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This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died,...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
Female law partner? LJL
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  01/21/18
was she hot?
embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon
  01/21/18
I thought so, she always looked like this one particular mov...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
clearly the daughter.
embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon
  01/21/18
haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
of course.
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  01/21/18
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deep crackhouse
  01/21/18
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  01/21/18
Lol
Rose Shivering Codepig Brethren
  01/21/18
PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condol...
Curious menage
  01/21/18
cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals ...
embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon
  01/21/18
yes, yes, this is very helpful..
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank."...
Jade affirmative action
  01/21/18
lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly ...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the...
Jade affirmative action
  01/21/18
she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was sn...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in tou...
Jade affirmative action
  01/21/18
a year & couple of months.
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or ...
Jade affirmative action
  01/21/18
Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms a...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
CR
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  01/21/18
lololol
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flushed philosopher-king
  01/21/18
your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink someti...
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  01/21/18
Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this,...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
lol
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  01/21/18
i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions li...
Glassy adulterous house mexican
  01/21/18
Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuine...
Lavender Space Striped Hyena
  01/21/18
I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't ...
bipolar frisky place of business trailer park
  01/21/18
how did she die/
embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon
  01/21/18
Something weird where an important function just stopped wor...
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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

This partner at a law firm I once worked at's daughter died, should I send her condolences even though it would be obvious I was googling her to find her and happened to see the obit? I never knew the daughter, actually I worked for this lawyer so long ago she had the kid after we parted ways.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200860)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: deep crackhouse

Female law partner? LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201035)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:00 PM
Author: Fear-inspiring cocky laser beams resort



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:07 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon

was she hot?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200866)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

I thought so, she always looked like this one particular movie star I thought. But do you mean the daughter? Yes, pictures of her show that she was pretty good looking.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200872)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:09 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon

clearly the daughter.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200874)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

haha. Well when I knew the mother she was pretty but I guess it depends what age you're looking for. The mother would be older now of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200879)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon

of course.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200881)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:37 AM
Author: deep crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201037)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:33 PM
Author: Erotic hairraiser elastic band senate



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:57 PM
Author: Rose Shivering Codepig Brethren

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204566)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:10 AM
Author: Curious menage

PROTIP: you will always be in the right for extending condolences in these situations

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200882)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:12 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

cool. Should I just omit anything about how I found out?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200891)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon

the more stalking detail the better usually around funerals and deathbeds.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200901)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:16 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

yes, yes, this is very helpful..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200910)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:14 AM
Author: Jade affirmative action

just don't send a "sorry ur daughter died. Thank." work email

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200900)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:15 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

lol, it won't look like that, although I don't know exactly what its going to say or how I'm going to send it. She's retired I think - and I only have what I think is her facebook address.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200907)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:23 AM
Author: Jade affirmative action

can you find her home address to mail a card? or stop by the visitation to express condolences in person?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200961)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:28 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

she died a couple of years ago. We aren't in touch, I was snooping.

I found her email address. Is that too impersonal?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200990)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:29 AM
Author: Jade affirmative action

lol a couple of years ago? Just let it go, you aren't in touch, no need to bring up a death from years ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35200994)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:30 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

a year & couple of months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201003)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:34 AM
Author: Jade affirmative action

i think it would be weird. I wouldn't want to get a card or email from an ex-coworker I haven't spoken to in years expressing condolences for a loved on who died over a year ago.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201019)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

Yeah, I should let it go. We didn't part on the best terms anyway.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201040)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 12:38 AM
Author: deep crackhouse

CR

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201042)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:52 AM
Author: Cracking apoplectic old irish cottage

lololol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201239)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:55 PM
Author: flushed philosopher-king



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Date: January 21st, 2018 1:46 AM
Author: Glassy adulterous house mexican

your message is confusing. you should buy him a drink sometime.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35201209)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:31 PM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

Not confusing: you must have been wasted when you read this, if you didn't realize I was talking about a her, not a him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204395)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:37 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon

lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204434)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:53 PM
Author: Glassy adulterous house mexican

i guess someone that has to mince around asking questions like this probably did take orders from a woman partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204536)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:36 PM
Author: Lavender Space Striped Hyena

Nothing wrong with a warm message if you mean it and genuinely cared for her in some way. She might be surprisingly touched. Just be a normal human being about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204423)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 5:41 PM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

I'm weirded out about the suddenness of her death and don't think anyone deserves that. But I'm not sure how weird it would be to send the note because we didn't part on the best of terms. I probably won't do it if I'm not even sure about my own motivations..

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204460)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 6:01 PM
Author: embarrassed to the bone very tactful tanning salon

how did she die/

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35204598)



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Date: January 21st, 2018 7:44 PM
Author: bipolar frisky place of business trailer park

Something weird where an important function just stopped working. I don't know if it was brought on by self-abuse (it can be). But it's so true that you can have all the money & prestige in the world but you can't always buy a restart to your body. Makes me squeamish.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3866078&forum_id=2#35205513)