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Wife gets depressed when looking at FB friends taking trips

our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investm...
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"thrown"
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my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt ev...
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passionate psychic
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idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "fr...
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Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get rape...
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she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of...
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How often do you travel?
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0 these days post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big ...
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I’m a happy prole
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Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see
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sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those plac...
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I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is corr...
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LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wive...
contagious locus
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A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for e...
poppy chapel
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(guy with a rational wife)
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It's good for both of us, brother.
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true. she does understand the importance of saving but just ...
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Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. S...
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you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much ...
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Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit ea...
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this. it's designed to make you miserable
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*the Internet.
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:52 PM
Author: racy sexy new version preventive strike

our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investment/retirement funds. she sees her "friends" on FB poast pics of their lavish trips and she gets depressed. she says these friends don't really have great jobs or come from rich families, so why can they take these trips and we can't (we do take about one trip a year)? I tell her it's because we are going to come out at the end in a better position because of our savings. I'm not sure if this is cr advice to give and maybe we should just spend like her "friends" do, at least they are enjoying life more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509661)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:55 PM
Author: Yellow tattoo

Remind her that several of them are literally having poop thrown on their chest by Saudi princes so they can take these trips

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509700)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: impressive light background story space



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509704)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: primrose boyish corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509712)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: outnumbered house



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510451)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: frisky tank

"thrown"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510527)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:47 PM
Author: Rough-skinned Mother

scat play is diverse, ok

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510574)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: Glittery insanely creepy pistol philosopher-king



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510536)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:45 PM
Author: Self-absorbed beta area



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510563)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: primrose boyish corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509713)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM
Author: free-loading school cafeteria

ugh women and social media

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509716)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: Tan forum



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510450)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:58 PM
Author: Carnelian swollen shrine candlestick maker

my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt even look fun, but tbf im a straight man. once/year is more than enough.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509722)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:59 PM
Author: shimmering market

FB working exactly as designed

Only real way to combat this is to keep fucking her all the time, even when you dont want to, and get her pregnant. Then, after babby, keep fucking her all the time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509729)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:17 PM
Author: passionate psychic

"we are going to come out at the end in a better position"

what do you imagine is your end

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510387)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: racy sexy new version preventive strike

idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "friends" when we're older and in a better position to retire comfortably relative to them

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510399)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: costumed field dopamine

Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get raped and pilaged to pay for the proles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510601)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:22 PM
Author: crusty laughsome persian wagecucks

she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of travel than that her friends are going places

she wishes you wanted to do those things with her, despite savings goals

she’s thinks other couples are happier than you two are

as another poaster noted: facebook doing just as intended — equating strategically shared snippets of life with reality

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510414)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:26 PM
Author: Lemon dog poop stage

How often do you travel?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510426)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:28 PM
Author: crusty laughsome persian wagecucks

0 these days

post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big trip and 3-4 long weekends to random cities in US each year

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510447)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:30 PM
Author: Lemon dog poop stage

Lol yuuuge PROLE tell

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510458)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: crusty laughsome persian wagecucks

I’m a happy prole

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510463)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM
Author: frisky tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510534)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:44 PM
Author: Lemon dog poop stage

Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510557)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:46 PM
Author: crusty laughsome persian wagecucks

sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those places with a baby/toddler, though

excited to take lots of trips with the kid when he’s older

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510572)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: Cobalt stead

lol.

women are so fucking retarded. how can it be that they know how to play the facebook game, but can't recognize when others are playing the same game?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510419)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: Dashing ratface cumskin

That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe that they're exaggerating and that everyone else is doing it naturally.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510470)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: Misunderstood scarlet organic girlfriend fat ankles

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510611)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:39 PM
Author: poppy chapel

I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is correct but make sure u present it persuasively. I work up spreadsheets on savings n investments, how much we'll have in x years, how much the 20k we'd blow on Somme safari would be worth in x years, and we hold regular summits to recommit to our shared savings goals.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510524)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:41 PM
Author: Glittery insanely creepy pistol philosopher-king



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510540)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: contagious locus

LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wives don't bankrupt them with their whims

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510548)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: poppy chapel

A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for everyone involved, including me. I could go cop an m5 tonight, no sweat. I'd love to. Having a shared plan that we are both responsible for helps me avoid agonizing over retarded shit like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510582)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: Garnet Shivering Pit

(guy with a rational wife)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510549)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: poppy chapel

It's good for both of us, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510587)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: racy sexy new version preventive strike

true. she does understand the importance of saving but just hates how we worked so hard to get where we are today just to live the same type of lifestyle as her "friends" who haven't.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510633)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:59 PM
Author: poppy chapel

Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. She can take some pics and it won't break the bank. Then get back to stacking cheddar.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510665)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: Umber elite azn

you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510592)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: crusty laughsome persian wagecucks



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510697)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: Dashing ratface cumskin

Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit each month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510604)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: Misunderstood scarlet organic girlfriend fat ankles

The key is to stay off social media.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510608)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:56 PM
Author: Vigorous learning disabled yarmulke



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510650)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: bat shit crazy razzle cuckold

this. it's designed to make you miserable

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510653)



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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: Chest-beating idiotic stain

*the Internet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510728)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:15 AM
Author: coiffed church building multi-billionaire

This.

Wife is seeing everyone's highlight reel. Their life is (generally) no more exciting then hers.

My ex used to do this all the time, despite us going on many Vegas weekends, trips to Napa/Maui, etc. Nothing was ever enough for her to "compete" with her friends. She would get pissed when I didn't want to "compete" with them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514655)



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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:09 AM
Author: infuriating fanboi hunting ground

yep, you will be able to bank all that money while grinding and not having fun when youre young, and hope that one of you dont beceome sick and die or unable to travle when you are 60-65 years old like that guy from UP :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514613)