Nashville Mayor Megan Barry admits to extramarital relationship with top police security officer

Mayor Megan Barry said Wednesday she had an extramarital affair with the police officer in charge of her security detail, an extraordinary admission that rocks the popular Nashville mayor's first term.

Barry, in an interview with The Tennessean on Wednesday afternoon, apologized "for the harm I've done to the people I love and the people who counted on me."

She confirmed the affair with Metro police Sgt. Robert Forrest Jr. since the spring or summer of 2016, just months after she entered office the previous fall. Forrest submitted his retirement papers Jan. 17. His final day was Wednesday.

"We had an affair, and it was wrong, and we shouldn't have done it," Barry said. "He was part of my security detail, and as part of that responsibility, I should have gone to the (police) chief, and I should have said what was going on, and that was a mistake.

"People that we admire can also be flawed humans, and I'm flawed, and I'm incredibly sad and sorry for the disappointment that I will see in those little girls' faces. But, what I hope they can also see is that people make mistakes, and you move on from those."

Forrest, 58, was a regular presence with the mayor during public events, travel and even trips abroad. According to public records obtained by The Tennessean, thousands of taxpayer dollars covered Forrest's travel with the mayor on city business.

While several of the trips included other members of the mayor's office, nine of the trips were with only Barry and Forrest, including a trip to Greece in September.

Barry said she is no longer seeing Forrest.

The mayor told her staff about the affair Wednesday afternoon and has scheduled a 7 p.m. news conference to discuss the matter.

No plans to resign

Barry hesitated when asked whether she plans to resign, but said she will not, despite rumors swirling Wednesday that she might step down. She also said she won't be taking a leave of absence and would be in the mayor's office Thursday. She said she doesn't believe the relationship violated any Metro ethics laws or guidelines.

"This is a bad day, and there's going to be more bad days, but this is not my worst day," Barry said. "And I know the difference between a mistake — which is what I made and I fully own — and a tragedy. And this is not a tragedy. And I want to regain the trust of Nashvillians. And I will continue to serve."

Her decision to go public came after inquiries this week from The Tennessean following the Jan. 17 resignation of Forrest, the head of security for the last three Nashville mayors.

The scandal presents a monumental test both politically and personally for the mayor, who lost her only son in July to a drug overdose. Voters elected Barry mayor in 2015, and she has enjoyed approval ratings above 70 percent, bolstered by high marks from the city's Democrats.

"I know that God's going to forgive me, but the citizens of Nashville don't have to," Barry said. "My hope is that I can earn their forgiveness, and I can earn back their trust, and we can do the great work for this city that Nashville deserves."

Officer's last day in mayor's office Wednesday

In a letter to a supervisor, Forrest, a 30-year veteran of the department, announced his retirement and gave a two-week notice on Jan. 17. His last day was Wednesday. He led a four-person team in charge of keeping the mayor safe and transporting her to various functions.

"I have had an outstanding career and have enjoyed coming to work each day," Forrest said in the letter. "I plan to make the transition as soon as possible."

Forrest offered no other explanation. In 2000, he signed a law enforcement code of ethics stating, "I will keep my private life unsullied as an example to all and will behave in a manner that does not bring discredit to me or to my agency."

Barry, 54, is married to Bruce Barry, a professor at the Vanderbilt University Owen Graduate School of Management. The mayor declined to go into detail about her relationship with her husband, but said they are not separating. She asked for privacy on that matter.

Mayor, officer billed more than $33K in travel together over 10-month run

The relationship is the first extramarital affair in the Nashville mayor's office that has gone public since former Mayor Bill Boner's public romances in 1990s with a 34-year-old country singer and a former bodyguard, who was also a Metro Police officer.

Forrest, who has been married for at least 28 years, frequently provided security for for the mayor on out-of-town trips for conferences and other city business.

She's been the most visible mayor in Nashville history, and has gained national attention as rising star in Democratic ranks. At times, she's taken on almost celebrity status, rubbing shoulders with the city's musicians, athletes and appaering at concerts and Predators playoffs games.

Last year, Forrest traveled with Barry overseas to Paris, France, and Athens, Greece. He also accompanied her on trips to cities across the U.S., including to Washington D.C., New York, Denver, Oakland, Salt Lake City and Kansas City in the last 10 months alone.

The trip to Greece took place Sept. 12 to Sept. 18. It was for the Athens Democracy Forum as part of Nashville's involvement in the 100 Resilient Cities network led by the Rockefeller Foundation.

According to travel records obtained by The Tennessean, the bill for Forrest’s trips between January 2017 and October 2017 cost $21,712. Barry’s travel expenses between Jan. 1, 2017, and this year totaled $11,382.

Barry’s travel expenses are less, because on some trips foundations or organizations hosting the conference sponsor the travel costs.

Barry said she was told by Police Chief Steve Anderson advised her that she is “always the mayor and you should be secured appropriately.”

Each of the trips where Forrest provided security for her were business related, she said.

“Those trips were all business related and those trips he traveled with me as my detail, which is standard policy with the police department to have detail with me wherever I am,” Barry said.

Scandal hits during mayor's pivotal transit push

Barry, one of Tennessee's most prominent Democrats and a favorite of liberals, overcame a significant fundraising disadvantage to win the 2015 mayoral election, defeating six opponents and David Fox in a runoff.

The revelation of the relationship could have major ramifications on Barry's push for a $5.4 billion mass transit project, which she wants voter approval on through a May 1 referendum. The transit referendum, which has proven contentious, is the most significant challenge politically that Barry has faced during her two and half years in office.

Barry said she was elected on transit and other issues such as affordable housing and that she doesn't see her work on the transit project stopping.

Barry earlier this month retreated from two other major controversial undertakings: a proposal to end inpatient care at Nashville General Hospital and a mixed-use plan called Cloud Hill that her administration supported for the Greer Stadium site.

As an At-large Metro councilwoman from 2007 to 2015, Barry carved out a reputation for being pro-business but progressive on social issues — a formula that she's brought into the mayor's office.

Professionally, Barry worked as an ethics and compliance officer at Premier Ehtics and Comppliane.

Last year, she was recognized with the ATHENA National Leadership Award, a distinction honoring women in leadership positions previously given to Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, astronaut Sally Ride and U.S. Rep. Gabrielle Giffords.

Barry lost only son to overdose in July

Barry also became a national voice in the country's opioid crisis last year after the death of her 22-year-old son Max, who died from a mix of drugs that included opioids.

After Barry's son Max Barry died last year from a drug overdose, it was Forrest who came to her home at 3 a.m. to break the news.

Forrest has supervised the security for mayors dating to Mayor Bill Purcell, who was elected in 1999. According to his bio, Forrest also has been the supervisor of the hate crime investigations unit, crime stoppers and security for visiting dignitaries. He spent 31 years in the department.

After her first 100 days in office, Barry wrote a commendation for Forrest calling him a "consummate professional in his dealings with me and my staff."

"From the first day he collected me to take me to the swearing in to the many events and functions I have participated in since, his deep knowledge of Nashville has been essential to my overall success," Barry wrote in her Jan. 15, 2016 letter to Forrest's supervisor.

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