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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
Chocolate balding location sweet tailpipe
  01/21/18
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Irate Free-loading Meetinghouse Juggernaut
  01/21/18
was she hot?
Jet laser beams box office
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
Jet laser beams box office
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
of course.
Jet laser beams box office
  01/21/18
...
Chocolate balding location sweet tailpipe
  01/21/18
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Underhanded well-lubricated background story station
  01/21/18
Lol
Purple fluffy stead water buffalo
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Hot weed whacker principal's office
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
Jet laser beams box office
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
histrionic territorial electric furnace
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
histrionic territorial electric furnace
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
histrionic territorial electric furnace
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
histrionic territorial electric furnace
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
CR
Chocolate balding location sweet tailpipe
  01/21/18
lololol
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  01/21/18
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deep partner
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
nudist violent place of business library
  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
lol
Jet laser beams box office
  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
nudist violent place of business library
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Dashing Mauve Parlour Ladyboy
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18
how did she die/
Jet laser beams box office
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
Lake Big Hominid
  01/21/18


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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Chocolate balding location sweet tailpipe

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Irate Free-loading Meetinghouse Juggernaut



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204585)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: Jet laser beams box office

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: Jet laser beams box office

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Jet laser beams box office

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: Chocolate balding location sweet tailpipe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Underhanded well-lubricated background story station



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Purple fluffy stead water buffalo

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Hot weed whacker principal's office

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Jet laser beams box office

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: histrionic territorial electric furnace

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: histrionic territorial electric furnace

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: histrionic territorial electric furnace

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: histrionic territorial electric furnace

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: Chocolate balding location sweet tailpipe

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: cobalt base internal respiration

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: deep partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204548)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: nudist violent place of business library

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: Jet laser beams box office

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: nudist violent place of business library

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Dashing Mauve Parlour Ladyboy

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: Jet laser beams box office

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: Lake Big Hominid

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)