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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Histrionic pink public bath
  01/21/18
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stimulating spot jap
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
of course.
Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag
  01/21/18
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Histrionic pink public bath
  01/21/18
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infuriating ticket booth
  01/21/18
Lol
stirring red locus striped hyena
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Swashbuckling Geriatric Corner
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
CR
Histrionic pink public bath
  01/21/18
lololol
fighting razzmatazz volcanic crater feces
  01/21/18
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pearly overrated dilemma hairy legs
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
High-end Buff Tanning Salon Death Wish
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
lol
Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
High-end Buff Tanning Salon Death Wish
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Provocative International Law Enforcement Agency
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Soul-stirring hot rigpig
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Histrionic pink public bath

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: stimulating spot jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Histrionic pink public bath



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: infuriating ticket booth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: stirring red locus striped hyena

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Swashbuckling Geriatric Corner

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Exhilarant Rehab Dog Poop

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Histrionic pink public bath

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: fighting razzmatazz volcanic crater feces

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: pearly overrated dilemma hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: High-end Buff Tanning Salon Death Wish

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: High-end Buff Tanning Salon Death Wish

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Provocative International Law Enforcement Agency

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Heady Claret Immigrant Nowag

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Soul-stirring hot rigpig

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)