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Wife unilaterally decided to be a SAHM

My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
What did she see on the nanny cam?
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/26/17
Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the pho...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost th...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a min...
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
24 year old white woman with a college degree in child devel...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
pics?
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face th...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
probably should just keep her around
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up wit...
Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig
  10/26/17
Lol and pay child support?
Misunderstood Irradiated Place Of Business Mood
  10/26/17
he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while ...
Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig
  10/26/17
...
exhilarant self-absorbed crackhouse community account
  10/26/17
Nah state mandated guidelines are 4:1 ratio and I pay for wh...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
after 1, part time away at a nursery is ideal for most kids....
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
lol every shrew mom rationalizes dumping their kid with tran...
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
Again, I had a choice. My mom was fine watching him 5 days/...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
if my only other choice was being around you or your mom i'd...
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking shit on ...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
"Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking sh...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
True. It’s my goal to raise him not to become one.
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
Nightmare on XOXO: My Son is a Pumo!
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
"You think that's bad, mine is a quotemo!"
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
*pan to Maury audience members shaking heads in dismay*
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
TMF and MND's half-retarded kid walks out, Montell calls in ...
arousing fantasy-prone hunting ground deer antler
  10/31/17
go ahead and make little nutelliot an account on r/hapas
bonkers national tank
  10/26/17
Instead you will school him in the art of only using pumos t...
frozen bateful theater
  10/26/17
Nutelliot, this is how you sock-puppet
khaki dysfunction
  10/26/17
"No son, those people are haters, and they are #neverwi...
frozen bateful theater
  10/26/17
Don't you also use pumos to sock puppet? So in addition bei...
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
...
bonkers national tank
  10/26/17
in this particular case i'm not sure babby isn't BENEFITING ...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
LMAO, never not obsessively trolling for the way you choose ...
frozen bateful theater
  10/26/17
>I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. ...
Curious Light Abode
  10/27/17
"I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit...
arousing fantasy-prone hunting ground deer antler
  10/31/17
i think he meant per month.
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
lmao never change xo, "wife sees nanny being shitty, ta...
arousing fantasy-prone hunting ground deer antler
  10/31/17
how many kids you planning?
Supple cyan halford electric furnace
  10/26/17
After this bullshit, I don't think I am going to double down...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
the investment obviously becomes better with MORE kids, wors...
Supple cyan halford electric furnace
  10/26/17
It becomes more expensive to have two kids when you are divo...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
true, but then just hie to a country that isnt shiTTT
Supple cyan halford electric furnace
  10/26/17
This isn't a real option for 99% of white people.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Don't want my kid(s) to grow up without a dad.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
oh they'll have a dad alright. lots and lots of "dads&...
Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim
  10/26/17
...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
lol at your kids being raised with only one tiny pink pe...
Supple cyan halford electric furnace
  10/26/17
cr, OP's kids will have a "darker" perspective.
nighttime stirring incel bawdyhouse
  10/26/17
...
bespoke silver tattoo tanning salon
  12/19/17
move back
saffron roast beef keepsake machete
  10/26/17
the only cr
rose deep school cafeteria
  10/26/17
I just got a new job here and don't think I can get my old j...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
on 2nd thought congrats on escaping Austin
rose deep school cafeteria
  10/26/17
LOL. Fuck that over-hyped humid shithole
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Better than SoCal
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
IDK about that. I am not in tech and got a better job here. ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
You can get a nice 1br in a safe part of Austin for $1k 20 m...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
Where are you talking about living? Right by Round Rock?
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
From the 45 to the 103. South of there until downtown prices...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
http://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-living/los-angeles-ca/aust...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
Give her your resume and email password, and tell her she ne...
frum smoky resort telephone
  10/26/17
LOL
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
You the guy who occasionally poasts about regretting moving ...
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/26/17
Yeah
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
You guys need to have a serious discussion about making deci...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
No shit. She is incredibly impulsive and makes rash decision...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Try speaking to her in a somewhat more stereotypically femal...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
what's the game plan? to get her to go back to work or to ge...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
Those are short-term, surface problems. I think the bigger ...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Yea agreed.
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
lol, talk about things that will never happen.
khaki dysfunction
  10/26/17
Well, maybe. Can't know until you seriously try, though.
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
...
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
...
khaki dysfunction
  11/14/17
(guy who thinks his wife would never impulsively divorce him...
coral dilemma useless brakes
  10/27/17
Congrats. Having a true SAHM will be awesome. You should ...
peach parlor dingle berry
  10/26/17
*spits out coffee* tyft. OP, your workload will manage...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Cr. I have reconciled myself to living in filth.
Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim
  10/26/17
lmao
odious casino new version
  10/26/17
Is this from a 1932 NYT column?
Rambunctious Nursing Home Son Of Senegal
  10/26/17
You don't even have to go back that far.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Sadly true
Galvanic Twinkling Uncleanness
  10/26/17
...
histrionic zombie-like stain
  10/26/17
lol
Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim
  10/26/17
...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
LMAO. She will be shoving our daughter in my face at 6:00 sa...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Bix44C1EzY
charismatic hyperventilating philosopher-king main people
  10/26/17
...
Rambunctious Nursing Home Son Of Senegal
  10/26/17
she handles the money? how do you know you can trust her?
Supple cyan halford electric furnace
  10/26/17
I handle the money. Everything goes on charge cards where I ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
lol
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
...
Primrose base half-breed
  10/26/17
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dark persian
  10/26/17
180 poast
Exciting stock car coldplay fan
  10/26/17
I was thinking of this thread last night as I sat in my easy...
Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim
  10/27/17
OUT the foreign language
Diverse point
  10/27/17
...
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
wasn't she a doctor? i think the writers are getting a littl...
Diverse point
  10/26/17
She is a doctor. TBF, she is proposing working one day a wee...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
6k net or gross? If net, that’s awesome and go for it. I...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
Gross. She doesn't want to do it long-term. But it will like...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
I think it’s obvious she needs to stop unilaterally make dec...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
Yes, this is 100% correct. She is a 100% emotion-driven deci...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
hope she’s not a surgeon
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
She is in a BS lifestyle specialty
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
stop talking shit about neurology
painfully honest cerebral athletic conference
  10/26/17
Sounds like doctor material to me.
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
This is why educating women is wasteful
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
...
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/26/17
*gets out calculator* *types some numbers* "That's ...
Supple cyan halford electric furnace
  10/26/17
...
Galvanic Twinkling Uncleanness
  10/26/17
Unless you make $30K/month, you should be the SAHM.
motley alpha senate
  10/26/17
We shouldn't be here is my point. Our baby could be taken ca...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Medicine is literally the definition of a job that can be do...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Yeah, but the market is weird. You can make tons more in Tex...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Not really, depending on specialty
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
This is quite a twist
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
...
adventurous crimson degenerate
  10/26/17
move to omaha bro
thriller kitchen
  10/26/17
I told her that was what we needed to do before the baby. We...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
:( your son could've been a future Millard North standout
thriller kitchen
  10/26/17
Creighton Prep standout actually
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Uh wut....she can’t just unilaterally decide to quit. she’s...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
why is SGV hell isn't there good food and schools
Diverse point
  10/26/17
It's hot there and OP is white.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Yeah, this is no place for people like me
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Good food, but terrible weather and awful suburban sprawl. ...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
ted H turned out just fine. after grinding at AZN high i'd ...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
...
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/26/17
LOL @ moving for the woman's job opportunity jfc
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Marriage is insane
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you let it get insane
trip high-end set
  10/26/17
There's two people in every marriage bro. I mean, congrats i...
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
Yeah, I am in a living nightmare
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Avoiding complete insanity isn’t that difficult if you watch...
khaki dysfunction
  10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you marry the wrong person or for the ...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
Sure, but (1) that's often only apparent in retrospect, plus...
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
Nah there are always warning signs before marriage but peopl...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
Why You Won’t Be the Person You Expect to Be You Won’t Stay...
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
Yes people change over time, priorities change, different li...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
agreed. i remember when my first friend from high school ...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
To be fair, I was talking more about priorities than persona...
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
I was a better and smarter person overall before 21, but inc...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
Can confirm. I am late thirties now and she is in her early ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
It's cognitive bias. You see it now so clearly but if it wor...
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
Probably CR...but I was infatuated with her, lonely and afra...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Having been married to a 180 wife for over ten years, I am s...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
agree with this like 95% - for the most part the pre-marriag...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
"People don’t fundamentally change past early-mid 20s.&...
frozen bateful theater
  10/26/17
...
Razzmatazz bistre headpube voyeur
  10/27/17
If find that there are two kinds of people who give this adv...
Topaz toilet seat foreskin
  10/26/17
I'm actually on board with Nutella's point here.
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Yes, because you're perfectly content as a marriedmo. People...
frozen bateful theater
  10/26/17
As I've stated elsewhere in this thread, "marriage"...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
cr A good marriage is great.
Exciting stock car coldplay fan
  10/26/17
Does anyone dispute this? You guys are so hilariously de...
frozen bateful theater
  10/27/17
i sure hope her legal advice is better than this
Diverse point
  10/27/17
...
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
No, this is the ego-fed view of it, amounts to no more than ...
frozen bateful theater
  10/27/17
...
bespoke silver tattoo tanning salon
  11/22/17
Something to be concerned about is when she decides in 2 wee...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
"it's exhausting, no breaks, etc." I LOLed.
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
I LOLed at this once, too, IRL. I learned to never LOL at i...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Isn't the kid sleeping 15 hours per day?
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
yeah, she is sleeping right now. She sleeps all the damn tim...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Throw all of this out the window and repeat: There is nothi...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Lol you work from home. You should know how exhausting it i...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
I'm exaggerating slightly. My wife is (mostly) level-headed...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
dealing with only one baby is basically a vacation
vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life
  10/26/17
There are some women who are laid back and would just laugh ...
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
I told her that last night. And now we are stuck in a lease ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Lmao so much to unpack here. She caused you guys to move ...
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/26/17
Correct on all accounts. We moved this summer a month before...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Whoa, she dumped her OBGYN in the last MONTH of pregnancy? A...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
It has been a nightmare brother. Her mom died recently and s...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
That should've caused alarm bells to ring in your head befor...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Yeah, they were going off but she was pregnant
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
But you needed to get that last raw pump in, right?
beady-eyed address
  10/26/17
lolwtf? You moved a month before the baby was due? You g...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
*impossible
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Kids need their mom. You shouldnt have got her pregnant if a...
stimulating volcanic crater
  10/26/17
...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
For the third month in a row, prospective homebuyers in Los ...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Lol at any home in LA for $575k being worth buying
Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation
  10/26/17
Yea that's just median. Most neighborhoods are bad. Most pla...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Hey dickhead, I was fine with her being a SAHM. I was not fi...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Didn't she want to go to the beach and stuff as one of her r...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
LMAO. We have gone twice and it has been a fucking nightmare...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Aren’t all the beaches just filled with mexis now?
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
Yeah, they are pure trash. Disgusting.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
...
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/26/17
If the move was such a bad idea then why did you agree to it...
massive stead
  10/26/17
medicine pwns law so she has authority to cuck him at all ti...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Harsh, but fair. I am not a lawyer, but have a good job and ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
and now both of you are totally unhappy. thanks, feminism...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
As a doctor, if maximizing income were the goal, you’d move ...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
"So we have an irrational, emotion-driven woman making ...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Well, maybe now that she wants to quit that won't be the tru...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Only silver lining here...the relocation decision is going t...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
I'm sympathetic to the notion that family decisions should a...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Are both your families from the same area (Omaha?) Take your...
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/26/17
Are her parents rich? How can you just toss a MD into the ga...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
...
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/26/17
Does seem a little hasty. If they move near family, she can ...
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/26/17
"she can transition to full time work if she wants"...
trip high-end set
  10/27/17
MD is paid off, she has no loans. She could work part-time a...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Good Lord.
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
man, we all warned you about this
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Yeah, I have myself 100% to blame unfortunately.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
:( we feel for you breh
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
wow
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/26/17
Think of the alimony payment OP will be getting soon
Abusive twinkling cuckold
  10/26/17
I think Thunder Collins needs to have a little chat with dir...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
...
mischievous box office
  10/31/17
She is from the East coast and has two brothers in Atlanta. ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
She won't consider Omaha because she thinks it is prole and ...
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/26/17
It's also "his" and not "hers" and the l...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Bingo. She would be "sacrificing" for me and would...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
