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Do most marriages turn into nightmares?

The more I date, the more I realize every person will sooner...
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so we looked @ the data..
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A Charlie Brown Christmas
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gradually intensifying mental illness
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HodlUpHodlUpWait
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stable of alts
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Hal Kidsmeller
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just get a condo and bang app shrews, get a dog for your tin...
Chaucer
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Banging app shrews sounds awful too. I already do that and t...
,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,
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I think the idea is that it’s still better than being alone....
someone on the inside
  12/06/17
I don't think it is the nursing home part. I think it is to...
Gregor
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spaceporn2525
  12/07/17
Probably, much like everything else in life
Memorandum of T&A
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We got scammed, bro. Life = hell in disguise. We shoul...
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Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner
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see you in DOUBLE HELL
the challenge of a heterosexual relationship
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yes
Ciroc Obama
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RCP90
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Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner
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Unless you marry someone you met in college, yes. It is har...
Gregor
  12/06/17
wow. 180 CR, but... WOW.
Punctuation Monica
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What difference does it make if you marry someone you met in...
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Still the last best hope in life for a marriage based on wha...
Gregor
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A Mistletoe is Performed
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mods
Chaucer
  12/06/17
lmfao if you think other than this in a major city too
Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner
  12/06/17
Can you translate that into English please? Ty
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0-1% of making a marriage work with shrew in lib metro area ...
Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner
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Marry a Chinese female PhD or MD. Not an Asian born in Ameri...
.........,,,,,....,,,,......... (Retiring)
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Chinese women are feisty and catty. And I'm talking about th...
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Gregor
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gradually intensifying mental illness
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prince
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Hal Kidsmeller
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Soren 'Bob' Odenkierkegaard
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No man is actually attracted to that
.....,.,..,.,..,...,.,.,.,.,,,...,.,...
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yes
Subtle Hipster Troll
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Are you married? Explain
,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,
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tcq
Protect Yourself At All Times
  12/07/17
Yes, unimaginable hell. divorce was a cakewalk compared to t...
Dr. Broseph Goebbels
  12/07/17
fuck. what happened
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we moved across the country while engaged for my job, rather...
Dr. Broseph Goebbels
  12/07/17
your mom and sis weren't onboard ? that's were you fucked up...
Soren 'Bob' Odenkierkegaard
  12/07/17
they were onboard but gloating honestly sounds like pret...
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You are looking for life partners on tinder? That might be a...
Hal Kidsmeller
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Jim_Kelly
  12/07/17
just DRIFT OFF into MARITAL BLISS what's the problem?
HodlUpHodlUpWait
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Marriage is what you and your partner put into it. If you th...
Tjhooker
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The Meanest Apostle
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Barack Carcetti
  12/07/17
I always LOL at these threads.
The Meanest Apostle
  12/07/17
Because your marriage is so successful?
twins
  12/07/17
Yes actually.
The Meanest Apostle
  12/07/17
Mine is too but it is mean to laugh LJL.
twins
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Well, we can laugh at the notion that marriage has to be awf...
The Meanest Apostle
  12/07/17
false: none of the good things that you are thinking of need...
HodlUpHodlUpWait
  12/07/17
True if you mean legal marriage. Lots of downside risk but a...
twins
  12/07/17
Theoretically, yes. Practically, it doesn't work like that ...
The Meanest Apostle
  12/07/17
Oh, for sure. I had enough ONS's etc to know they are empty ...
twins
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MFCR
Soren 'Bob' Odenkierkegaard
  12/07/17
your marriage is so successful because you and Mandy have no...
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Oh, look, an angry, bitter quotemo
The Meanest Apostle
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complaining about normal people not wanting a 'rep' or 'iden...
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A bunch of it is. For one, I've had sex with and dated othe...
The Meanest Apostle
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"Yeah, most people who don't want an actual moniker are...
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Because you fuckers are easily the worst of the board.
The Meanest Apostle
  12/07/17
that's dumb. you dive for this excuse because you are a real...
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(pumo) Also, 99% of you are complete losers that have nev...
The Meanest Apostle
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LOL, you seem MAF and literally not one person in XO history...
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WHAT WAS HIS NAME?
Insane right-wing gun nut
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Fuck subthread wastelands but quotemo is right about one thi...
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See above. That said, lol @ marrying some woman that has fu...
The Meanest Apostle
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you are ugly and short and aspie. mandy has said you guys go...
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"you were not fucking women before then" *leans...
The Meanest Apostle
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I doubt that one person in the history of XO actually believ...
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I frankly don't care what you believe, quotemo.
The Meanest Apostle
  12/07/17
Going to side with you here. He is an idiot.
Hal Kidsmeller
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So how is this a bad thing?
Hal Kidsmeller
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So what is the wrong with that? XO complains about women but...
Hal Kidsmeller
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He has very little experience with relationships and can onl...
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Maybe the advice is - stick it out with one woman and it get...
Hal Kidsmeller
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The Meanest Apostle
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1) I actually fundamentally agree w/r/t the fact that I woul...
The Meanest Apostle
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been married for a decade, still good, what's up
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Marriage is really hard for mildly autistic introverts who h...
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The person you describes just needs to learn operant conditi...
twins
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In the 21st century in western countries the dog training pa...
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No, just don't marry an extrovert if you're an introvert. F...
The Meanest Apostle
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This only works for so long. Eventually there is a bout of ...
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Sure, just like you're going to freak out sooner or later an...
The Meanest Apostle
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someone on the inside
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Happily married familymanmo, checking in
George Dickel, Esq.
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No. You can wake up from a nightmare.
Troughman
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the honey store
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lol
Watchmen™
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lmao
someone on the inside
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100% cr
Muscadine wine (R., S.C.)
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Hal Kidsmeller
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Ciroc Obama
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mine has worked out so far because my husband is too good fo...
the honey store
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Too good in what way? Looks, income, height?
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if you speak candidly 40ish year old married couples with 10...
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This is true, but imagine you're a 105 IQ prole bro in middl...
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Not IME.
Emotionally & Physically Abusive Halford
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I've been with my wife almost 15 years and our relationship ...
calishitlawguru
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What if you want kids
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Why would u want kids?
Ciroc Obama
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Yes. Women aren't ride or die anymore and will not try to m...
Jim_Kelly
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Ciroc Obama
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The problem is that by the time you get to late 20s/early 30...
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I know more mediocre marriages than good marriages, but woul...
nutella
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men need to stop with the marriage bullshit. it makes no ...
TRUMPdog Billionaire
  12/07/17
Giving ur self to marriage is like giving yourself to a lost...
dcpoast (41 yr old shirtless guitar player)
  12/07/17


