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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:17 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center White. Mid-30s and married now. Not flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913292) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:57 PM Author: Excitant Doobsian Brunch Digit Ratio was he too big for you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913540) |
Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:18 PM Author: White base His name? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913295) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:23 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center Never fucked a dude. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913334) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:24 PM Author: White base I meant the guy who fucked you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913338) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:29 PM Author: awkward gay wizard forum (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913365) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:39 PM Author: Maize range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913433) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:44 PM Author: Chartreuse school queen of the night (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913460) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:52 PM Author: charismatic university (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913505) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:53 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center My body has never had contact with another man's penis. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913514) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:55 PM Author: Chartreuse school queen of the night (Faggot) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913530) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:56 PM Author: irate chapel legal warrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913535) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:51 PM Author: Laughsome death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913866) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:08 PM Author: Arousing Messiness Volcanic Crater No chance that is true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913611) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:23 PM Author: Internet-worthy dingle berry no one believes that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913698) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:26 PM Author: cheese-eating goal in life garrison You're among friends here... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913714) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:51 PM Author: blathering ladyboy http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2291999&forum_id=2#23469101 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913864) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 11:44 PM Author: Umber State Gunner Was it a COCK? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33914687) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 11:45 PM Author: blathering ladyboy Was it a woman's penis? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33914693) |
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Date: August 4th, 2017 4:01 PM Author: Diverse amber alpha cuck Describe the penis. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33919025) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:23 PM Author: Internet-worthy dingle berry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913696) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:39 PM Author: purple national (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913797) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:46 PM Author: blathering ladyboy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913845) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:48 PM Author: irradiated ticket booth brethren (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913852) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:51 PM Author: Laughsome death wish (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913865) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:57 PM Author: violent double fault (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913905) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:19 PM Author: dark sick theater any bitterness? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913303) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:19 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913309) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:21 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center No. I had several short and long term relationships and hookups before I met my wife. My sexual history wouldn't be much different from someone who met their wife in mid 20's, so it's not the end of the world. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913319) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:26 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi so you were incel for 14+ years and have no psychological issues as a result?
flame? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:26 PM Author: Vivacious stag film CR volcel is far more healthy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913348) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:39 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi if you have the familial/communal support, then yes. but i don't think your average incel shitpoaster LARPing monasticism will turn out well. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913431) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:28 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center No psychological issues? I'm here on XO.
But I'm relatively okay. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:42 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi how do you cope with the fact you were an utter failure as a man during the prime years of your life? or that your wife will always see you as less of a man than the chads she would give anything to have married instead of you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913445) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:55 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center Life is full of regrets. I'm not some motivational speaker, but XO puts shit in your head and makes you think the worst about all kinds of shit.
I can get my wife off easily and she's hot. I'm doing better than most guys now. Why worry about whether I was an "utter failure" 15 yrs ago? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:05 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi you didn't pick up any self-loathing spending your adolescence alone?
i find it hard to believe such a failure wouldn't come with some kind of psychological toll. are you azn by any chance? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:07 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center I didn't even realize I was supposed to date girls and do normal things with girls until much later. I think if I had tried and failed with girls I'd have more self-loathing.
I'm white |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:10 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi well, i suppose (blissful) ignorance of social norms is ONE|WEIRD|TRICK to avoid crippling self-hate on account of <><>NOSEX<><> (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913621) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:12 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center I think it's exactly that. Parents pushed me really hard in almost a superstudyazn way (even though they're more middle class striver whites who lived vicariously) and I was totally ignorant of the things normal kids were doing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913631) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:46 PM Author: Garnet mind-boggling institution hairy legs i can relate to this.
my parents basically tried best they could to trap me from the outside world because they are extremely controlling and obsessive worriers.
sounds like you ended up better off psychologically than i did. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:14 PM Author: Vivacious stag film Since this basically is addressed to me as well: I don't feel any self-loathing at all. During my life I've felt self-loathing over being out of shape, suffering academic shortfalls, or feeling professionally aimless, but never anything from being alone. To the extent I worry about it, it's more abstract worry (Will I regret being alone at 50, should I be striving to have kids, etc.).