I once floated the idea of moving back to Buffalo (my hometo...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Yeah, it sucks. I really wanted to move to Denver because I ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Has she even seen Mork & Mindy?
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
I dunno, Buffalo is pretty bad. Denver sounds great though.
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
I NO RIKE A BUFFARO
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
I no rearry rike a buffaro either, tbf, but being hugged by ...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Staying here worked out but by pure luck. Buffalo would h...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
It's also complete shit. lol at living in Omaha
Soul-stirring Party Of The First Part
  10/26/17
I am pretty easy about where I live. Lincoln seems like it w...
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/26/17
It is not bad at all, especially if you have family/friends ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
she can re-enter easily in medicine no? don't let it get to...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
Man this shit is T*O*X*I*C
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
Agreed, let my life be a warning to others
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
XO: Hey Charles get off your ass and try to get a wife. A...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
don't trust any chick to keep her job after form babby unles...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
Just do marry a woman of childbearing age who also makes at ...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
or just don't need an extra paycheck. or just REALLY need th...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
tbh I have no expectation that my wife actually make substan...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
fwiw, not all women are like that. and a lot of women once t...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
OFS, I'm not a lunatic "all women suck" MGTOW, but...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
I can do it for you. I'm really good at stuff like this.
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
LOL, noted. Will CharlesXII's future wife be able to pass *T...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
She is totally irrational Charles. Purely emotion driven and...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Now you know how libs feel about Trump!
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
CharelsXII, You are doing the right thing by being select...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
Thank. Tips for finding the right life partner and evalua...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
I got nothing for you there. My wife and I fell in love in ...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
What type were you looking for and how does she not match th...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
I had recently broken up with a good-girl religious type and...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
what happened in the interim breakups? would you say 40-50x?
Diverse point
  10/27/17
Will make a suitable mother. Not all women (and not all goo...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
I'll co-sign some of this, but I think prioritizing similari...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
I dunno, the crazy ass women I know who drive their husbands...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
You'll never hear me advise anyone to get married. As far a...
Topaz toilet seat foreskin
  10/26/17
ouch
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
His wife is a 9, too.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
My wife's pregnancy tits are the most amazing things I've ev...
Topaz toilet seat foreskin
  10/26/17
ungh, pics?
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
...
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
Maybe for you. For me it's making me appreciate my life. A...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
I mean, same here. My life is pretty 180 right now. It's tox...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
It's impossible to judge "marriage." You can only...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Proof ITT that MD pwns JD or whatever OP's toilet degree is....
thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy
  10/26/17
MBA, definitely true.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
eh, it does in some ways, but not in others.
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
(Rowan)
thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy
  10/26/17
...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Can you just not practice law for 5 years then easily slide ...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
i know women who can slide back into say $150k a year jobs. ...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
you don't understand the upper end of MD
bonkers national tank
  10/26/17
well then explain it to me, and then we can compare.
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
All those fancy finance jobs lost in the recession never cam...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
MD definitely has certain advantages, i take no issue with t...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Tommy Turd did it But women who transition from biglaw as...
maniacal garrison macaca
  10/26/17
A contrarian viewpoint: Feel blessed that he has strong p...
brindle jewess nibblets
  10/26/17
Moving and changing OBGYNs in month 8 is ridiculous and nega...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
She just had a kid. Both her brain chemistry and life priori...
brindle jewess nibblets
  10/26/17
She can't take FMLA because she just started the job.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
The she should ask for a few weeks off work using PTO. Or yo...
brindle jewess nibblets
  10/26/17
She has one day of PTO and I just started my job and have li...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
You should take this as a blessing in disguise and run for L...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
cr, maybe some good can be made of this. Still, he'd have...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
they'd trade 1.5M shitbox for 500K mcmansion potentially. th...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
I am not moving now. It makes no sense. In 9 months or so wh...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
So move in 9 months. You have the option to correct that mis...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
twist: the nanny cam is a time machine and was recording you...
bonkers national tank
  10/26/17
summon: Charles now *this* is toxic
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
...
nighttime stirring incel bawdyhouse
  10/26/17
...
Effete Hominid
  10/27/17
real talk: in OP's wife's mind, she settled for OP. he's a b...
Talented buff background story
  10/26/17
Oh fuck off bro. You don't know me. I have a good job and ma...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Describe what she did in past relationships.
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted th...
thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy
  10/26/17
The toxicity is out of control ITT.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
Update: She found a job paying $200K a year where she would ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Chances she decides within 6 months that "I can't handl...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
100%
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
roflmao holy shit what an incredibly alpha woman. What's her...
thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy
  10/26/17
I'm sorry, dude. Jesus.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
LOL your big problem is you let her moved y'all to Cali not ...
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
OP is literally a white man who moved to SGB. not sure why x...
bonkers national tank
  10/26/17
Those of us who aren't from CA can't even comprehend what ce...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
I had no idea. It was the logical midpoint between our jobs ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Wtf that’s weird since weekends are the only time you can sp...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
i'm just gonna leave this here for the OP https://www.red...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
We never have sex anymore. I am already in a dead bedroom ma...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Yeah it’s not a good sign that they’re not hat day into marr...
infuriating cerise lodge
  10/26/17
Apparently. She just said it won't be every weekend, but mos...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted th...
Talented buff background story
  10/26/17
...
Salmon Sticky Theater Stage
  10/26/17
Why is this thread so long wtf is going on
180 church building
  10/26/17
XO making a heroic effort to keep me on the path of celibacy...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
...
mischievous box office
  10/26/17
a woman other than spaceporn's wife FUCKED UP BIG TIME
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/26/17
What's the tldr here I thought we liked SAHMs
180 church building
  10/26/17
man lacks control over life
awkward onyx ticket booth
  10/26/17
Not when they force you to move to a high COL hellscape for ...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
lol, cr. OP sounds like he'd be pretty flexible so long a...
Hairraiser snowy corn cake
  10/26/17
Having your wife turn on you right after birth to extract ma...
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/26/17
Agreed, cliffs pls
Abusive twinkling cuckold
  10/26/17
terrified this will happen to me once kid arrives in january
laughsome nubile wrinkle
  10/26/17
lulzy as fuck thread.
Cracking gas station
  10/26/17
nothing to add except my sympathy
Spectacular crusty marketing idea
  10/26/17
TY
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
So if there is a lesson to be learned here, (1) don't marry ...
Effete Hominid
  10/26/17
I think you've got to insert "if you do marry a crazy w...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
JFC this thread
Abusive twinkling cuckold
  10/26/17
Sorry for your pain OP but this is a fun thread. Do you stil...
titillating meetinghouse
  10/26/17
Yeah, but this has been unbelievably difficult. There is mor...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Damn, that sucks man. Elaborate?
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
in a meeting while simultaneously feeding baby...will elabor...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Details: She routinely threatens divorce and has said she wi...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Dude... :(
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
I know. I don't know WTF to do. It is awful. This would be a...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
This is not going to end well. The milk is sour. You don't p...
violent karate
  10/26/17
This might be the best option objectively and you've seen mo...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
She's been making his life a living hell. He doesn't even fu...
violent karate
  10/26/17
Is there someone other than you that she trusts that could a...
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
You probably have to keep your head down for a few months an...
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
...
Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim
  10/27/17
lol
Comical sanctuary
  11/14/17
? how is her life stressful...wtf
maniacal garrison macaca
  10/26/17
Mom just died and went through a nasty dispute with her brot...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Holy shit she's going through so much and here you are blami...
thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy
  10/26/17
We are both stuck in a nightmarish situation. I love her an ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
My condolences, brother. I've been there, too. For a while a...
thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy
  10/26/17
I am trying to get her into therapy and on mood stabilizing ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
why the fuck would you agree to the move? grow some balls an...
Milky Big Boiling Water Round Eye
  10/26/17
Yeah, she is definitely treating me that way. There is no pa...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
SAHM is just the symptom. At the core the real issues are th...
Milky Big Boiling Water Round Eye
  10/26/17
lol at having "a talk". I'm gonna be blunt with...
Cracking gas station
  10/26/17
damn lol
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/27/17
she sounds like she made some poor life choices, but her lif...
maniacal garrison macaca
  10/26/17
She freely admits she has zero desire to be a doctor
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Jesus, is this the best flame thread ever?
Translucent boyish site clown
  10/26/17
Mr Wubby / hot little sister one is GOAT flame thread.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
wtf are you talking about? that thread said NOT FLAME, and h...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
?
mischievous box office
  10/31/17
I wish
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
If it's flame it's been building for a while because TC has ...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
Bro, if she ever initiates the divorce, you will 100% get DV...
violent karate
  10/26/17
She will absolutely lie and try to destroy me. There is no q...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Bro, the best thing you can do is hit record on your phone i...
violent karate
  10/26/17
OP: CA is a dual consent state.
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Not many people know this, but you cannot use an illegal rec...
violent karate
  10/26/17
Do you miss practicing this at all?
Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth
  10/26/17
Yeah, man, every day.
violent karate
  10/26/17
TITMFCR
mischievous box office
  10/26/17
...
Cracking gas station
  10/26/17
You're doing God's work in this thread, brother
Effete Hominid
  10/27/17
...
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
You should seek to have her hospitalized before she kills yo...
Heady people who are hurt
  10/26/17
She would never harm our kid
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
She clearly needs DAT LITHIUM and refusal to take such thing...
Heady people who are hurt
  10/26/17
(Rusty Yates)
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
...
Heady people who are hurt
  10/26/17
I still hope this is all flame but if it is I've got to tip ...
Effete Hominid
  10/27/17
Didn't you mention previously your wife was azn? Also, di...
Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig
  10/26/17
No, she is white. Yes, I saw red flags before marriage, but ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Wait, did you rush into marriage because you knocked her up?...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
Yes
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
How long were you with her before? And simply because it ...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/26/17
We dated for a year before we got married and had like a 4-5...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
Lmao cot Damn I'm sorry man. She hooked you when you were vu...
Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig
  10/27/17
"wanted to get marriied and have a family too." ...
bonkers national tank
  10/27/17
My life is a cautionary tale.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
I choose to believe that OP is flame.
sooty seedy feces chapel
  10/26/17
Life is dark. This is not flame. I really fucked my life up.
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/26/17
363 POASTS - awesome trigger topic
Exciting stock car coldplay fan
  10/27/17
Almost no blank-bumps either. Just a fascinating and horrify...
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/27/17
Just read the updates - she clearly has PPD and needs help.
Spectacular crusty marketing idea
  10/27/17
She recognizes she has PPD, but "doesn't have time"...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
wtf is she doing all day?
bright excitant field crotch
  10/27/17
Working for now, but she told me again this morning she is g...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
lol, didn't she just finish residency so this is her first y...
maniacal garrison macaca
  10/27/17
IDK, she was talking about working part time this year becau...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
when you went to babby's early follow-up appointments did do...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/27/17
No, that never happened
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
https://pesnc.org/wp-content/uploads/EPDS.pdf
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/27/17
TY, I will talk to her about this
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
Real talk: it isn't PPD. It's a permanent change. You ...
concupiscible bipolar gaping
  10/27/17
Dude...I need some hope here
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
mine recovered, and didn't have PPD for the later kids. So t...
Spectacular crusty marketing idea
  10/27/17
This is easy to solve. Hire :D as the nanny for a few weeks,...
tantric psychic hell
  10/27/17
Someone bump, and also copy/paste, the subthread where op is...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
Please don't...I have suffered enough
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
...
Startling principal's office masturbator
  10/27/17
what have you considered the most useful bit of insight in t...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/27/17
I need to protect myself and have no illusions about the sit...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
At least you can use this thread as evidence of your then-ex...
amber razzle indian lodge
  10/27/17
hahahahaha
spruce juggernaut
  10/31/17
the MAJOR takeaway is never marry a woman who makes more tha...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
Yeah, having a woman out-earn you is TOXIC for a relationshi...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
there should be a balance. Like I was in a long term relatio...
Olive Slimy Queen Of The Night Library
  10/27/17
Credited split is like the man making $200K plus and the wif...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
marriages where the wife is a nurse or teacher seem to work ...
maniacal garrison macaca
  10/27/17
this. My wife makes a third of what I make, but still makes...
canary razzle-dazzle theatre cuck
  10/27/17
Holy shit! This exists? Kinda weird that we can see the rise...
Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw
  10/27/17
it's total 180 and why pumos should be banned. that said i ...
Diverse point
  10/27/17
Do you know what thread it was in?
chest-beating dashing trust fund jap
  10/27/17
his post in the 37 year old meeting 34 year match fianc&eacu...
Spectacular crusty marketing idea
  10/27/17
I started to feel sick when I read it earlier today
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
...
Appetizing pink area
  10/27/17
...
Abusive twinkling cuckold
  10/27/17
dam this thread must have broken all sorts of xoxo records
Ebony bat-shit-crazy heaven
  10/27/17
you married someone who you are "sure" would lie a...
nighttime stirring incel bawdyhouse
  10/27/17
I don't know if I would say for sure. Just she would really ...
indigo dead orchestra pit
  10/27/17
that last sentence is so sad your wife sounds like a real...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/27/17
You must be a woman.
violent karate
  10/27/17
my poast is not womansplaining if anything is going to ma...
lemon plaza faggot firefighter
  10/27/17
Give him credit for being honest with himself.
contagious international law enforcement agency
  10/27/17
...
Electric chrome corner
  11/03/17
I love how this is the #1 substantive thread (hardly any bla...
Exciting stock car coldplay fan
  11/03/17
Would trigger just about any sane person. But it’s like bloo...
khaki dysfunction
  11/03/17
it is the ultimate nightmare scenario take ONE|WRONG|MOVE, ...
Clear Marvelous Location
  11/03/17
...
sadistic kitty cat
  03/07/18
Best of luck to you. Sounds like an absolutely terrible situ...
lime gunner station
  11/03/17
...
Vigorous Know-it-all Elastic Band Gaming Laptop
  11/17/17
OP, if you didn't have a 3 month old, I would advise you to ...
aggressive stage
  11/22/17
lmao forgot you posted this best of luck friend
Orange Selfie Range
  12/22/17


