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wife is having babby #2 in June - how fucked?

our kid will be 3 1/2 when the new dude comes. two boys.
puce pozpig
  01/16/18
Dude you’ve already had one so you know what to expect. As y...
vibrant light stock car newt
  01/16/18
yea i can't imagine the tantrums going forward. my only hop...
puce pozpig
  01/16/18
kiss your free time goodbye
Big principal's office
  01/16/18
already did that 3.5 years ago BROTHER
puce pozpig
  06/16/18
Depends, are you the father?
smoky flatulent office azn
  06/16/18
allegedly but i do not know for sure
puce pozpig
  06/16/18
...
yellow high-end heaven
  06/16/18
i was kidding brother. but who ever REALLY knows.
puce pozpig
  06/16/18
...
yellow high-end heaven
  06/16/18
whats you're wife like right now as a pregnant mom? one p...
Marvelous nighttime windowlicker place of business
  06/16/18
she has no energy, in pain all the time. i have two brief...
puce pozpig
  06/16/18
those two are going to fight all the time.
irradiated goal in life
  06/16/18
cr to have #1 out of diapers before #2 pops
Racy Filthpig Puppy
  06/16/18
yeah having two in diapers would be TTT. #1 is hyperactive ...
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
On the other hand, #1 still in diapers means you don't have ...
aggressive slippery nowag
  06/19/18
I will have 2 in diapers :(. Tried to potty train a littl...
canary state digit ratio
  06/19/18
We tried again and potty trained our 2.75 year old when wife...
Frisky site immigrant
  08/04/18
Congrats !
Dark arrogant scourge upon the earth
  06/19/18
next friday at 7:30 AM is the scheduled c-section. FML.
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
congrats. you prob think oh shit another baby means twice t...
charismatic point
  06/19/18
Toxic
cobalt idea he suggested resort
  06/19/18
:(
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
Depends on the specific kids and their personalities. Sound...
Frisky site immigrant
  06/19/18
Wait, why does it need to be c-section? That's pretty hard.
smoky flatulent office azn
  06/19/18
first was a c section. i think they heavily recommend just d...
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
oh okay. that's pretty hard on your wife. thoughts and pray...
smoky flatulent office azn
  06/19/18
Congrats on the sex
Stirring amber half-breed
  06/19/18
, i lisped to the bull
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
congrats to the father
titillating reading party
  06/19/18
First on the way in mid-August. The more I read and talk to ...
cobalt idea he suggested resort
  06/19/18
Quit complaining about awesome kids
haunting glittery casino
  06/19/18
the first 3 or so months is total hell. i seriously consider...
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
Goddamn. We have MiL coming to stay with us until we get ...
cobalt idea he suggested resort
  06/19/18
that will be good. any help is good. we have no family livin...
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
That's a good thing as long as she actually likes babies and...
Frisky site immigrant
  06/19/18
Thoughts and prayers. Same here but in sept. My son is a h...
canary state digit ratio
  06/19/18
yea our 3.5 year old is in a daycare that is $1500/mo (down ...
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
It's because he is insecurely bonded with you because he see...
Frisky site immigrant
  06/19/18
Yeah I love my Tiguan and BR wardrobe more than life itself
canary state digit ratio
  06/19/18
You still banging escorts?
Misunderstood ungodly sound barrier keepsake machete
  06/19/18
...
Brindle Gas Station
  06/19/18
Took a break
puce pozpig
  06/19/18
...
puce pozpig
  08/03/18
...
Elite Jewess Theatre
  08/04/18
Whos the father?
wonderful stage antidepressant drug
  08/03/18
Our neighbor. He’s a Trumpmo
puce pozpig
  08/04/18
better keep abusing cocaine lol
titillating reading party
  08/03/18
I have been but pretty infrequently. The day we got home...
puce pozpig
  08/04/18
Fucking 180.
infuriating odious tank
  08/04/18
...
Peach motley hospital private investor
  08/04/18
180
Elite Jewess Theatre
  08/04/18
Also had an all nighter with the client in MA, which I poast...
puce pozpig
  08/04/18
One baby is basically a vacation compared to two but congrat...
charismatic point
  08/03/18
Mfcr
black shrine corn cake
  08/04/18
So far it isn’t bad apart from the baby not sleeping theoug...
puce pozpig
  08/04/18


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Date: January 16th, 2018 2:39 PM
Author: puce pozpig

our kid will be 3 1/2 when the new dude comes. two boys.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169253)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:03 PM
Author: vibrant light stock car newt

Dude you’ve already had one so you know what to expect. As your dealing with your newborn, you’ll probably have less patience for your toddler’s tantrums and other bad behavior, but you’ll have to deal with it.