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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:15 PM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


The more I date, the more I realize every person will sooner or later turn into a nightmare. Seriously considering singlehood for life.

There's no point in spending your life with someone you'll be constantly feeling annoyed or unhappy with.

Do couples literally just go through that hell to look good to society and their friends and family?

I've heard horror stories in my own family, where my uncles would kick my aunts out of the house in their 20's due to fights and they had to find places to stay. JFC.

Marriedmos, tell me how bad it is really, ty.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857903)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:15 PM
Author: a very jmaw xmas (walk in, put it all on black, walk out 50% richer)

so we looked @ the data..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857912)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:28 PM
Author: .,.,,..,,.,,.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858009)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:38 PM
Author: A Charlie Brown Christmas (@realcharliebrown)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858069)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:34 AM
Author: Jewish fireman saving money on water



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858372)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:27 AM
Author: gradually intensifying mental illness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858939)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:28 AM
Author: HodlUpHodlUpWait



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858941)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:41 AM
Author: stable of alts



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859105)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 5:41 AM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859201)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:16 PM
Author: Chaucer

just get a condo and bang app shrews, get a dog for your tinder profile, go see Rome, dude- marriage? really? haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857914)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:17 PM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


Banging app shrews sounds awful too. I already do that and that's how I realize they will turn into nightmares. They already show signs of insanity. Kinda was waiting to find "the right one" but it looks as though that is just a fantasy that people pretend to live while in truth, they're just living hell on earth with their spouse/partner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857930)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:20 PM
Author: someone on the inside

I think the idea is that it’s still better than being alone. Cr is probably just have kids so you have someone to visit you in the nursing home.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857953)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:25 PM
Author: Gregor

I don't think it is the nursing home part. I think it is to keep you busy and relevant to the world during late 30s, 40s and 50s as a kid raiser. Nursing home, hospitalization and other suffering late in life is often times brief before sweet death arrives.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857988)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 11:53 AM
Author: spaceporn2525



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860593)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:18 PM
Author: Memorandum of T&A (Dork Enlightenment)

Probably, much like everything else in life

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857932)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:19 PM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


We got scammed, bro.

Life = hell in disguise.

