My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
What did she see on the nanny cam?	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/26/17
Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the pho...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost th...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a min...	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
24 year old white woman with a college degree in child devel...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
pics?	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face th...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
probably should just keep her around	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up wit...	frum dilemma deer antler	10/26/17
Lol and pay child support?	underhanded office	10/26/17
he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while ...	frum dilemma deer antler	10/26/17
...	Cream geriatric library	10/26/17
Nah state mandated guidelines are 4:1 ratio and I pay for wh...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
after 1, part time away at a nursery is ideal for most kids....	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
lol every shrew mom rationalizes dumping their kid with tran...	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
Again, I had a choice. My mom was fine watching him 5 days/...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
if my only other choice was being around you or your mom i'd...	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking shit on ...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
"Well, my son is not an angry pumo who enjoys taking sh...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
True. It’s my goal to raise him not to become one.	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
Nightmare on XOXO: My Son is a Pumo!	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
"You think that's bad, mine is a quotemo!"	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
*pan to Maury audience members shaking heads in dismay*	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
TMF and MND's half-retarded kid walks out, Montell calls in ...	Electric garrison elastic band	10/31/17
go ahead and make little nutelliot an account on r/hapas	Histrionic Mauve Gas Station Coffee Pot	10/26/17
Instead you will school him in the art of only using pumos t...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/26/17
Nutelliot, this is how you sock-puppet	maniacal space sneaky criminal	10/26/17
"No son, those people are haters, and they are #neverwi...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/26/17
Don't you also use pumos to sock puppet? So in addition bei...	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
...	Histrionic Mauve Gas Station Coffee Pot	10/26/17
in this particular case i'm not sure babby isn't BENEFITING ...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
LMAO, never not obsessively trolling for the way you choose ...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/26/17
>I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. ...	Costumed Angry Candlestick Maker	10/27/17
"I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit...	Electric garrison elastic band	10/31/17
i think he meant per month.	flickering clown	10/31/17
lmao never change xo, "wife sees nanny being shitty, ta...	Electric garrison elastic band	10/31/17
how many kids you planning?	burgundy fluffy son of senegal	10/26/17
After this bullshit, I don't think I am going to double down...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
the investment obviously becomes better with MORE kids, wors...	burgundy fluffy son of senegal	10/26/17
It becomes more expensive to have two kids when you are divo...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
true, but then just hie to a country that isnt shiTTT	burgundy fluffy son of senegal	10/26/17
This isn't a real option for 99% of white people.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Don't want my kid(s) to grow up without a dad.	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
oh they'll have a dad alright. lots and lots of "dads&...	beady-eyed balding whorehouse	10/26/17
...	odious locus	10/26/17
lol at your kids being raised with only one tiny pink pe...	burgundy fluffy son of senegal	10/26/17
cr, OP's kids will have a "darker" perspective.	Seedy motley giraffe regret	10/26/17
...	gold effete stag film pistol	12/19/17
move back	Flatulent sexy resort masturbator	10/26/17
the only cr	contagious violet spot puppy	10/26/17
I just got a new job here and don't think I can get my old j...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
on 2nd thought congrats on escaping Austin	contagious violet spot puppy	10/26/17
LOL. Fuck that over-hyped humid shithole	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Better than SoCal	odious locus	10/26/17
IDK about that. I am not in tech and got a better job here. ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
You can get a nice 1br in a safe part of Austin for $1k 20 m...	odious locus	10/26/17
Where are you talking about living? Right by Round Rock?	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
From the 45 to the 103. South of there until downtown prices...	odious locus	10/26/17
http://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-living/los-angeles-ca/aust...	odious locus	10/26/17
Give her your resume and email password, and tell her she ne...	Light jew field	10/26/17
LOL	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
You the guy who occasionally poasts about regretting moving ...	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/26/17
Yeah	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
You guys need to have a serious discussion about making deci...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
No shit. She is incredibly impulsive and makes rash decision...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Try speaking to her in a somewhat more stereotypically femal...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
what's the game plan? to get her to go back to work or to ge...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
Those are short-term, surface problems. I think the bigger ...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Yea agreed.	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
lol, talk about things that will never happen.	maniacal space sneaky criminal	10/26/17
Well, maybe. Can't know until you seriously try, though.	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