Kids are great, so you’re not fucked. But it’s going to be even more work and less free time. Buck up and congratulations.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169437)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:20 PM
Author: puce pozpig

yea i can't imagine the tantrums going forward. my only hope is that they slow the fuck down as he approaches age 4 but that probably won't happen.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169582)



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Date: January 16th, 2018 3:03 PM
Author: Big principal's office

kiss your free time goodbye

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#35169441)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:13 PM
Author: puce pozpig

already did that 3.5 years ago BROTHER

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256684)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:49 PM
Author: smoky flatulent office azn

Depends, are you the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256841)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:51 PM
Author: puce pozpig

allegedly but i do not know for sure

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256848)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:02 PM
Author: yellow high-end heaven



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:08 PM
Author: puce pozpig

i was kidding brother. but who ever REALLY knows.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256927)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:15 PM
Author: yellow high-end heaven



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256944)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 3:59 PM
Author: Marvelous nighttime windowlicker place of business

whats you're wife like right now as a pregnant mom?

one positive after my wife shat out kid #3 a couple months back was that she actually had more energy as a sleep deprived mom of a newborn than she did 7+ months pregnant. its not all bad brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256886)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:01 PM
Author: puce pozpig

she has no energy, in pain all the time.

i have two briefs due that i'm trying to get done before the 29th (which is when the c section is scheduled) and i'm worried she;s gonna go into labor early.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256899)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:09 PM
Author: irradiated goal in life

those two are going to fight all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36256929)



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Date: June 16th, 2018 4:41 PM
Author: Racy Filthpig Puppy

cr to have #1 out of diapers before #2 pops

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36257047)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:19 PM
Author: puce pozpig

yeah having two in diapers would be TTT. #1 is hyperactive and throws tantrums tho, not looking forward to that shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36272977)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:24 PM
Author: aggressive slippery nowag

On the other hand, #1 still in diapers means you don't have to drop everything (including putting #2 somewhere screaming) to run him to the bathroom, deal w accidents, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273717)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:45 PM
Author: canary state digit ratio

I will have 2 in diapers :(.

Tried to potty train a little after he turned 2 and it just ended up being a lot of tears and him holding it in. Will try again after new baby is here since no point in doing so 3 months before new one and he’ll just regress.

He already wants to be a baby and started crawling around the house making goo goo gah gah noises and wanting to use the baby bottles I took out. Also the other night he said to me “hold me like a baby mommy.” I rocked him for a long time and then cried like a baby myself afterwards. I feel kinda sad that we won’t have all that one on one time anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273820)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:33 AM
Author: Frisky site immigrant

We tried again and potty trained our 2.75 year old when wife was 4-5 months pregnant with #2 and it was soooooooooo cr bc #2 was colicky and screamed for five hours every evening/night. If I had been also changing the manshit diapers of a 3.5 year old while the colic was going on I would've just walked out to my car and driven away at some point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551571)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:22 PM
Author: Dark arrogant scourge upon the earth

Congrats !

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36272994)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:28 PM
Author: puce pozpig

next friday at 7:30 AM is the scheduled c-section. FML.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273017)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:35 PM
Author: charismatic point

congrats. you prob think oh shit another baby means twice the work. really it's like 3x-4x the work. onebaby is basically a vacation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273054)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: cobalt idea he suggested resort

Toxic

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273428)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: puce pozpig

:(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273450)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:10 PM
Author: Frisky site immigrant

Depends on the specific kids and their personalities. Sounds like his first is a pain in the ass, but could be normal toddler behavior of toddler who spends all his time with nannies/preschool and gets only small 1-2 hour pockets of attention from parents.

