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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
maroon duck-like meetinghouse voyeur
  01/21/18
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supple onyx site
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
of course.
Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people
  01/21/18
...
maroon duck-like meetinghouse voyeur
  01/21/18
...
fragrant shrine
  01/21/18
Lol
learning disabled lavender ticket booth chad
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
bistre tripping people who are hurt
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
CR
maroon duck-like meetinghouse voyeur
  01/21/18
lololol
drunken base cuckold
  01/21/18
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unhinged pervert crotch
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
carmine locale
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
lol
Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
carmine locale
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Sexy Useless Brakes Theater
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
arrogant puppy
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: maroon duck-like meetinghouse voyeur

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: supple onyx site



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: maroon duck-like meetinghouse voyeur



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: fragrant shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: learning disabled lavender ticket booth chad

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: bistre tripping people who are hurt

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: scarlet stimulating whorehouse partner

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: arrogant puppy

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: maroon duck-like meetinghouse voyeur

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: drunken base cuckold

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: unhinged pervert crotch



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: carmine locale

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: arrogant puppy

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: carmine locale

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Sexy Useless Brakes Theater

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: arrogant puppy

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Metal twinkling fortuitous meteor main people

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: arrogant puppy

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)