...	flickering clown	10/31/17
...	maniacal space sneaky criminal	11/14/17
(guy who thinks his wife would never impulsively divorce him...	pungent carmine keepsake machete native	10/27/17
Congrats. Having a true SAHM will be awesome. You should ...	Pearly godawful rehab pocket flask	10/26/17
*spits out coffee* tyft. OP, your workload will manage...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Cr. I have reconciled myself to living in filth.	beady-eyed balding whorehouse	10/26/17
lmao	Big mad cow disease	10/26/17
Is this from a 1932 NYT column?	Green beta indirect expression	10/26/17
You don't even have to go back that far.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Sadly true	aggressive heady ladyboy parlor	10/26/17
...	Swollen Dashing National	10/26/17
lol	beady-eyed balding whorehouse	10/26/17
...	odious locus	10/26/17
LMAO. She will be shoving our daughter in my face at 6:00 sa...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Bix44C1EzY	Stirring parlour	10/26/17
...	Green beta indirect expression	10/26/17
she handles the money? how do you know you can trust her?	burgundy fluffy son of senegal	10/26/17
I handle the money. Everything goes on charge cards where I ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
lol	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
...	dark business firm	10/26/17
<>	Bistre round eye	10/26/17
180 poast	Mind-boggling state	10/26/17
I was thinking of this thread last night as I sat in my easy...	beady-eyed balding whorehouse	10/27/17
OUT the foreign language	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
...	flickering clown	10/31/17
wasn't she a doctor? i think the writers are getting a littl...	stimulating quadroon	10/26/17
She is a doctor. TBF, she is proposing working one day a wee...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
6k net or gross? If net, that’s awesome and go for it. I...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
Gross. She doesn't want to do it long-term. But it will like...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
I think it’s obvious she needs to stop unilaterally make dec...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
Yes, this is 100% correct. She is a 100% emotion-driven deci...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
hope she’s not a surgeon	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
She is in a BS lifestyle specialty	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
stop talking shit about neurology	Concupiscible garnet sanctuary	10/26/17
Sounds like doctor material to me.	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
This is why educating women is wasteful	odious locus	10/26/17
...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
...	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/26/17
*gets out calculator* *types some numbers* "That's ...	burgundy fluffy son of senegal	10/26/17
...	aggressive heady ladyboy parlor	10/26/17
Unless you make $30K/month, you should be the SAHM.	aqua psychic striped hyena	10/26/17
We shouldn't be here is my point. Our baby could be taken ca...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Medicine is literally the definition of a job that can be do...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Yeah, but the market is weird. You can make tons more in Tex...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Not really, depending on specialty	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
This is quite a twist	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
...	Provocative walnut church building	10/26/17
move to omaha bro	bonkers new version halford	10/26/17
I told her that was what we needed to do before the baby. We...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
:( your son could've been a future Millard North standout	bonkers new version halford	10/26/17
Creighton Prep standout actually	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Uh wut....she can’t just unilaterally decide to quit. she’s...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
why is SGV hell isn't there good food and schools	stimulating quadroon	10/26/17
It's hot there and OP is white.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Yeah, this is no place for people like me	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Good food, but terrible weather and awful suburban sprawl. ...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
ted H turned out just fine. after grinding at AZN high i'd ...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
...	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/26/17
LOL @ moving for the woman's job opportunity jfc	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Marriage is insane	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you let it get insane	fuchsia location	10/26/17
There's two people in every marriage bro. I mean, congrats i...	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
Yeah, I am in a living nightmare	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Avoiding complete insanity isn’t that difficult if you watch...	maniacal space sneaky criminal	10/26/17
Marriage is insane if you marry the wrong person or for the ...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
Sure, but (1) that's often only apparent in retrospect, plus...	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
Nah there are always warning signs before marriage but peopl...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
Why You Won’t Be the Person You Expect to Be You Won’t Stay...	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
Yes people change over time, priorities change, different li...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
agreed. i remember when my first friend from high school ...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
To be fair, I was talking more about priorities than persona...	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
I was a better and smarter person overall before 21, but inc...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
Can confirm. I am late thirties now and she is in her early ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
It's cognitive bias. You see it now so clearly but if it wor...	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
Probably CR...but I was infatuated with her, lonely and afra...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Having been married to a 180 wife for over ten years, I am s...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