We should all kill selves ASAP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857940)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:23 PM
Author: Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857973)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:24 AM
Author: the challenge of a heterosexual relationship (President Mulatto Manslave)

see you in DOUBLE HELL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859081)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:21 PM
Author: Ciroc Obama

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857956)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:23 PM
Author: RCP90



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857978)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:27 PM
Author: Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858003)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:22 PM
Author: Gregor

Unless you marry someone you met in college, yes. It is hard to find a post college meet marriage which at its core is not about settling, professional convenience, or lonesome avoidance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857966)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:25 PM
Author: Punctuation Monica

wow.

180 CR, but...

WOW.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857989)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:29 PM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


What difference does it make if you marry someone you met in college? Three of my friends did that and went through hellish divorces. People like to think that their high school and college sweethearts will always be some fun-loving saints.

Newsflash: They can also turn into nightmares.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858012)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:34 PM
Author: Gregor

Still the last best hope in life for a marriage based on what your brain feels is "love".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858046)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 9:16 AM
Author: A Mistletoe is Performed



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859741)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:38 PM
Author: Chaucer

mods

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858074)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:23 PM
Author: Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner

lmfao if you think other than this in a major city too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34857977)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:29 PM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


Can you translate that into English please? Ty

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858015)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:37 AM
Author: Uplifting Positivity Smile You're A Winner

0-1% of making a marriage work with shrew in lib metro area like MFH after cock carousel, bruchfuckfest and GCpozbrain

htfh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858381)



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Date: December 6th, 2017 11:46 PM
Author: .........,,,,,....,,,,......... (Retiring)


Marry a Chinese female PhD or MD. Not an Asian born in America, but one that immigrated her for their studies. You can marry one when both of you are in your 40s and she'll be relatively cool and youthful. Try it out!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858140)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:34 AM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


Chinese women are feisty and catty. And I'm talking about the China born and raised types, not the American ones. They just pretend they're docile and kind, but in truth, most Chinese, both men and women, are closer to beasts than most humans.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858370)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:36 AM
Author: Gregor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858379)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:28 AM
Author: gradually intensifying mental illness



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858943)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 4:18 AM
Author: prince



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859061)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 5:42 AM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859202)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 11:54 AM
Author: spaceporn2525



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860598)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:49 PM
Author: Soren 'Bob' Odenkierkegaard (darnellchadjamal@gmail.com )



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861002)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:38 AM
Author: .....,.,..,.,..,...,.,.,.,.,,,...,.,...


No man is actually attracted to that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858384)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:35 AM
Author: Subtle Hipster Troll (lil perky)

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858374)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:41 AM
Author: ,,.,...,..,.,.,:.,:,...,::,.,.,:,.,.:.,:.,:.::,.,


Are you married? Explain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858397)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 5:43 AM
Author: Protect Yourself At All Times

tcq

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859203)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:48 AM
Author: Dr. Broseph Goebbels

Yes, unimaginable hell. divorce was a cakewalk compared to the preceding 3 years

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34858415)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 5:44 AM
Author: ...,,....,,.,,,..,,,,...

fuck. what happened

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859204)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 9:42 AM
Author: Dr. Broseph Goebbels

we moved across the country while engaged for my job, rather than diligently seeking employment she "took time off" to decompress after her last 'stressful' job to wedding plan. I nearly broke it off but went through with it anyways. Wedding was largely a charade but I stayed drunk enough then and through the next year or so to numb it.

Not long after wedding she started constantly getting 'sick' and 'injured' and this further hampered her job search. I was stretched pretty thin paying for both of us even on BIGLAW salary. She started showing a ton of insecurity issues, gaining weight and accusing me of cheating all the time, despite the fact i was working 70 hour weeks and had no friends in new city and pretty much hated anything and everyone there. I found out she was on a lot more antidepressants and antianxities and other meds than I knew about and was constantly going to doctors. We fought like fucking comanches

She got a job, acted like a fucking martyr having to go in every day, quit after 8 months and went blubbering home to her folks (who were always in our lives and i couldn't stand them) for a week. I decided to make a plan, save some money. Things settled down for a few months but then we started getting at each others throats. We said fuck it, got s separate places, sold townhouse. A month or two in I was drinking less, found a few friends but decided i hated my job and was moving back to CA with or without a jerb and we filed. It was a massive relief to get out despite getting harangued by my mom and sisters with the 'i told you so' bullshit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859809)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:51 PM
Author: Soren 'Bob' Odenkierkegaard (darnellchadjamal@gmail.com )

your mom and sis weren't onboard ? that's were you fucked up bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861019)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:51 PM
Author: ...,,....,,.,,,..,,,,...

they were onboard but gloating

honestly sounds like pretty average for a western society in 2017. your only mistake was not running away when you knew she was on mental health medications even if you didnt know the full extent.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34864230)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 5:55 AM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller

You are looking for life partners on tinder? That might be a problem. The kinds of girls that do tinder aren't marriage material. So you have looked at the worst subset of women and decided that no one is right.

