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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:52 PM
Author: odious mauve library

our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investment/retirement funds. she sees her "friends" on FB poast pics of their lavish trips and she gets depressed. she says these friends don't really have great jobs or come from rich families, so why can they take these trips and we can't (we do take about one trip a year)? I tell her it's because we are going to come out at the end in a better position because of our savings. I'm not sure if this is cr advice to give and maybe we should just spend like her "friends" do, at least they are enjoying life more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509661)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:55 PM
Author: Ruby thriller station

Remind her that several of them are literally having poop thrown on their chest by Saudi princes so they can take these trips

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509700)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: cocky menage



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: Cordovan Aromatic Crotch



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Ebony Casino

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:47 PM
Author: excitant round eye

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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:45 PM
Author: mildly autistic tantric box office



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: Cordovan Aromatic Crotch



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: Maize twinkling uncleanness

ugh women and social media

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509716)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: nighttime boyish rigpig



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:58 PM
Author: purple genital piercing jewess

my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt even look fun, but tbf im a straight man. once/year is more than enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509722)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:59 PM
Author: Smoky Nubile Voyeur Gas Station

FB working exactly as designed

Only real way to combat this is to keep fucking her all the time, even when you dont want to, and get her pregnant. Then, after babby, keep fucking her all the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509729)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:17 PM
Author: rebellious tanning salon

"we are going to come out at the end in a better position"

what do you imagine is your end

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510387)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: odious mauve library

idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "friends" when we're older and in a better position to retire comfortably relative to them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510399)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: Ruddy Marvelous Parlor

Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get raped and pilaged to pay for the proles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510601)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:22 PM
Author: Floppy wagecucks parlour

she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of travel than that her friends are going places

she wishes you wanted to do those things with her, despite savings goals

she’s thinks other couples are happier than you two are

as another poaster noted: facebook doing just as intended — equating strategically shared snippets of life with reality

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510414)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:26 PM
Author: passionate main people house

How often do you travel?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510426)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:28 PM
Author: Floppy wagecucks parlour

0 these days

post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big trip and 3-4 long weekends to random cities in US each year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510447)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:30 PM
Author: passionate main people house

Lol yuuuge PROLE tell

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510458)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: Floppy wagecucks parlour

I’m a happy prole

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510463)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Ebony Casino



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:44 PM
Author: passionate main people house

Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510557)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:46 PM
Author: Floppy wagecucks parlour

sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those places with a baby/toddler, though

excited to take lots of trips with the kid when he’s older

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510572)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: judgmental pisswyrm haunted graveyard

lol.

women are so fucking retarded. how can it be that they know how to play the facebook game, but can't recognize when others are playing the same game?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510419)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: Doobsian Massive Cruise Ship

That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe that they're exaggerating and that everyone else is doing it naturally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510470)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: heady love of her life lodge

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510611)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:39 PM
Author: Obsidian Wonderful Spot

I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is correct but make sure u present it persuasively. I work up spreadsheets on savings n investments, how much we'll have in x years, how much the 20k we'd blow on Somme safari would be worth in x years, and we hold regular summits to recommit to our shared savings goals.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510524)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:41 PM
Author: dark nibblets



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510540)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: slate set

LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wives don't bankrupt them with their whims

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510548)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: Obsidian Wonderful Spot

A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for everyone involved, including me. I could go cop an m5 tonight, no sweat. I'd love to. Having a shared plan that we are both responsible for helps me avoid agonizing over retarded shit like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510582)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: Learning disabled partner

(guy with a rational wife)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510549)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: Obsidian Wonderful Spot

It's good for both of us, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510587)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: odious mauve library

true. she does understand the importance of saving but just hates how we worked so hard to get where we are today just to live the same type of lifestyle as her "friends" who haven't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510633)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:59 PM
Author: Obsidian Wonderful Spot

Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. She can take some pics and it won't break the bank. Then get back to stacking cheddar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510665)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: ivory electric place of business circlehead

you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510592)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: Floppy wagecucks parlour



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: Doobsian Massive Cruise Ship

Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit each month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510604)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: heady love of her life lodge

The key is to stay off social media.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510608)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:56 PM
Author: olive point people who are hurt



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: Cheese-eating base

this. it's designed to make you miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510653)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: Peach histrionic striped hyena

*the Internet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510728)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:15 AM
Author: french crystalline messiness

This.

Wife is seeing everyone's highlight reel. Their life is (generally) no more exciting then hers.

My ex used to do this all the time, despite us going on many Vegas weekends, trips to Napa/Maui, etc. Nothing was ever enough for her to "compete" with her friends. She would get pissed when I didn't want to "compete" with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514655)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:09 AM
Author: startled ratface skinny woman

yep, you will be able to bank all that money while grinding and not having fun when youre young, and hope that one of you dont beceome sick and die or unable to travle when you are 60-65 years old like that guy from UP :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514613)