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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:02 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job opportunity over my objections that it was too expensive and we have no support network. We have a three month old and moving further away from family/friends at this time seemed stupid (because it was). Last night she saw some things on the nanny cam she didn't like, freaked out and decided that she was going to quit her new job. Leaving me with sole responsibility to pay for this mistake. JFC. I am so irate right now. She fired the nanny and now I am trying to work from home, with a bunch of conference calls all day, and taking care of the baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533895)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:08 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

What did she see on the nanny cam?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533976)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:13 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the phone. Nanny spending the day on Netflix and texting. Ignoring specific directions she gave her. Also, the nanny didn't show up one day last week with minimal notice and had two friends cover for her. The nanny sucks and needs to go, but we have an au pair that is on her way in 4-6 weeks and can just hire another one in the interim or fly my parents out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534035)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost the norm. I see so many nannies at the playground just zoned out ignoring the kids. I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. It’s hard to get a good nanny, that’s why my kid is in daycare because nobody is on a phone and there’s constant stimulation and activities. But I wouldn’t do daycare til at least age 1 once they’re walking around.

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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:15 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a minimum wage nigerian who's also watching 10 other kids is the 100% perfect decision.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534547)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

24 year old white woman with a college degree in child development actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534585)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

pics?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534614)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face that is maybe 10 pounds overweight. Super cheerful as I walk out the door for my hour commute. Makes me want to kill self.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534649)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:28 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

probably should just keep her around

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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:29 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:34 PM
Author: Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig

Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up with bubbly blonde. Problem solved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535727)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: Misunderstood Irradiated Place Of Business Mood

Lol and pay child support?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536858)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:46 PM
Author: Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig

he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while she was still working. actually, that's a better ploy. wait til she's working again and then divorce and thus she has to pay.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537005)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:16 PM
Author: exhilarant self-absorbed crackhouse community account



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Nah state mandated guidelines are 4:1 ratio and I pay for white women with BS degrees in “child development.” But they just need a sandbox books, oys and outdoor space.

It’s also 3x/week and he chills with grandma the other 2 days. She could do it 5 days/week but he’s a social kid who needed more. Believe it or not, lots of kids benefit from daycare.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534650)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:31 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

after 1, part time away at a nursery is ideal for most kids. SAHMs with big budgets do this lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534705)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:34 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

lol every shrew mom rationalizes dumping their kid with transient daycare workers that way.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534740)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:41 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Again, I had a choice. My mom was fine watching him 5 days/week. We noticed around 1 year old, he really enjoyed Gymboree classes and liked music and being around other kids. Also he doesnt go to a center but an in home one where the lady has been running it for 20 years with the same 2 workers. Daycare they do messy shit like finger painting, music classes, dumping rice and flour everywhere, play in the dirt and sandbox, etc. my mom can’t offer the same activities. His language skills also exploded after daycare since there are older kids there and he’s learning to negotiate and share. He runs in everyday and barely says goodbye. Not all kids are extroverts like that though and some want one on one attention from one caregiver. I wouldn’t stick a second child in daycare automatically and would see what his or her personality was first.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534807)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:43 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

if my only other choice was being around you or your mom i'd be happy to gtfo too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534826)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:47 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking shit on the internet so he loves me and grandma very much :)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534861)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:52 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

"Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking shit on the internet "

as far as you know

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534905)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:56 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

True. It’s my goal to raise him not to become one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534953)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:06 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Nightmare on XOXO: My Son is a Pumo!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535030)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:14 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

"You think that's bad, mine is a quotemo!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535105)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:18 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

*pan to Maury audience members shaking heads in dismay*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535131)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 11:41 PM
Author: arousing fantasy-prone hunting ground deer antler

TMF and MND's half-retarded kid walks out, Montell calls in the IFNB drill sergeant to scare the pants off their clothmo son, Alexandr screams back IT'S MY BODY I'LL DO WHAT I WANT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34576316)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:18 PM
Author: bonkers national tank

go ahead and make little nutelliot an account on r/hapas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535135)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:33 PM
Author: frozen bateful theater

Instead you will school him in the art of only using pumos to self-promote.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535276)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:58 PM
Author: khaki dysfunction

Nutelliot, this is how you sock-puppet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535477)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:02 PM
Author: frozen bateful theater

"No son, those people are haters, and they are #neverwinning so we do not speak to them directly. Now log in with your quotemo and make a thread about your primary moniker like mommy showed you."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535494)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

Don't you also use pumos to sock puppet? So in addition being an outed poaster who openly talks about her husbands non-functioning dick and how she wishes her son was a girl, you are also in fact a pumo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535519)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:53 PM
Author: bonkers national tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534913)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:50 AM
Author: Diverse point

in this particular case i'm not sure babby isn't BENEFITING from lack of mom's presence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541606)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: frozen bateful theater

LMAO, never not obsessively trolling for the way you choose to handle your life.

Unwillingness to pay for a nanny somehow = all nannies are shit. Quite the rigorous analysis! I don't want to get into it with you, but seriously. I know families where the nanny is essential and beloved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535139)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 4:14 PM
Author: Curious Light Abode

>I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit.

LJL no they made the choice that GC is more important than their kids and this is the obvious result of the choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543591)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 10:25 PM
Author: arousing fantasy-prone hunting ground deer antler

"I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit."

link to nannies that only cost 4K? I am a SAHD and had assumed nannies ran more like 20-30K/yr plus employment tax since they're an employee for IRS purposes and you have to pay dat shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575587)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 10:49 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut

i think he meant per month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575803)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 10:24 PM
Author: arousing fantasy-prone hunting ground deer antler

lmao never change xo, "wife sees nanny being shitty, takes evasive action to protect babby, i am IRATE at this"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575581)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:03 PM
Author: Supple cyan halford electric furnace

how many kids you planning?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533902)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:04 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

After this bullshit, I don't think I am going to double down. Maybe one more if my wife can pull her shit together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533912)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:05 PM
Author: Supple cyan halford electric furnace

the investment obviously becomes better with MORE kids, worst with one kid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533925)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:07 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

It becomes more expensive to have two kids when you are divorced. Also

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533961)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:08 PM
Author: Supple cyan halford electric furnace

true, but then just hie to a country that isnt shiTTT

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533990)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:09 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

This isn't a real option for 99% of white people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533999)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:10 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Don't want my kid(s) to grow up without a dad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534005)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:11 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim

oh they'll have a dad alright. lots and lots of "dads" in fact.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534021)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:13 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534036)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:15 PM
Author: Supple cyan halford electric furnace

lol at your kids being raised with only one tiny pink perspective

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534062)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:26 PM
Author: nighttime stirring incel bawdyhouse

cr, OP's kids will have a "darker" perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534659)



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Date: December 19th, 2017 6:39 PM
Author: bespoke silver tattoo tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34960889)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:04 PM
Author: saffron roast beef keepsake machete

move back

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533913)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:04 PM
Author: rose deep school cafeteria

the only cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533916)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:06 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I just got a new job here and don't think I can get my old job back. We were living in Austin and don't have family/friends there either. I wanted to move to Denver and she had a job offer there she turned down. I have friends there and family that could routinely visit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533948)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:09 PM
Author: rose deep school cafeteria

on 2nd thought congrats on escaping Austin

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533998)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:10 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

LOL. Fuck that over-hyped humid shithole

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534013)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:13 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

Better than SoCal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534043)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:14 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

IDK about that. I am not in tech and got a better job here. Austin is SoCal light in terms of COL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534055)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:16 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

You can get a nice 1br in a safe part of Austin for $1k 20 mins from downtown. In LA that’s 2.5k+ and the sprawl is even worse than ATX

