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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
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  01/21/18
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Startled Elastic Band Stead
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Big Stag Film
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Big Stag Film
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
of course.
Big Stag Film
  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
Lol
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  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
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  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Big Stag Film
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
CR
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  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
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  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
lol
Big Stag Film
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
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  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
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  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
charismatic canary office weed whacker
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Big Stag Film
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Cordovan exciting chapel fanboi

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Startled Elastic Band Stead



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Big Stag Film

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Big Stag Film

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Big Stag Film

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Cordovan exciting chapel fanboi



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Zombie-like well-lubricated theater stage



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204404)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: talented fat ankles lay

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: mind-boggling smoky juggernaut idiot

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Big Stag Film

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Irate Rusted Den Digit Ratio

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Cordovan exciting chapel fanboi

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: stimulating genital piercing windowlicker

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: stirring translucent wrinkle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Razzle-dazzle chrome crackhouse

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Big Stag Film

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle chrome crackhouse

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: motley school cafeteria

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Big Stag Film

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: charismatic canary office weed whacker

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)