agree with this like 95% - for the most part the pre-marriag...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
"People don’t fundamentally change past early-mid 20s.&...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/26/17
...	high-end white becky	10/27/17
If find that there are two kinds of people who give this adv...	supple slap-happy public bath	10/26/17
I'm actually on board with Nutella's point here.	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Yes, because you're perfectly content as a marriedmo. People...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/26/17
As I've stated elsewhere in this thread, "marriage"...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
cr A good marriage is great.	Mind-boggling state	10/26/17
Does anyone dispute this? You guys are so hilariously de...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/27/17
i sure hope her legal advice is better than this	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
...	flickering clown	10/31/17
No, this is the ego-fed view of it, amounts to no more than ...	tan misanthropic pervert alpha	10/27/17
...	gold effete stag film pistol	11/22/17
Something to be concerned about is when she decides in 2 wee...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
"it's exhausting, no breaks, etc." I LOLed.	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
I LOLed at this once, too, IRL. I learned to never LOL at i...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Isn't the kid sleeping 15 hours per day?	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
yeah, she is sleeping right now. She sleeps all the damn tim...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Throw all of this out the window and repeat: There is nothi...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Lol you work from home. You should know how exhausting it i...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
I'm exaggerating slightly. My wife is (mostly) level-headed...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
dealing with only one baby is basically a vacation	Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address	10/26/17
There are some women who are laid back and would just laugh ...	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
I told her that last night. And now we are stuck in a lease ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Lmao so much to unpack here. She caused you guys to move ...	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/26/17
Correct on all accounts. We moved this summer a month before...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Whoa, she dumped her OBGYN in the last MONTH of pregnancy? A...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
It has been a nightmare brother. Her mom died recently and s...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
That should've caused alarm bells to ring in your head befor...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Yeah, they were going off but she was pregnant	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
But you needed to get that last raw pump in, right?	Maroon ape hall	10/26/17
lolwtf? You moved a month before the baby was due? You g...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
*impossible	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Kids need their mom. You shouldnt have got her pregnant if a...	Brilliant electric furnace indian lodge	10/26/17
...	odious locus	10/26/17
For the third month in a row, prospective homebuyers in Los ...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Lol at any home in LA for $575k being worth buying	Flushed sadistic pozpig heaven	10/26/17
Yea that's just median. Most neighborhoods are bad. Most pla...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Hey dickhead, I was fine with her being a SAHM. I was not fi...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Didn't she want to go to the beach and stuff as one of her r...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
LMAO. We have gone twice and it has been a fucking nightmare...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Aren’t all the beaches just filled with mexis now?	odious locus	10/26/17
Yeah, they are pure trash. Disgusting.	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
...	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/26/17
If the move was such a bad idea then why did you agree to it...	cracking shivering liquid oxygen	10/26/17
medicine pwns law so she has authority to cuck him at all ti...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Harsh, but fair. I am not a lawyer, but have a good job and ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
and now both of you are totally unhappy. thanks, feminism...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
As a doctor, if maximizing income were the goal, you’d move ...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
"So we have an irrational, emotion-driven woman making ...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Well, maybe now that she wants to quit that won't be the tru...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Only silver lining here...the relocation decision is going t...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
I'm sympathetic to the notion that family decisions should a...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Are both your families from the same area (Omaha?) Take your...	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/26/17
Are her parents rich? How can you just toss a MD into the ga...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
...	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/26/17
Does seem a little hasty. If they move near family, she can ...	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/26/17
"she can transition to full time work if she wants"...	fuchsia location	10/27/17
MD is paid off, she has no loans. She could work part-time a...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Good Lord.	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
man, we all warned you about this	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Yeah, I have myself 100% to blame unfortunately.	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
:( we feel for you breh	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
wow	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/26/17