Our first was really easy and so #2 felt like 3x-4x the work if not more. We also have two boys and almost the exact same age gap. Overall I'm more thankful that my oldest is so chill and positive, since he's a good influence on the younger one. We have close family that have it the other way around and it drives them crazy to see their younger, nicer kid being turned into a shit because they idolize their asshole older sibling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273659)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:27 PM
Author: smoky flatulent office azn

Wait, why does it need to be c-section? That's pretty hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273418)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:28 PM
Author: puce pozpig

first was a c section. i think they heavily recommend just doing future babbies by c section if that's the case.

first time around sucked. she was in labor for like 15 hours and then they gave up trying to pull him out and just cut.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273422)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: smoky flatulent office azn

oh okay. that's pretty hard on your wife. thoughts and prayers

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273452)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: Stirring amber half-breed

Congrats on the sex

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273032)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:31 PM
Author: puce pozpig

, i lisped to the bull

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273037)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 3:41 PM
Author: titillating reading party

congrats to the father

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273104)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:29 PM
Author: cobalt idea he suggested resort

First on the way in mid-August. The more I read and talk to people, the less excited I become.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273434)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:33 PM
Author: haunting glittery casino

Quit complaining about awesome kids

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273454)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 4:35 PM
Author: puce pozpig

the first 3 or so months is total hell. i seriously considered suicide or just changing my identity and abandoning the family.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273473)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:04 PM
Author: cobalt idea he suggested resort

Goddamn.

We have MiL coming to stay with us until we get into daycare. Not sure if that will make things better or worse.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273640)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: puce pozpig

that will be good. any help is good. we have no family living in the area (i'm from DC but everyone moved away/died), and that was utter hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273664)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:11 PM
Author: Frisky site immigrant

That's a good thing as long as she actually likes babies and can take over and give you both a break for a while. Kid will always love her. But if she shows up just to gab with your wife and is just another mouth to feed, then you need to find a way to get her out faster. Flag this with wife now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273665)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:03 PM
Author: canary state digit ratio

Thoughts and prayers. Same here but in sept. My son is a handful at 2.5 and demands all the attention.

We just hired a nanny for the infant to help my aging mother for $50k/year once I go back to work. Son goes to $20k daycare/preschool. A lot of money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273631)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: puce pozpig

yea our 3.5 year old is in a daycare that is $1500/mo (down from $1900/mo for infants). new one is going to break me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273668)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:12 PM
Author: Frisky site immigrant

It's because he is insecurely bonded with you because he sees that you love your car and clothes more than him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273669)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:18 PM
Author: canary state digit ratio

Yeah I love my Tiguan and BR wardrobe more than life itself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273688)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:27 PM
Author: Misunderstood ungodly sound barrier keepsake machete

You still banging escorts?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273731)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 5:49 PM
Author: Brindle Gas Station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36273851)



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Date: June 19th, 2018 7:07 PM
Author: puce pozpig

Took a break

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36274195)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:26 PM
Author: puce pozpig



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:11 AM
Author: Elite Jewess Theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551641)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:29 PM
Author: wonderful stage antidepressant drug

Whos the father?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550184)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:19 AM
Author: puce pozpig

Our neighbor. He’s a Trumpmo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551544)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:30 PM
Author: titillating reading party

better keep abusing cocaine lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550187)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:06 AM
Author: puce pozpig

I have been but pretty infrequently.

The day we got home from the hospital my friend had to stop by to drop something off. I jokingly texted him “bring cocaine.” This guy doesn’t really do cocaine and never buys it. Lo and behold, he shows up with an eightball. I did a few bumps in my bathroom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551527)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:09 AM
Author: infuriating odious tank

Fucking 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551530)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:30 AM
Author: Peach motley hospital private investor



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551563)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:12 AM
Author: Elite Jewess Theatre

180

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551644)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:18 AM
Author: puce pozpig

Also had an all nighter with the client in MA, which I poasted about the other day

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551657)



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Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:31 PM
Author: charismatic point

One baby is basically a vacation compared to two but congrats

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36550192)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 8:47 AM
Author: black shrine corn cake

Mfcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551587)



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Date: August 4th, 2018 9:02 AM
Author: puce pozpig

So far it isn’t bad apart from the baby not sleeping theough the night, but I’m sure it’ll get bad. Our 3 year old isn’t as difficult as I expected.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3861566&forum_id=2#36551604)