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534071)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Where are you talking about living? Right by Round Rock?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534127)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:27 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

From the 45 to the 103. South of there until downtown prices are still well below 2k. Then downtown ATX isn’t nearly as expensive as downtown LA either. Much much lower crime rate as well. Better public schools. Not really a comparison imo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534178)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:19 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

http://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-living/los-angeles-ca/austin-tx/150000

ATX col is 29% lower than LA

housing cost is 48% lower

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534101)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:05 PM
Author: frum smoky resort telephone

Give her your resume and email password, and tell her she needs to start applying for jobs and reaching out to recruiters on y our behalf as her new part-time job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533924)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:07 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

LOL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533965)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:04 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

You the guy who occasionally poasts about regretting moving to LA area?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533918)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:05 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533920)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:06 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

You guys need to have a serious discussion about making decisions jointly. This is pretty out there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533937)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:06 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533947)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:09 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

No shit. She is incredibly impulsive and makes rash decisions without thinking through the consequences. When I try to bring logic and reason to the discussion she will have none of it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533996)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:46 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Try speaking to her in a somewhat more stereotypically female way. Remind her of the backgroun on how you *felt* about the move the SoCal. Tell her how it makes you *feel* like she doesn't take your concerns into account when she makes decisions like this without discussion/agreement, especially given the *feelings* you already expressed to her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534851)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:50 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

what's the game plan? to get her to go back to work or to get her to move?

imo he should get her to move and then get her to go back to work. getting her to go back to work will root them in CA which was dumb for them to do.

she can re-enter medicine. and if she reacted this strongly she's not going back to work anytime soon no matter what he does.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534887)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:53 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Those are short-term, surface problems. I think the bigger problem is making decisions without taking his legitimate concerns into account. If she/they can start doing that, the decision they reach together will be more acceptable to both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534917)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:55 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

Yea agreed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534938)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:19 PM
Author: khaki dysfunction

lol, talk about things that will never happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535602)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:21 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Well, maybe. Can't know until you seriously try, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535610)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 10:23 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575573)



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Date: November 14th, 2017 4:46 PM
Author: khaki dysfunction



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34686865)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:44 PM
Author: coral dilemma useless brakes

(guy who thinks his wife would never impulsively divorce him)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542040)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:07 PM
Author: peach parlor dingle berry

Congrats. Having a true SAHM will be awesome.

You should have a sparkling clean house, fresh affordable food in the fridge and healthy homecooked meals waiting for you. Your clothes should be immaculate. Your child should dominate the kindergarten scene when he/she get there, already reading, already proficient at basic adding and subtracting. Your wife should provide seasonal bonuses, like decorating the house for Halloween or Christmas, etc, with special edible treats included. You should not have to actually sit down and pay any bills or go to the bank. A fresh cold alcoholic drink and a back rub are yours at 530PM.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533967)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:08 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

*spits out coffee*

tyft.

OP, your workload will managed to go UP here, btw, because she'll be "so tired" all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533989)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:30 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim

Cr. I have reconciled myself to living in filth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534702)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:21 PM
Author: odious casino new version

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536822)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:10 PM
Author: Rambunctious Nursing Home Son Of Senegal

Is this from a 1932 NYT column?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534006)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:11 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

You don't even have to go back that far.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534023)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:20 PM
Author: Galvanic Twinkling Uncleanness

Sadly true

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536811)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:11 PM
Author: histrionic zombie-like stain



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534022)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:12 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534027)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:14 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534056)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:16 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

LMAO. She will be shoving our daughter in my face at 6:00 saying I have no idea how exhausting it is to be a SAHM with no support and bitching I didn't bring home sushi. Also, she needs a back rub.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534074)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:17 PM
Author: charismatic hyperventilating philosopher-king main people

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Bix44C1EzY

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534085)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: Rambunctious Nursing Home Son Of Senegal



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534298)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:39 PM
Author: Supple cyan halford electric furnace

she handles the money? how do you know you can trust her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534278)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:04 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I handle the money. Everything goes on charge cards where I can see what is being spent and I regularly check it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534447)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534564)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:27 PM
Author: Primrose base half-breed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534668)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:38 PM
Author: dark persian

<>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534780)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:37 PM
Author: Exciting stock car coldplay fan

180 poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536550)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:59 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim

I was thinking of this thread last night as I sat in my easy chair with chip crumbs all over the floor from three nights before.

I then went upstairs where wife was watching youtube videos and said very gently, "Hey, sort of messy downstairs, don't you think?"

Wife said, "What part? Those chips!? You made that mess yourself so you clean it up. I cleaned up the kitchen" __the kitchen is literally the only thing she "cleans" but she always leaves out all the dishes and pans from dinner overnight__

I said, "Oh, is that the rule? You clean up the kitchen and I clean up the mess I make? I didn't know that was the rule."

She then left the room, cursing me in another language under her breath, then started to put the kid to bed--which was something I had asked her to do but she said it was my turn.

You interpret. SAHM lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541695)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:32 PM
Author: Diverse point

OUT the foreign language

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541940)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 10:25 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575583)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:11 PM
Author: Diverse point

wasn't she a doctor? i think the writers are getting a little kooky this season

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534020)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:18 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She is a doctor. TBF, she is proposing working one day a week now and can bring home 6K a month just doing that. Also, she said this isn't permanent. But you know how that will go once she is used to being a SAHM.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534088)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:27 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

6k net or gross? If net, that’s awesome and go for it.

I wouldn’t assume she’d def want to be a sahm. Some women are cut out for it and some are not. It’s often way harder to be a sahm than to work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534179)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:30 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Gross. She doesn't want to do it long-term. But it will likely be at least this first year. And then she wants to move after I just got a new job here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534202)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:34 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

I think it’s obvious she needs to stop unilaterally make decisions about where your family is living and her job/childcare based on how she is feeling since shes pretty bad at decision making.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534242)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:43 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yes, this is 100% correct. She is a 100% emotion-driven decision-maker. It is all about how she feels in the moment.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534312)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:01 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

hope she’s not a surgeon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534423)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:04 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She is in a BS lifestyle specialty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534451)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:40 PM
Author: painfully honest cerebral athletic conference

stop talking shit about neurology

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534798)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:55 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Sounds like doctor material to me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534936)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:31 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

This is why educating women is wasteful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534209)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:34 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534235)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:39 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534277)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:47 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534326)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: Supple cyan halford electric furnace

*gets out calculator* *types some numbers*

"That's sexist!"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534359)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:21 PM
Author: Galvanic Twinkling Uncleanness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536821)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:32 PM
Author: motley alpha senate

Unless you make $30K/month, you should be the SAHM.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534223)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:39 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

We shouldn't be here is my point. Our baby could be taken care of by her grandparents for free or she could be a SAHM in a more sensible location.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534282)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:54 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Medicine is literally the definition of a job that can be done anywhere and does not require moving.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534365)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, but the market is weird. You can make tons more in Texas/California than the East Coast. And if you move to a rural area you can really bank.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534384)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:08 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Not really, depending on specialty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535039)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:52 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

This is quite a twist

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534901)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:49 PM
Author: adventurous crimson degenerate



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534336)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:15 PM
Author: thriller kitchen

move to omaha bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534063)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:19 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I told her that was what we needed to do before the baby. We could live in a huge house, have a bunch of family/friends nearby and I could give a shit less if she worked right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534107)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:08 PM
Author: thriller kitchen

:( your son could've been a future Millard North standout

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534487)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:11 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Creighton Prep standout actually

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534513)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:17 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Uh wut....she can’t just unilaterally decide to quit. she’s going to throw away everything because she didn’t like something she saw on the nanny cam? Get a new nanny then. Your wife has consistently shown bad judgment, least of which is moving to the hell that is SGV. It’s a shame there’s now a kid involved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534084)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:19 PM
Author: Diverse point

why is SGV hell isn't there good food and schools

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534106)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:30 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

It's hot there and OP is white.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534201)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:30 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, this is no place for people like me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534207)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:33 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Good food, but terrible weather and awful suburban sprawl. Schools are a mixed bag depending on where you live and can easily be gang infested. The good ones are 100% Asian, but do you really want to compete with super study azns in Arcadia or whatever.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534229)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:52 AM
Author: Diverse point

ted H turned out just fine.

after grinding at AZN high i'd imagine it's easy to keep a >3.5 GPA at big state while being a frat star

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541633)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:31 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534214)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

LOL @ moving for the woman's job opportunity jfc

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534121)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

Marriage is insane

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534132)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:24 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534150)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:28 PM
Author: trip high-end set

Marriage is insane if you let it get insane

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534189)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:37 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

There's two people in every marriage bro. I mean, congrats if you happen to have a mentally stable wife, but that's somewhat luck based in my experience. Poor bro now has a kid and would have to litigate against a mentally unstable person to bring some stability back to his life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534263)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:47 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, I am in a living nightmare

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534327)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:25 PM
Author: khaki dysfunction

Avoiding complete insanity isn’t that difficult if you watch for signs. 100% dude knew she was a nutterbutter before he said I do.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535649)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:37 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Marriage is insane if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534261)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:39 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

Sure, but (1) that's often only apparent in retrospect, plus (2) they could have been the right person for you at the time and then either you or she changed in a way that makes you no longer compatible - - people are not exactly fixed commodities.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534280)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:55 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Nah there are always warning signs before marriage but people ignore them because they don’t want to be alone or they don’t think they can do better, don’t want to start over etc. People don’t fundamentally change past early-mid 20s. OP and his wife are likely in their 30s if she’s now working as a doctor so I highly doubt she pulled a 180 on him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534371)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:59 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

Why You Won’t Be the Person You Expect to Be

You Won’t Stay the Same, Study Finds

By JOHN TIERNEY

JANUARY 3, 2013

When we remember our past selves, they seem quite different. We know how much our personalities and tastes have changed over the years. But when we look ahead, somehow we expect ourselves to stay the same, a team of psychologists said Thursday, describing research they conducted of people’s self-perceptions.

They called this phenomenon the “end of history illusion,” in which people tend to “underestimate how much they will change in the future.” According to their research, which involved more than 19,000 people ages 18 to 68, the illusion persists from teenage years into retirement.

“Middle-aged people — like me — often look back on our teenage selves with some mixture of amusement and chagrin,” said one of the authors, Daniel T. Gilbert, a psychologist at Harvard. “What we never seem to realize is that our future selves will look back and think the very same thing about us. At every age we think we’re having the last laugh, and at every age we’re wrong.”

Why? Dr. Gilbert and his collaborators, Jordi Quoidbach of Harvard and Timothy D. Wilson of the University of Virginia, had a few theories, starting with the well-documented tendency of people to overestimate their own wonderfulness.

“Believing that we just reached the peak of our personal evolution makes us feel good,” Dr. Quoidbach said. “The ‘I wish that I knew then what I know now’ experience might give us a sense of satisfaction and meaning, whereas realizing how transient our preferences and values are might lead us to doubt every decision and generate anxiety.”

https://mobile.nytimes.com/2013/01/04/science/study-in-science-shows-end-of-history-illusion.html

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534404)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:14 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Yes people change over time, priorities change, different life experiences have an impact, etc. but I don’t think fundamental personality traits change since you can’t change genetics. Like if someone is emotional and irrational, they don’t stop being so at age 30 or 40 or whatever. Same thing if you’re unemotional and cold, it doesn’t change as you age. but I really don’t want to get into a nature v nurture debate about things.