Think of the alimony payment OP will be getting soon	Razzmatazz fishy degenerate	10/26/17
I think Thunder Collins needs to have a little chat with dir...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
...	appetizing slippery cuckold	10/31/17
She is from the East coast and has two brothers in Atlanta. ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
She won't consider Omaha because she thinks it is prole and ...	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/26/17
It's also "his" and not "hers" and the l...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Bingo. She would be "sacrificing" for me and would...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
I once floated the idea of moving back to Buffalo (my hometo...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Yeah, it sucks. I really wanted to move to Denver because I ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Has she even seen Mork & Mindy?	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
I dunno, Buffalo is pretty bad. Denver sounds great though.	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
I NO RIKE A BUFFARO	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
I no rearry rike a buffaro either, tbf, but being hugged by ...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Staying here worked out but by pure luck. Buffalo would h...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
It's also complete shit. lol at living in Omaha	startling razzle-dazzle newt personal credit line	10/26/17
I am pretty easy about where I live. Lincoln seems like it w...	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/26/17
It is not bad at all, especially if you have family/friends ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
she can re-enter easily in medicine no? don't let it get to...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
Man this shit is T*O*X*I*C	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
Agreed, let my life be a warning to others	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
XO: Hey Charles get off your ass and try to get a wife. A...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
don't trust any chick to keep her job after form babby unles...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
Just do marry a woman of childbearing age who also makes at ...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
or just don't need an extra paycheck. or just REALLY need th...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
tbh I have no expectation that my wife actually make substan...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
fwiw, not all women are like that. and a lot of women once t...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
OFS, I'm not a lunatic "all women suck" MGTOW, but...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
I can do it for you. I'm really good at stuff like this.	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
LOL, noted. Will CharlesXII's future wife be able to pass *T...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
She is totally irrational Charles. Purely emotion driven and...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Now you know how libs feel about Trump!	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
CharelsXII, You are doing the right thing by being select...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
Thank. Tips for finding the right life partner and evalua...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
I got nothing for you there. My wife and I fell in love in ...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
What type were you looking for and how does she not match th...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
I had recently broken up with a good-girl religious type and...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
what happened in the interim breakups? would you say 40-50x?	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
Will make a suitable mother. Not all women (and not all goo...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
I'll co-sign some of this, but I think prioritizing similari...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
I dunno, the crazy ass women I know who drive their husbands...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
You'll never hear me advise anyone to get married. As far a...	supple slap-happy public bath	10/26/17
ouch	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
His wife is a 9, too.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
My wife's pregnancy tits are the most amazing things I've ev...	supple slap-happy public bath	10/26/17
ungh, pics?	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
...	flickering clown	10/31/17
Maybe for you. For me it's making me appreciate my life. A...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
I mean, same here. My life is pretty 180 right now. It's tox...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
It's impossible to judge "marriage." You can only...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Proof ITT that MD pwns JD or whatever OP's toilet degree is....	Deranged persian	10/26/17
MBA, definitely true.	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
eh, it does in some ways, but not in others.	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
(Rowan)	Deranged persian	10/26/17
...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Can you just not practice law for 5 years then easily slide ...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
i know women who can slide back into say $150k a year jobs. ...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
you don't understand the upper end of MD	Histrionic Mauve Gas Station Coffee Pot	10/26/17
well then explain it to me, and then we can compare.	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
All those fancy finance jobs lost in the recession never cam...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
MD definitely has certain advantages, i take no issue with t...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Tommy Turd did it But women who transition from biglaw as...	tripping smoky coldplay fan center	10/26/17
A contrarian viewpoint: Feel blessed that he has strong p...	Sapphire judgmental bawdyhouse	10/26/17
Moving and changing OBGYNs in month 8 is ridiculous and nega...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
She just had a kid. Both her brain chemistry and life priori...	Sapphire judgmental bawdyhouse	10/26/17
