't like her ex-husband's practical nature (e.g., worrying about money, wanting the kids to go to a real fucking school, etc.).

When she moved out she rented a biggish house with the expectation that some other people would be paying for a portion of it. Turns out some of these other people (who I suspect were encouraging in her divorce dreams) weren't fucking reliable and she can't afford the rent on that place (hence the move today).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505233)



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Date: January 28th, 2020 11:56 PM
Author: big background story

Color me shocked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505238)



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Date: January 29th, 2020 12:02 AM
Author: Motley indecent location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505269)



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Date: January 29th, 2020 12:04 AM
Author: Topaz Supple Ladyboy

Yeah, who knew the people supporting her decision to leave someone she promised to stick with until death would be less reliable than the person who was actually following through on that promise?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3594286&forum_id=2#39505274)