That said, yes it is very difficult. You have to get lucky. Modern western (and westernized) women are fucked up and really it's not even their fault. Feminism, social media, ability to work, government safety nets, etc. have essentially made you (the man) kinda useless. They are responding to the incentives they have.

To the above that claim that you have to meet the right one in college otherwise it's not going to happen - i met my ex wife in college. Yet she is now my ex. There is no rule that college is where it's at and it's not going to happen after. People in college are still immature and don't fully know themselves. That combined with the forces outlined in point #2 means some chick you marry in college may turn into something completely different in a few years.

To recap, you need to get lucky. But there are steps you can take to maximize your luck. Try to meet women in the right places - church, volunteering, grad school, etc. Work is no longer an option due to #MeToo. Also seek out avenues to meet foreign women. They tend to be better. Second, give it time. Don't rush in. Take things slowly and give time for the crazy to come out. If after 2-3 years of dating some chick in her mid-late 20s, you haven't seen red flags, you are probably good to go.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859218)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860980)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 6:08 AM
Author: HodlUpHodlUpWait

just DRIFT OFF into MARITAL BLISS

what's the problem?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859241)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:17 AM
Author: Tjhooker

Marriage is what you and your partner put into it. If you think you can get married and just put your relationship on autopilot, it will crash and burn. hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859430)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:50 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859657)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 9:40 AM
Author: Barack Carcetti

cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859801)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:51 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

I always LOL at these threads.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859660)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:52 AM
Author: twins

Because your marriage is so successful?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859662)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:53 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

Yes actually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859666)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:54 AM
Author: twins

Mine is too but it is mean to laugh LJL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859668)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:55 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

Well, we can laugh at the notion that marriage has to be awful, right?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859671)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:57 AM
Author: HodlUpHodlUpWait

false: none of the good things that you are thinking of needed marriage, much bad that could come your way (and hangs over your union) requires marriage

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859677)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:58 AM
Author: twins

True if you mean legal marriage. Lots of downside risk but ah well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859680)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 9:23 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

Theoretically, yes. Practically, it doesn't work like that in 99% of cases.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859757)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:57 AM
Author: twins

Oh, for sure. I had enough ONS's etc to know they are empty and make me feel like shit almost immediately. A good marriage, in contracts, deepens over time and broadens your perspective. It is a terrible shame we've come to live in such grasping and mean times that the majority of educated people seemingly cannot see beyond the cycle of immediate gratification and disgust, even as that cycle chews them up. Yet such a populace is better-suited to poke with shame, that they consume and obey.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859679)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:53 PM
Author: Soren 'Bob' Odenkierkegaard (darnellchadjamal@gmail.com )

MFCR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861040)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:18 PM
Author: ''"""''''''


your marriage is so successful because you and Mandy have no other experience with other people and you don't know how to live life without each other.

most of us know what it is like to be with other people, have sex with strange, and otherwise enjoy life as an adult in some other state than being settled with your mentally disabled wife since the age of 20.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860783)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:25 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

Oh, look, an angry, bitter quotemo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860846)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:27 PM
Author: ''"""''''''


complaining about normal people not wanting a 'rep' or 'identity' on this racist hellhole is the dumbest, most childish deflection possible.

nothing I said is incorrect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860859)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:28 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

A bunch of it is. For one, I've had sex with and dated other people.

