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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
navy box office
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Bearded Opaque Piazza
  01/21/18
was she hot?
disturbing new version
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
disturbing new version
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
of course.
disturbing new version
  01/21/18
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navy box office
  01/21/18
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wonderful walnut dog poop native
  01/21/18
Lol
Idiotic Low-t Dilemma
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
maize brethren
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
disturbing new version
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
supple death wish
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
supple death wish
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
supple death wish
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
supple death wish
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
CR
navy box office
  01/21/18
lololol
Exciting sneaky criminal
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Lime indian lodge pozpig
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
bespoke brunch gaping
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
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  01/21/18
lol
disturbing new version
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
bespoke brunch gaping
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
hairraiser stage knife
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home
  01/21/18
how did she die/
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  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: navy box office

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Bearded Opaque Piazza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: disturbing new version

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: disturbing new version

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: disturbing new version

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: navy box office



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: wonderful walnut dog poop native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Idiotic Low-t Dilemma

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: maize brethren

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: disturbing new version

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: supple death wish

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: supple death wish

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: supple death wish

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: supple death wish

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: navy box office

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Exciting sneaky criminal

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Lime indian lodge pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: bespoke brunch gaping

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: disturbing new version

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: bespoke brunch gaping

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: hairraiser stage knife

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: disturbing new version

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Painfully Honest Travel Guidebook Nursing Home

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)