She can't take FMLA because she just started the job.	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
The she should ask for a few weeks off work using PTO. Or yo...	Sapphire judgmental bawdyhouse	10/26/17
She has one day of PTO and I just started my job and have li...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
You should take this as a blessing in disguise and run for L...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
cr, maybe some good can be made of this. Still, he'd have...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
they'd trade 1.5M shitbox for 500K mcmansion potentially. th...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
I am not moving now. It makes no sense. In 9 months or so wh...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
So move in 9 months. You have the option to correct that mis...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
twist: the nanny cam is a time machine and was recording you...	Histrionic Mauve Gas Station Coffee Pot	10/26/17
summon: Charles now *this* is toxic	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
...	Seedy motley giraffe regret	10/26/17
...	lilac spectacular brunch	10/27/17
real talk: in OP's wife's mind, she settled for OP. he's a b...	sepia rough-skinned toilet seat	10/26/17
Oh fuck off bro. You don't know me. I have a good job and ma...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Describe what she did in past relationships.	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted th...	Deranged persian	10/26/17
The toxicity is out of control ITT.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
Update: She found a job paying $200K a year where she would ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Chances she decides within 6 months that "I can't handl...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
100%	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
roflmao holy shit what an incredibly alpha woman. What's her...	Deranged persian	10/26/17
I'm sorry, dude. Jesus.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
LOL your big problem is you let her moved y'all to Cali not ...	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
OP is literally a white man who moved to SGB. not sure why x...	Histrionic Mauve Gas Station Coffee Pot	10/26/17
Those of us who aren't from CA can't even comprehend what ce...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
I had no idea. It was the logical midpoint between our jobs ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Wtf that’s weird since weekends are the only time you can sp...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
i'm just gonna leave this here for the OP https://www.red...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
We never have sex anymore. I am already in a dead bedroom ma...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Yeah it’s not a good sign that they’re not hat day into marr...	Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage	10/26/17
Apparently. She just said it won't be every weekend, but mos...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
"The difference is they cut her loose when she acted th...	sepia rough-skinned toilet seat	10/26/17
...	odious locus	10/26/17
Why is this thread so long wtf is going on	charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
XO making a heroic effort to keep me on the path of celibacy...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
...	appetizing slippery cuckold	10/26/17
a woman other than spaceporn's wife FUCKED UP BIG TIME	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/26/17
What's the tldr here I thought we liked SAHMs	charismatic affirmative action	10/26/17
man lacks control over life	exhilarant chestnut base foreskin	10/26/17
Not when they force you to move to a high COL hellscape for ...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
lol, cr. OP sounds like he'd be pretty flexible so long a...	buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house	10/26/17
Having your wife turn on you right after birth to extract ma...	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/26/17
Agreed, cliffs pls	Razzmatazz fishy degenerate	10/26/17
terrified this will happen to me once kid arrives in january	french 180 plaza national security agency	10/26/17
lulzy as fuck thread.	Crusty magical black woman ratface	10/26/17
nothing to add except my sympathy	swashbuckling fighting lettuce	10/26/17
TY	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
So if there is a lesson to be learned here, (1) don't marry ...	lilac spectacular brunch	10/26/17
I think you've got to insert "if you do marry a crazy w...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
JFC this thread	Razzmatazz fishy degenerate	10/26/17
Sorry for your pain OP but this is a fun thread. Do you stil...	Glittery erotic famous landscape painting	10/26/17
Yeah, but this has been unbelievably difficult. There is mor...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Damn, that sucks man. Elaborate?	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
in a meeting while simultaneously feeding baby...will elabor...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Details: She routinely threatens divorce and has said she wi...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Dude... :(	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
I know. I don't know WTF to do. It is awful. This would be a...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
This is not going to end well. The milk is sour. You don't p...	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/26/17
This might be the best option objectively and you've seen mo...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
She's been making his life a living hell. He doesn't even fu...	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/26/17
Is there someone other than you that she trusts that could a...	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
You probably have to keep your head down for a few months an...	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
...	beady-eyed balding whorehouse	10/27/17
lol	Mentally impaired fortuitous meteor	11/14/17
? how is her life stressful...wtf	tripping smoky coldplay fan center	10/26/17
Mom just died and went through a nasty dispute with her brot...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Holy shit she's going through so much and here you are blami...	Deranged persian	10/26/17