Yeah, most people who don't want an actual moniker are such dicks that they realize that if they ever got outted that everyone would shun them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860866)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:33 PM
Author: ''''''''"

"Yeah, most people who don't want an actual moniker are such dicks that they realize that if they ever got outted that everyone would shun them."

that's fucking retarded. I had a moniker for years but fear outing and tracking and don't really care to have an identity here anymore. this place is more than half pumo/quotemo and has always had a huge population of anonymous posters. it's incredibly faggy how much you whine about pumos whenever you are validly critiqued.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860902)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:34 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

Because you fuckers are easily the worst of the board.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860904)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:37 PM
Author: ''''''''"

that's dumb. you dive for this excuse because you are a really uncreative and inarticulate poster and it's convenient bordering on reflexive for you. any time you validly get shit from a pumo your reply is to cry about pumos. it's extremely bird-brained female behavior which doesn't shock me since you come across as very low-T and insecure.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860927)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:41 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

(pumo)

Also, 99% of you are complete losers that have never so much as touched a tit that didn't belong to your mother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860947)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:41 PM
Author: ''''''''"'''''''

LOL, you seem MAF and literally not one person in XO history aside from possibly MND believes you have even made an approach on a slime let alone your fanciful tales of high school chaddery.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34864176)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:53 PM
Author: Insane right-wing gun nut

WHAT WAS HIS NAME?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861036)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:31 PM
Author: ''''"''''"

Fuck subthread wastelands but quotemo is right about one thing: you have a huge advantage because you have no idea what it's like to go out and enjoy new NSA pussy. And your wife knows nothing other than your marriage and is pretty much brainwashed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860888)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:33 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

See above. That said, lol @ marrying some woman that has fucked other men.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860900)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:35 PM
Author: ''"""''''''


you are ugly and short and aspie. mandy has said you guys got together in her late teens and you have functionally been together your entire adult lives. you were not fucking women before then and at most you clumsily probed some C- grade slime.

even your best online friends don't believe you were some kind of 16 year old alpha stud fucking left and right until you met mandy and decided to hang up your spurs at 19.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860911)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:38 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

"you were not fucking women before then"

*leans into mic*

Anyway, sorry you lost your virginity at 18, bro.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860929)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:40 PM
Author: ''''""""""


I doubt that one person in the history of XO actually believes you were getting laid a lot of even at all as a teenager and I include your wife in that statement.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860938)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:41 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

I frankly don't care what you believe, quotemo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860946)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:42 PM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller

Going to side with you here. He is an idiot.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860953)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:41 PM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller

So how is this a bad thing?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860945)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:40 PM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller

So what is the wrong with that? XO complains about women but many of the men here have no clue. We romanticize organic gf's. And along comes this pittbull-fucker who has the most organic of relationships and well that's not good enough because they have both been committed to each other for so long. What the fuck do guys here want? LOL. Many of you are indecisive little faggots that have no clue what you even want. You want devotion from a chick that has been with other guys (but too many) but then also want strange on the side. Good luck with that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860940)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:43 PM
Author: ''''""""""


He has very little experience with relationships and can only refer to his time with his wife. He would have no idea how to date a woman as an adult if his wife dropped dead.

TMF doling out marriage advice is like a 68 year old boomer partner who has been at the firm for 31 years giving you advice on finding a job.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860964)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:46 PM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller

Maybe the advice is - stick it out with one woman and it gets better? No no... you are better off listening to a seasoned tinderbro on how to have a successful marriage. LJL.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860983)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860996)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:47 PM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

1) I actually fundamentally agree w/r/t the fact that I would have no idea how to date at this point in my life

2) That said, I don't know who is really an authority here since you will always need considerable time lag to know if a marriage is successful or not. Asking a guy married, say, 2 years about marriage is pretty pointless. Same with the guy with "a lot of" experience with marriage (because he's on marriage #4)

3) In any event, it isn't like I was giving advice for adults looking to get married ITT. I was just refuting the notion that all marriages turn to shitshows

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860990)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 9:26 AM
Author: .... -^^,--,~....

been married for a decade, still good, what's up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859768)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:11 AM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


Marriage is really hard for mildly autistic introverts who have trouble making intimate emotional connections. Even more so if these mildly autistic introverts are also like 120 IQ or so, which makes them ideal office drones. They get even more frustrated by their spouses’ dissatisfaction and withdrawal from them because they are doing what they thought they had to do to sustain a marriage, I.e. bring home a paycheck. I honestly think MGTOW is the best answer for most semi-high IQ mildly autistic guys, because any chance of a decent marriage requires essentially taking on a second job for years where you completely overhaul your personality to train yourself to go against your natural tendencies and instead react to cues for engagement with responses that simulate emotional capacity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859914)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:18 AM
Author: twins

The person you describes just needs to learn operant conditioning then deprive a social woman of human contact & train her like a dog to satisfy your needs. Viz. Einstein's letter to his cousin.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859944)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:31 AM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


In the 21st century in western countries the dog training part has gotten a lot trickier, at least for those of us who are shorter than 6'4".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860046)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:19 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

