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The Indian fixed marriage thing is so weird to me
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:13 AM Author: provocative hospital These guys announce their arranged marriages and expect everyone to congratulate and celebrate with them. But non-Indians just think it's creepy. If you're going to work in the US then keep your backwards sensibilities to yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708799) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:02 PM Author: domesticated fragrant police squad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709590) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 3:51 PM Author: Razzle-dazzle Cobalt Parlor What else are you gonna do with a race of people that is to unatractive? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711544) |
Date: November 17th, 2017 10:15 AM Author: Multi-colored erotic lay depressive Protip: their marriages have a much better chance of not ending in divorce than yours. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708814) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:16 AM Author: Godawful Supple Brunch Tattoo /thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708817) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:45 AM Author: poppy goal in life partner (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709448) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:54 PM Author: mind-boggling painfully honest travel guidebook (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709923) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 4:01 PM Author: Black Rehab (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711638) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 5:47 PM Author: Balding Vigorous Round Eye Fat Ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34712482) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 7:53 PM Author: Aphrodisiac disgusting institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34713349) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: beady-eyed digit ratio parlour (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708836) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:20 AM Author: provocative hospital Im not married, I don't give a shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708841) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:21 AM Author: Multi-colored erotic lay depressive Then I'll add: "assuming you even manage to get married." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708854) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:03 AM Author: smoky business firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709203) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:43 AM Author: fighting carnelian dilemma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709439) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:48 AM Author: Rebellious Crusty Office Pozpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709471) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:48 AM Author: cerebral boiling water when did you go pumo, Paulie? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709476) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:17 AM Author: concupiscible cocky point Yeah, man. They're just ASSIGNED a match with someone and make it work. Real romance requires us to find&wife a used up Tinder shrew after Chads are done with her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708822) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:23 AM Author: Multi-colored erotic lay depressive "I would never let some system pick who I date/marry!" he said, before seeing what Tinder throws on the screen... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708867) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:27 AM Author: provocative hospital This is just a false dichotomy, classic low IQ tell. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708901) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:11 AM Author: Flushed dashing kitty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709250) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:13 AM Author: Amethyst blood rage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709263) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:18 AM Author: tan abode mad cow disease its strange, but its a bit misunderstood in the west. the parents set the children up with 'suitable' people, but they do have a period of courtship which is essentially dating to see if things work out. its not like dudes just marry whoever. if it doesnt work out, thats fine. its just the introduction is a bit odd (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708827) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:51 AM Author: Coral deranged gaming laptop this. There was some documentary, it had Patel in the title, that followed some dude through this process. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709501) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: Vivacious learning disabled volcanic crater it doesn't seem strange to. indians smell, haggle too much, are annoying and grating, but the marriage thing is ok. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708834) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:19 AM Author: beady-eyed digit ratio parlour it's weird but you cannot deny that it's effective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708837) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:20 AM Author: Magenta Rigor OP: fires up tinder to meet slores. stayed unmarried till 40 when finally wifes some used-up fat feminist shrew. adopts dog because chobani.
Pradeep: arranged marries docile sahw at 25 who cooks and cleans. gives him human kids. all in all a normal family.
