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Etiquette advice please..

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Alcoholic rose elastic band
  01/21/18
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Bright cowardly round eye temple
  01/21/18
was she hot?
insecure sooty jew
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
insecure sooty jew
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
of course.
insecure sooty jew
  01/21/18
...
Alcoholic rose elastic band
  01/21/18
...
Nofapping Pozpig
  01/21/18
Lol
Hairraiser brunch multi-billionaire
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
narrow-minded sound barrier parlour
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
insecure sooty jew
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
flushed outnumbered preventive strike
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
flushed outnumbered preventive strike
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
flushed outnumbered preventive strike
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
flushed outnumbered preventive strike
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
CR
Alcoholic rose elastic band
  01/21/18
lololol
Fuchsia private investor garrison
  01/21/18
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Heady Hell Pervert
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Lascivious weed whacker trump supporter
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
lol
insecure sooty jew
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Lascivious weed whacker trump supporter
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Lake mood
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18
how did she die/
insecure sooty jew
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
bat shit crazy parlor potus
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Alcoholic rose elastic band

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Bright cowardly round eye temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: insecure sooty jew

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: insecure sooty jew

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: insecure sooty jew

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Alcoholic rose elastic band



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Nofapping Pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Hairraiser brunch multi-billionaire

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: narrow-minded sound barrier parlour

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: insecure sooty jew

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: flushed outnumbered preventive strike

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: flushed outnumbered preventive strike

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: flushed outnumbered preventive strike

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: flushed outnumbered preventive strike

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Alcoholic rose elastic band

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Fuchsia private investor garrison

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: Heady Hell Pervert



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Lascivious weed whacker trump supporter

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: insecure sooty jew

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Lascivious weed whacker trump supporter

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Lake mood

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: insecure sooty jew

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: bat shit crazy parlor potus

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)