I can just say anecdotally that every single of my friends who have bad marriages and relationships, I’m not surprised by it and could see it coming.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534535)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:17 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

agreed.

i remember when my first friend from high school got married. a bunch of my old hs friends and i were sitting in the church during the ceremony and my one friend leans over towards me and goes, looks like he's the first of us to get married and will probably be the first to get divorced too.

and sure enough, 5 years later...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534568)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:17 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

To be fair, I was talking more about priorities than personality traits. Stuff like careers and being a SAHM and where to live and how to spend time are pretty big things to a marriage and can be exacerbated by personality traits that otherwise wouldn't bother you if you still shared the same priorities

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534571)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: Diverse point

I was a better and smarter person overall before 21, but incredibly deluded/clueless/bluepilled. that boy is a stranger to me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541648)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:03 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Can confirm. I am late thirties now and she is in her early thirties. Warning signs were there, but I plowed ahead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534435)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:15 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

It's cognitive bias. You see it now so clearly but if it worked out fine you would place little emphasis on the "signs"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534545)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Probably CR...but I was infatuated with her, lonely and afraid I missed my window to have a family with someone without baggage (LOL at me for thinking this).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534601)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:11 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Having been married to a 180 wife for over ten years, I am sympathetic to this view. However, it's possible there's some luck-of-the-draw involved.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535070)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:23 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

agree with this like 95% - for the most part the pre-marriage/pre-babby relationship should reveal major attachment/identity issues but there's something specific about the birth of a babby that can crack open untapped neuroses/anxieties in men or women

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535183)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: frozen bateful theater

"People don’t fundamentally change past early-mid 20s."

This is so stupid I don't even know where to start.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535497)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: Razzmatazz bistre headpube voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543428)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:50 PM
Author: Topaz toilet seat foreskin

If find that there are two kinds of people who give this advice: non-married men and women. You never hear a married man say things like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535419)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:55 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I'm actually on board with Nutella's point here.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535463)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:16 PM
Author: frozen bateful theater

Yes, because you're perfectly content as a marriedmo. People who like being married compulsively troll for the fundamental soundness of marriage just so long as you do everything right, like they did!

Not trying to be an ass, but hardly anyone is truly objective when it comes to these things, no matter what position they're arguing. The closest thing to 'truth' here is that some people are a hell of a lot more naturally inclined to enjoy monogamy and domesticity than others and those people are largely more successful with marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535577)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:21 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

As I've stated elsewhere in this thread, "marriage" isn't really good or bad, but being married to the right person is great.

I think the right pairing is much more important than the inherent characteristics of either individual (although that certainly matters too).

"Not trying to be an ass"

It just comes naturally I guess

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536464)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:40 PM
Author: Exciting stock car coldplay fan

cr

A good marriage is great.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536568)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:22 AM
Author: frozen bateful theater

Does anyone dispute this?

You guys are so hilariously defensive the moment anyone implies that family life is anything less than endless bliss. I'm only saying that it's silly to simply advise people to 'choose well.' That's a keyhole view analysis of one of the most important and complex relationships most people engage in.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539540)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:55 AM
Author: Diverse point

i sure hope her legal advice is better than this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541661)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 10:48 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575799)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:17 AM
Author: frozen bateful theater

No, this is the ego-fed view of it, amounts to no more than "You have to choose well, like I did!"

What I'm saying is your natural disposition matters a great, great deal. Got lucky and chose a person who will remain statically capable of being your partner in life without tradeoffs that slowly make unhappy? Well done! Just do that!

I'm also not making a judgment on marriage as a net positive or negative in a vacuum. What I am saying is that everyone's homespun advice about what makes a sound marriage is suspect. And the idea that you can predictively choose well is useless. Your ability to sink into married life and find pleasure in it, as well as your partner, is just as critical as 'choosing well.' Some people are simply more capable of monogamy and crave the routine and stability of normal married life. Those people are more likely to have a good experience with it no matter how well or poorly they 'choose.'

Any time somebody on this board questions the sanctity of your domestic bliss you get chippy. No need to protest so loudly when all is well, pal.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539507)



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Date: November 22nd, 2017 9:46 AM
Author: bespoke silver tattoo tanning salon



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34747181)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:29 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Something to be concerned about is when she decides in 2 weeks (days?) that she doesn't really want to be a SAHM anymore because it's exhausting, no breaks, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534199)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:32 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

"it's exhausting, no breaks, etc."

I LOLed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534218)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:35 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

I LOLed at this once, too, IRL. I learned to never LOL at it again. Remember: There is nothing more difficult than being a SAHM or a schoolteacher. Never say anything different in the presence of women.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534246)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:45 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Isn't the kid sleeping 15 hours per day?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534318)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:52 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

yeah, she is sleeping right now. She sleeps all the damn time. Who cares if the stupid nanny is watching Netflix while she sleeps?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534343)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:53 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Throw all of this out the window and repeat: There is nothing as exhausting or difficult as being a SAHM.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534357)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Lol you work from home. You should know how exhausting it is to run after a toddler and deal with their tantrums. I think SAHM is legit really difficult with multiple kids, toddlers, and very young infants who need to be fed all the time and don’t sleep.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534385)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:08 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

I'm exaggerating slightly. My wife is (mostly) level-headed about this, but there are days when she's acting like it's the most stressful thing in the world during the 2-3 DAYS/WEEK when she's >50% caregiver. If she needs a break or needs to make dinner, she can plop the kid in front of the TV for an hour -- the house could be burning down and our daughter would just sit there so long as Sesame Street is on. Ours is still sleeping for 14 hours/day or so (and could go longer if we didn't wake her up).

If it were 7 days/week with 3 kids of different ages while living on a LMC paycheck (like our generation's mothers and grandmothers did it), then I'd get it more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534479)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:39 PM
Author: vermilion bull headed sandwich goal in life

dealing with only one baby is basically a vacation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534786)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:46 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

There are some women who are laid back and would just laugh it off. Not a ton but they do exist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534322)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:32 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I told her that last night. And now we are stuck in a lease and her job opportunities in the area will require a brutal commute.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534220)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:32 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator

Lmao so much to unpack here.

She caused you guys to move to shitty SoCal for HER MY SHREW JOB LIFESTYLE and then wants to quit out of the blue? Also, when did that kid show up? Wow things sound like they're getting crazy. You need to get her in line, asap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534227)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:36 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Correct on all accounts. We moved this summer a month before the baby was due and now she is three months old.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534255)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:39 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Whoa, she dumped her OBGYN in the last MONTH of pregnancy? And wanted to take on the stress and hassle of moving during this time? She sounds unstable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534281)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:40 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

It has been a nightmare brother. Her mom died recently and she hated living in Texas and wanted to GTFO as soon as she could.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534287)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

That should've caused alarm bells to ring in your head before marriage...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534299)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:46 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, they were going off but she was pregnant

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534324)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:56 PM
Author: beady-eyed address

But you needed to get that last raw pump in, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534956)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:12 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

lolwtf? You moved a month before the baby was due?

You guys need a fucking weekend retreat or something to take stock and figure out WTF is going on. Too bad that's damn near impossible with a 3 month old and no family nearby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535089)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:15 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

*impossible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535114)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:33 PM
Author: stimulating volcanic crater

Kids need their mom. You shouldnt have got her pregnant if all you wanted was a roommate you get to have sex with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534228)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:33 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534232)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:36 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

For the third month in a row, prospective homebuyers in Los Angeles County faced a median sale price of $575,000 in September, according to real estate tracker CoreLogic. That’s the highest price ever recorded in the area.

On the bright side, after four straight months of record shattering prices, the cost of buying is finally holding steady.

That’s not the case in other parts of Southern California; Orange and San Bernardino counties both saw median prices shoot up more than 3 percent between August and September—a very sizable increase in such a short time. Across all of Southern California, the median sale price rose to $505,000, up from $500,000 the month before.

https://la.curbed.com/2017/10/24/16538684/la-county-home-price-cost-to-buy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534254)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:42 PM
Author: Embarrassed To The Bone Old Irish Cottage Mediation

Lol at any home in LA for $575k being worth buying

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534304)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:44 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Yea that's just median. Most neighborhoods are bad. Most places people here would actually live are probably 1M.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534316)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:38 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Hey dickhead, I was fine with her being a SAHM. I was not fine with her deciding to move to ONE OF THE MOST EXPENSIVE PLACES IN THE WORLD against my objections and THEN deciding to be a SAHM. She could be a SAHM in Denver right now and I wouldn't be complaining.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534266)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:38 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Didn't she want to go to the beach and stuff as one of her reasons for moving? When did you guys go last?

(Sorry.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534272)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:41 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

LMAO. We have gone twice and it has been a fucking nightmare both times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534296)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:43 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage

Aren’t all the beaches just filled with mexis now?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534310)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:48 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, they are pure trash. Disgusting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534334)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:48 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534332)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:49 PM
Author: massive stead

If the move was such a bad idea then why did you agree to it?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534335)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

medicine pwns law so she has authority to cuck him at all times

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534382)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:01 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Harsh, but fair. I am not a lawyer, but have a good job and she still makes way more than me. This has created a fucked up power dynamic where she thinks she can dictate decisions like this because we need to "maximize her income for the family." So we have an irrational, emotion-driven woman making decisions that should be made in a rational manner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534422)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

and now both of you are totally unhappy.

thanks, feminism!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534471)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:08 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534483)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534560)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

As a doctor, if maximizing income were the goal, you’d move to bumfuck instead one of the most expensive markets in the country. I don’t see the logic there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534624)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:18 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

"So we have an irrational, emotion-driven woman making decisions that should be made in a rational manner."

You read that part, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535138)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:17 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Well, maybe now that she wants to quit that won't be the trump card it used to be?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535128)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:22 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Only silver lining here...the relocation decision is going to be VERY different next time or I am out of this marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535174)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:27 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I'm sympathetic to the notion that family decisions should accommodate the career of the bigger earner, but only if it's a joint decision (i.e. the lesser earner doesn't want to live on less money with more earning responsibility).



