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As a woman, I wish women weren't expected to work
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:23 PM Author: khaki stead It fucking sucks. Why did women want the right ot enter the workforce when it's TTTerrrible (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957814) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested (JMAW) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957892) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:36 PM Author: cruel-hearted marvelous community account range Lol Jmaw doesn’t need to work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957916) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:41 PM Author: Deep rose center that's right, I like to work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957956) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:47 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested <3 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958025) |
Date: December 19th, 2017 12:27 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm and lol at fighting for the right to serve in combat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957843) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:27 PM Author: khaki stead cr, we aren't physically built the same and are weaker
this is just FACTS, but if usay something like that people scream about how sexist you are |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: Purple ticket booth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957887) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:58 PM Author: Impertinent tattoo candlestick maker "now imagine she's a dude" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958694) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:28 PM Author: Racy bronze faggotry They want the right, they just won't ever volunteer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957856) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:30 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested PROTIP: You're not actually expected to work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957867) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:32 PM Author: khaki stead you'd be surprised - all the boomers in my life and my spouse expect me to work, and half of them push me to work the grindiest of grind jobs (like biglaw) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957877) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:33 PM Author: Vigorous new version i'm sorry your husband is poor. i am also poor and my gf has to work :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957882) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:33 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested That's just them trying to come off a progressive. Believe me, they don't expect you to.
also, you may have fucked up and married a poor loser. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:35 PM Author: khaki stead he doesnt make a lot, but his parents are loaded (with NW 8 figures)
his mother (who was a SAHM) constantly pushes me to work biglaw, etc and tells me to get "more lines of prestige" on my resume (even though I've already done biglaw) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:37 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested OK. I know who this is now. I believe not flame in the sense that you are a chick.
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:38 PM Author: khaki stead i also expressed concern that we havent had kids yet and are in our early 30s
she said "you can easily have kids until your early 40s...just get more lines on your resume" or some weird shit like that
SHE WAS A SAHM AND SPENT HER HUSBANDS MONEY ON DIAMONDS AND FURS |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:45 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested JFC. Have kids ASAP you dumb broad.
(BTW: she is encouraging this because your hubby's family is actually broke pretending to be rich) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:46 PM Author: khaki stead they are rich, but she spends much more $$$ on herself than her own kids, that's for sure
like "oh 40K diamonds? sure nbd"
"wait=kid needs 1k for something? UHHHHH UHHH"
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:46 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested How do you know they're rich?
I know plenty of people who live rich but are BROKE.
Even if they own real property, it means nothing if they constantly borrow against it. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:48 PM Author: khaki stead because i was dating him when they became rich and it was a big deal
they weren't rich when i first got with him
and i know their financial adviser, lawyers, etc.
they have a few houses but 90% of their NW is liquid and is being managed by a financial adviser |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:49 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested LJL. So they're new-money Nigger rich. That money will not last another 20 years. Trust me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958048) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:50 PM Author: khaki stead his dad is extremely conservative with money
his mother likes holding parties, etc.
ljl @ women |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:51 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested Wait until he has a crazy business idea and blows it all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958073) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:48 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm cr. op needs to be knocked up yesterday (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958037) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:49 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958050) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:37 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested Why do you care what other people think?
WEAK PERSONALITY TELL! |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:38 PM Author: khaki stead i dont do what she says, obviously
but she annoys me constantly and pushes me and her children constantly |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:45 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested LJL -- she's not pushing very hard if your hubby is a loser. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958001) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:47 PM Author: khaki stead he is a top 1% intellect HYPSM grad, but working a lowish paying job because he likes it
he doesn't care what she thinks, because she treated him like shit when he was growing up |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:50 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested Ahh. That's what happens a fair amount of the time when proles / middle-class make it to HYPS. They think that they MAED it and often stop striving after that.
Add in his parents selling their biz / winning the lottery, or whatever, and his motivation is all fucked. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:52 PM Author: khaki stead no, he's more of an academic type
the type that wanted to become a professor and didn't care about money |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested And he failed at that and took a BS job?
He needs to get his shit together. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:54 PM Author: khaki stead he took a job that he likes, which is fine with me
we just need to move somewhere much cheaper |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:33 PM Author: khaki stead i have literally had boomers tell me to put off having kids until 40 so i can add more lines on my resume in grind jobs like biglaw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957880) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:33 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested Calling flame. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957885) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: cruel-hearted marvelous community account range (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957888) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:36 PM Author: khaki stead no, my mother in law (who was a SAHM her entire life and never made a dime but spends all of her husband's money on jewels and furs) constantly wants me to reenter biglaw because it's so "prestigious"
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:46 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested PROTIP: There will be no inheritance for your hubby. Wait til his daddy dies and mommy can spend all she wants.
