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Official XO, do you regret 1.) marriage & 2.) kids poll ITT
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:24 PM Author: chrome hissy fit i have neither but i am leaning towards neither for both
please explain why you regret it in #3.) |
Date: January 10th, 2018 9:24 PM Author: Spectacular Pearl Boistinker yes and yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128689) |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:25 PM Author: chrome hissy fit can you tell us why (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128699) |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:26 PM Author: Spectacular Pearl Boistinker because it's fundamentally nigger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128701) |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:28 PM Author: chrome hissy fit ty 180 i needed to hear this
which is worse |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:30 PM Author: Spectacular Pearl Boistinker depends on the day (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128733) |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:29 PM Author: boyish degenerate Not even a little (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128719) |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:34 PM Author: talented milky knife No (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128766) |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:34 PM Author: Provocative spot I rarely hear anyone regret having kids even though they can be a pain. A parent's love for their children is the strongest love and only unconditional love that exists.
Marriage is a lulzy different story. |
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Date: January 10th, 2018 9:35 PM Author: amethyst haunted graveyard alpha Am having a great time with my marriage and kids so no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35128770) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:01 PM Author: chrome hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35132872) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:03 PM Author: Abusive ultramarine trailer park queen of the night 1) yes 2) no 3) don't regret it at all. life is a banquet and most poor faggots are starving to death. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:06 PM Author: multi-colored stag film 1) I curse the day I decided to get married.
2) No, I love my kids and they are the best part of my life.
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:31 PM Author: wonderful piazza how old are your kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133119) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: Buff Rehab Roommate So sad to hear about ur hell marriage. Any chance it could improve once kids are teenagers/adults or are you just out as soon as that happens? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133143) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 3:51 PM Author: Disturbing useless brakes this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133733) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:27 PM Author: sepia forum Don’t regret either but kids are way harder and less enjoyable than marriage. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133096) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Awkward Cuckoldry lol at this comment just lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133109) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:29 PM Author: Big-titted brethren bizarro world (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133110) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:34 PM Author: sepia forum I have a great marriage and I also have defiant 2 year old who tantrums 1000 times a day. When he was an infant, he had colic and has generally just been a difficult child from day 1. Ask me 5 years and they may be equally enjoyable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133150) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:36 PM Author: Beady-eyed disrespectful base do you think your attitude toward breastfeeding, parenting, your enjoyment of your child relative to being a UMC(ish) marriedmo with no kids going to dinner and shit, etc., may have something to do with your child's behavior? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133162) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 3:00 PM Author: sepia forum You know, it’s my fault for saying anything about my family on here, but keep in kind pumo that im a real life person and the only thing that actually gets my blood boiling is when people who have no idea about the actual circumstances of my family make assumptions about how I parent.
All I can say is that my family is everything and I do my best everyday to be a great mother and wife. I do not need the stress right now. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:16 PM Author: Fuchsia slippery public bath nutella, have you considered any parenting books? I thought the Whole Brained Child was pretty helpful in understanding and dealing with kids' behaviors and attitudes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133913) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: sepia forum I have read books but not the one you suggested. I do like books in general about child development.
I’m mainly of the school of thought though that there’s little you can do to mold your child since siblings raised exactly turn out completely differently. The best you do is set boundaries for acceptable behavior and then respect your child’s personality for what it is. It’s funny how my child and I are polar opposites. He’s clearly going to be an extrovert and I am exhausted after an hour of social interaction. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:50 PM Author: Fuchsia slippery public bath I think you would like it. It explains different stages of child's brain development from a physiological perspective and how the kid's behavior is tied to the brain development at different stages. It's more about helping one understand why kids act the way they do and dealing with it in a constructive way, rather than molding behaviors. Give it a try! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134663) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:40 PM Author: Beady-eyed disrespectful base sorry you are upset and stressed. here is something that you can use to attack me: my wife recently left me and took our 14 month old kid and now I'm fighting to get to see my dotter who I only get to see 14-16 hours per week for the last two months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134095) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:51 PM Author: Sadistic judgmental blood rage den *cue: It Could Be Worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134211) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:19 PM Author: sepia forum I’m sorry about your situation and wouldn’t attack you for it. I can’t imagine being kept from seeing a young child. I hope your wife comes around soon since your daughter needs her dad.
We are trying for #2 which has been difficult and cortisol is bad for fertility etc. as a parent yourself, i expect you know how hurtful it can be when people blame you for your child’s behavior, particularly when you try your best everyday. I’m the one providing him the happy childhood I never had. Wouldn’t have done this parenthood thing if I all I cared about was traveling and eating out. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 8:50 PM Author: bearded casino laser beams You are a fucking insect (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35136089) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:37 PM Author: Awkward Cuckoldry have u tried putting him in a cockcage? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133170) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:37 PM Author: dull stimulating candlestick maker it does not surprise me at all that you have a difficult kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133171) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 3:49 PM Author: balding 180 personal credit line Some day you may have kids of your own. Maybe they will be cherubs. Probably not. Let me spare you the shock: it's possible that your kids, too, may be little tyrants. Some kids are just more difficult. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133716) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 8:56 PM Author: Bipolar electric nibblets Would not expect anything else from Nutella tbh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35136129) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:28 PM Author: Big-titted brethren 1 - sort of, wife changed after marriage and has gotten a lot more negative and nagging
2 - 100000% no |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:32 PM Author: dull stimulating candlestick maker why do you say that about the kids? aren't they an expensive pain in the ass? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133138) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:33 PM Author: Big-titted brethren my kid is sooooo 180 i cant wait to hang out and be with the kid. really easy and sweet temperament. not so expensive right now and i plan to do at least public elementary school. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133142) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:31 PM Author: Idiotic twisted cruise ship prole No and No (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133118) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:32 PM Author: Beady-eyed disrespectful base 1. wife just left me - so, yes, I regret getting married to her. but marriage in general was pretty great when it was good (shared purpose, friendship, love, intimacy, etc.)
