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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
high-end sticky plaza
  01/21/18
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abnormal state
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Indigo lay mediation
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Indigo lay mediation
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
of course.
Indigo lay mediation
  01/21/18
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high-end sticky plaza
  01/21/18
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Fuchsia boyish corner
  01/21/18
Lol
aqua bateful address
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Electric slimy theatre cuckoldry
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Indigo lay mediation
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
exhilarant crawly useless brakes
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
exhilarant crawly useless brakes
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
exhilarant crawly useless brakes
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
exhilarant crawly useless brakes
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
CR
high-end sticky plaza
  01/21/18
lololol
cracking carmine elastic band idea he suggested
  01/21/18
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ebony ceo
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
Ocher violent twinkling uncleanness institution
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
lol
Indigo lay mediation
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Ocher violent twinkling uncleanness institution
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Arrogant mewling cuckold
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Indigo lay mediation
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: high-end sticky plaza

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: abnormal state



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Indigo lay mediation

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Indigo lay mediation

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Indigo lay mediation

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: high-end sticky plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Fuchsia boyish corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: aqua bateful address

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Electric slimy theatre cuckoldry

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Indigo lay mediation

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: exhilarant crawly useless brakes

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: exhilarant crawly useless brakes

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: exhilarant crawly useless brakes

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: exhilarant crawly useless brakes

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: high-end sticky plaza

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: cracking carmine elastic band idea he suggested

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: ebony ceo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Ocher violent twinkling uncleanness institution

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Indigo lay mediation

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Ocher violent twinkling uncleanness institution

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Arrogant mewling cuckold

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Indigo lay mediation

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Internet-worthy volcanic crater orchestra pit

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)