Of course, I've never suffered repetitive crushing rejections, so maybe that keeps me in a better mood. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:20 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi aren't you a Christmo? i wouldn't assume someone living in tune with the almighty would suffer angst over not being a fornicator. religion seems like a strong bulwark in this regard, and i assume many, if not most, religious types also have good behavior reinforced by family/community shared values.
us seculars on the other hand... |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:28 PM Author: Vivacious stag film Yeah, this is probably a good summary. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913724) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:20 PM Author: frisky ape elastic band Was he tight? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913311) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:20 PM Author: self-absorbed trailer park your what's his name game is really on point today friend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913315) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:05 PM Author: cheese-eating goal in life garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913596) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:24 PM Author: vigorous spruce philosopher-king shrine rate your attractiveness 1-10 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913337) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:28 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center Early 20s: maybe 4.5. Chubby or Skinny Fat depending on the time. Dressed nerdy. Not repulsive. Good enough to get an average to below average girl if I knew what I was doing (I didn't).
From mid to late 20s on: 7-7.5
Working out and eating properly and not dressing like a dork makes a big difference. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:40 PM Author: purple national You were probably a lot more confident after working out too. Confidence is really underrated on here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913809) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 10:12 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center It's experience too. You just need to practice. Go on dates a 4's and 5's. Too many XO virgins think they can get a 8.5. Normal guys know to shoot for 5's and 6's and that pussy is pussy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913993) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:27 PM Author: trip theater stage I lost my virginity at age 26 and similarly am well adjusted like the OP. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913351) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:28 PM Author: Plum bawdyhouse describe WHY and how your de-flowerer reacted.
describe the CIRCUMSTANCES.
any advice for a 30 year old virgin? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:37 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center She took the money and thanked me.
Advice: get in shape, dress well, learn how to act normal (even if you aren't). |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:30 PM Author: Arrogant Telephone any advice for a 33 year old virgin? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913367) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:40 PM Author: drab crackhouse I'm 25 and lost my virginity to an escort two months ago. Any advice for me? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913438) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:56 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center Start dating and improve your IRL game and get comfortable talking to girls and improving your confidence. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913536) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:33 PM Author: drab crackhouse do you think it's a good idea to fuck another escort? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913761) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:38 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center You don't want to get addicted to escorts or use them as a substitute for IRL girls. You don't want to end up like NYUUG as some sex-crazed womanizer either.
Probably not. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:41 PM Author: insane locale faggotry wow just reading this thread depressed me I have no idea how you losers wake up every day |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:43 PM Author: drab crackhouse Why (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913453) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:45 PM Author: insane locale faggotry how does it not continually torment you that you completely missed out on what are, for the vast majority of dudes (not just Chads, pretty much everyone normal these days), fundamental formative life experiences? wtf were you doing in college? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:49 PM Author: drab crackhouse I mean, I had sex once. I realized that I didn't think it was that great, I thought it was a waste of $150, and I prefer jerking off. I don't really care about doing it again but have no idea where to go from here. I guess I just prefer being alone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913484) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:50 PM Author: insane locale faggotry having sex with a pro does not count you have no idea what it feels like to have a girl genuinely like you and WANT to fuck you and then actually do it. None. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:52 PM Author: drab crackhouse Yeah, so what? You say this like it's a big deal and fraught with meaning somehow. Exactly what is your point? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913502) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:52 PM Author: Chartreuse school queen of the night Idk I think he was pretty clear (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913510) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:55 PM Author: drab crackhouse I just have a hard time understanding why it matters that I haven't had that particular experience. I prefer solitude far more than sex. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913525) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:56 PM Author: insane locale faggotry do you not think certain life experiences are fundamental to human existence at all? Did you never play catch with your dad? Learn how to ride a bike? Play sports? Go to a party? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:06 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center And missing one life experience is better than missing a bunch. It's all relative. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913601) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:54 PM Author: insane locale faggotry it's a fundamental part of the human experience, period. as I asked above, what were you doing in college? |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:50 PM Author: Vivacious stag film Forming a family is an important life experience and something I feel I'm missing out on.
