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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
grizzly bisexual sandwich market
  01/21/18
...
Topaz Masturbator
  01/21/18
was she hot?
big demanding church building fanboi
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
big demanding church building fanboi
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
of course.
big demanding church building fanboi
  01/21/18
...
grizzly bisexual sandwich market
  01/21/18
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adventurous indigo crackhouse cuck
  01/21/18
Lol
unholy nowag
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
flushed indecent hospital
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
big demanding church building fanboi
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
aphrodisiac blathering roast beef
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
aphrodisiac blathering roast beef
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
aphrodisiac blathering roast beef
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
aphrodisiac blathering roast beef
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
CR
grizzly bisexual sandwich market
  01/21/18
lololol
navy internal respiration spot
  01/21/18
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Olive hilarious theatre
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
stirring adulterous orchestra pit sex offender
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
lol
big demanding church building fanboi
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
stirring adulterous orchestra pit sex offender
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
puce bateful theater twinkling uncleanness
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18
how did she die/
big demanding church building fanboi
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
walnut whorehouse
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: grizzly bisexual sandwich market

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Topaz Masturbator



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: big demanding church building fanboi

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: big demanding church building fanboi

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: big demanding church building fanboi

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: grizzly bisexual sandwich market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: adventurous indigo crackhouse cuck



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: unholy nowag

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: flushed indecent hospital

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: big demanding church building fanboi

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: aphrodisiac blathering roast beef

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: aphrodisiac blathering roast beef

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: aphrodisiac blathering roast beef

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: aphrodisiac blathering roast beef

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: walnut whorehouse

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: grizzly bisexual sandwich market

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: navy internal respiration spot

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Olive hilarious theatre



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: stirring adulterous orchestra pit sex offender

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: walnut whorehouse

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: big demanding church building fanboi

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: stirring adulterous orchestra pit sex offender

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: puce bateful theater twinkling uncleanness

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: walnut whorehouse

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: big demanding church building fanboi

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: walnut whorehouse

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)