We are both stuck in a nightmarish situation. I love her an ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
My condolences, brother. I've been there, too. For a while a...	Deranged persian	10/26/17
I am trying to get her into therapy and on mood stabilizing ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
why the fuck would you agree to the move? grow some balls an...	Saffron Roommate	10/26/17
Yeah, she is definitely treating me that way. There is no pa...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
SAHM is just the symptom. At the core the real issues are th...	Saffron Roommate	10/26/17
lol at having "a talk". I'm gonna be blunt with...	Crusty magical black woman ratface	10/26/17
damn lol	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/27/17
she sounds like she made some poor life choices, but her lif...	tripping smoky coldplay fan center	10/26/17
She freely admits she has zero desire to be a doctor	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Jesus, is this the best flame thread ever?	comical pontificating legend	10/26/17
Mr Wubby / hot little sister one is GOAT flame thread.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
wtf are you talking about? that thread said NOT FLAME, and h...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
?	appetizing slippery cuckold	10/31/17
I wish	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
If it's flame it's been building for a while because TC has ...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
Bro, if she ever initiates the divorce, you will 100% get DV...	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/26/17
She will absolutely lie and try to destroy me. There is no q...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Bro, the best thing you can do is hit record on your phone i...	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/26/17
OP: CA is a dual consent state.	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Not many people know this, but you cannot use an illegal rec...	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/26/17
Do you miss practicing this at all?	olive aromatic hissy fit generalized bond	10/26/17
Yeah, man, every day.	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/26/17
TITMFCR	appetizing slippery cuckold	10/26/17
...	Crusty magical black woman ratface	10/26/17
You're doing God's work in this thread, brother	lilac spectacular brunch	10/27/17
...	flickering clown	10/31/17
You should seek to have her hospitalized before she kills yo...	Cerebral Flirting Sandwich	10/26/17
She would never harm our kid	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
She clearly needs DAT LITHIUM and refusal to take such thing...	Cerebral Flirting Sandwich	10/26/17
(Rusty Yates)	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
...	Cerebral Flirting Sandwich	10/26/17
I still hope this is all flame but if it is I've got to tip ...	lilac spectacular brunch	10/27/17
Didn't you mention previously your wife was azn? Also, di...	frum dilemma deer antler	10/26/17
No, she is white. Yes, I saw red flags before marriage, but ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Wait, did you rush into marriage because you knocked her up?...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
Yes	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
How long were you with her before? And simply because it ...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/26/17
We dated for a year before we got married and had like a 4-5...	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
Lmao cot Damn I'm sorry man. She hooked you when you were vu...	frum dilemma deer antler	10/27/17
"wanted to get marriied and have a family too." ...	Histrionic Mauve Gas Station Coffee Pot	10/27/17
My life is a cautionary tale.	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
I choose to believe that OP is flame.	Poppy nighttime telephone piazza	10/26/17
Life is dark. This is not flame. I really fucked my life up.	Excitant henna jewess	10/26/17
363 POASTS - awesome trigger topic	Mind-boggling state	10/27/17
Almost no blank-bumps either. Just a fascinating and horrify...	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/27/17
Just read the updates - she clearly has PPD and needs help.	swashbuckling fighting lettuce	10/27/17
She recognizes she has PPD, but "doesn't have time"...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
wtf is she doing all day?	talented turdskin	10/27/17
Working for now, but she told me again this morning she is g...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
lol, didn't she just finish residency so this is her first y...	tripping smoky coldplay fan center	10/27/17
IDK, she was talking about working part time this year becau...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
when you went to babby's early follow-up appointments did do...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/27/17
No, that never happened	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
https://pesnc.org/wp-content/uploads/EPDS.pdf	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/27/17
TY, I will talk to her about this	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
Real talk: it isn't PPD. It's a permanent change. You ...	Wonderful Up-to-no-good Shrine	10/27/17
Dude...I need some hope here	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
mine recovered, and didn't have PPD for the later kids. So t...	swashbuckling fighting lettuce	10/27/17
This is easy to solve. Hire :D as the nanny for a few weeks,...	Wine Shitlib	10/27/17
Someone bump, and also copy/paste, the subthread where op is...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
Please don't...I have suffered enough	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
...	hilarious galvanic half-breed	10/27/17
what have you considered the most useful bit of insight in t...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/27/17
I need to protect myself and have no illusions about the sit...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
At least you can use this thread as evidence of your then-ex...	Vibrant plum brethren	10/27/17
hahahahaha	flickering clown	10/31/17
the MAJOR takeaway is never marry a woman who makes more tha...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
Yeah, having a woman out-earn you is TOXIC for a relationshi...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
there should be a balance. Like I was in a long term relatio...	Vivacious Gaped Chad	10/27/17
Credited split is like the man making $200K plus and the wif...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
