Wait, do American white guys marry girls they're uncomfortable around? (DTP)
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Date: January 14th, 2018 3:39 PM Author: Hideous Nofapping Jap
like they marry some bitch that they walk on tiptoes around, follow a PUA handbook to "Game" into having sex by the 6th month of cohabitation, and will NEVER be able to let loose and feel that this girl really truly likes them and isn't just settling?
is this a common thing about "alpha" sociable white guys who project a visage of high self-esteem that they use mainly to feel superior to faceless nameless asians online?
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Date: January 23rd, 2018 2:33 PM Author: aquamarine swashbuckling stage electric furnace
Choices:
1. break up your family, have to explain to your 3 year old that you can't stand mommy anymore and that she's got to go, engage in lengthy and expensive child custody litigation, cut a big check for her half of the marital estate, all with the reward of having the opportunity to fuck rancid lousy sluts & single mommies every other weekend, or
2. suck it up, pour a stiff Cognac, and conduct your life in a way that would make your Swedish grandfather proud: hard working, stoic, and drunk.
Get home, ignore whatever bullshit that horrible woman is throwing at you (she's going to be mad anyways, you might as well ignore her), follow this very difficult to make drink instructions: http://grand-marnier.com/cocktail/cordon-rouge/simple-cocktails/grand-marnier-neat/ and enjoy that feeling of feeling good even though you should feel bad.
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Date: January 23rd, 2018 2:58 PM Author: aquamarine swashbuckling stage electric furnace
Short period dating and a real rush on her part to marry. This was done because she could only keep up the facade of being a sweet, sexual person for so long - she's had plenty of boyfriends before and knew that once the crazy comes out that nobody would stay. Once you're engaged, she relies on obligation to keep you and is careful to only push as far as she can push without you leaving. Starting with the engagement, you have a certain amount of emotional investment in the relationship, and she intuitively knows that she can get away with more as you become more committed.
At various times she really pushes to see how far she can go - she breaks a TV, spends $500 of joint funds week after week on clothing, she spends 3 days in bed watching TV and not taking care of the kids - she's testing her limits as to how far she can take you, and there are times that you simply have to tell her that if she continues that you will leave and divorce her today. However, she will not improve, she will only have learned a limit.
However, she knows that you don't want a divorce because you have much more to lose than her, so every argument on a daily basis can escalate to violence or threatened divorce. She keeps this up, daily, because no human being can withstand this on a daily basis, and eventually you'll just resign yourself to a shit life and start drinking more.
There's nothing that you can do to protect yourself. A motivated woman, who has been doing this for a long time, can keep her true self hidden from you for a very long time until it's too late.
Once the kid comes, there is no escape. https://youtu.be/dsx2vdn7gpY
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Date: January 23rd, 2018 3:10 PM Author: aquamarine swashbuckling stage electric furnace
I had dated so much, had multiple long term relationships (multi-year, including living together), and when I met her I had been absolutely slaying it - the week I met her I had sex with two separate girls before Thursday, and I had a surfing date with a girl the morning of our first date. Things were great and it seemed like I could keep going forever. However, if you get laid a lot, strange pussy looses it's amazing-ness. I felt like I loved this girl and was willing to suspend my disbelief and trust & have faith that this was right.
In retrospect, I was a fool. Once things went south, I should have divorced her before the kids came. The problem is that this goes against the essence of who I am, I don't quit anything, and if anything, most other aspects of my life have shown that bearing down and focusing when things get difficult yield good results. What a stupid thing to think about a woman, in retrospect.
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Date: January 23rd, 2018 4:23 PM Author: aquamarine swashbuckling stage electric furnace
I try not to think about it. For a long time I was hoping she would one-false-move me, which I presume would have been that she would throw a punch and leave a mark during one of her anger fits, but it never seems to come.
Original post, I'm in check mate, I can't get out without fucking up my kids, so it just is what it is.
I try to focus on the positive, like the fact that my life is pretty good outside of marriage problems, my practice has really grown, and things are ok. Also, my wife's tits are an unadjusted perfect score 180 - just could not be better in any way, and although we don't have sex, I at least see them in the shower. This has to be worth something.
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Date: January 23rd, 2018 3:31 PM Author: Hideous Nofapping Jap
"The problem is that this goes against the essence of who I am, I don't quit anything, and if anything, most other aspects of my life have shown that bearing down and focusing when things get difficult yield good results."
yes, tons of normies live by superficially healthy and positive bromides that are absolutely necessary for the good of society and for maintaining the normie facade. these are heuristics encoded in morals, identity, and religion that normies can follow and need not exert themselves too much about. lets them speak glibly and fluidly amongst each other with a common, integrated framework.
these are things which the incel lacks, or is not as able to assimilated as quickly, and thereby serves as an impediment to an incel's sociability, presentability, and his overall ability to function in normie society.
yet, in rare critical times as these, being a normie and following those bromides can spectacularly backfire, and being an incel who would immediately question or discard those principles would have been the more optimal choice.
god speed, normie.
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Date: January 24th, 2018 10:19 AM Author: big space
Could you translate the first sentence into engrish prease?
They aren't having sex for 6 months? But they are living together? Why? Is that honestly how you think that works?
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