Get a trust set up STAT. Your husband is a loser and it your only chance to maek it. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:50 PM Author: khaki stead tbf, i think their NW increased since they got rich
his mother spends $$$ but still not nearly as much as they could
but yes, his dad is much, much stingier - he never spends money |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: Aquamarine stage ladyboy You need a husband who will treat you right but can you cook do you clean do you keep it TIGHT? *musical number breaks out* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957890) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: hyperactive institution macaca well, doobs, not every "woman" works the lots of the flying j (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957886) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:34 PM Author: electric roast beef sanctuary They are brainwashed into thinking a "career" is more rewarding than starting a family, raising 180 kids, and creating and maintaining a 180 home for friends and family.
GC |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:37 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency to add--being a SAHM, if you're good at it, is a full time job. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957922) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:38 PM Author: contagious crackhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957930) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:41 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency it's a lot of work if you're a good SAHM. from days off at work i watch first hand, my wife basically is working from 7am dotter wakeup to putting her to bed at 8pm. in the meantime she's making meals, cooking me a dinner every night, doing the laundry, she goes through various lessons and whatnot with dotter on literacy, numbers, sometimes just playing dress up or coloring or playing music and dancing. it's a lot of work. i GLADLY go to work and BS 80% or more of the time. if you have a good SAHM, it's a fuck ton of work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957951) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:42 PM Author: khaki stead the big difference is that work actually sounds like fun, as opposed to grinding for boomer mcfatface so he can make 4 MILLLION a year while you make 200K
JFC boomers need to die |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:42 PM Author: contagious crackhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957960) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:42 PM Author: khaki stead also spending time with your own kids >>>> working for boomer mcbaldhead while he screams at you about typos (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957964) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:43 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency very true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957975) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:44 PM Author: contagious crackhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957980) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:43 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency thats why you gotta have another one coming...to keep her on her toes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957974) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:42 PM Author: cruel-hearted marvelous community account range How long do you think it takes to do laundry in 2017? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957966) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:46 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency it's the entire thing taken together. cooking, cleaning, ironing, washing, hand washing, tending the garden (its winter so nbd)...i've done it in triage when she's gotten sick. i love my dotter, it's a lot of fun, but FFS it's tiring as hell. and remember, on weekends its much of the same. i get to basically chill out and have fun with dotter and do house errands. she's still doing all the other shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958009) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:54 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested PROTIP: You can spend 8 hours on that shit, or 2 hours with only a 10% dropoff in utility. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958099) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm at least 2 hrs to sort and get everything folded. Plus we make the kids do a lot of it which actually takes longer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958089) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:43 PM Author: khaki stead i know it's work but there is no fucking way being a SAHM to a normal (not retarded child) is nearly as terrible or soul-sucking as working some shit job like biglaw for some fat boomer with no hair who has an ego problem and clit dick
i think i'd actually enjoy being a SAHM, as opposed to wanting to kill myself on a daily basis in biglaw
Now if you have a kid with special needs.....that is a shit ton of real hard work that might be worse than biglaw |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:44 PM Author: contagious crackhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957989) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:49 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency ergo let the men deal with that bullshit. they're better equipped for it.
SAHMing is basically 24/7. little kids know no concept of barriers. etc. i will gladly eat shit at the job over it full time. because i am a man. i love my family, but we know our roles. my wife is built to "wife". i am built to "husband". |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:51 PM Author: khaki stead i used to think you were wrong, but at a fundamental level i think youre right about male v. female roles
this is why women leave biglaw in droves - by the time you're a 6th year there are no women left except the masculine, single types
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:56 PM Author: Glittery resort Exactly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958117) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:57 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency there are a bunch of factors at play, but it's not like transitioning from white collar hell to life of leisure. if one becomes a SAHM worth a shit, she's working really hard and longer hours especially up to like age 5. Don't compare to good for nothing trophy wives on the UES, fuck them. is it more rewarding work? hell fucking yeah, but we're in a weird time in society where people don't accept gender difference because we've been brainwashed into thinking it's all the same shit. no matter how hard we tell the stories to each other via media, it doesnt change the fact. kids are attached to their moms and vice versa in a way men can't understand. and that is a product of difference. and that's good. it's ok. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958124) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:59 PM Author: khaki stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958140) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:59 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958141) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:51 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm cr. I just stayed home for two months w/ kids (4) on leave and its not just shit work, but it never stops and there is zero recognition from the little fuckers.