No, just don't marry an extrovert if you're an introvert. Find another autistic introvert and marry them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859952)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:30 AM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


This only works for so long. Eventually there is a bout of hormones or a major life event or whatever and she's going to lose her shit and blame you for it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860034)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 11:55 AM
Author: The Meanest Apostle

Sure, just like you're going to freak out sooner or later and yell about some total nonsense. Later everyone will apologize and make up because you care about your relationship. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860612)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:16 AM
Author: someone on the inside



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859932)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 10:17 AM
Author: George Dickel, Esq. (The morning sun has vanquished the horrible night )

Happily married familymanmo, checking in

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34859935)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 11:57 AM
Author: Troughman

No. You can wake up from a nightmare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860634)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:03 PM
Author: the honey store (runny hider)



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860687)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:35 PM
Author: Watchmen™

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860912)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:53 PM
Author: someone on the inside

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861044)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:56 PM
Author: Muscadine wine (R., S.C.)

100% cr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861597)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:04 PM
Author: Hal Kidsmeller



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861662)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Ciroc Obama



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34862059)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:09 PM
Author: the honey store (runny hider)

mine has worked out so far because my husband is too good for me and i am constantly trying to be worthy of his love

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860729)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: ....::::..::..,,....,........,..,,,,,.


Too good in what way? Looks, income, height?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861678)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:22 PM
Author: ''"""''''''


if you speak candidly 40ish year old married couples with 10+ years of skin in the game, particularly men, well over half will tell you that they stay together purely for the kids or due to finances.

and this disregards the 50% or so who got divorced before they hit the decade mark.

you will get endless pushback from the married zombies, but marriage in the modern U.S. is largely a GC cuck scam. most people derive little long-term benefit from it save for pleasing their idiotic boomer parents who just want their kids to act exactly like they did and a modest tax benefit in some cases.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860822)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 1:01 PM
Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,;


This is true, but imagine you're a 105 IQ prole bro in middle management in are country. Are you really capable of loving another person in any deep, meaningful sense? Like are you a person who can have a vision for your life and a sense of spiritual purpose and meaning that another person on that level could decide they want to be a part of? You're basically living for your football time on the weekend. 2.5 generations ago you were supposed to be a farmer working from sun up to sun down and collapsing in a heap after dinner. You were supposed to be geographically isolated and encounter no more than a handful of people once a week or two when you brought your goods to market. It's a way of life where being illiterate and vacant, but physically strong and diligent while performing repetitive mind-numbing tasks was an ideal set of traits.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861124)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:45 PM
Author: Emotionally & Physically Abusive Halford ((EpahTP))

Not IME.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860975)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 12:48 PM
Author: calishitlawguru

I've been with my wife almost 15 years and our relationship is still amazing. But I'll be honest, marriage for 99% of people is the worst idea in the world. People should just not do it. Just date long term and if something happens it's easier to get away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34860998)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:25 PM
Author: ....::::..::..,,....,........,..,,,,,.


What if you want kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861872)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:49 PM
Author: Ciroc Obama

Why would u want kids?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34862066)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:07 PM
Author: Jim_Kelly

Yes. Women aren't ride or die anymore and will not try to make things work if it involves any material changes on their end.

It's a low % play.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34861686)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:48 PM
Author: Ciroc Obama



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34862063)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 2:59 PM
Author: .,.,...,..,.,.,:,,:,.,.,:::,....,:,..,:.:.,:.::,


The problem is that by the time you get to late 20s/early 30s the available single women are the bottom of the barrel. I.e., MUCH MORE CRAZY. These are the leftovers. And the hotter the girl in this age range the more severe the mental problems. The attractive and well-adjusted girls are snatched up by 25.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34862125)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 3:00 PM
Author: nutella

I know more mediocre marriages than good marriages, but wouldn’t say most are “nightmares.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34862138)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 7:59 PM
Author: TRUMPdog Billionaire (Dr. Thunder)

men need to stop with the marriage bullshit.

it makes no sense for men to get married. none. it's just a way for a woman to get an expensive diamond and a wedding she can post pictures of and be told how beautiful she looks, and then take half or more of your money.

if women want feminism, fine. but marriage has to stop. enough with having their cake and eating it, too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34864285)



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Date: December 7th, 2017 8:03 PM
Author: dcpoast (41 yr old shirtless guitar player)

Giving ur self to marriage is like giving yourself to a lost cause, u find some consolation in a total lie

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3820441&forum_id=2#34864319)