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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
effete legal warrant
  01/21/18
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Peach Flirting Point Potus
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Pink autistic degenerate stead
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Pink autistic degenerate stead
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
of course.
Pink autistic degenerate stead
  01/21/18
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effete legal warrant
  01/21/18
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Cyan maniacal genital piercing lay
  01/21/18
Lol
Overrated Violent Parlor Idiot
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
chocolate forum
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Pink autistic degenerate stead
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Fragrant Stag Film
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Fragrant Stag Film
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Fragrant Stag Film
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Fragrant Stag Film
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
CR
effete legal warrant
  01/21/18
lololol
cerise electric furnace
  01/21/18
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at-the-ready razzle incel
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
offensive narrow-minded crackhouse death wish
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
lol
Pink autistic degenerate stead
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
offensive narrow-minded crackhouse death wish
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Carmine plaza
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Pink autistic degenerate stead
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
appetizing awkward athletic conference
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: effete legal warrant

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Peach Flirting Point Potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Pink autistic degenerate stead

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Pink autistic degenerate stead

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Pink autistic degenerate stead

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: effete legal warrant



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Cyan maniacal genital piercing lay



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Overrated Violent Parlor Idiot

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: chocolate forum

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Pink autistic degenerate stead

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Fragrant Stag Film

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Fragrant Stag Film

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Fragrant Stag Film

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Fragrant Stag Film

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: effete legal warrant

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: cerise electric furnace

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: at-the-ready razzle incel



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: offensive narrow-minded crackhouse death wish

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Pink autistic degenerate stead

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: offensive narrow-minded crackhouse death wish

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Carmine plaza

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Pink autistic degenerate stead

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: appetizing awkward athletic conference

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)