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535218)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:58 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

Are both your families from the same area (Omaha?) Take your stand now. she can be a stay at home mom but not in LA. She wants to do that, you get to pick where you live. You just started a new job, but you gotta start looking at where you are going to settle down permanently and be happy. You can't let her make that decision because she seems flighty. Either she goes back to work and you attempt to make LA work or she is a SAHM -- which you are totally fine with -- and you move to x. If she is capable of reason, you can win her over.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534393)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 1:59 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Are her parents rich? How can you just toss a MD into the garbage can at age 28?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534408)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:04 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534443)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

Does seem a little hasty. If they move near family, she can work part time and have family help her out. Best of both worlds. Then, when baby is older, she can transition to full time work if she wants

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534498)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:56 AM
Author: trip high-end set

"she can transition to full time work if she wants"

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Brother I don't think u know how women work

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541669)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

MD is paid off, she has no loans. She could work part-time and make good money still. Her current job offered to pay her 80% of her salary for 32 hours a week with three day weekends. Also, they provide free healthcare for our family, gave her a $75K signing bonus and paid for our move (guess who will have to pay this back if she quits). She finds this unacceptable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534554)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Good Lord.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534578)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

man, we all warned you about this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534583)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:21 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, I have myself 100% to blame unfortunately.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534612)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

:( we feel for you breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534618)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534641)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:05 PM
Author: Abusive twinkling cuckold

Think of the alimony payment OP will be getting soon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535515)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:07 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I think Thunder Collins needs to have a little chat with dirte

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535528)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 5:38 AM
Author: mischievous box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34568498)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:09 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She is from the East coast and has two brothers in Atlanta. She refuses to consider Omaha. I don't know what to do. You are 100% correct, but my best option would be to transfer to another location internally like Charlotte or Tampa (where I have family) after I have been here a year or so. Quitting is not an option right now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534497)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:11 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

She won't consider Omaha because she thinks it is prole and lacks urban sophistication. Unfortunate.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534511)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:12 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

It's also "his" and not "hers" and the lifelong resentment would be too much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534516)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:14 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534539)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Bingo. She would be "sacrificing" for me and would resent me once it is a little chilly outside/my mom annoys her/it appears I am enjoying spending time with my lifelong friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534582)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

I once floated the idea of moving back to Buffalo (my hometown, definitely not hers). Was not well received.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534606)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, it sucks. I really wanted to move to Denver because I get not wanting to live in Omaha. But she found Denver to be too much of a sacrifice somehow.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534635)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:22 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Has she even seen Mork & Mindy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535172)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:33 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

I dunno, Buffalo is pretty bad. Denver sounds great though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534735)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

I NO RIKE A BUFFARO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534760)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:50 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

I no rearry rike a buffaro either, tbf, but being hugged by my parents and being given a job by my dad sounded good during the pits of ITE.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534886)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Staying here worked out but by pure luck.

Buffalo would have been attractive for big house (which she doesn't care about after having grown up in an urban Asian hellscape, and then the American version of the same) and family reasons, but in every other way it's a sacrifice. It was a tough sell. If I were making $140K as a low-level corp counsel and we were still in a tiny townhouse, I'd still be pushing for it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534874)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: Soul-stirring Party Of The First Part

It's also complete shit. lol at living in Omaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534639)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:40 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

I am pretty easy about where I live. Lincoln seems like it wouldn't be so bad.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534799)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:42 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

It is not bad at all, especially if you have family/friends there.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534812)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:24 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

she can re-enter easily in medicine no? don't let it get too long. don't have another. leverage this to move where things make sense.

i used to think lots of women planned to fuck their employers over when they decide to not come back but irl your situation is pretty common (not the moving to Cali part). they were also blindsided. it feels biologically wrong handing a kid under 3 to a non-relative fulltime (it's true frankly).



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534640)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Man this shit is T*O*X*I*C

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534651)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:35 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Agreed, let my life be a warning to others

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534752)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

XO: Hey Charles get off your ass and try to get a wife.

Also XO: LJL my marriage has destroyed my life.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534761)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:37 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

don't trust any chick to keep her job after form babby unless they are hard as fuck entjs/intjs like nutella/29, etc. especially if the $$$ isn't necessary.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534773)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:52 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Just do marry a woman of childbearing age who also makes at least $400K and is reasonably cute. Got it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534902)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:53 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

or just don't need an extra paycheck. or just REALLY need that extra paycheck then they have no choice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534918)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:02 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

tbh I have no expectation that my wife actually make substantial $$$. This thread isn't terrifying to me because his wife is throwing $$$ away, but because she is making life-altering decisions due to childish impulses he can't stop.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535003)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:03 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

fwiw, not all women are like that. and a lot of women once they get married and have kids are much more family/future oriented.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535015)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:05 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

OFS, I'm not a lunatic "all women suck" MGTOW, but shit like this is still terrifying to me, and it seems like it's hard to predict exactly how a woman will change once she has a kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535027)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:07 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

I can do it for you. I'm really good at stuff like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535035)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:17 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535129)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

LOL, noted. Will CharlesXII's future wife be able to pass *THE XO TEST*?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535141)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:08 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She is totally irrational Charles. Purely emotion driven and makes huge, life-altering decisions on whims. No appeal to reason, logic, practicality, or future consequences will dissuade her from what FEELS right in the moment. She was literally talking about buying a house in California and how great her job was the night before. I feel like my life is out of my hands and being controlled by a crazy person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535041)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:33 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Now you know how libs feel about Trump!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535268)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

CharelsXII,

You are doing the right thing by being selective in pursuing (or not) potential mates/life partners.

Getting/being married and forming babbies is 180, but only if you marry the right person.

Sincerely,

Happily married husband/father

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535250)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535264)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:43 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Thank.

Tips for finding the right life partner and evaluating their suitability?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535358)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:48 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I got nothing for you there. My wife and I fell in love in college, broke up once or twice, got back together, got engaged after we'd known each other 6 years, and got married a year later.

She was not the type I was looking for, but I could just tell she was a good person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535399)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

What type were you looking for and how does she not match that type?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535423)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:57 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I had recently broken up with a good-girl religious type and was more interested in finding someone to smoke weed with.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535472)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:59 AM
Author: Diverse point

what happened in the interim breakups? would you say 40-50x?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541693)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:54 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Will make a suitable mother. Not all women (and not all good women) are cut out for it in 2017 now that it's all but discouraged for women to prioritize families.

Parents aren't divorced. Good relationship with parents, siblings, and grandparents and speaks to them regularly.

Same goals as you (e.g., having a family, living in the suburbs, and living near aging parents v. moving to London for work and sending kids to $45k/yr schools).

Some shared interests; no directly opposing interests. You love nothing more than going to the opera? Don't marry someone who's been going to punk shows since age 12, because planning weekends/free time will be a major compromise.

Understands money and lives below her means. Ideally is not supported by her parents.

Has friends and healthy relationships with them. If it's all drama all the time, run.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535458)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:59 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I'll co-sign some of this, but I think prioritizing similarity of life goals is overrated. Matching those kinds of things on paper is less important than finding someone that you can work well with as a team to solve mutual problems. Someone you can talk to honestly and work together with is the key, IMO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535484)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:19 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

I dunno, the crazy ass women I know who drive their husbands nuts all have a crazy sense of entitlement. Like they were used to getting their way since they were a child and expect the world to revolve around them. This isn’t a career woman v gold digger thing though. Lots of career women are incapable of making the sacrifices necessary to be a good wife or mother.

I think you can sense of entitlement well before you get married. Obviously someone who grew up upper middle class or more is more likely to have it. Somebody with useless degrees prob has it. It’s not that hard to tell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535598)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:01 PM
Author: Topaz toilet seat foreskin

You'll never hear me advise anyone to get married. As far as I'm concerned, there's a 3.7 billion way tie for "worst person in the world," being held by all women on Earth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535493)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:16 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

ouch

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535573)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:19 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

His wife is a 9, too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535597)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:20 PM
Author: Topaz toilet seat foreskin

My wife's pregnancy tits are the most amazing things I've ever seen, yet I loath the air she breaths.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535607)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:28 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

ungh, pics?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535667)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 11:02 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34575943)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Maybe for you. For me it's making me appreciate my life. Air smells fresher. Leaves a little bit greener (or redder, or whatever).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535196)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:29 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

I mean, same here. My life is pretty 180 right now. It's toxic because I sometimes think of pursuing marriage and then this stuff makes me think "haha WOW fuck no."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535232)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:36 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

It's impossible to judge "marriage." You can only judge marriage to a particular person. If you find the right person, then marriage to that person is awesome. Otherwise, it's a different ballgame.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535303)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:37 PM
Author: thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy

Proof ITT that MD pwns JD or whatever OP's toilet degree is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534770)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:40 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

MBA, definitely true.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534795)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:43 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

eh, it does in some ways, but not in others.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534828)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:44 PM
Author: thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy

(Rowan)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534837)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534870)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:49 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Can you just not practice law for 5 years then easily slide into $200k/year?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534879)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:55 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

i know women who can slide back into say $150k a year jobs.

but law and MBA is also way less schooling and opportunity cost than an MD. and the upper end pay is better for law and MBA than an MD.

each has its own benefits

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534939)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:19 PM
Author: bonkers national tank

you don't understand the upper end of MD

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535146)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:21 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

well then explain it to me, and then we can compare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535169)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:21 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

All those fancy finance jobs lost in the recession never came back. MD is recession proof.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535168)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:23 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

MD definitely has certain advantages, i take no issue with that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535180)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:19 PM
Author: maniacal garrison macaca

Tommy Turd did it

But women who transition from biglaw associate to biglaw firm admin, HR., recruiting, etc can do it.

Even some nonprofits pay 120k+ to attorneys 10 years out with 30 hour work weeks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535594)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:51 PM
Author: brindle jewess nibblets

A contrarian viewpoint:

Feel blessed that he has strong protective/motherly instincts and would do whatever is needed to care for her kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534897)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:53 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Moving and changing OBGYNs in month 8 is ridiculous and negatively impulsive.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534915)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:54 PM
Author: brindle jewess nibblets

She just had a kid. Both her brain chemistry and life priorities have been altered dramatically in a short period of time.

OP should tell her to take a few weeks off work to babysit kid until the au pair arrives. Does she still have some unpaid FMLA she can exhaust? That's better than quitting her job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534931)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:56 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She can't take FMLA because she just started the job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534960)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:58 PM
Author: brindle jewess nibblets

The she should ask for a few weeks off work using PTO. Or you should. Either way, the net benefit is that she gets to keep her job/income and engage in overall better decision-making once this fatuousness wears off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534976)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:28 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She has one day of PTO and I just started my job and have limited PTO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535226)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:57 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534964)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:57 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

You should take this as a blessing in disguise and run for Lincoln or wherever now. That will be a bigger mistake than a doctor taking a sabbatical for family reasons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534963)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 2:59 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

cr, maybe some good can be made of this.

Still, he'd have to pay back signing bonus, relocation expenses, they have a lease, he just started a job and would have to leave quickly and then have to explain it, etc. They also can't decide where to move.