marriages where the wife is a nurse or teacher seem to work ...	tripping smoky coldplay fan center	10/27/17
this. My wife makes a third of what I make, but still makes...	diverse corner azn	10/27/17
Holy shit! This exists? Kinda weird that we can see the rise...	Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop	10/27/17
it's total 180 and why pumos should be banned. that said i ...	stimulating quadroon	10/27/17
Do you know what thread it was in?	territorial brindle gunner hell	10/27/17
his post in the 37 year old meeting 34 year match fianc&eacu...	swashbuckling fighting lettuce	10/27/17
I started to feel sick when I read it earlier today	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
...	Multi-colored police squad jap	10/27/17
...	Razzmatazz fishy degenerate	10/27/17
dam this thread must have broken all sorts of xoxo records	Federal Wrinkle	10/27/17
you married someone who you are "sure" would lie a...	Seedy motley giraffe regret	10/27/17
I don't know if I would say for sure. Just she would really ...	Excitant henna jewess	10/27/17
that last sentence is so sad your wife sounds like a real...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/27/17
You must be a woman.	Zippy Soggy Tanning Salon	10/27/17
my poast is not womansplaining if anything is going to ma...	Lascivious embarrassed to the bone cruise ship	10/27/17
Give him credit for being honest with himself.	translucent irradiated ticket booth	10/27/17
...	adventurous community account stage	11/03/17
I love how this is the #1 substantive thread (hardly any bla...	Mind-boggling state	11/03/17
Would trigger just about any sane person. But it’s like bloo...	maniacal space sneaky criminal	11/03/17
it is the ultimate nightmare scenario take ONE|WRONG|MOVE, ...	Laughsome drunken mad-dog skullcap orchestra pit	11/03/17
...	Silver mediation senate	03/07/18
Best of luck to you. Sounds like an absolutely terrible situ...	cocky voyeur	11/03/17
...	Arousing yellow trump supporter	11/17/17
OP, if you didn't have a 3 month old, I would advise you to ...	floppy death wish	11/22/17
lmao forgot you posted this best of luck friend	Hyperventilating headpube goyim	12/22/17

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:02 PM Author: Excitant henna jewess My wife INSISTED on moving to Southern California for a job opportunity over my objections that it was too expensive and we have no support network. We have a three month old and moving further away from family/friends at this time seemed stupid (because it was). Last night she saw some things on the nanny cam she didn't like, freaked out and decided that she was going to quit her new job. Leaving me with sole responsibility to pay for this mistake. JFC. I am so irate right now. She fired the nanny and now I am trying to work from home, with a bunch of conference calls all day, and taking care of the baby. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533895)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:08 PM Author: Aphrodisiac Purple Dog Poop What did she see on the nanny cam? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34533976)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:13 PM Author: Excitant henna jewess Babby crying and nanny ignoring her while talking on the phone. Nanny spending the day on Netflix and texting. Ignoring specific directions she gave her. Also, the nanny didn't show up one day last week with minimal notice and had two friends cover for her. The nanny sucks and needs to go, but we have an au pair that is on her way in 4-6 weeks and can just hire another one in the interim or fly my parents out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534035)

Date: October 26th, 2017 1:21 PM Author: Frozen Vigorous Private Investor Stage Unfortunately nannies texting and ignoring baby is almost the norm. I see so many nannies at the playground just zoned out ignoring the kids. I feel bad for the families paying $4-5k for that shit. It’s hard to get a good nanny, that’s why my kid is in daycare because nobody is on a phone and there’s constant stimulation and activities. But I wouldn’t do daycare til at least age 1 once they’re walking around. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534128)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:15 PM Author: Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address lol yep, of course your decision to dump your kid with a minimum wage nigerian who's also watching 10 other kids is the 100% perfect decision. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534547)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:18 PM Author: Excitant henna jewess 24 year old white woman with a college degree in child development actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534585)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:21 PM Author: buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house pics? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534614)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:25 PM Author: Excitant henna jewess Don't have any, but she is a bubbly blonde with an 8 face that is maybe 10 pounds overweight. Super cheerful as I walk out the door for my hour commute. Makes me want to kill self. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534649)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:28 PM Author: Rusted Organic Girlfriend Address probably should just keep her around (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534682)

Date: October 26th, 2017 2:29 PM Author: buck-toothed laser beams step-uncle's house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34534686)

Date: October 26th, 2017 4:34 PM Author: frum dilemma deer antler Divorce wife immediately, get custody of child, shack up with bubbly blonde. Problem solved. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535727)

Date: October 26th, 2017 7:25 PM Author: underhanded office Lol and pay child support? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34536858)

Date: October 26th, 2017 7:46 PM Author: frum dilemma deer antler he's going to pay either way. he should have divorced while she was still working. actually, that's a better ploy. wait til she's working again and then divorce and thus she has to pay. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34537005)

Date: October 26th, 2017 3:16 PM Author: Cream geriatric library (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3775434&forum_id=2#34535124)