OP flails arms backwarth backwarth!! |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:22 AM Author: Multi-colored erotic lay depressive *points at Pradeep* "So weird! So backward!" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708863) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:24 AM Author: ultramarine appetizing preventive strike OP: Doesn't smell like shit and curry 24/7 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708870) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:27 AM Author: doobsian orange cruise ship turdskin: comes home to clean house, a homemade feast, and his nuclear family you: hovel of filth lit up only by glow of homosexual pornography |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:50 AM Author: alcoholic nighttime house (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709487) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:52 AM Author: aromatic half-breed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709512) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:55 AM Author: Rebellious Crusty Office Pozpig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709535) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:14 AM Author: Copper slimy gaping garrison (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709272) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:46 AM Author: lilac curious address (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709455) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:50 AM Author: Magenta Rigor LOL, aren't you the guy having marital issues right NOW? How is that non-fixed marriage working out for you? Hahahahahaha. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709495) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:51 AM Author: Rebellious Crusty Office Pozpig Gape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709505) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:09 PM Author: Irradiated frozen private investor national Indian arranged marriage would not have helped him on any frontier of possibility. 1) If the issue lies with ethnicity of wife/culture of married couple: Indian chicks are often professionally successful but batshit crazy physicians, just like Mrs. Collins. 2) Arranged marriage is speedy marriage, leaving less than optimal time to do due diligence, just like with the Collinses. 3) Arranged marriage suffers from the same lack of organic hs/college gf bonding that is inherent to all fraudlie late marriage. |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:23 AM Author: Stirring meetinghouse quadroon How else are these guys going to find wives? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708864) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:29 AM Author: razzle sienna gay wizard Seems cr actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708909) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:31 AM Author: Chocolate sadistic public bath boistinker thread not going as expected (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708925) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:32 AM Author: provocative hospital Honestly if the guys responding in this thread are white then xo is weird and aspie even for me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34708932) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:42 AM Author: Titillating theatre lol outted as self hating turdskin who cant even get an arranged marriage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709033) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 10:53 AM Author: flesh glittery stead roast beef It's quite charming to see the matrimonial sites with ads written by parents. "Pleasant Mumbai area girl seeks respectful, kind university graduate - doctor, accountant, or lawyer. Telugu speaker. 50 lakh rupees dowry. Please contact Lakshmee at 09624317." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709132) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:09 AM Author: Brass odious school wagecucks It's a perfect system for painfully undesirable people like Indians. They're all 2s on the human scale and would likely delude themselves into thinking they are 7s and would hold out past the point of fertility.
Compare to a city like DC to get my drift. |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:46 AM Author: lilac curious address (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709457) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:12 AM Author: Flushed dashing kitty I an extremely pro parents lending their life and cultural wisdom to help very young and usually naive people make the most important decision of their lives (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709261) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 3:51 PM Author: provocative hospital parents do not have "life and cultural wisdom". just look at the boomers for fucks sake. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711537) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:13 AM Author: underhanded marvelous orchestra pit I told my current divorce mess to my Indian doctor. He was like why didn’t your parents find you someone suitable? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709264) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:15 AM Author: Magenta Rigor Man, this doctor seems aspie and completely unaware of American culture. I would change doctors immediately. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709281) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 11:51 AM Author: aromatic half-breed It's a little odd to me, too, of course but denying the wisdom of your parents on such an important decision seems senseless. They still get to date a bit and can turn them down. There are conventions for Indians in the US for this sort of thing, too, just a bit less formal -- suitable families can meet each other. I wish my parents had steered me away from the dumb girl I wasted HS and college with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709506) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:11 PM Author: Irradiated frozen private investor national how would your life have been better off without an organic hs gf? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709633) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: aromatic half-breed She influenced my decision on where to go to college to my detriment.
I have 0 friends from HS because I was too busy being her bitch.
I have 2 friends from college for the same reason.
I was one of those guys who did nothing other than go to school and then spend hours on the phone with my gf in the evening. It's ridiculous looking back at it.
I could have been figuring out what I want and what I like better if I wasn't wasting time with this dumb girl. She was legitimately dumb -- like low-900s SAT dumb. (She's now teaching children...also well on her way to a nice pension.)
The pros are nearly entirely sexual, which was fun, and I loved her body, but I'd trade it for the above. I was really naive at the time. |
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Date: November 18th, 2017 7:13 AM Author: Exciting buck-toothed foreskin Pro tip: you’d still be a little bitch without her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34715708) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 12:54 PM Author: aromatic half-breed I would have liked an organic HS gf just not the one I had. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34709920) |
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Date: November 17th, 2017 3:04 PM Author: gaped messiness space I'm not ethnic but my mom set me up with a few chicks back in the day and they were all great dates, i can see the appeal. One of them was the daughter of my moms college roommate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3800510&forum_id=2#34711068) |