This is not the best way to make decisions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534986)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:00 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

they'd trade 1.5M shitbox for 500K mcmansion potentially. they have room to run. they have no connections to Cali other than work which his wife isn't going to do FT for a while.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534990)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:02 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I am not moving now. It makes no sense. In 9 months or so when the lease is up, baby is a year old and I have been at my job for a year we will decide where we want to live. I am not going to compound this mistake.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535005)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:13 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

So move in 9 months. You have the option to correct that mistake right now and that mistake just got compounded because it turns out your wife's plan to shrew in LA (or SF?) isn't actually going to happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535098)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:00 PM
Author: bonkers national tank

twist: the nanny cam is a time machine and was recording your wife's SAHM experience of ignoring the baby, Netflix and texting Chad

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534993)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:04 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

summon: Charles

now *this* is toxic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535020)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:19 PM
Author: nighttime stirring incel bawdyhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536800)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:02 AM
Author: Effete Hominid



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539396)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:03 PM
Author: Talented buff background story

real talk: in OP's wife's mind, she settled for OP. he's a beta-ass bitch whose career isn't even as good as hers. she literally thinks OP deserves no say in any decisions she makes about HER life because what he brings to the table is so beneath her. this isn't something you can fix with a "very serious discussion"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535014)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:12 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Oh fuck off bro. You don't know me. I have a good job and make money. Her current decision making is EXACTLY how she has behaved in relationships in the past - including with people that make far more money than me. The difference is they cut her loose when she acted this way and I have a kid with her and can't do that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535083)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:14 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Describe what she did in past relationships.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535099)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:14 PM
Author: thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy

"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted this way"

They must've been alpha MDs.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535108)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:15 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

The toxicity is out of control ITT.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535117)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:18 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535133)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:16 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Update: She found a job paying $200K a year where she would be working every weekend and then stays home during the week with the baby and is going to apply for it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535122)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:23 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Chances she decides within 6 months that "I can't handle losing all my weekend" and loses it because psychologically she views this arrangement as "working 7 days a week?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535185)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

100%

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535198)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy

roflmao holy shit what an incredibly alpha woman. What's her specialty?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535192)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:24 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

I'm sorry, dude. Jesus.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535197)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:26 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

LOL your big problem is you let her moved y'all to Cali not your doc wife being able to find a job after a sabbatical for family reasons.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535210)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: bonkers national tank

OP is literally a white man who moved to SGB. not sure why xo thinks it can help him

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535261)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:41 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Those of us who aren't from CA can't even comprehend what certain parts of LA and the Bay Area are really like.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535337)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:43 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I had no idea. It was the logical midpoint between our jobs and is basically like living in a luxury resort. Didn't know what we were getting into.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535364)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:02 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Wtf that’s weird since weekends are the only time you can spend together as a family. She’s fine just leaving you with the kid and not spending any time with you on the weekends?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535495)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:03 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

i'm just gonna leave this here for the OP

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535502)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:05 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

We never have sex anymore. I am already in a dead bedroom marriage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535516)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:06 PM
Author: infuriating cerise lodge

Yeah it’s not a good sign that they’re not hat day into marriage and she’s already coming up with ways to avoid him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535526)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:04 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Apparently. She just said it won't be every weekend, but most.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535507)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:31 PM
Author: Talented buff background story

"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted this way and I have a kid with her and can't do that."

res ipsa loquitur

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535690)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:36 PM
Author: Salmon Sticky Theater Stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535745)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:25 PM
Author: 180 church building

Why is this thread so long wtf is going on

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535205)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:26 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

XO making a heroic effort to keep me on the path of celibacy.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535212)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:05 PM
Author: mischievous box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536704)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:31 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

a woman other than spaceporn's wife FUCKED UP BIG TIME

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535249)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:51 PM
Author: 180 church building

What's the tldr here

I thought we liked SAHMs

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535430)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:58 PM
Author: awkward onyx ticket booth

man lacks control over life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535480)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Not when they force you to move to a high COL hellscape for THEIR career and then quit their job immediately after arrival.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535489)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:04 PM
Author: Hairraiser snowy corn cake

lol, cr.

OP sounds like he'd be pretty flexible so long as the decision made were a rational one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535508)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:34 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Having your wife turn on you right after birth to extract maximum concessions is everyone’s deepest fear. That’s when she has maximal leverage and you have to hope she isn’t machevellian enough to use it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535281)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:00 PM
Author: Abusive twinkling cuckold

Agreed, cliffs pls

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535486)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 3:42 PM
Author: laughsome nubile wrinkle

terrified this will happen to me once kid arrives in january

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535349)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 4:10 PM
Author: Cracking gas station

lulzy as fuck thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535539)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:31 PM
Author: Spectacular crusty marketing idea

nothing to add except my sympathy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536057)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 5:49 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

TY

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536175)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:16 PM
Author: Effete Hominid

So if there is a lesson to be learned here, (1) don't marry a crazy wife, but (2) if you do marry a crazy wife and she starts to do something crazy, fight it?

You've got my sympathy too. Toxic thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536426)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:22 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

I think you've got to insert "if you do marry a crazy wife, do not impregnate her until you have sufficiently resolved the crazy wife situation"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536831)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:33 PM
Author: Abusive twinkling cuckold

JFC this thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536523)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:51 PM
Author: titillating meetinghouse

Sorry for your pain OP but this is a fun thread. Do you still love your wife after all this or nah?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536622)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 6:58 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, but this has been unbelievably difficult. There is more to it than I posted. I think she has a personality disorder and had a psychotic break after the baby. Some CRAZY shit has gone down. I am exhausted and stressed and feel like I am on the verge of losing it every day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536652)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:00 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Damn, that sucks man. Elaborate?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536662)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:03 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

in a meeting while simultaneously feeding baby...will elaborate soon

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536680)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:15 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Details: She routinely threatens divorce and has said she will ruin my life if that happens, has physically assaulted me, would scream at me for hours over minor stuff, she would get manic and wouldn't sleep, cried uncontrollably over small stuff. Blames me for everything and refuses to take accountability for her actions. Major rage issues.

Before the baby she wasn't like this. She is very temperamental, but nothing like this. She would have rage episodes, but took mood stabilizers to control them and was pleasant to be around most of time. She is not taking anything and has been hormonal, can't sleep and under extreme stress and it has resulted in her losing it constantly. She is delaying getting back on medication or seeing a therapist.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536759)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:16 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Dude... :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536767)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:17 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I know. I don't know WTF to do. It is awful. This would be an easy decision without a kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536778)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: violent karate

This is not going to end well. The milk is sour. You don't put it back in the fridge. You throw it out and buy new milk.

Get a divorce, but first file a TRO against her. Actually, what you do is you start an argument with her, get her to be psychotic, get her to attack you, call the cops, have her arrested, then file the TRO the very next morning before she does (because she will as soon as she bails out), and serve her with the move out papers.

You will thank me in five years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536863)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:28 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

This might be the best option objectively and you've seen more shit than any of us, but he still loves this woman and they have a 3-month-old.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536894)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:30 PM
Author: violent karate

She's been making his life a living hell. He doesn't even fully realize how unhappy he is. His love is just an irrational emotion at this point. He can get the kid.

Maybe a divorce and TRO would be a wake up call for this bitch. It would permanently put him back in the driver's seat if he decided to reconcile.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536909)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Is there someone other than you that she trusts that could advise her to see a doc about hormones/depression/etc.?

As a doc, she's got to know that postnatal mental instability is pretty common and should be looked at, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536867)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

You probably have to keep your head down for a few months and deal. Having an infant, not getting enough sleep, etc. is stressful even for mentally healthy people. Then at some point (6 months?) have a sit-down and make it clear that this can't continue this way and she needs to get back to the therapist and on the pills -- the alternative isn't an option.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536882)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:03 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted abnormal goyim



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541726)



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Date: November 14th, 2017 4:20 PM
Author: Comical sanctuary

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34686692)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:19 PM
Author: maniacal garrison macaca

? how is her life stressful...wtf

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536796)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:22 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Mom just died and went through a nasty dispute with her brother over the inheritance, one brother tried to murder/suicide his wife and is going to prison, we moved cross-country when she was 8 months pregnant, she had to take her board exams and start a new high-stress job that involves two hours of commuting in hellish LA traffic and she had a baby with no family or friends anywhere nearby

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536825)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy

Holy shit she's going through so much and here you are blaming her for all your troubles.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536871)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:28 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

We are both stuck in a nightmarish situation. I love her an have genuine empathy for what she has been through. But she uses me as a literal and figurative punching bag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536896)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:32 PM
Author: thirsty vibrant sweet tailpipe really tough guy

My condolences, brother. I've been there, too. For a while after her mom died, my wife mistook me for a punching bag.

It sounds like your wife could really use intensive therapy. I know it helped my wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536937)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:36 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I am trying to get her into therapy and on mood stabilizing medication now. She definitely needs it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536958)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:26 PM
Author: Milky Big Boiling Water Round Eye

why the fuck would you agree to the move? grow some balls and put your foot down. appeasing crazy women is never the cr move. as you noticed with the SAHM decision they just push the boundaries further

deciding UNILATERALLY to go SAHM would be such a deal breaker for me personally. Its not about being SAHM but about not even consulting you at all on this big decision. she doesn't look at you as a traditional Husband (household leader) or even a fucking partner. You are being looked at as an associate right out of business school while she is the MD.

So you are at an inflection point. Either completely cuck up or take a stand. your choice



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536875)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:31 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, she is definitely treating me that way. There is no partnership in her eyes because she makes more money, even though I make an upper-middle class professional salary.

I don't think she will go through with SAHM move. She will probably go part time. We are going to have to have a major talk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536926)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:39 PM
Author: Milky Big Boiling Water Round Eye

SAHM is just the symptom. At the core the real issues are the fact that she seems to have some personality disorder AND she has very little respect for you.

so good luck and maybe just go full cuck for the sake of the baby bcos i just dont see a fully grown adult changing their personality and becoming a new person. it will be a miracle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536968)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: Cracking gas station

lol at having "a talk".

I'm gonna be blunt with you man, you made a huge mistake marrying this woman and having a kid with her. I have firsthand experience with these types of women, they are raging whirlwinds and no amount of reason or "talking" is going to accomplish anything, You might as well go start a conversation with a black hole.

I can also tell that you're a bit of a pushover and codependent, making you a prime target for these types of marriages. It is too late to sack up and try to "fix" anything because a) she doesn't respect you and b) it isn't worth it anyway. Make no mistake, this woman is your ENEMY and she WILL try to destroy you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536979)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator

damn lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541643)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:27 PM
Author: maniacal garrison macaca

she sounds like she made some poor life choices, but her life does sound like shit right now

and tbh, she prob doesn't wnat to be a doctor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536889)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:34 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She freely admits she has zero desire to be a doctor

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536954)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:31 PM
Author: Translucent boyish site clown

Jesus, is this the best flame thread ever?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536921)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:33 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Mr Wubby / hot little sister one is GOAT flame thread.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536944)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:07 PM
Author: Diverse point

wtf are you talking about? that thread said NOT FLAME, and homeless and artisanal pruno (poster couple) are divorcing over it (probably)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541763)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 5:42 AM
Author: mischievous box office

?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34568505)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:34 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I wish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536947)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:38 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

If it's flame it's been building for a while because TC has talked about the LA move and shit for a long time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536962)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:22 PM
Author: violent karate

Bro, if she ever initiates the divorce, you will 100% get DVTRO pwnd. Not 99%. 100%.

I have seen this a million times. Guys like you would come into my office and tell me, "Nah, I've never hit her or anything."

She will lie her ass off, you will have a TRO on your permanent record.

You need to document these times she has assaulted you, been "psychotic" with dates and summaries that you can give you lawyer to draft the declaration in support of your TRO against her.

The person who pulls the trigger first on this wins the kids. The other one gets supervised visits and loses the house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536827)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She will absolutely lie and try to destroy me. There is no question in my mind. At a minimum she will try and rack up obscene legal bills.

I should take pictures if (when) it happens again

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536860)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:28 PM
Author: violent karate

Bro, the best thing you can do is hit record on your phone in the middle of one of her psychotic episodes. At least capture the audio, the video isn't important.

Make sure you yell, "I'm recording this," if you are in a dual consent state.

I've had many clients pull out their phone, hit record, say they are recording, and their spouse keeps on acting crazy.

The key is not sitting on this evidence long. Act fast and file. Bam! Now you have the kids, the house, 95% custody, you file for a move-away back to wherever you want to go. With 95% custody you will win the move away.

If you wait until she gets 50% custody, you won't win the move away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536899)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:31 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

OP: CA is a dual consent state.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536925)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:38 PM
Author: violent karate

Not many people know this, but you cannot use an illegal recording in a California court to prove anything. There is ONE exception: to defend yourself against a false DV allegation.

I would always advise my clients that were going through a divorce, but still interacting with their spouse to have their phone recording 100% of the time just in case the spouse filed a false DV claim.