Simply smashing sluts is not. I'm missing out on that about as much as I'm "missing out" on any other vice, from booze to gambling. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:52 PM Author: insane locale faggotry I'm not just talking about smashing sluts, particularly later in life. People like the OP and others ITT never had a sexually active LTR in their late teens and early 20s. That creates a huge psychological deficit that normal people do not have. I agree with the family forming part, though |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:58 PM Author: Vivacious stag film Elaborate on the psychological deficit aspect. I think there's decent evidence that every additional sexual partner you have before your spouse seems to decrease the long-term happiness and health of your relationships. There's good stuff to support earlier marriage, but that's mostly just in the sense that good women are snatched up so if you marry late you're stuck with shrews. It doesn't simply seem to be about who you've fucked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913547) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:00 PM Author: insane locale faggotry Again, I'm not talking about banging a high number of sluts. That's a straw man you're setting up. I'm talking about having sex at all before a certain age, especially in LTRs where you both have feelings for each other and therefore express those feelings physically. If you miss out on that during your formative years, there will always be something "off" about you. Something missing. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:04 PM Author: Vivacious stag film I wasn't simply referring to banging sluts. I'd say having 2-3 sexual LTR's prior to actually marrying is probably worse, long-term, than having 0-1. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913590) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:59 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center Lots of people have psychological deficits in various ways. I'm trying to say that being a late bloomer isn't the end of the world as some people are making it out to be. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913555) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:47 PM Author: Chartreuse school queen of the night You basically got a girl in her shrew phrase. No organic sex at the gucking drive in in highschool, no crazy party sex in college. You're basically committing yourself to marriage after living under a rock for 10+ years, after your wife has been taking throat yogurt infusions since jr year HS soccer hazing looool (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913471) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:47 PM Author: insane locale faggotry throat yogurt infusions lol tyft |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:48 PM Author: Poppy jet-lagged library fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913480) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:46 PM Author: Chartreuse school queen of the night Lol cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913466) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:43 PM Author: topaz toaster selfie Wow saddest Zozo thread OAT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913451) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:06 PM Author: cheese-eating goal in life garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913602) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:55 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone naked space How did you meet your wife? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913527) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:57 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center At a party arranged by friends. Not a set-up. Just random. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913543) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:58 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone naked space Have you and your wife ever talked about your respective sexual histories? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913546) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:02 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center She knows I was a late bloomer. I've said I don't want to discuss dates and numbers. I've left open the possibility that she thinks I might have got a random drunken fuck or a sympathy fuck in college at some point.
She knows generally about my relationship history since I started getting laid. And I know generally her relationship history. |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 8:58 PM Author: insane locale faggotry how many dicks did she claim to have taken before you? (remember that the real number is 3x) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:06 PM Author: Arousing Messiness Volcanic Crater I was half that age when I lost my virginity. I know, (Prole tell) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913604) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:21 PM Author: Vengeful menage how was halford? was it consensual? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913689) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 10:40 PM Author: Arousing Messiness Volcanic Crater It was. And, frankly, his pennusy was smaller than I thought it would be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33914204) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 10:53 PM Author: White base did your dad get arrested? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33914309) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 11:41 PM Author: Arousing Messiness Volcanic Crater No, but I did cum in your moms asshold. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33914671) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:20 PM Author: Arrogant Telephone i dont know how this hasnt been asked yet, but how small is your dick? 4, 5, or 6 inches? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913676) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:29 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center 7.5. That's not the problem obviously. No girl saw it. I didn't even kiss a girl until 25. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913733) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:30 PM Author: Arrogant Telephone you just never stop lying itt. come on dude, you are among FRIENDS here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913743) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:32 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center What's the problem? :D has a big dong and he was a virgin until mid-20s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913758) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 9:51 PM Author: Arrogant Telephone dont you think if you had a 5 inch penor you would not have lost your virginity at all because of fear and shame? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33913863) |
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Date: August 3rd, 2017 10:14 PM Author: Beady-eyed Massive Center Perhaps. If it was an honest 5.5 maybe that's okay. But a 5 that is really a 4.5, probably not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33914005) |
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Date: August 4th, 2017 4:37 PM Author: carmine supple cuckold OP isn't convincing. Women completely ignoring you your whole life takes its toll. I am bitter and suspect their motives now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3692077&forum_id=2#33919261) |