^that sounded like my wyfe bitching |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency i'm sure we can relate, it's fun. but its fucking exhausting. lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958093) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:58 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm exhausting yes. on the flip side she doesn't ahve to stress over an asshole boss giving me a shit assignement and worrying about getting shitcanned and how you're going to make $$$ for GC, house, cars, schools, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958130) |
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Date: December 20th, 2017 11:12 AM Author: odious school the zero recognition is the underrated part. It's unbelievably how entitled little kids are, without even realizing it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34966003) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:45 PM Author: electric roast beef sanctuary yes. and tbf they might have economic reasons to enter the workplace, but they probably shouldnt have had kids in the first place if they intend to work and then pay a nanny to raise their kids
i know several couples with kids that have au pairs to handle the kids and mom still doesn't do anything. its unbelievable. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:49 PM Author: khaki stead people legit pay nannies 70-80K a year to take care of one child
it's insane |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:51 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency if you are NYC metro...watch these african nannies with these white kids. they dont GAF about these kids. pay them no mind. just stare into their phones.
for that, make your wife stay home. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:53 PM Author: khaki stead if they care for 2 kids or more, you have to pay 100K+ to these nannies
it's insane |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:00 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency WOW. to let africans negligently text while their little girl goes running in the subway and almost lost (saw this recently).
the conservajews in my town got it right. fucking 27 year old women with like 3 kids to even 5. they have the playgroup/park/library crew and they support each other, but it's hard work. my wife is the oddball goy in the group. but with that comes responsibilities, randomly you get a call at 7:30am, "Ben is sick and I'm sick, can you take care of Michael today?" and in 30 minutes a new kid is in the mix. shit is nuts. all those women, my wife included, bust ass. |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:02 PM Author: khaki stead this is what life used to be like in many cultures outside of the US pre 1970s and in some cultures (mexicans, etc.) this still exists
instead of having a community, we just pay 100K to someone who doesn't give a fuck about your kids to take care of them for 8 hours a day whiel you slave away for some greedy boomer and not make much more than what you pay the nanny
I know people spending half their take home salary on a nanny so they can "have a career" while they have no relationship with their own kids. At that point, just dont bother having one.
LJL @ modern life |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:09 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency or, tell your career to stick it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958226) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:40 PM Author: khaki stead most "careers" are just boomer flame making rich boomers even richer
absolutely nothing rewarding about that unless you were a member of PETA killing animal killers or whatever |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:44 PM Author: electric roast beef sanctuary (not a POWERFUL woman; unfamiliar with the FEMINIST movement) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957979) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:36 PM Author: contagious crackhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957915) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:37 PM Author: Jet-lagged idea he suggested How many kids do you have? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957925) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:43 PM Author: Sooty Nubile National Security Agency here's the thing. you were always expected to work. but at some point in the 60s and 70s you--OF YOUR OWN CHOICE--decided to devalue and degrade the fuck out of your work and now women are SHOCKED that they have to convince society that being a housewife is work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34957971) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:55 PM Author: Heady organic girlfriend pisswyrm harsh but fair. We've gone all in on judging everybody in society according to traditonally masculine virtues and its been a disaster. Men AND womyn are less happy now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958103) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 12:55 PM Author: khaki stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958109) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:01 PM Author: magenta digit ratio lol @ the idiots itt bleating about 50s-style SAHMs. it is entirely natural and in keeping with traditional gender roles for women to take over office jobs imo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958159) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:09 PM Author: Vigorous new version traditional gender roles for poor women, yes. lol at UMC or upper class women "working" in even mindless capacities, other than perhaps managing property. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958219) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:13 PM Author: contagious crackhouse feces (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958266) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:17 PM Author: gold floppy dilemma stock car Not sure where you’re getting this pressure from society that you should be working or not working or whatever. People are generally too involved with their own lives to give a shit about what other people are doing. If you don’t want to work and want to be a sahm, then do that. But since you are early 30s, your prime time for having kids is already over so don’t delay any longer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958304) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 1:58 PM Author: drunken juggernaut prime time is over, do not delay the kids any longer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958697) |
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Date: December 19th, 2017 2:00 PM Author: Impertinent tattoo candlestick maker The pressure isn't societal as much as it's economic. Because some women are working - essentially almost all women need to work. The two-income households raise prices of things for everyone around them. This is especially true in coastal cities. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34958726) |
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Date: December 20th, 2017 11:00 AM Author: odious school are you the woman who spent years bitching about your "jerb" and then quit it but hasn't stopped bitching about anyway? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3834322&forum_id=2#34965876) |