Most false allegations surround an actual verbal argument, but the woman will then pick up the phone, call 911, and say her husband just hit her. Usually she is the one who hit him and they just reverse the facts.

A lot of times, the woman hits the man, the man calls the police, the police come, the woman tells the police the man hit her, the police take the man to jail who is screaming, "I'M THE ONE WHO CALLED YOU!" as they are shoving him into the police cruiser.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536964)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:40 PM
Author: Angry Chad Scourge Upon The Earth

Do you miss practicing this at all?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536971)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:40 PM
Author: violent karate

Yeah, man, every day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536974)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:50 PM
Author: mischievous box office

TITMFCR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537026)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:52 PM
Author: Cracking gas station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537047)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:58 AM
Author: Effete Hominid

You're doing God's work in this thread, brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539352)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 11:19 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34576092)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:43 PM
Author: Heady people who are hurt

You should seek to have her hospitalized before she kills your child.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Postpartum_psychosis

I am being entirely serious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536992)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:44 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She would never harm our kid

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536993)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: Heady people who are hurt

She clearly needs DAT LITHIUM and refusal to take such things that she knows she needs (delaying vs. refusing) suggests a serious problem.

You should call doctor ASAP. She sounds like a serious suicide risk.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537008)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:48 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

(Rusty Yates)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537019)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:49 PM
Author: Heady people who are hurt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537020)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:02 AM
Author: Effete Hominid

I still hope this is all flame but if it is I've got to tip my cap to the OP--terrifying. I'd be worried about the stress of pregnancy for any modern woman given the huge change in lifestyle, high likelihood of postpartum depression, physical trauma to the body, and issues related to stopping/continuing mood stabilizers, stims, benzos, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539389)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 7:58 PM
Author: Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig

Didn't you mention previously your wife was azn?

Also, did you not see any of these red flags go up before you married her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537079)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:11 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

No, she is white. Yes, I saw red flags before marriage, but she was already pregnant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537157)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:26 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Wait, did you rush into marriage because you knocked her up?

The plot thickens.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537242)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:35 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537285)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:41 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

How long were you with her before?

And simply because it must be asked, any chance she deliberately got pregnant to force marriage?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537318)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:54 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

We dated for a year before we got married and had like a 4-5 month engagement.

It is a possibility. We started dating at a time where she really wanted to get married and have a family and I happened to be who she was with at the time. I was coming off a broken engagement and she was younger, hot, and fun to be with. I was hooking up with a lot of app girls before dating her and feeling like a loser and wanted to get marriied and have a family too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537385)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:13 AM
Author: Glittery Up-to-no-good Wagecucks Codepig

Lmao cot Damn I'm sorry man. She hooked you when you were vulnerable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539485)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:15 AM
Author: bonkers national tank

"wanted to get marriied and have a family too."

*clutches monkeys paw*



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541406)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:55 AM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

My life is a cautionary tale.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541656)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:38 PM
Author: sooty seedy feces chapel

I choose to believe that OP is flame.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537301)



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Date: October 26th, 2017 8:48 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Life is dark. This is not flame. I really fucked my life up.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537357)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:00 AM
Author: Exciting stock car coldplay fan

363 POASTS - awesome trigger topic



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539368)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:21 AM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Almost no blank-bumps either. Just a fascinating and horrifying thread all around.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34539535)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:07 AM
Author: Spectacular crusty marketing idea

Just read the updates - she clearly has PPD and needs help.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541373)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:18 AM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

She recognizes she has PPD, but "doesn't have time" to go get help.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541428)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:30 AM
Author: bright excitant field crotch

wtf is she doing all day?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541490)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:34 AM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Working for now, but she told me again this morning she is going to quit her job. She has a meeting with her boss today and going to ask for an unpaid leave of absence and is looking at different part-time options where she would do telemedicine one day a week or work a weekend shift.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541512)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:55 AM
Author: maniacal garrison macaca

lol, didn't she just finish residency so this is her first year of real work?

she's never going to work again, bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541652)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 11:59 AM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

IDK, she was talking about working part time this year because the first year is most important for the baby to develop healthy attachment and then finding a full time job in a year. She has been grinding hard for a decade (she did an I-banking analyst stint before med school and residency), just had her mom die and had a baby and is burnt out.

She is obsessed with "building wealth" and will go back to work I think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541691)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:42 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

when you went to babby's early follow-up appointments did doc give you the edinburgh postnatal depression scale

how did wife score on them?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542028)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:44 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

No, that never happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542043)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:45 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

https://pesnc.org/wp-content/uploads/EPDS.pdf



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542053)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:10 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

TY, I will talk to her about this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542326)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:36 PM
Author: concupiscible bipolar gaping

Real talk: it isn't PPD. It's a permanent change.

You can't understand this until after you have kids, but no matter where a woman falls on crazy spectrum she will incrementally move towards the crazier end of the spectrum after each kid. Maybe it's the horomomes, the stress or the changes to the body, but it happens.

My SAH wife is truly 180, but she went from tenth percentile crazy prekids to fifteenth percentile after the first and twentieth percentile after the second kid. I'm still very happy and wouldn't change a thing, but the changes for her after kids are real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542969)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:42 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Dude...I need some hope here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543013)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 3:37 PM
Author: Spectacular crusty marketing idea

mine recovered, and didn't have PPD for the later kids. So there's hope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543364)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:01 PM
Author: tantric psychic hell

This is easy to solve. Hire :D as the nanny for a few weeks, send the wife back to work, and wait for the au pair.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541711)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:35 PM
Author: Diverse point

Someone bump, and also copy/paste, the subthread where op is talking about starting to date this chick, all giddy and full of hope

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541968)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:36 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Please don't...I have suffered enough

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34541977)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: Startling principal's office masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542056)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

what have you considered the most useful bit of insight in this thread

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542080)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:54 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I need to protect myself and have no illusions about the situation I am in. If shit gets really crazy, I need to be prepared. Also, my wife is in desperate need of psychiatric help and I need to push this harder than I have been with her. Finally, I made a huge mistake accommodating her desire to move to SoCal and was too much of a pushover. She wants to move when our lease is up in June and have me just quit my job to move to the East Coast. I told her no way and that we were going to rationally think through our next move and not make another decision like this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542149)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:02 PM
Author: amber razzle indian lodge

At least you can use this thread as evidence of your then-existing mental condition later on down the line.

<changes moniker to "niggerniggernigger">

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542706)



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Date: October 31st, 2017 11:25 PM
Author: spruce juggernaut

hahahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34576140)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:59 PM
Author: Diverse point

the MAJOR takeaway is never marry a woman who makes more than you; more broadly, ALWAYS BE DOMINATING the relationship, and always have total power over your woman or else you're gonna be completely miserable. hth charles

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542191)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:00 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Yeah, having a woman out-earn you is TOXIC for a relationship.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542201)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:16 PM
Author: Olive Slimy Queen Of The Night Library

there should be a balance. Like I was in a long term relationship where I was making $200k a year in biglaw and my gf was a libtard making $12/hr doing office work. That is an unhealthy dynamic as well

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542804)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:23 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

Credited split is like the man making $200K plus and the wife pulling in $100K as a nurse practitioner or something.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542850)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 4:19 PM
Author: maniacal garrison macaca

marriages where the wife is a nurse or teacher seem to work out best

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543647)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 8:33 PM
Author: canary razzle-dazzle theatre cuck

this. My wife makes a third of what I make, but still makes a lot and could easily support herself comfortably.

When she stopped working full time to write for a year the dynamic got much worse.

Any woman worth their shit wants to pull their weight and hates when they don't...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34545243)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:49 PM
Author: Fragrant Rusted Institution Bbw

Holy shit! This exists? Kinda weird that we can see the rise and fall of something like this from anonymous poasts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542088)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 12:51 PM
Author: Diverse point

it's total 180 and why pumos should be banned.

that said i respect our friend's need for some kindness and delicacy at this time. i don't want the writers killing him off i think he should stay for the next few seasons at least

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542103)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 1:33 PM
Author: chest-beating dashing trust fund jap

Do you know what thread it was in?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542548)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:18 PM
Author: Spectacular crusty marketing idea

his post in the 37 year old meeting 34 year match fiancée post is bone chilling

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542814)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:20 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I started to feel sick when I read it earlier today

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542835)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:05 PM
Author: Appetizing pink area



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: Abusive twinkling cuckold



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542734)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:08 PM
Author: Ebony bat-shit-crazy heaven

dam this thread must have broken all sorts of xoxo records

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542743)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:22 PM
Author: nighttime stirring incel bawdyhouse

you married someone who you are "sure" would lie about domestic violence and try to destroy you and take all the money in a divorce?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542845)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: indigo dead orchestra pit

I don't know if I would say for sure. Just she would really nut out and who knows what she would do. I didn't know she was this type of person entering the marriage. I saw warning signs of a personality disorder and she got on mood stabilizers and seemed to get better. Then her mom died when she was in her last trimester and my life has been a total nightmare ever since.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34542873)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 3:32 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

that last sentence is so sad

your wife sounds like a real piece of work, but of all the things to be a fucking lunatic over, becoming a mother at the point of losing your own mother is pretty much at the top of the list

being a mother was always going to be hard for her (if this personality disorder stuff is legit); but doing it right after facing her own mothers' death?

yeesh. I'm worried for you both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543327)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 3:37 PM
Author: violent karate

You must be a woman.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543366)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 3:39 PM
Author: lemon plaza faggot firefighter

my poast is not womansplaining

if anything is going to make a crazy person go super duper crazy, it's that kind of collision of life events

op should be worried, careful, and extra involved in making sure his child is safe and secure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543378)



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Date: October 27th, 2017 2:49 PM
Author: contagious international law enforcement agency

Give him credit for being honest with himself.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34543053)



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Date: November 3rd, 2017 9:55 PM
Author: Electric chrome corner



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Date: November 3rd, 2017 9:57 PM
Author: Exciting stock car coldplay fan

I love how this is the #1 substantive thread (hardly any blank bumps) for the last six months.

Really triggers a lot of xo poasters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34599988)



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Date: November 3rd, 2017 10:31 PM
Author: khaki dysfunction

Would trigger just about any sane person. But it’s like blood in the water for xo poasters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34600190)



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Date: November 3rd, 2017 11:25 PM
Author: Clear Marvelous Location

it is the ultimate nightmare scenario

take ONE|WRONG|MOVE, clone it ~4 times and then give all 5 loaded firearms in a shopping mall

oh and then remove the SALT deduction and personal exemptions from the equation lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34600471)



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Date: March 7th, 2018 4:39 AM
Author: sadistic kitty cat



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#35551864)



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Date: November 3rd, 2017 10:16 PM
Author: lime gunner station

Best of luck to you. Sounds like an absolutely terrible situation.

Reasons like this are evidence of the benefit of NOMARRY.

What do you get? To spend a shit ton of money on a fucking ring and then have a psychotic woman ruin your life? Fuck that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34600098)



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Date: November 17th, 2017 1:45 AM
Author: Vigorous Know-it-all Elastic Band Gaming Laptop



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34707115)



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Date: November 22nd, 2017 10:11 AM
Author: aggressive stage

OP, if you didn't have a 3 month old, I would advise you to get a divorce asap. However, since you already have a kid with her, you're pretty much stuck.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34747307)



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Date: December 22nd, 2017 7:47 PM
Author: Orange Selfie Range

lmao forgot you posted this

best of luck friend

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34987742)