2. no, kid is the best part of my life I really can't wait to have more with another women |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: Awkward Cuckoldry getting divorced with a young kid must suck so bad. glad u are in a good place though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133266) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:51 PM Author: Beady-eyed disrespectful base she's 14 months so not even just young a baby. yeah it sucks ass but I have a lot of support and am still a very fortunate soul. I also have to imagine things will work out for the best. she left me two months ago and I am still not getting overnights or mornings so my time really is limited. she is just not cooperating in general including not giving me toys for my house clothes etc all of which I've had to rebuy. but today is the first appointment with the custody mediator and I have been preparing by myself and with my lawyer for hours wish me luck! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133296) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:51 PM Author: Awkward Cuckoldry good luck bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133301) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:54 PM Author: Beady-eyed disrespectful base thank you man I appreciate that (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133312) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 3:50 PM Author: balding 180 personal credit line Is she still breastfeeding? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133729) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:38 PM Author: Beady-eyed disrespectful base no why do you ask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134072) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:48 PM Author: Cerise Mildly Autistic University lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133268) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:46 PM Author: Glittery costumed abode black woman 1) no.
2) no.
Marriage for me is mostly take take take as I contribute little concrete value to his life. With a kid I feel more useful. You will not regret kids. My husband only argues with me about childcare relate issues (often stupid arguments regardless). |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:53 PM Author: Violent Embarrassed To The Bone Business Firm He's fucking someone from work (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133310) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 2:49 PM Author: violent supple hospital voyeur No and ask me in a few months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133283) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 3:51 PM Author: Mind-boggling startling affirmative action Only good thing I've done in life is both. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133730) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 3:54 PM Author: Pearly Place Of Business Bawdyhouse 1)No, even though we have a pretty bad marriage. 2) No. My kid is the best thing in my life. He is unmitigated joy. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:10 PM Author: Big-titted brethren he doesn't anal you enough? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133848) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: Ungodly skinny woman really tough guy She said unmitigated, bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134489) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:55 PM Author: Outnumbered Boiling Water what is bad about your marriage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134687) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:59 PM Author: Fuchsia slippery public bath julia is 1/2 of it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134714) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 8:59 PM Author: Bipolar electric nibblets And the other half has osteoporosis and ED. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35136147) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:09 PM Author: chrome hissy fit so far consensus is don't get married but have kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35133841) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 4:45 PM Author: fishy center No regrets.
Marriage is hard in my 30's, as I am not a cheatmo, but the desire is overwhelming and never ending. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:22 PM Author: Bossy sick corn cake no to 1. no kids yet but have always wanted them but really dreading at the thought of getting no sleep and not having any time for myself once they are born (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134446) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:28 PM Author: harsh citrine community account 1.) Yes. What a sideshow circus leaning toward women. Will never get married again.
2.) Yeah-ish. I have beautiful healthy athletic white children. That said, I have 50/50 custody and still have to pay child support. Child support with 50/50 should be zero on each side. That said, Having to pay child support, despite having 50/50 custody makes me resent them and my ex wife even moar. |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:04 PM Author: Hideous fat ankles location That is total bullshit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134742) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:05 PM Author: Fuchsia slippery public bath you sound like a loving, happy person. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134753) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:20 PM Author: harsh citrine community account TBF, I'm a great dad. But every month that I hit send on the $1,203 "Child Support" payment to the ex wife, I literally get irate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134864) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:23 PM Author: Rebellious elite house That's not too bad. You'd be paying more in California.
I used to have three things written down on the whiteboard in my old office:
1. What she spends the child support money on. 2. Who she is fucking. 3. How trashy her family is.
When a client was in my office and started ranting about one of those three things I'd point to my whiteboard and say, "You know what that list is?"
When the client would shake their head I'd say, "That is a list of things no one cares about." |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 9:05 PM Author: Apoplectic Son Of Senegal Locale that's bullshit but really not bad enough to resent you're kids, is it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35136179) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 5:56 PM Author: Outnumbered Boiling Water I'm happy with both when you consider them on their own but it makes every other aspect of life a lot more difficult. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134695) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:00 PM Author: self-absorbed shrine friendly grandma I'm unmarried, and after seeing what my married friends go through, I'm very glad that I dodged that bullet. Seems like absolute hell, especially if the wife is only average looking or ugly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35134724) |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:05 PM Author: Hideous fat ankles location 1) Yes, of course I made a stupid decision 2) No, would be sad to never have children |
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Date: January 11th, 2018 6:28 PM Author: Shimmering Parlor 1. No 2. No 3. N/A Either with the wrong woman would be absolute hell, though. |
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Date: January 12th, 2018 3:30 PM Author: chrome hissy fit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3855643&forum_id=2#35141773) |
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Date: January 12th, 2018 3:34 PM Author: exhilarant hell 1) No. marrying pddj is the best decision i ever made
2) N/A |